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Problems arose when my mother tried to jump-start Carmel's career. I was working as a lowly intern at a film company when she called in a favor. "See if you can put Carmel in one of your movies, would you?" she said nonchalantly, as if this were simple, like buying her some milk. She had no doubts he would make it, and had just signed him up for doggie acting lessons. I said she was being ridiculous, that she should at least start him in commercials, as any actor who was trying to break into the business would.

"He doesn't need to start there—just look at him," she said.

"But he doesn't do anything—no tricks or surfing or rescuing people from burning buildings. Movie producers want dogs with skills," I protested, "and he won't even come when he's called." That was just it—Carmel's disobedience worked for him. He was completely devoid of that inexhaustible desire to please that most dogs live by. I began to admire his indifference.

I drove with my mom one afternoon in Carmel's car, the gold SUV she had bought to match his golden coat. He grabbed shotgun, stuck his head out the window and drooled long lines down the side of the window. Later, we went for a W-A-L-K (as my mother calls it so Carmel doesn't recognize the word and go crazy). He jumped at the birds, rolled in the dirt and proceeded to sniff every leaf in the metropolitan area. There was something wonderful about watching him run and jump and simply be a dog. As we walked to the car, my mother called him. He ran the other way.

When Carmel was ready to leave, we drove home. Sitting in the back seat, I gained a new respect for the relationship my mother and Carmel had. They didn't completely understand each other, but through their walks and talks and sniffing sessions, they developed a kind of idiosyncratic love, predicated on mystery and wonderment.

Later I joined my parents and Carmel on the couch—our new family unit. The show "24" was on. A few minutes into it, Carmel started barking and scratching at the door. I knew I was at a crossroads, a moment I might later regret, but I got up. "I'll go, Mom," I said. "I'll take Carmel for a W-A-L-K." Mom looked at me and smiled.

Dell lives in New York City.

© 2008

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  • Posted By: MisterHowie @ 05/18/2008 10:28:49 AM

    Great job, Alex, what a wonderful, humorous feature! I can't wait to read more from you in the future! - Howard

  • Posted By: Miss Pants @ 05/16/2008 3:15:57 PM

    Charming story! Whether this dog is a mutt or a dingo or a um...Carolina, I enjoyed reading about Carmel. I think these negative nancies posting here missed the whole point of the story. The author clearly love this little dog, maybe not quite as much as Mom, but love nonetheless.

  • Posted By: clairenyc @ 05/16/2008 3:11:15 PM

    What a funny, astute article! I have to say I don't think the Carolina Dog is really a breed. But what's wrong with mutts anyway? My sweet dog is one and I wouldn't have it any other way!

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