How to Train a Husband

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  • Posted By: tdskuecks @ 02/19/2008 12:14:21 AM

    From a feminist point of view, I'm appalled. Women that think this way, and men that accept that their gender should have to accept the manipulative tactics outlined by this author deserve one another. I ask for respect from my fiance. I ask to be treated like a goddess. And I definately respect and appreciate the man that can fulfill both these needs while simultaneously remaining every bit of the masculine figure I am attracted to. Maybe I'm lucky to have a man as amazing as this, but I've earned it-- by respecting him as my equal (but different) partner in life, honoring his masculinity, and by appreciating all that he embodies as my ideal of what a man with honor, loyalty, trust, honesty, integrity, and yup, sex appeal-- I've earned my place as his goddess, not by manipulating him, but by placing him on my pedastal as my king. This book is written by and for people that are not as lucky as I am and never took the time to find their true match.

    • Posted By: FDR12 @ 03/12/2008 7:43:21 PM

      Give me a break! You need to be traded like a what? You are the problem. I am so tired of the entitled attitude of Feminists who think women deserve to be treated like Deity! You are a misanderistic pig! Also, any man who tolerates this advice or your arrogance needs to wake up and kick your butt to the curb! Women molest children, kill, lie, cheat and do everything they blame men for so why the hell do we need to act like women are any better? Get a life and grow up. You are another sexist pig trying to sound like you are so fair. Women are no better and in most cases are far worse!

  • Posted By: FDR12 @ 03/12/2008 7:31:28 PM

    I think this Male bashing pig is a classic example of what's wrong with women. I am tired of women acting as if they need to fix men. If a man wrote a book treating women like animals (yes I know she mentions that it can work on women) we'd have the Feminists in outrage. First, who are women to criticize men as they are worse in most situations? This idea that men need instructions implies that women don't. The idea that it's the men who need structure and discipline is utter sexist misnaderistic nonsense. Women need to live what they preach and get a life. Second, I can't stand women who treat men like children. They act as if they know everything and try to be condescending. If I found out that my wife was ding this it wouldn???t be a joke. I???d show her the door. Men should be tired of the games women play. Most women act like babies and it shows how weak they are. It???s not a surprise that most men don???t respect women as they???ve lost touch with reality. These psychopaths are a good example of what we see in marriages and the dating world. It???s time to treat women like animals as they leave their dirty laundry all over the place (I mean tampons and crap)!

  • Posted By: Elzbss @ 03/04/2008 2:12:53 PM

    Male or female, we could all appreciate more and criticize less. It's unfortunate that this advice has been packaged in such a deliberately provocative and probably offensive way in order to boost sales. (I say "probably" only because I haven't read the book, and so it's unclear to what extent the book itself says offensive things or whether it's the Newsweek review of the book that does.) Feminism is not to blame, however. I can't think of a single genuine feminist who wouldn't HATE this book, because, as Newsweek notes, it reinforces sexist stereotypes about men and women, suggests that women should HAVE to train their husbands to pick up their own socks, and serves to further divide women from men. . . . A mission accomplished, judging from many of the comments here. Feminists want to end the war of the sexes, not "win" it. (No one can win it--women and men mean too much to each other--a loss on one side is a loss on both.)
    I'm sorry that mean and just really stupid things have been said about men in this review (the BBC reality show sounds DISGUSTING), but please, please, do not think that feminism is responsible. The book instead seems incredibly reactionary--it recalls a time before anyone claimed to believe that women and men are EQUALS.

  • Posted By: eaferguson @ 02/27/2008 3:15:20 PM

    Regarding "How to train a husband"...excuse me! As a husband that works a full time job 50+ hrs a week, takes care of all the house, lawn, and vehicle maintenance and helps around the house with cooking, cleaning, picking up after kids and spouse aaand doing laundry!, take offense to the concept of being coached like an animal or easily manipulated and consider this entire Shamuing idea insulting. The thought of a spouse, wife or husband, actually thinking this way toward their life partner is disturbing and they should be seeking counseling or separating right away if this is happening in their relationship.

    Eric A. Ferguson
    Elizabeth City, North Carolina

  • Posted By: momsopinion @ 02/26/2008 1:13:50 PM

    PHONE MESSAGE and WHY MEN SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO TAKE PHONE MESSAGES:

    MESSAGE: Hon, the gyna colleges called while you were out and said that your Pabst Beer was OK. I didn't know you liked beer.

  • Posted By: teelac @ 02/25/2008 6:56:12 PM

    men, we've let it get this way, can't blame the women for taking over if we've handed it to them on a silver platter.

    TAKE BACK WHAT'S OURS!!

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/24/2008 3:30:08 PM

    As she tastes my seed, I withdraw and spread her taut, ivory buttocks, entering her pink sex. She moans in pain/pleasure as I being to thrust, pulling on the silken cord that binds her wrists. Her squeals of pleasure would fill the room, but for the ball gag tightly clamped to her mouth. When I am finished, she again takes me in her mouth, tasting my seed mingled with her sweet juices...

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/24/2008 1:40:26 PM

    I enter her slowly and she moans with pain/pleasure. "Thank you, Master," she says, lowering her eyes.

    "Silence!". She knows she will receive a spanking for her transgression, and a small smile creeps across her lips. Later, as her warm mouth envelops me, she shivers in anticipation of the lash kissing her sweet bottom....

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/23/2008 3:09:21 AM

    Down! Beg! Roll over!

    Submit.....

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/23/2008 3:06:35 AM

    She bends over, her hands buod to the Punishment Post. It's time for her training. The cat o'nine tails brushes her soft bottom, preparing her for a night of pain/pleasure.....

  • Posted By: Atir @ 02/22/2008 10:59:10 AM

    Comment: Laundry is not just laundry and everything we choose to do or not do is a direct indication of the value we place on everyone and everything, to believe otherwise is dellusional. When our expectations aren't being met doesn't mean it's time to resort to munipulation. Like priorites, values can and will change. When people aren't equally yoked it's time to re-evalute our choices not theirs.

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/22/2008 10:37:57 AM

    My wife responds well when I train her. She begs for her "treats" and services me properly after brief punishment if she misbehaves. Ahhhhhhhhhh.

  • Posted By: randle @ 02/21/2008 10:32:00 PM

    This article is outrageous and would not be tolerated if women were being trained like dogs. This article is sexist and this type of writing should not be tolerated by Newsweek.

  • Posted By: SuzP @ 02/21/2008 2:55:56 PM

    This premise is the SAME as a 1960s movie called "If a Man Answers" starring Bobby Darin and Sandra Dee. Sandra Dee's mom gives her a dog training book after she marries Bobby Darin and tells her to do what it says, as if Bobby is the dog. I think the writer saw the movie and then "came up" with the idea.

  • Posted By: phigmeta @ 02/14/2008 1:01:53 PM

    Comment: Guys !!! COME ON .... this is PEFECT

    OK here is the reality .. Us guys KNOW that most women are self-centered emotional children. LET THEM THINK they are "equals" and that they can "train" their men. Wouldn't it be great if they reward us for simple trivial things and don't go instabitch the second we do something they don't like.

    You want the truth ... this is a self help book. It helps women deal with the fact that they are NOT EQUALS

    Hey if my wife was to reward me for picking up my socks .... heck yeah I would ... its a TRIVIAL AND WORTHLESS win. But if she told me to sell the boat .... well guess whos gonna be eating fishes (she's a double masters BTW - for any of those feminazis that think my wife MUST BE one of "those poor women")

    Ladies: your not training your guy .... we just don't f-ing care that much about little things. We love you the way we met you. We understand that you are not going to stay the same.... just don't change so quickly that we think your the devil. Hey if socks on the floor bother you .... sure tell us to pick them up.... but then why not slip on a little somethin somethin ..... ya know make us UNDERSTAND that is a BIG DEAL in your tiny little world ..... we will be picking up YOUR socks if its gonna get you to do that thing tht you only do when your really drunk ;)

    but yes if you want to call it "training" hey we are ok with it as long as your don't bite down

    • Posted By: krkeller @ 02/21/2008 1:40:32 PM

      When you want to indicate the contraction ???you are???, it is spelled you're.
      And why would a woman with a ???double masters??? marry someone lacking basic 6th grade English skills? You should really continue to enjoy her money, I doubt it going to last???.

    • Posted By: BandysGirl @ 02/14/2008 1:50:51 PM

      I cook dinner, clean the house and do my mans laundary every week. He on the other hand asks me to take the night off and let him cook, or he'll do the laundary or clean. You have to learn to give.

    • Posted By: Lsking2 @ 02/14/2008 1:16:15 PM

      Wow, Phigmeta. For an "equal," you sure have bad grammar and a ridiculous outlook. It's interesting that you married a self-centered emotional child. Actually, it's interesting that anyone in their right mind would actually marry you. That in itself is a miricle. Guess you have HER trained, huh! Good boy...

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/20/2008 11:09:14 PM

    I pick up the socks and use them to bind her wrists tightly to the bedpost. She cries out, but the ball gag stifles her moans as I thrust into her again and again.

    She sleeps still tightly bound, awakened from her slumber intermittently throughout the night...

  • Posted By: STONEGAL @ 02/19/2008 10:26:24 PM

    Since i don't know what bothers another unles I am told atleast once all of this is absurd!
    If the socks bother you on the floor pick th edam socks up!
    My GOD with all it takes to live with someone and be happy after the long search SOCKS are a issue???
    How about pick up the socks and wah them with the rest of the wash and try being happy you have any mans socks to even pick up! Ask someone that lost their husband to death if the socks would bother her now? If you both work than both should find time to do wht needs to be done. If someone isn't upset that drops the socks (unless they say hey I have no clean socks to where- and they must be suicidal at that point to mentions this) than what do you want socks in the hamper or a man in your arms?
    Dottie

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/19/2008 1:56:49 AM

    She moans softly, as the whip kisses her bottom.

    Trained well, she kneels in front of me after a hot shower, pleasuring me with her moist lips....

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/19/2008 1:53:05 AM

    My wife is a feminist, a feminist when she is on her knees, servicing me with her moist, full lips. After a spanking, she pours me a martini and asks permission to sit at my feet. When I am done with my drink, she arches her back, buttocks taut with anticipation, as I part them and enter her slowly.

    "Thank you, Master". she says later that night, as I blindfold her in preparation for bed.

  • Posted By: daplane @ 02/18/2008 11:17:42 PM

    I train my wife this way. Punishment, reward, punishment, reward. If she pleases me, she gets to feel the lash on her hot, pink ass before licking me clean. Every night, I blindfold her and restrain her to her post, like a pet. She exists only to serve me, and that service brings her pleasure.

    All wives should be trained this way.

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