These are not the most grievous offenses. In a Redwood City California facility I tried to swim in their laned indoor pool to find old men squatting and lurking the water (like old hippos) staring at the women trying to do laps. I then moved to the whirlpool area and sat next to a young man who grimaced and squirmed and moaned in the hotter water. When I mentioned these inappropriate behaviors to the management later, they (the male management) made further insensitive remarks about this gross behavior. I told him that is why I was making this communication by telephone; I didn't want to encounter typical cavelier remarks. I never went back. It all boils down to the issue of respect. Keep your "person" and your personal issues to yourself in "public". They are two differently defined words. I don't care what you do in your own home or bedroom, but don't make me privy to it.









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