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  • Posted By: shadabay @ 02/15/2008 1:53:35 AM

    It is a cognitive trait of humans to group individuals into categories. It's a way of perceiving the world: understanding an object by its relation to other objects in terms of similarity or difference. This becomes a problem when an individual is continually perceived based on his/her grouping into a category. When someone makes a blanket statement like, "Men are all ____," or "The French are all _____," this is a way of simplifying the world, viewing a large mass of people as a unified, undeconstructable being.

    We'll never be able to rewire our brain to not compare and contrast people, or place them into categories. The most important thing we CAN do is understand why we stereotype or categorize and work our hardest to break down our understanding of each person so that we recognize each one of them for the highly complex and unique beings they are.

  • Posted By: taxboxer @ 02/15/2008 1:51:25 AM

    Well, here the pshcologists go again - making something out of nothing. It's not that racism doesn't exist: I got news for you - it always will. Born American, living in China, having many international friends ... I have realized an eternal truth: People like hanging around people who look most like them. Since woman and blacks seem to be the focus of this article, take note that they are perhaps the worst at NOT mingling with others. . . have you noticed? but also among my Chinese friends in the USA, I was the only non-Chinese at 99% of our gatherings. No need to run through every group, just suffice it to say that we all have preferences and this needs to be accepted rather make a Federal Case out of this sort of thing on a weekly basis. Obama, who I might just vote for, is certainly going to be a lightening rod for the Psycho goons to write articles . . . because politicians have to be so careful these days. Let's keep race and prejudice to situations of viloence and clear unfairness . . . whadayasay?

  • Posted By: jeremy_becker1 @ 02/15/2008 1:48:43 AM

    Personally I think that political correctness is one of the worst "band aids" that our society has created. Rather than allow the expression of honest feelings, we have allowed ourselves to be held captive by unbalanced judgment and double standards. Why has accountability and responsibility been excused by our guilt and false righteousness? Political correctness may keep people mouth's shut but it doesn???t change people's heart.

  • Posted By: ms_busa @ 02/15/2008 1:38:31 AM

    You are so right. I have been in an interacial relationship for 4 years and racism is still everywhere. Even people who claim to be ok with black still stereotype them. I see it EVERYWHERE!

    • Posted By: jbritten @ 02/15/2008 1:48:31 AM

      That is because your interacial relationship is not the norm ..... and it actually makes some people uncomfortable (even your "enlightend pc friends"). Blacks and whites alike wonder what the hell you are thinking, and wonder what you are trying to prove. If your relationship is is genuine you should not care. If you do care what people think you are in it for the wrong reasons - because most blacks and whites frown upon it....... sorry to be blunt but it's the truth as I see it from a nuetral perspective.

  • Posted By: i555007 @ 02/15/2008 1:48:29 AM

    Let it go!! that horse is beat to death. By labeling people you are continuing racism. Don???t call a white man/ woman white, call them people or a man/ woman. The same with any race. STOP pushing your racism on to the next generation.

    Next I???ll cover world peace :c)

    PS no horses were actually harmed in this statement.

  • Posted By: mypointofviewsnotyours @ 02/15/2008 1:47:59 AM

    Are you serious! Why don't all the field of science figure out why are humans are parasites. We creates wonderfull things with passion and admiration. With the same amount of passion and admiration we destroy as well. Instead of writing about prejudism, which is something that will never be eradicated; instead write about why are we driven to self distruction.

  • Posted By: Ninevite28 @ 02/15/2008 1:36:22 AM

    Isn't it odd that the politically correct never include "anti-Catholic" bias in their enlightening studies...or "anti-Caucasian," or "anti-male," or "anti-heterosexual." I guess so-called Modern Psychology has its own inherent biases it's working to foist on the rest of us.

    • Posted By: ms_svelte @ 02/15/2008 1:47:24 AM

      To disagree with religious position is not prejudice as Catholics like to make it out to be. I heard a talkshow host say that the concept of annulments was illogical and fantasy (ie. to say something that happened didnt' happpen) and the Catholics showed no respect to his personal opinion and had him removed from the air. ummmmmmm. maybe thats why anti-catholic bias is not listed in PC talk. This seems to be a mature board. Suggestion: stop trying to find a way to be a 'victim' to ease your conscious. Be real with life and it will be real with you.

  • Posted By: charlesrfd @ 02/15/2008 1:46:04 AM

    Anyone in a helping relationship must have a positive regard for the person being helped. That is not always easy. Further, people resist change and that includes the helpee and helper. Sometimes a person can overcome a bias. You have to look past the surface and see the person underneath. Francis of Assisi hugged a leper to overcome his revulsion of the leper's sores and unkempt appearance.



  • Posted By: jeremy_becker1 @ 02/15/2008 1:44:41 AM

    Personally I think that political correctness is one of the worst "band aids" that our society has created. Rather than allow the expression of honest feelings, we have allowed ourselves to be held captive to unbalanced judgment and double standards. Why has accountability and responsibility been excused by our guilt and false righteousness? Political correctness may keep people mouth's shut but it doesn???t change people's hearts.

  • Posted By: mypointofviewsnotyours @ 02/15/2008 1:44:34 AM

    Are you serious! Why don't all the field of science figure out why are humans are parasites. We creates wonderfull things with passion and admiration. With the same amount of passion and admiration we destroy as well. Instead of writing about prejudism, which is something that will never be eradicated; instead write about why are we driven to self distruction.

  • Posted By: i555007 @ 02/15/2008 1:44:00 AM

    Let it go!! that horse is beat to death. By labeling people you are continuing racism. Don???t call a white man/ woman white, call them people or a man/ woman. The same with any race. STOP pushing the racism on to the next generation.

    Next I???ll cover world peace :c)

    PS no horses were actually harmed in this statement.
    mment

  • Posted By: Michael Macgyver @ 02/15/2008 1:43:30 AM

    No opinion from me- just some stark facts. In the seventies, while filming for the movie, "Planet of the Apes, actors had to wear thier "makup" for many hours beacause of the labor it took to put it on. the interesting thing, was that all the actors, who knew each other quite well, tended to hang around with their own kind, i.e., apes with apes, chimps with chimps, and orangutans with orangutans. It didn't matter what skin color you were unerneath, it was drcidedly your outer appearance. What they never said though, was how they acted off of the set. Did the apes act rowdy? Did the orangutans act like the elitists? Did the chimps act like middle class? Npw for my opinion. after that unintentional "double blind" study, why hasn't anybody picked up on it? am I the only one that watches AMC? I think not, I haven't seen it broadcast since, so maybe some supid idiot that thinks he is smarter and better than you figures that you shouldn't have any education like that, it makes too much sense. I don't blame the common folk, I blame the elitist that have all of ther ideas blow up in their faces an blame the little guy for it!

  • Posted By: cp2008 @ 02/15/2008 1:43:20 AM

    Racism is not limited to white vs. black; it is colorless deep hatred of self. I remember reading a study about personality traits, likes, dislikes, etc.. some scientists believe these are coded in the human DNA ( I could not agree more, I am a living proof) - based on the "apple does not fall far from the tree principle." Thus, racism is passed on through DNA, environment may confirm, substantiate, or eradicate the racism belief.




    reject it

  • Posted By: chita @ 02/12/2008 6:02:57 PM

    I live in the south, and I'm considered to be "white" (even though I don't understand how it's PC to lump Italians, Greeks, the Irish, etc into one group). I'm sick and tired of hearing that my family owned slaves and that's why it's acceptable for the African American students to openly mock me as I walk across my college campus. My family did not come to the US until the late 1880s - so why in the hell am I being punished for atrocities that happened over 100 years before my ancestors even stepped foot onto American soil? Oh that's right, because of the color of my skin.

    • Posted By: ms_svelte @ 02/15/2008 1:41:41 AM

      If you reap any benefits from 'white privilege' in america, regardless of when you got here, you are accountable. White privilege being the all the years of affirmative action for whites, where other nationalities, blacks especially, were purposely economically and socially disenfranchised. ie. a black could have the money to buy the radio station but was not allowed or when blacks were legally not allowed to homestead and stake claims for land out West. Until white america acknowledges, addresses and corrects the economic and social imbalances perpetuated by white privilege, conversations regarding race are pointless.

  • Posted By: jbritten @ 02/15/2008 1:39:27 AM

    Hey dipshit ......... "racial bias" will go away when and only when people of all races think, and act exactly alike from exactly the same background and perspective. So.... whe don't you just leave it alone and quite making people of certain races feel inferior and picked upon? The truth is... we're all victims and nobody is a victim. Leave it at that and LET PEOPLE BE!!!!!!!

  • Posted By: dancru @ 02/15/2008 1:35:47 AM

    If this article were true, Obama would not have won Iowa or even any state at all. You also forgot to mention the new and increasing violence against whites that will continue to rise. With the news that whites will be a minority by 2050 I can only imagine what the future holds. Your article is one of antiquity. It reminds me of an article that outlined the decline of blacks in MLB, which failed to address the increase in Hispanics as the reason. Fortuneatly there are intelligent people who can see through your attempt to sell newspapers and perpetrate controversy.

  • Posted By: dancru @ 02/15/2008 1:35:26 AM

    If this article were true, Obama would not have won Iowa or even any state at all. You also forgot to mention the new and increasing violence against whites that will continue to rise. With the news that whites will be a minority by 2050 I can only imagine what the future holds. Your article is one of antiquity. It reminds me of an article that outlined the decline of blacks in MLB, which failed to address the increase in Hispanics as the reason. Fortuneatly there are intelligent people who can see through your attempt to sell newspapers and perpetrate controversy.

  • Posted By: deva_lokii2 @ 02/15/2008 1:35:09 AM

    this article is so true. i myself for instance, am transsexual, and alot of people who like to say they are open minded/liberal/etc. still harbor secret internal prejudices., i have seen this first hand in job environments i have been in, with people who were so vocal about how good i was, but then they would harbor other thoughts of a negative character on the other hand. and most people can't even tell i'm transsexuals but in jobs (i work in spa enviroments) people know, and just from being different i am targeted. and it was especially by a lady who said she was totally liberal

  • Posted By: creptylou @ 02/15/2008 1:33:24 AM

    Legislation of personal behavior and hidden bias is only effective to curb overt manifestation
    of those prejudices.
    Prejudice exists in all forms and on all levels it is a form of picking what you care to interface with
    in the world and what you choose to exclude.
    I walk with a cane , I am absolutely certain that there are some jobs that Ive not been offered because of
    the physical difference.There were ,probably practical concerns on the part of the employer, not
    ill willed in his intent.It would be easier for him to hire a more able bodied person, with less
    need for concern for that persons safety .If he hired me it would be an extra headache in that regard.
    A form of discrimination that never sees the light of day ...


  • Posted By: geneg @ 02/13/2008 3:00:50 PM

    You do not have to be a racist not to vote for Obama because 1) His words are hollow only wishes,2) He has no experience in world leadership,3) No one knows for sure what his Moslem upbrining will govern his thoughts and actionsand4) He is counting on the black vote to carry him. If this is not a racist movement one wonders what is

    • Posted By: fireant3 @ 02/15/2008 1:30:45 AM

      Hey geneg, you're a moron. 1) You'll find the words of any politician you don't agree with to be "empty and hollow, 2) Moron Bush had no "world leadership" experience either, and it showed 3) It's a verified fact that Obama did NOT have a Muslim upbringing, and you need to stop lying your ass off 4) Blacks make up 13% of the US population and there's no way that simply counting on carrying that vote will get him elected.

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