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  • Posted By: Phyta08 @ 06/03/2008 6:08:11 PM

    The issue in California can be easily summed up: 1)Marriage by legal definition is between a man and a woman and 2) the job of the US judiciary is to uphold the law, not to legislate. I wonder that the author does not attempt to envision a future in a country where a few judges decide that they hold the sceptre of power.
    Ironically, the comparison to ancient Rome is quite appropriate. John Paul Jones
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  • Posted By: buzzard @ 06/03/2008 5:37:59 PM

    I know that slippery slope arguments are not always valid, but I really feel that the next step for gays is to label those who have sincere moral disagreements with them as bigots. Goverment approbation means government approval. The next step is removal of tax benefits for any organization, including religous ones, that oppose full "rights" for gays, civil damages against anyone who professes an opinion that is not gay-friendly, since that will be labeled hate speech, and finally, quotas for hiring and college admission of gays. This has been the pattern of every other victim group.

    • Posted By: garypt1973 @ 06/03/2008 6:05:14 PM

      Something tell me you're a white, middle-class, straight male otherwise you would never use the term "victim group" let alone know what it means to be someone who has at some point been considered less than acceptable.

  • Posted By: Phyta08 @ 06/03/2008 6:05:02 PM

    The issue in Californa can be easily summed up: 1)Marriage by legal definition is between a man and a woman and 2) the job of the US judiciary is to uphold the law, not to legislate. I wonder that the author does not attempt to envision the future in a country where a few judges decide that they hold the sceptre of power.
    By the way, the comparison to ancient Rome is ironically quite appropriate.

  • Posted By: jpinaz3 @ 06/03/2008 6:04:56 PM

    I just don't understand why we don't take marriage out of it all together. Let the religious right have their "marriage". The state should issue "civil unions", which are the rights covered by marriage currently to everyone and then the church can issue a "marriage" which is just their (or God's) stamp of approval as they see fit.
    They can't *** that gays have ruined marriage and nobody can say they are not given the same rights.

  • Posted By: Ron Hamelin @ 06/03/2008 6:01:50 PM

    This is one of the best mainstream articles I've seen yet on this subject. I like the way Anna personalizes it. And I REALLY like how she brings up the fact the the courts are not supposed to simply reflect the majority's will but, rather, to protect the minority from its tyranny. In Canada, where I married my partner 2 years ago, this protection for the minority is enshrined in their Charter of Rights and Freedoms. This is how gay marriage eventually became law.

    We still need to catch up with the Canadians in terms of gay rights. In regards to immigration, by having married my Canadian partner, I've now received Canadian permanent residence by simply applying for it with him as my sponsor. We don't have that option here in the U.S. We are currently both living and working in upstate NY and will eventually have to move to Canada because he doesn't have permanent residence. His employer won't sponsor him and the US Government won't recognize our relationship, so I can't sponsor him as family. Thus, with 2 college degrees and years of teaching experience under his belt, he'll have to return to Canada next year--with me shortly behind him. The US will be losing and Canada will be gaining.

  • Posted By: myview1968 @ 06/03/2008 6:01:29 PM

    Comment: MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN.......IF YOU CAN NOT PROCREATE YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE A COUPLE.....THATS ALL THERE IS TO IT......KEEP RANTING AND SCREAMING AND MAKING NOISE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.....JUST LIKE A SPOILED LITTLE KID.....BUT KNOW THAT HERE IN CALIFORNIA WE WILL OVERTURN THE COURT BY PASSING AN AMENDMENT TO THE STATE CONSTITUTION.......WE WILL STAND UP FOR WHAT MARRIAGE REALLY IS!! COUNT ON THAT!!!

    Um...this is why this Country is in the state it's in...people with this type of view. Now, I'm all for everyone being able to speak their view, but when it's put out there like this it just reinforces how completely ignorant and unaware the majority of people are. So, if you don't procreate you are not supposed to be a couple? What a completely moronic thing to say...so, are you saying if a Man and a Woman don't procreate due to choice or medical issues their marriage should be void? And let's see...the divorce rate between wholesome heterosexuals is what...4 out of 5 now? And huh...any moron in Las Vegas can get drunk and get married to a stranger and law recognizes that? Should we go back to not allowing interracial marriages while we???re at it? Why don't you open your mind a bit...why is it okay for some and not for others? Our Country was built on freedoms and treating everyone equally, (at least that's the premise) but with closed-minded idiots like you out there it's no wonder Bush was in office for two terms.

  • Posted By: jonstorm @ 06/03/2008 6:01:17 PM

    How gay marriage cost Kerry the Election in 2004.

    Voters in Ohio showed up to vote against gay marriage and voted for Bush while they were at it.

    Gay marriage has cost the Democrats one election. Let see if it costs them another. Now that Obama is the nominee, Catholic and Hispanic voters might put McCain over the top California.

    Never underestimate the ability of the media to manipulate the American Electorate.

  • Posted By: camogirl92485 @ 06/03/2008 5:30:39 PM

    I personally feel that if someone wants to marry, whether it be same-sex or not, they should be entitled to that right. There are many benefits that are only given to married couples. I understand that some people feel as though marriage is a religous thing but it also provides a legal commitment to someone. I had a male friend who had been in a committed relationship with his partner for years. His partner was involved in a serious accident and was put on a ventaliator. Because they were not legally married my friend was unable to make any decisions regarding the care of his partner. He was not even allowed in when they finally removed his partner from the ventalitor. This is not right. If someone commits their life to someone they should be granted the same rights as everyone else. Had they been a heterosexual couple in a legally binding marriage there would have been no issues with him making medical decisisons or being there for his partner in his last few moments of life. I believe you can not choose who you love and should not be penalized for who you love. And just for the record I am a female who is married to a male.

    • Posted By: MountainHigh @ 06/03/2008 5:59:41 PM

      Maybe he should have been a responsible adult and had a living will which would have given his "partner" that right. This is a very poor excuse for being pro gay marriage. The right your friend was denied was caused by their own lack of planning. Just being married does not automatically extend you that right, think of the Terry Schavo (sp?) case. The law in many states provides nearly identical rights for civil unions, yet the liberals and gay and lesbian left will not settle for anything less than tearing down the fundementals of human society built on thousands of years of human existance, not just Christian. The traditional family unit is a significant reason tfor the evolution and advancement of homo sapiens world wide. This lifestyle choice is being rammed down all of our throats without thought of the long term consequences.

  • Posted By: Johnsonium @ 06/03/2008 5:58:30 PM

    Restricting gay marriage is actually very fundamentally unconstitutional due to discrimination based on sex. Jill can marry Johnny but Bob cannot. You are giving a right to Jill and denying the same right to Bob based solely on their sex. This is a clear violation of equal protection.

    I'm not sure if the lawyers that have been arguing for gay marriage have used this fact or not. If they did, it could head off the "slippery slope" crowd by defining marriage as a legal contract "between two people". This legally excludes polygamy as long are you are restricting polygamy equally for both sexes. The same applies for bestiality and all of the other ridiculous slipper slopers have thrown out there.

  • Posted By: FriendlyGuy @ 06/03/2008 5:40:51 PM

    Great article! You hit the nail right on the head. One day our society will look back on all this bigotry against gays & lesbians and wonder what was wrong with some of us. (SoonerJay13 I'm looking in your direction)

    • Posted By: SoonerJay13 @ 06/03/2008 5:56:13 PM

      Thanks, but I'm straight.

  • Posted By: mulliganplummer @ 06/03/2008 5:54:38 PM

    The world we live in is hard enough, I really don't see the harm is allowing a few people to be happy and have a little life security. Also, I really hate the Christians of this country setting the rules for us to live by. Thank goodness a few leaders still believe in a major foundation of this country, separation of church and state.

  • Posted By: SoonerJay13 @ 06/03/2008 5:33:02 PM

    This is classic. Absolutely classic. LIberals aren't really liberal, they're totalitarian. When they don't like the opposing view, they simply declare the debate "over." The arrogance and intolerance of opposting speech is simply astounding.

    Fortunately, the debate is FAR from over.. I don't care what consenting adults do in the privacy of their homes, or even who they hold hands with in public, but "marriage" is a covenant that is limited to a man and a woman. If there can be homosexual "marriage" then any combination of men and women can be married, as well. The bizarre connotations of such an idea are legion, as are the ramifications.

    Fortunately, nutcase liberals don't yet have the right to jail social conservatives for standing up to their lunacy, though they're working on it. For today, this is still a free country, and the debate is far from over.

    • Posted By: Johnsonium @ 06/03/2008 5:51:27 PM

      Luckily, nutty conservatives like yourself are slowly going the way of the dodo bird.

  • Posted By: dvdluvver @ 06/03/2008 5:35:24 PM

    The secular culture has usurped what really is a faithful and religious union. A marriage is a proclamation before God and community of the promise of love and fidelity. Our secular governments have chosen, and rightly so, to award this sacred union with legal rights and benefits. Gay marriage is not marriage. You can call it that all you want, but that's not what it is. Marriage is between a man and a woman. Period. What it actually is is a Civil Union - sort of. Laws and secular lawmakers can try to concoct a difference between the two, but it is simply impossible to redefine something that is not secular. Marriage is of God, Civil Unions are of governments. Symantics they may seem, but reality it is.

    • Posted By: Johnsonium @ 06/03/2008 5:50:14 PM

      A god (Allah, Jesus, Buddah, Vinshu take your pick) doesn't have anything to do with it. Marriage is a legal contract, not a religious one. There may be a concurrent religious ceremony but it has no legal binding.

  • Posted By: garypt1973 @ 06/03/2008 5:30:52 PM

    Before I plow a gasket, could I please ask everyone for a favor? Please use intelligent, historically-accurate and non-moronic reasoning for your opinion against the writer ie: not things like bestiality or getting our democratic government mixed up with a theocracy or using outdated stereotypes. I am a gay man who is pro-gay marriage, but I also believe that one could make a well represented argument against gay marriage. The problem is I rarely hear it anywhere. And by the way, Muslims can get married in our country...see what I mean!

    • Posted By: RationalTim20 @ 06/03/2008 5:35:16 PM

      LOL. I know they can get married, I was being sarcastic. Your points are excellent.

    • Posted By: Patrick May @ 06/03/2008 5:37:45 PM

      'sackly....

  • Posted By: sagopalm @ 06/03/2008 5:45:38 PM

    "Polls showing opposition to gay marriage were proffered to prove that the court had overstepped its bounds, ignoring the fact that the most sacred business of judges is not to ratify the will of the majority but to protect the minority from its tyranny."

    This is the most important statement in the story. The courts decision is not based on popularity amongst the masses. If the courts always went along with public opinion, there would be a long, sad history of lame brained decisions passed that would only have served to keep society rooted firmly in the dark ages.
    Society needs to progress. It's refreshing to read how young people have just come to take 'gay' for granted. It's about time.

  • Posted By: dvdluvver @ 06/03/2008 5:44:06 PM

    Marriage is not a right. The legal benefits perhaps are, but marriage is not. Marriage came along WAY before our government and it's laws and how it chose to honor marriage. I'm sorry that people find this offensive, or in some way divisive, but it's just simply the truth. There are ways to get every legal benefit of a married couple, but it's not marriage.

  • Posted By: suzanne1122 @ 06/03/2008 5:38:39 PM

    Marriage is a LEGAL right. It does not have to have a thing to do with religion, churches, faith, la-te-da holier than thou convenants between two hetero people, money or even LOVE. Every citizen in this country is entitled to the same legal rights. Nobody is asking anyone to give up any rights they are already entitled to here. But EVEYRONE should have the same rights. The sanctity of hetero marriage? Yeah, right. Whatever.

  • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 5:35:56 PM

    I could do this all day but it's time to go home. Thanks for the discussion and things to think about everyone.

  • Posted By: jroberson76 @ 06/03/2008 4:52:04 PM

    One has to wonder if the author of this article considers that the Romans were vile and highly debauched individuals. Sexual perversion of the most obscene sort, murder and theft were ordinary and even expected acts, so much that Romans merely yawned upon the news. I don't think Americans should attempt to emulate Roman civilization. Recall also that the Romans extreme depravity also had a wee bit of a part in its final dissolution.

    And the California Supreme Court doesn't make law for the rest of the nation. Where it might set a 'precedent' is obvious, but the I think the people should have more a say. The courts are for interpreting the law 'conservatively', and enforcing the laws thusly. This was very obvious to the founders. Instead, the courts now invent new 'rights' and 'laws'. Whereas there is room for women's equality and freedom of blacks within the framing founder's articles, there is no mention that a man might marry another man, or his dog, and no more a mention of support for abortion either. The courts have merely become liberal engines for social reconstruction, using the 'law' as a smokescreen to recreate America into some sort of utopia, while giving themselves a never ending litany of 'rights' to make themselves relevant. They need 'gay marriage' to retain power and influence. When they've succeeded with gay marriage, what's next? The right for underage homosexual sex, so that any ten year old with a parental voicher can engage in sex with adults? Bestiality, so long as the dog barks or the cat meows in agreement?

    Finally, why should two men raise a child? Can't anyone see how bizarre, unnatural and concerning such a situation looks? Homosexual families become engines for homosexual indoctrination, and further erode the nuclear family, the cornerstone of civilization since first recorded history. And for those that say that lower animals engage in homosexuality, consider that these animals also eat their young, defecate wherever and generally live the lives of lower animlas. What a prairie dog does under extreme conditions, or what a red-winged dragonfly does in Mongolia during the scarce mating season shouldn't apply to people, to civilization generally or to modern morality, ethics or society.

    • Posted By: bobbyb4n6 @ 06/03/2008 5:30:44 PM

      Just come out of the closet already jroberson...you will be much happier if you admit what you are deep down inside and stop living the lie.

    • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 5:05:01 PM

      I meant Equal Protections Clause.

    • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 5:04:31 PM

      The judiciary is the one acting out of line. They are making and passing laws that should not exist in a country like the United States. It is actually the JUDICIARY that by interpreting the Constitution the way it has that has actually been the strict constructionist. Remove God (I know how it sounds) from your thinking for one minute, read the constitution, the Equal Rights Clause, and then tell me that the Courts are wrong. Their imperative is to judge the law, not the whether or not your religion is right.

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