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  • Posted By: DewiClark29 @ 06/03/2008 3:57:34 PM

    Lady! this whole thing is opinion... but of course you have no mention of God in your message unless I just missed it as I quickly scanned over the nonsense... just because it's your opinion does not make it right.

  • Posted By: nharmonic88 @ 06/03/2008 3:56:17 PM

    Thank you hiservant!

  • Posted By: legalmama @ 06/03/2008 2:57:53 PM

    ..."the most sacred business of judges is not to ratify the will of the majority but to protect the minority from its tyranny." ACTUALLY - the business of judges is to do neither. Their job is to interperet the law. Period. Not make new laws (as was done in this case) - that is what we have a legislature for. Ms. Quindlen is wrong - the debate is NOT over. In California, there will be a vote on whether or not to add an amendment to the state constitution protecting marriage as between a man and a woman. Maybe it will pass, maybe not - but the debate continues. But there are 49 other states where it will not be legal, and the debate will continue there. It is difficult to read a piece like this when it is teeming with inaccuracies and sweeping conclusions.

    • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 3:56:13 PM

      Judicial Review has been an accepted tool of the judiciary almost since the inception of our country. The law itself was illegal, not the vote. There should have never been a law written to begin with. It is the LEGISLATURE that is doing the wrong thing, not the judiciary. A comment I made before: If 50%+1 of Americans decided you should be killed for absolutely no reason, would you A) Say, "Well, I guess it's the will of the people". or B) Look to the judiciary to protect you?

  • Posted By: indianaman130 @ 06/03/2008 3:56:03 PM

    i doubt God would call 2 souls in love a sin nharmonic88 but i do believe womanizing war mongering barbarians of the iron age wrote down what they tried to understand about the word of God with brains that only use 9% of it capacity would see that kind of love a sin because non conforming was a sin. The bible has slavery and beating women and children who don't obey as ok, and today we know these are wrong.

  • Posted By: sewmotion @ 06/03/2008 3:00:27 PM

    An initiative will appear on the California ballot to amend the state constitution, so that marriage will be strictly defined as a union between a man and a woman. It should pass easily.

    • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 3:53:28 PM

      It is an illegal initiative. But that's another story. I'm tired about people talking about an activist judiciary when it's really the legislature that's being activist. They're willing to throw an entire group of people to the wolves to stay in power.

  • Posted By: underdog @ 06/03/2008 3:49:03 PM

    Is this commentary from Oprah or the View. If gays want to marry fine. This should be the will of the people without all the religious hype that has stopped it before. A bigger issue is a court deciding what is really a moral issue. A court in California set a standard which somone in Ohio or Alabama is not ready for. So the " Scandinavia" of courts is going to tell somone in Georgia what is moral? A moral stance is being forced on us.

    • Posted By: nharmonic88 @ 06/03/2008 3:51:17 PM

      Don't you think that religion has an awful lot to do with what the will of the people is?

  • Posted By: Blackman40 @ 06/03/2008 3:50:08 PM

    What's really sad is that Christians are supposed to be godly no matter what!! Even if gay marriage becomes law in this country, we're supposed to be godly. A few people compared this issue to the Roman Empire, yet how many of us Christians fight aginst the advertised drunkeness, hypocrisy, and lies that come out of both parties in Washington (not just Democrats)? How many Christians prayed that Bush would repent when his lies regarding Iraq started to become public? We have fits over abortion and gays, but could care less about starving kids, poor people, or women being sexually oppressed in other countries. On top of that, we act soooo self-righeous about gay marriage that we lose credibility every time we open our mouths. Then we get all ticked off and act surprised when the law turns away from what God wants.

    I don't know if "love won", but I do know that we were on the side of hate; and hate starting to lose.

  • Posted By: swope23 @ 06/03/2008 3:50:04 PM

    I heart gay people. I dislike the self righteous. Just like the author said the Supreme Court is here to protect the minority from the tyranny of the majority. Freedom of religion, freedom from your persecution. Gays are blessed with this new freedom, just as religious egos are blessed to not be hanged or burned for their beliefs.

  • Posted By: DFreed @ 06/03/2008 3:09:58 PM

    Interesting that Ms. Quindlen lifts up the Roman empire as an example of a successful nation that was open to homosexual marriage. I think every history book in existence refers to the Roman empire as one filled with debauchery, decadence, religious bigotry (that whole burning of Christians thing) and cruelty (the gladiatorial arenas) as well as a senate that debated endlessly with their own interests in mind rather than the welfare of the people . And due to such, they collapsed. And yes, I believe we are following their example, Ms. Quindlen. The rise and fall of the (modern) Roman empire.

    • Posted By: spjon @ 06/03/2008 3:49:56 PM

      Any nation that rises, must one day fall. If you want one that will be glorious forever, then go to Israel, get things straight over there, and God will make it prosperous forever. Isn't that what HE promised?

  • Posted By: ploughman @ 06/03/2008 3:48:41 PM

    I hope gay marriage is at least dead as a wedge issue that conservatives try to use to scare voters. But, lest we forget, it was not long ago in 2004 that that issue was used to turn out the base in places like Ohio and swing that election to Bush. The country has been paying dearly for it ever since in areas like Iraq, health care, global warming, diplomatic isolation and all the other Bush disasters having nothing to do with social issues. There's even a growing feeling the U.S. has suffered a permanent downgrade in power and will go through a very painful oil-led recession.

    I'm not sure the country is "ready" for something like gay marriage, as that's quite a step beyond a live-and-let-live approach that only recently has been won. Even Obama as president and a Democratic Congress might only go as far as civil unions and blocking Constitutional Amendments. If Democrats hope to make progress on big things like health care and fixing Social Security, they can't spend a lot of political capital on this issue. My guess is that if a Constitutional amendment against gay marriage got out there it'd still come close to being ratified. Maybe in 10-20 years that won't be the case, but for now the victories are mainly in courts. Some activists have tried to warn against pushing too far too fast, especially if it got enough backlash for a Constitutional amendment. I don't think they're out of the woods on that one yet, regardless of how convinced people are of the rightness of their position.

  • Posted By: indianaman130 @ 06/03/2008 3:46:12 PM

    Rome fell to barbarians (goths, guals, Huns, Mongols) and because the government was corrupt to the point the troops couldn't get paid. I see america as rome today with home made uneducated barbarians (gangs and gangsters) with Caligua (bush sr. and jr.) on a white house throne, so corrupt he pardons his scandalous associates, ok's oil price gauging, but no, gays marrying is destroying the nation
    is going to
    is

  • Posted By: miamiman @ 06/03/2008 3:39:03 PM

    judging from the number and variety of the responses posted here; it is far from a decided issue.

    just because California( the liberal bastion of the USA) decides something doesnt mean that it is decided and agreed to. as a matter of fact thats just what the media would have us think.

    it is obvious from this forum that it is not a dead issue and will come more to the forefront as election time approaches. this article is irrevellant and that Roman empire comparision......just can't get over the irony of that.

  • Posted By: Piney @ 06/03/2008 3:35:58 PM

    Many will come, few will be chosen.

  • Posted By: Outraged777 @ 06/03/2008 3:04:06 PM

    I just can not believe that people like you say the things you say with out even taking the time to think about our kids. You are so right by saying that the younger you are the more open and free about gay marriage you will be, that is the problem with our society, the parents are no longer being PARENTS, the kids are running wild with all this no religion, no morals crap. In an already complex scenario, life is as confusing as it can be and will get worse if people like you keep trying to shove this nonsense down our throats. How do you explain Jesus or God or biology for that matter to a 5 year old kid when gay marriage is being proclaimed as "normal", at best it is against nature. How do you explain something as beautiful as human sexuality and reproduction when on TV you see two guys kissing? I think this whole topic is disgusting and the glory hounds and bleeding hearts who approved this law should be ashamed of themselves as you should be by poisoning our youths mind. "Give me your youth and I will rule the world" sound familiar? what ever happened to father and son playing catch not buying a dress together, what ever happened to mother and daughter talking about that dreamy boy friend? If your a guy and want to go with a guy that is your business (don't ask don't tell), what happens if this becomes a fad what will happen to our society, what will happen to the building blocks of a great nation like the USA? Wake up America !! Denounce and educate, think logically, use common sense, that is all I ask of you. When two living entities copulate there should be the possibility of reproduction, simple as that, if no product can be made then it is NOT NATURAL, plain and simple......once again simple common sense.

    • Posted By: Red Poppy VI @ 06/03/2008 3:34:28 PM

      So by your logic the union of a hetro couple that cannot conceive due to medical reasons is not natural? WOW, you are scary. I have a 3 yr old daughter, I have been married for 13 years and hold an MBA. I feel that I am informed and educated so I say this - if my daughter is lucky enough to find the love that her father and I did I will feel blessed. Why should I limit her to finding that with a man? If you want to tout God or Jesus (which I don't believe in) then you should not be judging others. Your sin of judgment is just as bad as being gay, right? And just to be clear - the US was founded on freedom for people not hetro marriage. YOU need to be educated and think logically, the rest of already are.

    • Posted By: zzxno @ 06/03/2008 3:08:32 PM

      I assume that you don't eat shellfish then, since on the EXACT SAME PAGE of the Bible where it says that homosexuality is an abomination it describes eating shellfish as an abomination. Since the Bible is the literal and inflexible word of God, clearly you wouldn't make a distinction between what rules are applicable and which ones are completely insane based soley on your bigoted preference. Oh also, make sure that your sending your menstrating women out of the villiage and don't let anyone come into contact with them! It is God's will afterall.

  • Posted By: indianaman130 @ 06/03/2008 3:34:14 PM

    In this world of greed and hate do you really think a loving God would condem two souls who find love?
    God looks at your soul, not your genitals or who you sleep with. If you hate two souls who find happiness then look at your own heart for the reasons why and yes you do reap what you sow and you will be judged as you judge others.

  • Posted By: peace and love @ 06/03/2008 3:23:10 PM

    It's disgusting if those begin to tell others how wrong they are based on your Bible. Your opinion is not any better than others. Even those who don't believe the Bible. Their opinion of issues are just as valid as yours.

    • Posted By: nharmonic88 @ 06/03/2008 3:32:19 PM

      Aren't you doing the same thing by telling outraged777 his opinion is disgusting? Your definition of acceptance doesn't give anyone, even yourself, the ability to voice an opinion because it would be wrong to say that one thing is right and another is wrong. Isn't that what an opinion is? A judgement about what you believe about a topic? If you believe that one thing is correct...that means you have an opinion...and by having that opinion, that generally means that you think that at least some of the other options available are wrong. Right?

  • Posted By: JJ00JJ @ 06/03/2008 3:32:08 PM

    A couple of responses:
    nharmonic88 - as a gay man, it is incredibly offensive to me that you think that African American's rights are somehow different or more important than the rights of gay people. That is called bigotry. Remember, MLK said "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere"

    outraged777 - bigotry is taught - young people today are FAR more open to people of color and different ethnicities. I happen to think that young people today live in a far more complex world than most of us did and hallelujah that they can see through that. Also, based on your argument, then women who have gone through menopause should not be allowed to marry, correct? Maybe fertility tests should be required for marriage?

    legalmama - it is the supreme court's job to interpret the state constitution and ensure that it is applied fairly to all people. That includes, sometimes going against popular positions/ideals to ensure minorities are treated fairly.

    ajg221 - the argument is that gay marriage will destroy the institution? heterosexuals have done a pretty good job of creating an institution with a 50% failure rate and a greater than 25% rate of cheating (maybe more). Or how about the FLDS marrying 12 year olds, there is a great example of how heterosexuals are doing a bang-up job of protecting the institution.

    Perhaps we should get back to the literal meaning of Leviticus and start stoning our women again. If so many people like governing with religion, perhaps a move to Saudi Arabia would be in the cards. You know, Osama Bin Ladin is running Al-Qaeda based on religious principles, perhaps you'd like to run the world that way? Sure, you start out with Jerry Falwell, but you end up with Bin Ladin ... zealotry is zealotry and it gets worse with time, not better.

    It is really shocking in this day and age that there are so many who want to deny civil rights to people because they are different. nharmonic is trying to place the rights of gays below African American's just as white's tried to place the rights of African American's below theirs.

    For gosh sakes, marriage has been legal in Massachusetts for how many years now? It is time for the US to leave the 1950's and catch up with the rest of the world.

  • Posted By: peace and love @ 06/03/2008 3:19:08 PM

    Politically correct liberal government?????
    We have had the furthest right most conservative crowd in the White House and the genius in charge has been nominating the most conservative judges to all of the courts. LOL. This has to do with human rights. It has nothing to do with left or right or right or wrong.

    Keep your beliefs to yourself and don't judge others. That's the true American way. Choice is the issue. Beware those who want to choose for us all.

    • Posted By: zimme71 @ 06/03/2008 3:31:53 PM

      ah......humanism at its best.

  • Posted By: JJ00JJ @ 06/03/2008 3:31:06 PM

    A couple of responses:
    nharmonic88 - as a gay man, it is incredibly offensive to me that you think that African American's rights are somehow different or more important than the rights of gay people. That is called bigotry. Remember, MLK said "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere"

    outraged777 - bigotry is taught - young people today are FAR more open to people of color and different ethnicities. I happen to think that young people today live in a far more complex world than most of us did and hallelujah that they can see through that. Also, based on your argument, then women who have gone through menopause should not be allowed to marry, correct? Maybe fertility tests should be required for marriage?

    legalmama - it is the supreme court's job to interpret the state constitution and ensure that it is applied fairly to all people. That includes, sometimes going against popular positions/ideals to ensure minorities are treated fairly.

    ajg221 - the argument is that gay marriage will destroy the institution? heterosexuals have done a pretty good job of creating an institution with a 50% failure rate and a greater than 25% rate of cheating (maybe more). Or how about the FLDS marrying 12 year olds, there is a great example of how heterosexuals are doing a bang-up job of protecting the institution.

    Perhaps we should get back to the literal meaning of Leviticus and start stoning our women again. If so many people like governing with religion, perhaps a move to Saudi Arabia would be in the cards. You know, Osama Bin Ladin is running Al-Qaeda based on religious principles, perhaps you'd like to run the world that way? Sure, you start out with Jerry Falwell, but you end up with Bin Ladin ... zealotry is zealotry and it gets worse with time, not better.

    It is really shocking in this day and age that there are so many who want to deny civil rights to people because they are different. nharmonic is trying to place the rights of gays below African American's just as white's tried to place the rights of African American's below theirs.

    For gosh sakes, marriage has been legal in Massachusetts for how many years now? It is time for the US to leave the 1950's and for women to get out of the kitchen.

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