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Sexism and the City

What's up with this vicious bashing of the 'Sex and the City' movie?

 
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  • Posted By: parrotflower@yahoo.com @ 06/18/2008 12:48:10 PM

    Comment: (Con't)
    Just fodder for the plot machine, or is the secret message of "Sex" you can't get what you want? What you want isn't what

    you really want? I'm tired of that patronizing old line.

    Men have good reason to be wary of this movie. How many women proclaiming that they're "a Carrie" or a "Samantha"

    have used it as a reason to behave poorly, like relationship kamakazes on their path to fulfill a new stereotype of glamor

    that parades around in equally emotionally crippling chains as the old stereotypes? Young women who have never even

    dated are spouting negative images of men and relationships as though they were bitter divorcee's.

    Why are we talking about this instead of the fact that women still make 76 cents on the dollar for the same job as men

    and one presential candidate had gone on record not supporting a bill that would make it easier for us to sue for

    discrimination that we find out about after it's occured? What about Title X's blatant misuse, and the fact that young

    women are becoming pregnant or infected at higher rates than before the AIDs scare because of a sexual policy

    counter-revolution?

    They are real battles for feminism right now. Harping shrilly on platforms with shaky bases, especially ones that even on

    the surface seem superficial, is giving anti-feminists lots of examples of their stereotypes of feminists and women: illogical,

    shrewish, over-emotional with no real complaints.

  • Posted By: parrotflower@yahoo.com @ 06/18/2008 12:47:51 PM

    Comment: I guess it's difficult for the writer of this article to think outside the stereotypes that litter the emotional landscape of "Sex in

    the City" more than pairs of expensive shoes, and realize that many men have ideological or personal experiences that

    would make them reject the movie, just as many women have. "Sex in the City" the TV show vacillated between a

    sexed-up version of "Girl Power" and a damaging game of gender politics. "Independence" is cast as sexual cynicism

    paired with emotional defensiveness, or a starry-eyed idealism that continually leads characters into unworkable

    relationships that damage both partners.

    Even the feminist ideology of the show is dubious. While the "we're fabulous and single" mantra definitely has a place in

    our society to liberate those of us who don't need to fit the marriage cookie cutter, it's underlaid by a constant striving in

    the show for just that--the traditional romantic plot that motivates the overarching plot of the television show, and takes

    over with a vengeance in the movie. A movie whose trailer, by the way, showed me that the smooth pacing and witty

    dialogue that redeemed the negative parts of the tv show had been replaced with traditional hollywood romantic comedy

    schmaltz.

    All of the women want something, they are powerful and dedicated to getting it. And yet over the course of the show, all

    of them are frustrated at every turn. Charlotte can't concieve, Carrie can't find a meaningful relationship, Samantha keeps

    getting tricked into them, and the one true new-wave style protagonist, Miranda, gets knocked up.
    (Con't)

  • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 3:47:47 AM

    Comment: I hear men and women BOTH criticize Sex and the City...and it just makes me think "either you get it, or you don't". It seems to me that the women who don't like it are somewhat repressed, or in denial of what issues really exist in the "single over 35" crowd (and it IS a crowd) these days. Women have become self-sufficient because it's necessary, based on the way men whine about "women wanting rings and commitment" among other things, yet they believe they are entitled to supermodel-looking women who are subservient to their slovenly egos. Yet, somehow, women still want to believe there are men out there who can love and appreciate them, which I believe is generous, even if it is just natural instinct to preserve the human race. And as for the women who disapprove of the show, well, either they are living in a bubble of repression, or they are bitter about their own guilt for settling for less than these women have. I think Sex and the City is a courageous exploration of the best and worst case scenarios of potential relationship outcomes, with the beauty of unconditional love (in the form of their friendships) always being the payoff for following their heart.

  • Posted By: nesreen @ 06/16/2008 6:14:51 AM

    Comment: there is tremendous sexism everywhere, especially hollywood, where market value overrides real values, like treating women like humans. but it was a crappy movie that was sexist itself; utterly dense and one-dimensional women focusing on marriage and material things.

  • Posted By: inspireradavstatyer @ 06/14/2008 8:21:00 PM

    Comment: Of course men hate Sex and the City. Men do always, even if they're insinuating the opposite, hate free women who's not letting the patriarchy control them. Especially when it comes to sex, men turn hateful if they can't hold women as slaves. In my country Sweden, where the equality is very strong, we are so over that.

  • Posted By: glimps @ 06/13/2008 5:36:07 PM

    Comment: this was my T.V. show on HBO . No i like Big Love .. HBO always has hits !!

  • Posted By: rif2422 @ 06/13/2008 12:01:41 AM

    Comment: Why can't I view all comments? Is Newsweak afraid that the U.S. is about to stabilize Iraq??? Or are they afraid of losing their strident, loudmouth, and inane Left readers??? I would be too after all the trash they talked and proven wrong. Oh yah and hey where are all those folks telling us how wrong the surge was? And how wrong Bush was for "staying the course"? Cowards one and all. Get behind the push and winning team. It's your last chance..... Republicans in '08. How ironic this war is Obama's downfall, not to laugh or anything.

    • Posted By: hisarahx3 @ 06/17/2008 10:06:39 PM

      Comment: Your comment has absolutey nothing to do with this topic. Please keep your crazy conspiracy theories to yourself and stop polluting areas where people are trying to have intellectual discussions.

  • Posted By: rif2422 @ 06/13/2008 12:01:07 AM

    Comment: Wow, talk about off mark, just more liberal left garbage spewn at the expense of men. Listen, the reason the men don't like this movie is simple. What the author fails to realize is that the reason why men don't like this movie is that it's a bunch of women sleeping around then whining about why they're single. Sex in the City hahaha don't make me laugh, this is a movie and a t.v. show that was oriented towards women, don't be surprised when men laugh and joke at the expense of the cast. It doesn't help the lead looks like a horse brahhhahhhahhhh. Another reason it appeals to women... and 500$ Prada pumps, don't make me laugh please... unless this movie is a comedy right???? Oh wait sorry was that masogynistic? Probably un-pc too huh? oops. The truth does hurth

  • Posted By: genecassidy @ 06/12/2008 8:46:17 AM

    Comment: This article is worse than foolish. It presumes all men think the same way and suggests to those who don't that there must be something wrong with them. Blacks, gays and - golly -women have to put up with the same blockheaded presumptions. But I guess 500 words isn't enough space for real thought, just mindless provocation.

  • Posted By: genecassidy @ 06/12/2008 8:42:35 AM

    Comment: This broad brush is worse than foolish. The idea that there is a representative attitude among men is the same as the idea that there is a representative attitutude among blacks, gays or - golly - women. These superficial pronouncements go even a step further and suggest to the representative group that this is how they're supposed to feel and if they don't, they're somehow out of step. It fills up space in a magazine is about the best that can be said for it,

  • Posted By: alankent64 @ 06/11/2008 11:35:33 AM

    Comment: nothing more than PORN for conservative women.......my wife loves it yet i find the show and the series totally inane and not even close to reality ...my wife feels the same about peter norths north pole series hahahaha
    yet i tell her things like that really DO happen... she looks at me with a glare ....we men have our fantasies of cluadia schiffer and giselle and adriana lima ...
    the women drean of shoes lunches and mr big .....seroiusly i think we have the better end of the deal.
    samantha has a GUT!!!!!.. unacceptable however for a fifty yr old man its expected ...the men win HA

    • Posted By: dllydggr @ 06/12/2008 7:14:50 PM

      Comment: You'll still 'kick the bucket' WAAAY sooner. Have a great day!

    • Posted By: hisarahx3 @ 06/11/2008 8:34:35 PM

      Comment: I find it disgusting how many men go out of their way to critize this movie just because they think anything to do with fashion and relationships are "superfifical". What about the porn, cars, violence, and video games most men's lives revolve around? All people have their little bits of superficial interests, and a wmovie like this, though it may not be enormously profound or groundbreaking, still stands it's own. After all it's not meant to be a Babel or a Fight Club, it's a chick flick with a bit more plot and a focus on friendship. Stop taking it so seriously, because it's purpose is the exact opposite. People ranting about how stupid and insubstantial this movie is, and the horrible values it presents need to understand this movie is NOT meant to be a folk tale teaching some traditional lessons of love and modesty. IT'S REAL LIFE, and not everyone is like Mother Theresa in the modern day

      • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 3:22:56 AM

        Comment: Well said, hisarahx3! The men who trash Sex and the City are the real reason many women are single these days...men worth marrying are few and far between. And the jerk up there that said "Samantha has a GUT!!!!" probably looks like a troll. I find it interesting how many sloppy jerks will loudly criticize a woman's physical appearance, while somehow thinking he deserves a supermodel, then have the audacity to call a woman shallow for blowing her own money on something like shoes, which bring her more satisfaction and less grievance than most any man.

      • Posted By: rif2422 @ 06/13/2008 12:04:31 AM

        Comment: 50 yr old skanks complaining about why they haven't gotten married??? It's pretty simple to a guy, don't be a skank. And, skanks complaining why they haven't gotten married? Simple don't worry about 500 dollar pumps and worry about being a better human being, c'mon..... You're joking right? Don't whine when you're easy, it's annoying.

        • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 4:22:09 PM

          Comment: Are you the kind of "better human being" that women should aspire to be? YOU are the reason women would rather buy pumps than settle down with a guy like yourself.

        • Posted By: hisarahx3 @ 06/17/2008 10:03:11 PM

          Comment: No one asked you to answer fictional chracters problems. And buying five hundred dollars doesn't mean you DON'T worry about being a better human being. Your view is completely ignorant, and sterotypical. Buying expensive things doesn't mean you don't care about humanity. I myself would never buy five hundred dollar shoes, but I'm sure there are other people who would never buy fifty dollar sneakers like I do. Does that make mea a horrible, superfificial evil doer?

          • Posted By: hisarahx3 @ 06/17/2008 10:04:31 PM

            Comment: And also, having an active sexual life doesn't make you a "skank" as termed in your colorful vocabulary. Take your mideival views to some backwards country where it will be appreciated.

  • Posted By: Alioness @ 06/11/2008 11:26:57 AM

    Comment: Seriously are we little children or adults here? Yes it was a very popular series on HBO and the movie, i think, was simply amazing, but aren't we reading a bit too much from it? It's a show surrounding the lives of four very different women who love each other. It's a chick flick, yes, so most men won't find it interesting, and some women too but so what, do you just have to list out all the ways in which the show, in your estimation, is ridiculous?! Of course you wouldn't let anyone below the age of 21 watch it. Of course the director/writer could not develop the story line too much because there is a time factor. I mean it's SATC not Lord of the Rings! But for those of us who like to be entertained, who don't neccessarily want to be scared witless or have their heart rate tripled, who like chick flicks and fashion it was a great movie!

  • Posted By: werk_ltd @ 06/11/2008 10:53:55 AM

    Comment: Excuse me, but isn't the whole reason the film exists itself a form of sexism? And fomenting an argument between on group of privileged yuppies and another group of privileged yuppies is or should be just a cause for yawning.

  • Posted By: jessthom @ 06/11/2008 12:44:17 AM

    Comment: It bothers me that a lot of articles asked about this movie: Will men go see it? Who cares? Did anyone ask if women would go see the last "Rambo"? Yes. the "SATC" movie was sometimes silly, but it was entertaining and it was four great female characters taking center stage. Maybe if Hollywood made more movies with interesting women, and not the usual sappy rom-coms, more women would go see the movies.

  • Posted By: ForeverAFan @ 06/10/2008 10:24:53 PM

    Comment: We got to enjoy beautiful fashion and wonderful aspects of the City of New York, that most of us would never be privy to, so I cannot complain. It was entertainment, and though I have yet to see the movie, I know I will not be disappointed. I don't understand what the big deal is about here.

  • Posted By: ForeverAFan @ 06/10/2008 10:23:27 PM

    Comment: We are not looking for characters of substance here. But, if we dig a little deeper, we can recognize aspects of their personalities in all of us. Miranda repersented the cold, logical businesswoman, Charlotte was the optimist, Samantha had the enormous sex drive, and Carrie was the insecure friend. Yet they all clung to their friendships as true sisters. The series was entertaining in a modern Cinderella type of way, we got to enjoy

  • Posted By: ForeverAFan @ 06/10/2008 10:15:57 PM

    Comment: I loved the series on HBO. I have not yet seen the movie. These four women represented four different personality aspects that may be common to most women to some degree. Charlotte was prim and proper on the surface, Miranda was the cold, calculating and logical businesswoman, Samantha had a huge sex drive, and Carrie portrayed the vulnerability and insecurity that plague so many of us. The series portrayed four close friends who were financially comfortable, almost a CCinderella type fantasy, but also maintained enough fashion and beauty four close

  • Posted By: dllydggr @ 06/10/2008 6:55:01 PM

    Comment: Well, why is one single film suddenly responsible for representing the entire female species? Are all men represented by the Indiana Jones movie? Or that one with Adam Sandler?

    • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 3:58:56 AM

      Comment: Interesting comment...it made me think about men and movies they love...almost every man I know can quote "Airplane" and "Caddyshack" word for word...what does THAT tell you about men? Leslie Neillsen and Rodney Dangerfield are their heroes, so why should we really care what they think of anything we watch?

  • Posted By: garishjustice @ 06/10/2008 6:43:34 PM

    Comment: As a man, the movie, and series, strikes me as conspicuously ironic. The premise for the franchise (which is what it has become), is how through female bonding, women are able to build up one another, and strengthen one another when men, jobs, life, etc. lets them down. Yet the plot of nearly every show I have seen, and the plot of the movie, revolves around these four women chasing either men, or some paradigm of white, WASP-ish femininity which can only be attained through fashion, high society, and (shockingly), men.

    The show does not teach women to be strong, to be independent or high-minded. These women contribute absolutely nothing of value to society at large. Their concerns revolve primarily around fetishistic consumer culture. I know far more women who live lives that are completely outside the sphere that these four women run inside of, women who want to be single because they feel it affords them greater social and civil efficacy than it would to chase men and attend fashionable parties.

    As a man, I see the need for strong, independent women in our society. I am not threatened by this prospect, as they bring balance to a world that is still ruled by male hegemony. For the four heroines of this franchise, however, that pair of pumps unfortunately does not fit. And to compare them to one of the most significant advocates of universal health care and combatants of poverty and injustice in the world does a tremendously grave disservice to Ms. Clinton.

  • Posted By: iwc2ufan99 @ 06/10/2008 4:26:21 PM

    Comment: I am a woman. I loved the series. I think your points absolutely hold about the SERIES. The film on the other hand, I feel that women were in fact the blind ones here. They were blinded by how amazing the series was and projected their love of that onto what was an otherwise awful film. These once amazing characters were reduced to becoming extremely one dimensional silly versions of their once glorious, strong, independent selves. Carrie and Miranda basically brought their own misery on themselves by being selfish and not even considering the needs of their significant others. Miranda basically emotionally and physically abandoned her husband and I am expected to feel for HER? The same for Carrie. She paid no attention to how uncomfortable her fiancé was with the state of the huge wedding. She made it all about her. For once, I am squarely with the boys. This was a horrible film that did not make women look good, strong or able to get along without the men. There was nothing to threaten them here, but plenty to annoy anyone who is really paying attention. I can see why it got such low ratings from men and am shocked that women were so utterly blinded at it's inherent crappiness and that it was an obvious ploy to make money off something that had run its natural course. It is a great pity that the amazing legacy of strong, independent girl friends who deeply care for one another that was that show had to be damaged by the film.

  • Posted By: buffangel2000 @ 06/10/2008 2:46:38 PM

    Comment: Men can bash this film all they want, but on opening night I was in an auditorium full of 500 women, dressed in their finest duds, and having one of the most fun girls nights in recent memory. I had to wonder ;) "Why are men so afraid of women enjoying themselves for two hours without the influence of testosterone?" Threatened much?

    • Posted By: rif2422 @ 06/13/2008 12:09:17 AM

      Comment: of what strong, independant skanks? not much, just laughing at the fact that women look so much up to these type of women. There is no surprise that men don't want these types of women and don't be surprised they don't want to watch a movie glorifying these type of women. It isn't men to blame it's women looking to these type of women (i.e. Paris Hilton) as a source of entertainment.

  • Posted By: dgolann @ 06/10/2008 2:05:11 PM

    Comment: I agree that there are many sexist comments from guys about "Sex and the City" and other so-called "chick flicks." There is a long tradition of women finding empowerment in romantic and consumerist fantasies. It reaches all the way back to factory girls reading dime novels at the turn of the century. Serious critics often short change the power of trivial fantasy to lift people up.
    On the other hand, I do not think we should applaud the bravery of filmmakers who played on the success of a popular series to assure a film with a big opening weekend. Making endless sequels is the essence of Hollywood's greedy timidity. Nor should we pretend that this movie realistically portrays the lives of real women in America with realistic incomes. Nor is it great art. If you want a fully realized portrait of a three dimensional female character read "Anna Karenina" or "To Kill a Mockingbird." I want to watch movies that give me an insight into the female psyche, but "Sex and the City" is not one of them.
    David Golann
    Auburndale, MA

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  • Posted By: dllydggr @ 06/09/2008 8:22:20 PM

    Comment: Interesting parallel between Carrie and Hillary. And what do these two have in common? They are both involved in storylines where they are the star and not the men in their lives. And men would be all over the SATC ladies if they'd been confined to the usual 'movie girl' role role of Fawning, Idealized Cypher (or in Samantha's case, as a woman over 50, NonExistent). Sorry if you think this is bashing but...shoot, you're just so dang BASHABLE!

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  • Posted By: wehlers @ 06/09/2008 2:17:06 PM

    Comment: Seriously, now I have to feel bad about hating this crappy TV show and crappy movie? Is my distaste for the story of four selfish, label obsessed women any different from my wife's, simply because I am a man? Does every preference have to be sexism? Can't I just admire Barak Obama without being a misogynist?

    It scares the bejesus out of me when we get to this level. I have never- not once- bemoaned the fact that most women I know don't understand the appeal of the Three Stooges, cigars and fishing. It has never occured to me for one minute that it was anything more than a preference. This movie is not a cultural milestone- it is a movie that a lot of woman seem to like more than men. Have a good time, but let us see "Ironman" and we will meet you in the lobby.

    • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 4:06:27 AM

      Comment: I get what you are saying, but if you really feel this way, then why even bother to weigh in on the movie at all? If it doesn't interest you, then why did you read this article and its comments? I know I wouldn't bother reading an article about Ironman, cigars, fishing, or the Three Stooges...

  • Posted By: wehlers @ 06/09/2008 2:16:05 PM

    Comment: Seriously, now I have to feel bad about hating this crappy TV show and crappy movie? Is my distaste for the story of four selfish, label obsessed women any different from my wife's, simply because I am a man? Does every preference have to be sexism? Can't I just admire Barak Obama without being a misogynist?

    It scares the bejesus out of me when we get to this level. I have never- not once- bemoaned the fact that most women I know don't understand the appeal of the Three Stooges, cigars and fishing. It has never occured to me for one minute that it was anything more than a preference. This movie is not a cultural milestone- it is a movie that a lot of woman seem to like more than men. Have a good time, but let us see "Ironman" and we will meet you in the lobby.

  • Posted By: HungLo @ 06/09/2008 11:43:54 AM

    Comment: Lets face it, "Sex and the City" is pure garbage. It teaches 16-24 year old girls to go and sleep around and be promiscuous. Now, being a sexually active guy myself I'm all for it, but how would you like it if this was your daughter or sister or mother, or better yet, your wife, that was going around your city sleeping and f**ing around with douchebags. It's not sexism that makes people hate this show, it's the ideology behind it.

    • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 4:11:45 AM

      Comment: Maybe it's teaching 16-24 year old girls that there's no point to f**king around with douchebags, if they notice how well it's worked out for these women. If the viewers are smart, then they will realize that there are many different levels to relationships, and that men rarely are the prize that fairytales have led them to believe. It's best to cultivate our own happiness rather than expect anyone to be our happiness.

  • Posted By: Shruts @ 06/09/2008 6:44:19 AM

    Comment: GOSH! I won't accord so much importance to this flick!! The whole sexist angle being talked about here is almost hilarious!

  • Posted By: Shruts @ 06/09/2008 6:40:09 AM

    Comment: GOSH! I won't accord so much importance to this flick!! The whole sexist angle being talked about here is almost hilarious!

  • Posted By: Floridave @ 06/08/2008 10:02:28 PM

    Comment: I always thought the show was Will and Grace for heterosexuals. Also I think whatshername has a horse face. I would go one but anyone that writes more than four sentences about this show is a pansy.

  • Posted By: Thtcat @ 06/07/2008 3:29:40 PM

    Comment: OK, I'm a man. I'm a flaming hetero-sexual. I enjoy the series. I even enjoyed the movie to some degree, but at the same time, it made me genuinely angry. (Spoiler alert!) It seems to me that if a female character in the movies got cold feet and left the scene of the wedding, only to turn around and return mere minutes later, she would not be so castigated as Mr. Big was. It is, after all, a woman's perogative to change her mind. I suppose it is romantic to have your secretary copy historical love stories on your behalf and send them off into the ether of cyberspace fully expecting them to never be read. It doesn't seem to fit in with the character of Big from the series however. Now that he's finally found Love, he can't live without Carrie? It seems to me that sometime before the 5 months had passed, he probably would have given up on the project (though he really didn't need to devote much energy to it). I get it that he loves her. I get it that he knows he made her justifiably angry. At some point though, wouldn't he shake his head of his besotted haze and see that she might have been over-reacting to cut him out of her life completely? Wouldn't this make him angry in return? He would be expected to be understanding if she needed a few minutes to catch her breath before entering the Public Library for such a life changing event. Is it wrong of me to be angry at Carrie for not being more tolerant of his trepidation? Clearly a wedding is always seen as the bride's day, but let's not accept that notion to the exclusion to the feelings of the groom.

    Oh, well. I guess the women deserve to have a movie that skews things into their perspective. Maybe that's how they feel about one of my fantasy genres... porn.

    • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 4:15:45 AM

      Comment: I find your comment to be refreshingly intelligent. Thanks for not being shallow. I suspect you are a cool guy.

    • Posted By: Floridave @ 06/09/2008 9:34:33 AM

      Comment: Any heterosexual that likes this show or goes to this movie is correct by referring to himself as "flaming".

  • Posted By: Thtcat @ 06/07/2008 3:29:02 PM

    Comment: OK, I'm a man. I'm a flaming hetero-sexual. I enjoy the series. I even enjoyed the movie to some degree, but at the same time, it made me genuinely angry. (Spoiler alert!) It seems to me that if a female character in the movies got cold feet and left the scene of the wedding, only to turn around and return mere minutes later, she would not be so castigated as Mr. Big was. It is, after all, a woman's perogative to change her mind. I suppose it is romantic to have your secretary copy historical love stories on your behalf and send them off into the ether of cyberspace fully expecting them to never be read. It doesn't seem to fit in with the character of Big from the series however. Now that he's finally found Love, he can't live without Carrie? It seems to me that sometime before the 5 months had passed, he probably would have given up on the project (though he really didn't need to devote much energy to it). I get it that he loves her. I get it that he knows he made her justifiably angry. At some point though, wouldn't he shake his head of his besotted haze and see that she might have been over-reacting to cut him out of her life completely? Wouldn't this make him angry in return? He would be expected to be understanding if she needed a few minutes to catch her breath before entering the Public Library for such a life changing event. Is it wrong of me to be angry at Carrie for not being more tolerant of his trepidation? Clearly a wedding is always seen as the bride's day, but let's not accept that notion to the exclusion to the feelings of the groom.

    Oh, well. I guess the women deserve to have a movie that skews things into their perspective. Maybe that's how they feel about one of my fantasy genres... porn.

  • Posted By: Liz99 @ 06/07/2008 2:31:57 PM

    Comment: I just heard the move bashed on NPR's Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me basically implying only gay men or straight ones who were emasculated would go to see this film. I don't get it. I'm actually not a SATC fan but this bashing is completely out of proportion to the film. It's only a movie, not a test of your masculinity, guys.

  • Posted By: Liz99 @ 06/07/2008 2:30:13 PM

    Comment: I just heard the move bashed on NPR's Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me basically implying only gay men or straight ones who were emasculated would go to see this film. I don't get it. I'm actually not a SATC fan but this bashing is completely out of proportion to the film. It's only a movie, not a test of your masculinity, guys.

  • Posted By: StarLink @ 06/07/2008 2:30:10 PM

    Comment: This was a great movie

  • Posted By: StarLink @ 06/07/2008 2:29:38 PM

    Comment: This was a great movie

  • Posted By: pennibrown @ 06/06/2008 12:35:55 PM

    Comment: I was with you all the way until you compared Carrie to Hillary Clinton. I don't think Carrie and Hillary would like each other, let alone share a meal. Could your male-vision be clumping all women in the same shoe box?

  • Posted By: janmarc @ 06/05/2008 8:31:21 PM

    Comment: I loved the series on HBO. I looked forward to seeing the movie and anticipated that I would love it. I am sorry to say it was "not so hot." I felt that it was poorly developed and boring! The clothes did not make up for the fact that the plot did not explain how Carrie could forgive Big for jilting her at the altar; did not show how Miranda came to forgive Steve for his indiscretion, did not show how much Charlotte's pregnancy affected her, Harry and her adopted daugher, Lily; and most of all, did not show how Samantha came to be so caught up in Smith's career that she lost sight of who she was. In addition, the movie did notexplain how Carrie's assistant came to play such an important role in her life! I am not sexist, but I agree with the critics on this one. The movie was a big disappointment.

    • Posted By: brillalae @ 06/10/2008 12:16:37 PM

      Comment: THANK YOU.. I am a fan of the show, but this movie was awful!! every point you mentioned are the same issues I had.

  • Posted By: Deb63 @ 06/05/2008 7:26:10 PM

    Comment: I saw the movie "Sex in the City" and I thought it was great! I would go see it again. My guess is that the men who do like the movie are control freaks and mamas boys.

  • Posted By: Deb63 @ 06/05/2008 7:20:31 PM

    Comment: I saw the Sex and the City today and I thought it was one of the best movies i have ever seen. I would see it again. The men who don't like the movie are probably control freaks and mamas boys, and a little afraid of the opposite sex.

    • Posted By: sjbrock80 @ 06/09/2008 4:36:43 PM

      Comment: My guess is you've been burned by so many men that you like to bash them every chance you get.

  • Posted By: sjbrock80 @ 06/05/2008 6:21:57 PM

    Comment: I happen to be a guy who likes action and horror movies. I wouldn't go see Sex and the City because it doesn't interest me and if I saw it, would give it a low rating.

    That isn't a sexist viewpoint, is it?

    Oh well, move on. It's a movie for crying out loud. People are upset because other people don't like the movies they like? How childish.

  • Posted By: scottie252 @ 06/05/2008 4:59:20 PM

    Comment: absolutely agree! I know girls who can only wish that their boyfriends didn't have to be dragged kicking and screaming to this movie. what a big fuss they make. My guy firends are clueless about the phenomenon that is Sex and the City, but still feel the need to bash...and to remain clueless. They don't understand why women are lining up to see the movie...Sex and the City is a movie about women for women. we don't need them to understand, as much as we hope for their gender enlightenment, but we do need them to give up the eye-rolling and vehement opposition.

  • Posted By: lackadaze @ 06/05/2008 3:39:30 PM

    Comment: THANK YOU! This is exactly what I thought when I read some reviews of the movie. I read one that complained that the male characters are only used as pawns - which seemed odd to me, because that's how it is with every other movie, if you replace male characters with female ones.

  • Posted By: lackadaze @ 06/05/2008 3:37:50 PM

    Comment: THANK YOU! This is exactly what I thought after reading some reviews of the movie.

  • Posted By: irwind @ 06/05/2008 2:40:51 PM

    Comment: I loved 'Sex...' as a TV show, as well as other 'girl' stuff like 'Gilmore Girls'. Great writing is great writing! There's so little of it. And yes, I'm a straight man. They laughed at me at work, when I told them I plan on seeing the movie. I mean can I identify anyore with Iron Man or the Hulk. (P.s. I'm also an Obamaniac who did a 180 and now loves Hillary too, and pray they become an unbeatable team!!)

  • Posted By: toughluck @ 06/05/2008 1:07:49 PM

    Comment: I would like to bring the author's attention to the fact that quite a few female critics also panned th movie on rottentomatoes. I guess their voice just doesn't count though huh?

  • Posted By: findllg @ 06/05/2008 11:58:23 AM

    Comment: Oh, all the angry women need to relax. Lots of women enjoy watching these four because although we may not be just like any of them, we are a little like all of them. I have 3 children, work a full time job and my favorite downtime was pouring a nice glass of wine, slipping into my pajamas and throwing myself into Carrie's world for an hour. Its a nice little getaway before I have to wake up and jump back into my busy life. Dont be so offended by people being sexist. Life is too short to be so defensive!

    • Posted By: sjpersonal @ 06/05/2008 2:25:27 PM

      Comment: Thanks, people need to relax sometimes. Everything is not an "ISSUE"

  • Posted By: beemerbabe113 @ 06/05/2008 11:57:00 AM

    Comment: first off let's remember that it's just a movie, a form of entertainment!!! yes it's entertainment that's aimed at women but it's still good entertainment. why is everyone so surprised that once again women in hollywood as well as the rest of the world are being thought of as second class. citizens, it's happened throughout the years, and as long as men are in positios of power it will continue to occur. sure the women of sex are over the top...but it's supposed to be that way. The important thing in all of this is the "FRIENDSHIPS" these women have with each other!!! through the good and the bad, it's not about the pricey shoes or extravagant dresses. it's about the bound that these women have been able to maintain, and as most women, if they're honest will admit it, we all have a support group of friends that we rely upon to amke it through the trials and problems of everyday life. no we don't wear designer dressess and exspensive shoes, but we do rely on our friends to get us through. most men and obviously some women have missed the entire point to this really fun and entertaining movie.

  • Posted By: bronemesis @ 06/05/2008 10:11:33 AM

    Comment: Let's narrow the demographics even further. This film is about white women and their white problems/successes. Yes, the series was based on a white woman and her contemporaries and that fact alone isolates it from '"all" women. This is not to say that "Sex and the City" is not universal to all women (which it isn't), but it may said that it truly speaks to one female demographic and hopes (unlikely) that others will relate to it. So in conclusion, "Sex and the City" was successful and it hit it's target audience, so does the Tyler Perry movies. Both are considered average type movies, but they do cater to their audiences. Isn't that what it's all about?

  • Posted By: EE7011 @ 06/05/2008 9:50:58 AM

    Comment: Close friendships are important for both men and women. I like the relationship amongst the four women regardless of the over-the-top fashion.

  • Posted By: AshleyKeen @ 06/05/2008 9:36:37 AM

    Comment: I'm actually *more* irritated by the sexist assumption that because I'm a woman, i would want to see this movie. Everywhere I turn around there's some kind of media lauding that "Sex and the City" characterizes "real, vulnerable, strong women." That's bull. Real, vulnerable, strong women can be found volunteering at your local elementary school or homeless shelter. They can be found caring for their kids because their husband left them alone and doesn't pay child support. They can be found at the altars of churches, or volunteering to help with the AIDS epidemic in Africa. Real, strong women don't need to announce their sex lives, and they can make important decisions. They don't allow the same man to emotionally abuse them for 10+ years. They don't sit around making non-commitments because they know what they want from their lives and they acheive it. Vulnerability is not found in how much you broadcast to your four closest friends, but how much of your character shines through your actions. SATC is not liberating to women, it's a tool to capture them into a modern-day fairytale. Would that women today drew their character from great women of the past who made daily sacrifices for their families, their country, their faiths and the worlds they live in.

    That kind of character is worth far more than a pair of fancy shoes.

    • Posted By: NattyBumppo @ 06/06/2008 4:18:45 PM

      Comment: Yours is, by far, the best post in this forum. What you speak of is the reality of what it means to have personal responsibility, civic responsibility, social responsibility and social rectitude. I applaud you, your post and, most of all, your values. Would that everyone held the same opinions.

      • Posted By: robinrocks @ 06/07/2008 11:25:46 PM

        Comment: I don't think anyone who has seen the movie or enjoyed the show think of these four women as "real women". You nailed it when you called it a fairy tale. Indeed it is a modern fairy tale, except perhaps without the instructive moral. Ultimately, what makes this an important movie is the audience it set out to capture. Women see the fun in enjoying a few hours with these fantasy people. I know I did. And I'm happy the good ol' boys don't get it. I don't like their movies much, and I don't support them with my dollars. The SATC team has brought an unusual summer movie and I honor that. It's a fun fantasy. It's not about volunteering or serving the greater good - don't we have enough of that in real life? The writers have created great characters, and I'm happy we got to see them in a fresh medium.

    • Posted By: jfloyd @ 06/05/2008 4:00:32 PM

      Comment: Amen, sister! I could never identify with these four, except for maybe Samantha, because at least she wasn't a doormat. It isn't just men that hated this movie, and I don't think sexism has anything to do with it.

  • Posted By: NYCfemale43 @ 06/05/2008 2:35:53 AM

    Comment: Please don' t dare compare Hillary to the girls--Carrie, Miranda, Samantha or Charlotte. They would have vehemently voted against the war in Iraq and stood up to the good ole boys. As true New Yorkers and intelligent women, they would have relentlessly pursued and caught the REAL enemy ... in time for cocktails.

    • Posted By: calamity jyl @ 06/18/2008 4:24:54 AM

      Comment: You are SO RIGHT! I would have more respect for Hillary if she had spoken directly to the "iron my shirt" guys by offering to iron their shirts, as long as they were wearing them while she did it...(I've been dying to say that for months)...and I'd vote for Samantha over Hillary any day...

  • Posted By: DarthTrona @ 06/04/2008 9:53:56 PM

    Comment: I have to give some major props to the author of this article for going to the movie, keeping an open mind, and making some rather intelligent observations. I especially love the tie made into politics, and the sparking of a fire that people everywhere try to smolder - there is still sexism in this world, and more than most would like to recognize. Thank you to the author for not being blind to the obvious in both the minimal of examples and the most intense.

  • Posted By: D.Stark @ 06/04/2008 8:20:38 PM

    Comment: It seems to be like your article is sexist, for the vast amount of generalizations you have about males. Maybe men don't like the film because it is a chick flick in their eyes. Maybe they were swayed away by the gushing over it by the 18-29 female demographic. Maybe it isn't their cup of tea and the film is more identifiable towards women. Let's look at another movie, female centered, with a strong female cast and see the difference to the reaction Sex and the City got. Let???s take the film The Hours, did this get the bashing the Sex and the City got by males? No, because the movie had something more to it, people could discuss it at the dinner table. The movie Sex and the City is directed towards the18-29 female demographic, and they???re the ones that liked it the most. Surprising? No. Sexist (for males to criticize it)? No again.

  • Posted By: D.Stark @ 06/04/2008 8:20:00 PM

    Comment: It seems to be like your article is sexist, for the vast amount of generalizations you have about males. Maybe men don't like the film because it is a chick flick in their eyes. Maybe they were swayed away by the gushing over it by the 18-29 female demographic. Maybe it isn't their cup of tea and the film is more identifiable towards women. Let's look at another movie, female centered, with a strong female cast and see the difference to the reaction Sex and the City got. Let???s take the film The Hours, did this get the bashing the Sex and the City got by males? No, because the movie had something more to it, people could discuss it at the dinner table. The movie Sex and the City is directed towards the18-29 female demographic, and they???re the ones that liked it the most. Surprising? No. Sexist (for males to criticize it)? No again.

  • Posted By: gluskabe @ 06/04/2008 5:43:07 PM

    Comment: I thought it was a good movie. Not a profound work of art, but entertaining like the show was. However, as a guy, I know why some guys hate the movie with an emotional intensity that is way beyond what a movie should inspire. And that is because, as a guy, when you're dating, you sometimes get rejected by beautiful women. Maybe all the time, mabye some of the time, maybe even rarely for some guys, but it happens. And then when you are sitting there licking your wounded ego, you imagine her making a joke about you to her girlfriends, just like the women on sex and the city did about their dates. Just contemplating it can be unpleasant. Now did Seinfeld on his show reject all kinds of women for shallow and superficial reasons? Of course. But he was rejecting women, so guys didn't get upset about that. This show has women rejecting men for sometimes superficial reasons and so it causes some guys to go through the roof.

    There are of course other reasons for disliking the movie. It wasn't an amazing work of art, so some may be disappointed in the storyline etc. Also the girls were heavily into fashion so even guys with a healthy ego might not get into it because they aren't interested in that kind of stuff. But for these people there isn't the kind of emotional component to their dislike of the movie. To them, it was simply a movie they didn't care for.

  • Posted By: Tim Dunne @ 06/04/2008 4:46:46 PM

    Comment: speaking as a man i must say that an article such as this, carefully studied and then recited at just the right moment at a wedding reception, can help us all get laid. and isn't that the point?

  • Posted By: zbbrox @ 06/04/2008 4:45:54 PM

    Comment: Well, I thought the show was okay, but I hated the movie. My wife liked the show, but didn't like the movie.

    I think the likely reason is this: The movie was bad.

    You mention the 54% the film got on the Tomatometer, yet fail to recognize that many of the negative reviews were written by, gasp, women, like Gina Carbone, Andrea Chase, and Carol Cling. Are they also sexist?

    And your mischaracterization of Roger Ebert???s review is saddening. You ask ???If it's not your cup of tea (or Cosmo), must you really attack it so vehemently????, yet criticized Mr. Ebert for stating exactly that???the movie was not his cup of tea, and it did nothing for him. Nowhere in his two-star review (a rating indicating mediocrity rather than hatred) did he ???vehemently attack??? the film.

    The idea that this film has received a particularly scathing amount of criticism is ludicrous if you compare it to guy-centric films that got similarly mixed reviews???the vitriol leveled by some reviewers at Spider-Man 3, for instance, makes any negative review for Sex and the City look charming in comparison.

    I find it truly offensive that anyone could look at ???Sex and the City??? and equate dislike for that film with dislike for women. The movie is filled with characters who abandon the strongly-crafted and complex characterizations created for them on the television show for shallow ???chick flick??? clichés that are more manipulative than honest. Forgive me for citing a ???guy film??? in contrast, but the difference in emotional depth between this movie and, say, Forgetting Sarah Marshall earlier this year is stark.

  • Posted By: MilesTrane21 @ 06/04/2008 4:44:36 PM

    Comment: So far, I'm hating Newsweek's movie reviews. I love their top-notch political coverage. This is my favorite News magazine as far as that goes, but their movie reviews have just been AWFUL. Now this could have to do with my disdain for pretty much all critics ("I'm a fan with a huge ego that is always right and always has the right to tell you that you have bad taste"), but I'm pretty sure I'm hating Newsweek's the most.

  • Posted By: CaptainADD @ 06/04/2008 4:04:56 PM

    Comment: As someone on another fourm put it:
    "The reason that men hate Sex/City is that IT is sexist towards men. And it is responsible for thousands of unhappy women who are looking for "Mr. Right", or do not have the money to wear those clothes, or have those apartments, or those frickin shoes they always talk about, or have tight bodies from having personal trainers.It recreates and reinforces the ridiculous standards and stereotypes that woman are supposed to adhere to."

    In summation, Sex and the City is resposible for thousands upon thousands of women's pain and suffering.





    It recreates and reinforces the ridiculous standards and stereotypes that woman are supposed to adhere to.

    In summation, Sex and the City is resposible for thousands upon thousands of women's pain and suffering.

    • Posted By: sjpersonal @ 06/05/2008 2:28:34 PM

      Comment: Any woman that needs a movie about fictional people to define who they are, are just sad individuals. This is a movie, this is entertainment Period!

    • Posted By: msideas @ 06/04/2008 5:15:46 PM

      Comment: "In summation, Sex and the City is responsible for thousands upon thousands of women's pain and suffering."
      Seriously, Captain ADD. Say that out loud once, so you can hear how ludicrous that is.

  • Posted By: factsearcher @ 06/04/2008 4:03:24 PM

    Comment: This article seemed tobe written by a 5th grade boy

  • Posted By: CaptainADD @ 06/04/2008 4:00:33 PM

    Comment: Wait, you mean men did not enjoy a movie targeted directly at women with little or no intelligence put into it that isn't recycled from a thousand other movies and television shows! Impossible! They must all be sexist.

    Oh, and my girlfriend, sister, and mother do not care for SATC.

  • Posted By: allyo126 @ 06/04/2008 3:41:21 PM

    Comment: Great story. Guys do think this movie is stupid???.but it is because they still just don???t understand women, so, to them, it is like watching a foreign film without subtitles!

  • Posted By: jtl2008 @ 06/04/2008 3:21:15 PM

    Comment: I'm sure the first woman to have a realistic shot at being the leader of the free world would identify well with a group of women who "empower" themselves through the latest trend in purses and sexual encounters. Likewise I'm sure those four women would sit around drinking pink cocktails discussing what a wonderful plain blue dress with pearls Hillary wore as she stood by her philandering husband. Or not.

    • Posted By: kirei @ 06/04/2008 3:32:37 PM

      Comment: To each their own Jtl2008. Sex and the City is entertainment, it is not trying to get every women on this planet identify themselves with it's characters. The empowerment comes in the fact that women are speaking up for themselves, it just so happens that the topic is what it is...hello? Entertainment, heard of it?

      If I want to listen to a group of women talk about politics then I'd watch another program, there are other programs for you, don't watch ours and don't comment.

      • Posted By: jtl2008 @ 06/04/2008 3:56:29 PM

        Comment: kirei - you keep confusing commenting on this story with people commenting on the movie. I'm glad you enjoy the show and movie for what it is. I was commenting on the stupidity of this article, particularly the throwaway last paragraph trying to shoehorn in politics from the writer is clearly a disgruntled hillary supporter. As for the rest of the article, guys not liking a chickflick movie isn't sexism. I think every eddie murphy movie in the last decade has been complete trash - does that make me a racist? What about the fact that I can't believe the new stars wars movie are perhaps the worst movies ever made? Nerdist? It's called an opinion - my girlfriend was a huge fan of SATC and thought the movie was "absolutely terrible". It didnt need a NEWSWEEK article breaking down sexism... nice journalism.

  • Posted By: jtl2008 @ 06/04/2008 3:20:54 PM

    Comment: I'm sure the first woman to have a realistic shot at being the leader of the free world would identify well with a group of women who "empower" themselves through the latest trend in purses and sexual encounters. Likewise I'm sure those four women would sit around drinking pink cocktails discussing what a wonderful plain blue dress with pearls Hillary wore as she stood by her philandering husband. Or not.

  • Posted By: kirei @ 06/04/2008 3:03:03 PM

    Comment: Thank you for your comment skonswede123. Maybe men are uncomfortable with the idea that women are now more open to speaking their minds and embracing their own sexuality in a confident manner. Men don't have a problem buying the porn mags, oogling at the pretty girl that walks down the street or bragging about their sexual encounters with their friends...I guess sexual openess is ok only if it's on their terms. Get over it guys!

    • Posted By: zbbrox @ 06/05/2008 8:24:26 AM

      Comment: Err, I don't know a single guy who has a problem with women being more sexually "open". Your vast generalizations about men are offensive.

  • Posted By: skonswede123 @ 06/04/2008 2:27:06 PM

    Comment: I love that finally there is something where women can talk about men and there experiences with them. I am so tired of the way women are portrayed in every type of media. Mens magazines and tv shows its all about them as sex objects. I mean come on does a half naked woman half to be in every advertisement just to get a guys attention to a product. I love this show, I think it gives guys a taste of their own medicine.

    • Posted By: kirei @ 06/04/2008 2:55:21 PM

      Comment: Maybe men are uncomfortable with the idea that now women are speaking their minds and feeling more confident about their sexuality. Too bad guys...get used to it!

  • Posted By: thewooz @ 06/04/2008 1:42:48 PM

    Comment: Frankly, in my limited viewings of the TV show I've found it a bit degrading to women in the first place all on its' own, without any help from male critics.

    Presuming that is actually the case for a moment, isn't it bizarre to wide-brush male critics of it as sexist? Are male critics of pornography inherently sexist, since there are in fact women do not find it belittling or objectifing, and even find it empowering?

    An artistic work's credibility and value (or the degree to which it is found degrading) are not determined by the vehemence, gender, or race of the work's supportors (even if its' supporters are the ones degraded). Public support is typically fleeting anyway- you don't see allot of Germans calling "Mein Kampf" a great work of literature these days- which they once would have. Honestly, will SITC be a major feminist landmark in 25 years? Which is not to compare SITC to Mein Kampf, simply to make the point that who supports a work in no way determines its' value in an objective sense. MC Hammer cannot be compared with Motzart. Saying so does not make me racist.

    • Posted By: msideas @ 06/04/2008 1:51:02 PM

      Comment: "Saying so does not make me racist."
      ...but it does make you uneducated, thewooz. For future reference, Mozart is spelled without the 't'. If you are going to pretend to have a message worth paying attention to, try to not look like a fool. It will go far for your credibility. Great job on spelling MC Hammer correctly, though!

      • Posted By: thewooz @ 06/04/2008 2:20:08 PM

        Comment: I also (while typing quickly on my lunch break) typed "SITC" instead of SATC. I did however (since this apparently a scored event in which personal worth or intellegence are judged by typing skill and level commitment of editorial time? This is now a run on sentence. Tough.) successfully drop "vehemence" and "Mein Kampf"- to my credit I suppose? I'll just let you play judge on that one.

        Having now read your posting (and resisting all urges to attack it on the same spelling/grammar level) I suppose I can only ask you check "homey76"'s comment "I agree..." below. The ARTICLE I thought we were discussing here (rather than the movie... anyway) claims male critics don't like the movie because they're sexist. That seems to imply that it is impossible the movie might just actually stink. I honestly haven't seen it and am in no position to comment on it- nor have I. It just seems silly to think that since one group likes a work of art, those of another group who dislike the work must by definition dislike the group supporting it.

        • Posted By: msideas @ 06/04/2008 2:38:50 PM

          Comment: I'm checked. It was rude.
          You're right - the topic of these postings is the article, which questions if sexism is the reason for the passionately aggressive criticism. The author quoted a few actual critics (as opposed to people like us that just want to share), but where I suspect sexism creeping is in places like the imdb message board, where the author described posters jumping the gun on the movie even being released, and tearing it to shreds. I feel like the basis for a lot of criticism, is that SATC is a chick flick. At that point, people assume they can write it off as shallow or without cinematic value. That is where I identify sexism. A point I tried to make in my post, is that the measure of a good movie can be based on its ability to fulfill its purpose. Did Indiana Jones look sexy while reciting cheesy lines? Yes. Did I demand anything more of a blockbuster, action film? Absolutely not, and I loved the film for it. But I feel a movie, with a female target audience, has a hurdle to jump, simply because the acknowledgement of chick flick as a legitimate genre, has long been resisted.

          • Posted By: ghostmasseur @ 06/05/2008 2:47:16 PM

            Comment: msideas,

            Anyone who uses the imdb.com ratings as a basis for whether they will see a film or not is a fool. Although I have particiapted in some imdb.com boards, I ignore the ratings since the people who vote are not people whose opinion's I respect. They are, of course, entitled to their opinions but that does not mean that I will have any use for them. also the imdb rating system is so horrifically flawed that it makes exit polling seem like accurate high science.

            As for film critics, they are fairly useless too. Very few of them have the basic qualifications to make intelligent judgements or cinematic reviews (same with most theatre critics). Does that automatically make them sexist? No. Might they be sexist? Yes.

        • Posted By: thewooz @ 06/04/2008 2:31:52 PM

          Comment: Actually robinc913 says it better. But whatever- back to work...

          • Posted By: zbbrox @ 06/05/2008 8:30:48 AM

            Comment: I don't think guys write off "chick flicks" particularly more than women write off "dumb action movies". We're making broad generalizations about the tastes and attitudes of millions of people here. Critics, for instance, certainly don't treat your average "chick flick" as harshly as they treat your average Adam Sandler movie, or slasher film. Please also be advised that there is a broad and narrow meaning for "chick flick"--one which encompasses very good movies (like Shakespeare in Love, almost universally praised), and one that is mostly filled with bad-to-middling ones (straight-up Hugh-Grant-Julia-Roberts cliche romantic comedy stuff). SATC falls squarely into the latter--much more so than the show did, honestly.

            • Posted By: hammerman @ 06/05/2008 12:07:57 PM

              Comment: In response .. First off ,I am a man !! No really I am !! I love sex,sex movies,sex talk .. I joke of sex and often make ruude and obscene comments to fellow men .. But, I am sensitive to a womans needs . sometimes you have to put yourself in the womans shoes,to understand her feelings !! What makes her happy,sad and how to and where to touch her special places,both physically and emotionaly. The movie was great and brought a ter to my eyes . no surprise --I am Italian ..

  • Posted By: msideas @ 06/04/2008 1:41:59 PM