I think that for what the funeral directors, embalmers and employees have to go through they have every right to charge what they do. My husband is a funeral director and embalmer, most of the time he is out all night and then works all day and this will go for 4-5 days straight like that. They miss out on their family events have to let loved ones down all the time because they have to go on a call or meet witha family etc. etc. Then when the services start are kept out late because people stay at the funeral home. Time and services are in those prices that they quote, people need to realize that. Remember there is always two ways to look at things,
SPONSORED BY:
Ramsey Creek Preserve
Dead simple: a biodegradable pine casket
SOCIETY
A Serious Undertaking
A small, but growing, group of activists seeks to reform the funeral industry.
Jul 3, 2008 | Updated: 4:36 p.m. ET Jul 3, 2008
Email To A Friend
Please fill in the following information and we'll email this link.
SPONSORED BY
James Green is dead. He's lying on a classroom table—eyes closed, hands across his chest—while Donna Belk, who lectures on do-it-yourself funerals, explains how to wash a corpse at home. "In my experience, bodies leak a negligible amount of fluid, but you may want to put a plastic sheet down, just in case." She turns to Green: "You don't have to do any leaking." The ersatz corpse cracks a smile and the dozen students in the room shout, "He's alive! He's alive!"
The playacting is part of the annual conference of the Funeral Consumers Alliance, a watchdog group for the death-care industry that advocates simple, personalized and environmentally sound alternatives to the typical American burial.
Americans spend between $11 billion and $15 billion on funerals each year, and four major corporations account for 11 percent of the 20,000 funeral homes in the United States, tending to cluster in individual communities. The "big four"—Services Corporation International, Stewart Enterprises, Carriage and Stonemor—own just a quarter of the funeral homes in Seattle, for example, but own 80 percent of the funeral homes in Yakima, a few hours east.
FCA members from across the country gathered in Seattle last June to attend seminars on home funerals; "green burial," including caskets made from recycled paper; and, most important, educating the public on how to navigate what many members consider a corrupt and ossified industry.
"The funeral corporations use predatory sales tactics and aggressive marketing to get people—who are in shock—to spend more than they can afford on services they don't want or need," says Joshua Slocum, executive director of the FCA.
The lobbyists for the death-care industry, Slocum claims, have pernicious influence over state legislatures. In 2006, he got a call from a Native American couple whose 3-year-old died in a hospital while they were visiting Salt Lake City. The parents wanted to take the body home to Idaho for a traditional funeral. Hospital staff refused, telling the parents that according to a Utah law passed that year, the death certificate could only be signed by a licensed funeral director, which would have meant that the body would likely have had to be given temporarily into the custody of a funeral home. Luckily, with the help of an alternative burial group, the couple was able to take custody of their child's body, but the case indicates the power the traditional funeral industry can have, Slocum argues.
"I want people to be shocked," Slocum says, "that in some states, the body belongs to the mortuary by state law. And once a funeral director has got a body in the door, it's over. They'll charge you from $1,200 to $4,000 for their 'basic services' fee. They've got possession of your dead and your wallet with the blessing of the state."
- 1
- 2
- Next Page »
Discuss