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I will not deny that those that are abused, oppressed, mistreated in any way either by one person or a whole system of people may have some negative emotions. Most do have some most negative feelings, and sometimes possibly even devastating lifelong reactions to and consequences from these memories. They are all "bruised" and or being "exploited" to some extent when we are talking about people that have been victimized, adult or child. However, I think social skills and social roles play a big part in all of this. In training, upbringing, and personalities more so then anything. What we are looking at perhaps as abuse is perhaps more of a perception in some instances?

I don't want to excuse any actual violence or abuse, that is not my intention. Accidents do happen to the best of people. While rough and tumble can sometimes be termed abuse, which it really may not be according to who is looking at it and how. While in other situations rough and tumble is not thought of as abuse, take for instance kids sports and other activities, and also the resulting injuries that are possible. Yet, we do not call these sports injuries abusive for the most part. Certainly welting a child or beating it to death or sexual exploitation is.

As rules of how to live in a society change, perceptions often change. Some of these changes may not always be for the best, they may at times simply take away the ability to teach behavioral coping or adjusting mechanisms? Therefore, the range of perceptions about what abuse is may be so broad now that it causes some necessary life skills to change and some of the things that have made humans buoyant and flexible over time in order to adapt to life events may be getting lost in the shuffle.

Even people that do have what looks like an easy life, who have never been abused, can have wildly different resiliency levels. Take for instance two stock brokers that have had everything in life, in the depression both with the same factors one of them then jumped and the other went back to start all over and succeed, right? That is resiliency right, but I don't ever think it will be known exactly why? Sure different life events impact people in different ways and teach them different things about how to cope with life.

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Posted By: Toteblume @ 05/14/2008 11:02:22 PM

you are such a cry baby. everything that has ever happened to you has been your fault. take responsibility for it. whore.
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Posted By: news_editor @ 02/11/2008 2:53:54 PM

I will not deny that those that are abused, oppressed, mistreated in any way either by one person or a whole system of people may have some negative emotions. Most do have some most negative feelings, and sometimes possibly even devastating lifelong reactions to and consequences from these memories. They are all "bruised" and or being "exploited" to some extent when we are talking about people that have been victimized, adult or child. However, I think social skills and social roles play a big part in all of this. In training, upbringing, and personalities more so then anything. What we are looking at perhaps as abuse is perhaps more of a perception in some instances?

I don't want to excuse any actual violence or abuse, that is not my intention. Accidents do happen to the best of people. While rough and tumble can sometimes be termed abuse, which it really may not be according to who is looking at it and how. While in other situations rough and tumble is not thought of as abuse, take for instance kids sports and other activities, and also the resulting injuries that are possible. Yet, we do not call these sports injuries abusive for the most part. Certainly welting a child or beating it to death or sexual exploitation is.

As rules of how to live in a society change, perceptions often change. Some of these changes may not always be for the best, they may at times simply take away the ability to teach behavioral coping or adjusting mechanisms? Therefore, the range of perceptions about what abuse is may be so broad now that it causes some necessary life skills to change and some of the things that have made humans buoyant and flexible over time in order to adapt to life events may be getting lost in the shuffle.

Even people that do have what looks like an easy life, who have never been abused, can have wildly different resiliency levels. Take for instance two stock brokers that have had everything in life, in the depression both with the same factors one of them then jumped and the other went back to start all over and succeed, right? That is resiliency right, but I don't ever think it will be known exactly why? Sure different life events impact people in different ways and teach them different things about how to cope with life.