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  • Posted By: joshuaorion5 @ 07/17/2008 5:07:56 PM

    If it makes money it is going to get coverage. The more people that put interest in celebrities, the more celebrities are going to get covered. The editor shouldn't be the one put on the spot, the people that buy the magazine are the ones that need a reality check....STOP SUPPORTING BAD BUSINESS THAT PROMOTE BAD IDEAS!

    • Posted By: monique85 @ 07/17/2008 5:25:33 PM

      thats really good...i agree with you on that.

  • Posted By: cruelbuttrue @ 07/17/2008 10:17:05 AM

    First of all to all the ppl claiming they had kids young and now make all this money and are happy, blah blah blah. It's a load of crap! Honestly probably 10%, if even that, of ppl who have kids at a young age actually do good and finish school and get good jobs. So don't waste our time and pretend because we can see right through the lies. The article is definately glamorizing teen pregnancy and it's pathetic! Then ppl wonder why this world is the way it is because we have 13 years old sluts, ppl getting away with murder, profanity/violence in our music, and so much more. Jamie Lynn will end up like her sister in a few years or if she's lucky her mommy will take over like she tried with Britney and her mommy will be raising her kids!! THen we'll see how horrible those kids turn out since MOMMY Spears didn't do such a good job raising her own two daughters!!

    • Posted By: cybrsufr @ 07/17/2008 10:31:22 AM

      Amen Brother!!!!!! You said it best so far. These Liberal idiots just don't get it. I think they must be drinking the kool aid!!!!!

      • Posted By: mrsriggins @ 07/17/2008 5:46:14 PM

        Just because not everyone who has kids you turns out happy doesn't mean that no one does. I did, and it's not a load of crap. I am happily married to the father of my child and we are raising our daughter. We own a nice home with two dogs and live a good life. Why are people so ready to condemn those who get pregnant as teens? We are people too, and not any more sluts that the rest of the 80% of teens having sex that don't get pregnant. I'm not saying it's right- but when it does happen maybe people should be a little more supportive and kind to these girls and they will end up happy because someone let them know that happy is possible instead of saying they are ruining their lives- that's how abortions happen and innocent children die. I was told I was ruining my life when I was pregnant at 16- it actually was the best thing to ever happen to me. So have a better more open attitude towards because you have NO IDEA how your cruel and unthoughful remarks affect a teenager when she is already in a really tough place trying to make a decision that will change her and her life forever.

  • Posted By: thumper79 @ 07/17/2008 5:17:21 PM

    I read all these comments and one thought crosses my mind How many of you are parents of teenage children? Now how many of you have talked to your children (yes both boys and girls) about safe sex and/or not having sex at all. We as adults need to be talking to our children and teaching them what the conquences of having sex is. All the comments here are about teenage pregnancy but no one has mentioned something that is far worse AIDS and STD's. Teach children about having safe sex so if they decide to go against your wishes of not having sex at all they can at least be safe about it. I teach in a high school and you can't imagine how many kids have never had the sex talk with their parents. What they have learned about it they have seen on tv, read in magazines, learned from their friends, and then learned in health class. Let's educate our children about what is right and what is wrong. Instead of complaining about this article let's use it as a teaching moment for our kids. Teach them that teenage pregnancy is not an easy thing to do. Talk to them and let them know that if they ever have any questions that you are there for them and no matter what you will never judge them.

    • Posted By: loriw @ 07/17/2008 5:45:41 PM

      Been there done that. My kids got information that was age appropriate beginning when they were very young. Please see my post below on what happened with our family and the school. I'm not teacher bashing but you can't keep kids from being influenced by a lot of crap that's out there.

  • Posted By: princesscheri101 @ 07/17/2008 5:42:34 PM

    Alright OK! mag... Im glad that she has the money to raise a baby and hire a nany or have her mother take care of her baby. Because you know that every other teenage parent has that kind of money because the work. It was a BAD idea to glamorize her pregnancy. Spears in just a child. And God help me children should not be having a child! And to publisize everything. To make it look so easy. Because truth is being a teen mom doesn't always come having a popstar sister or an acting carreer. And not all mothers can go right back to work. Because they can't afford a sitter or daycare. So I think it would be smart to stop blowing the sunshine up the girls ass and every other teens and make them realize what she has is ***. Because it was just handed to her. The only reason she is famous is because of her sister. She is going to be a child that will be forgotten. And we will soon see her on VH1 on the Child Stars Where Are They Now. And say oh yeah she's the one who got knocked up at 16. WOW what a great way to be rememberd. I want kids to. But even at 18 I smart enough to say no or just wear a freakin' condom. If she was embarrassed to buy them she sure as hell shouldn't be having sex. WAY TO IMMATURE TO HAVE IT IF YOU CAN'T BE SAFE WITH IT!

  • Posted By: sunshine1979 @ 07/17/2008 5:35:10 PM

    I am a social worker, and one that works with teenage mothers in the foster care system. I can attest that teenage pregnancy is a tremendously big problem in the United States and that now more than ever our daughters are being tremendously influenced by the media. However, the young women that I work with could concretely tell you that by no means would Jamie Lynn Spears have led any of them to make the choices that they have and wound up in the situation they are in. Instead, they talk about being victims of sexual abuse, parents with drug and alcohol addictions, mental illness, domestic violence, parental incarceration, and absent fathers. Couple all of those "family issues" with their poor social relationships that are filled with skewed and confusing boundaries, low self esteem, feelings of hopelessness and powerlessness, peer pressure and you have yourself a whole lot of young women who find themselves mothers at an extremely young age. We need to stop looking to blame OK magazine and Jamie Lynn Spears and take a look in our own neighborhoods, school systems, and community and decide what we are going to do about our respsonsibility to raise our children into healthy, self assured, and motivated adults. Yes, it is safer and easier to blame Hollywood. But that gets us absolutely no where when the problem is in our very own backyard, or maybe "on the other side of the tracks". "They" will come on your side at some point, don't worry about that.

  • Posted By: sunshine1979 @ 07/17/2008 5:34:56 PM

    I am a social worker, and one that works with teenage mothers in the foster care system. I can attest that teenage pregnancy is a tremendously big problem in the United States and that now more than ever our daughters are being tremendously influenced by the media. However, the young women that I work with could concretely tell you that by no means would Jamie Lynn Spears have led any of them to make the choices that they have and wound up in the situation they are in. Instead, they talk about being victims of sexual abuse, parents with drug and alcohol addictions, mental illness, domestic violence, parental incarceration, and absent fathers. Couple all of those "family issues" with their poor social relationships that are filled with skewed and confusing boundaries, low self esteem, feelings of hopelessness and powerlessness, peer pressure and you have yourself a whole lot of young women who find themselves mothers at an extremely young age. We need to stop looking to blame OK magazine and Jamie Lynn Spears and take a look in our own neighborhoods, school systems, and community and decide what we are going to do about our respsonsibility to raise our children into healthy, self assured, and motivated adults. Yes, it is safer and easier to blame Hollywood. But that gets us absolutely no where when the problem is in our very own backyard, or maybe "on the other side of the tracks". "They" will come on your side at some point, don't worry about that.

  • Posted By: GyrlyGyrl @ 07/17/2008 5:22:11 PM

    Okay, the decision to have a baby whether teen or adult is the mother's choice obviously...what i'm concerned about is those teens/young mothers who can't support themselves (obviously the majority of them) and neither can the fathers...then who supports the new child?? OF COURSE THE GOOD OLD ANSWER...THE GOVERNMENT...IT'S CALLED WELFARE, and you know what the thing that makes me so upset moreso than the topic of teen pregnancy is one very closely tied with it...teen pregnancy and depending on the rest of the US taxpayers to buy the formula, milk, juice, cheese, cereal and everything else for the new baby because the young mother/father cannot afford it...oh and they get dirt cheap daycare also and free healthcare...oh and single young mothers can get every penny in taxes back...they can live as a young mother and not pay any taxes, and get catered to because they chose to have a baby, now if i chose to have a baby as adult making an average income, well guess what i get no breaks...i pay for every diaper, i pay every penny of taxes, i pay healthcare costsi pay 800% more in daycare...the govt makes it seems like having a baby as a teen or very young adult is the way to go!!! my taxes pay for babies whose mothers are taking advantage of welfare and who don't know what TRUE RESPONSIBLIITY IS!!!!! because the govt feeds them whatever they want because they are young and without income, wake up people

    • Posted By: thumper79 @ 07/17/2008 5:33:47 PM

      I'm sorry but there are adults who are on welfare and are very capable of working. I can't believe that you can sterotype someone like this. NOT all teenage mothers are on welfare. As for the fact of getting all their taxes back well if they are on welfare and not working they haven't paid any taxes in. You rant and rave about it but you get tax breaks because you have children. You get so much for having kids then a tax break if you paid day care.

  • Posted By: jenns08 @ 07/17/2008 3:09:01 PM

    I gotta say that the Spears' parents don't really appear to be the best parents in the world. I wouldn't say that they're trash...that's harsh, but I would say that w/ so many issues that something isn't quite right w/ their parenting skills. And when I saw the cover of OK! magazine I was slightly sickened. Yes she made a mistake and she just made a million dollars off of her "mistake". That seems wrong to me! Girls are so easily influenced by their favorite "stars" and I really don't think it's a very good idea to have that as a cover w/ her saying that being a mother is the best thing in the world. Now I didn't read the article...couldn't bring myself to buy it...but it wouldn't bother me as much if the article acknowledges that being a teenage mom is HARD and that she is glad that she has her baby and loves her, but really wishes she had been smarter about having safe sex. Young girls sometimes aren't smart enough to realize that Jamie Lynn has nannies and lots of cash to pay for the care of her baby! It just worries me...

    • Posted By: duncan_jr77 @ 07/17/2008 5:30:00 PM

      People are so quick to force their morality on others. Teenaged pregnancy is of course a very serious issue. The issue is not teenaged pregnancy so much as(as on of the other members mentioned) poor parenting on the part of her family. Is it really so wrong that she is happy to be a mom? So what she is drinking coffee, lots of women drink coffee, you have NO IDEA what's going on in that family. So may I suggest, take a deep breath, mind YOUR family and leave thiers alone?

  • Posted By: Sports4me @ 07/17/2008 1:59:01 PM

    This is sad. How is Jamie Lynn's teen pregnancy an "exceptional story"?? It's not exceptional at all; in fact, it is quite sad to think that such a young person can mess up her life so early. "This young girl has made some very hard choices" - Yes, very hard and very bad.

    • Posted By: mama0820 @ 07/17/2008 3:08:46 PM

      Having a baby doesn't mess up your life!! I don't know how good of a parent you are, or how motherly you are, but having a baby is the best thing that can happen to someone!! I got pregnant at 18, and wouldn't change it for anything!! I have 2 children now... and I'm very proud of that! And from experience, it doesn't mess up your life!! IT MAKES YOUR LIFE WORTH LIVING!!!

      • Posted By: Sports4me @ 07/17/2008 5:26:09 PM

        Obviously you can not read or keep yourself calm. I said at such a young age. Now if you think about it, Jamie Lynn probably had sex around 15-16 years of age since her baby was born when Jamie was 17. Teenagers at that age (15-16) are in HIGH SCHOOL working for their FUTURE. Jamie Lynn has schooling too when she's not acting or having underage sex, genius, but now she can't focus on anything else because she has to take care of an illigit baby. By the way, I'm 17 years old, not a parent/mother as you said. Some people~

  • Posted By: monicamexico @ 07/17/2008 4:51:59 PM

    I saw the pictures and they completely glamorize teen pregnancy. Both yong parents are well-rested and gorgeous, dressed well, the baby sleeps peacefully, fresh muffins are neatly arranged on the counter and the boyfriend lovingly pours a cup of coffee for Jamie. PLEASE. No one lives like this. What a joke. You should be ashamed of yourselves.

    • Posted By: duncan_jr77 @ 07/17/2008 5:23:17 PM

      Maybe YOU don't live like this, but some people do. There is NOTHING wrong with a young woman making good of a not so good situation. You live YOUR life and let others live theirs. Do you expect her to be sad and crying or would you mind if she continues to enjoy her life? You must be a very sad and angry person.

  • Posted By: SunshineGirl273 @ 07/17/2008 5:22:13 PM

    I am not judging Jamie Lynn for having gotten pregnant, but I am judging the magazine's poor judgement exercised in putting out this issue. Granted, we're all human and make mistakes but I believe in treating the problem (i.e. teen sex) not the result (i.e. teen pregnancy). We have to be more proactive in our children's sexual education and more involved in what they do and who with. Nowadays many parents think it's better to be their children's friend instead of being their mother or father.

  • Posted By: monique85 @ 07/17/2008 5:18:49 PM

    you know, it saddens me to think about what we allow in this country now and days. of course this cover glamourizes teen pregnancy. teen girls will think "o, the baby is so cute, i want one." as if they were getting a new cell phone or something. back in the day you never would see stuff like this. back in the 50's,60's,70's, even the 80's, if a young girl got pregnant out of wed-lock, no matter how famous, she was sent away somewhere or at least taken out of the public eye for a while. when we blast teenage girls, especially rich and famous, having babies on the front of a magazine of course other girls are gonna think its ok. then when they have the baby and realize that its not as fun as they thought its too late. we need to get back to our old time ways and shut this stuff down

  • Posted By: Mend30012 @ 07/17/2008 5:18:20 PM

    i don't like how big the story about her got to be, i've read other stuff where girls are going out and getting pregnant because of her, and without thinking about money and school and all that. She has the money to take care of the baby, or at least hire someone to take care of the baby, but these other girls aren't realizing that. I mostly hate the media anyways because it's like you are somebody if you are on the media, but you are worthless if you aren't, there's people out there who will do what it takes to get onto media, i think we should just leave celebs alone, let them be in movies, but other than that we should just treat them like everyone else

  • Posted By: mobaxter @ 07/17/2008 5:17:15 PM

    It maybe great to be a mother. But at a young age with money raising a baby can be maded easier. But the down side is what happen when you have no money and your young and no wherre to turn. Good Luck Jamie and baby. But the editor should show tell all the story from the good to the bad. What can go right and what can go wrong.

  • Posted By: mobaxter @ 07/17/2008 5:17:07 PM

    It maybe great to be a mother. But at a young age with money raising a baby can be maded easier. But the down side is what happen when you have no money and your young and no wherre to turn. Good Luck Jamie and baby. But the editor should show tell all the story from the good to the bad. What can go right and what can go wrong.

  • Posted By: suzq128 @ 07/17/2008 12:35:55 PM

    Instead of showing a glowing, happy teenager with her baby, why don't they show the real picture.
    Jamie's mom raising the baby while Jamie gets on with her life. Jamie pulling her hair out because her baby won't stop crying, or Jamie with little or no sleep. Get real, OK.
    It's obvious now that the only thing that matters is that you sell mags. Shame on you.

    • Posted By: yankii-chan @ 07/17/2008 5:15:58 PM

      Oh, and what is she supposed to say? 'I hate living with a baby, it's Hell! I regret every single moment!'? Imagine what kind of criticism she'd get from that! Right now, she's cornered, and she's probably confused about what to say. You get real. Being famous isn't all glamorous, you have to make decisions and obviously, a positive decision was the one she chose.

  • Posted By: debfesterbooth @ 07/17/2008 5:12:41 PM

    My .02.... I don't think anything you find in the tabloids is a good example. Who has cellulite this week? Which celebrity has legal issues?

    Sure, getting pregnant at 17 isn't the best decision for most Americans. But if a 17 year old has a baby, he/she is just as much a parent as you or me. I think people forget that Jamie Lynn IS a mother, 17 or not and if she wants to smile from the cover with her baby, why should we scorn her? "You should be in curlers and a muumuu, young lady!" I'm sure your intelligent teenagers will understand that Jamie Lynn is probably too young to be a mother, but she shouldn't be expected to mope around like some shamed criminal. I respect her for being mature about her choices. Being a (parent) certainly IS the best feeling in the world!

  • Posted By: esmack @ 07/17/2008 4:47:52 PM

    Teenage girls are not going to see the reality of this, Jamie Lynn has mega-bucks for nannies and so forth. In REAL LIFE teens wonder where the money will come from for food, rent, utilities, etc. And no nanny so mom can sleep through the night.
    Shame on OK! for sensationalizing this tragedy.

    • Posted By: yankii-chan @ 07/17/2008 5:12:25 PM

      That's why it's up to parents to show their teens the RIGHT way, and to teach them the consequences instead of letting things like this happen. So in REAL LIFE, it's the parent's fault. Not the magazine's. The magazine is simply showing Jaime's life, and how she lives it.

  • Posted By: Jade4 @ 07/17/2008 5:10:31 PM

    teenage pregnancy happends everyday, but because it happened to someone famous its a big issue. i don't think OK's artical glamorizes teenage pregnancy. i think what it did was show that someone who found themselves in a difficulty situation even at the tender age of 16, grew up and took resposibility, thats what america needs to be focused on and not down grade Jamie Lynn, because eventually its that little baby who will suffer, and i don't care how much people still want to harp on the situation. you never blame an innocent child for the wrong its parents do

  • Posted By: hipmama @ 07/17/2008 1:25:49 PM

    You are all so infinitely f*cking stupid...if you did your job as a parent, your kids wouldn't look to JLS as a "role model", they would look to their parents--that is if they were worthwhile enough to be looked up to as such. So many adults now days act exactly like "teens"-so ignorant, selfish, moronic...it's no wonder their kids think they are a joke and don't take any stock in what they have to say. Look at yourself, your actions, your life...BEFORE AND AFTER you have kids--they will find out what you did prior to having them, and you'd better have DAMN good reasons for all of it. I did not have sex until after I graduated--yes, it's true!!!! OMG!!! I wasn't fat, ugly, unpopular, etc., I just knew my parents would NOT be happy and quite possibly KICK MY ASS if I got pregnant, it is the reason I waited. Not really mindfully, but it held me back until I was 18. However, I got pregant when I was 20 and unwed, the father was 18. We worked min. wage jobs, it was not easy. I contemplated abortion, and the guilt from even CONSIDERING it plagued me for years, to the point of severe depression. I love my daughters so much, they have made life complete. Yes, that's right--I gave birth to my firstborn in 1997, then another in 2000, then another in 2004. WITH THE SAME MAN WHO I MARRIED IN 1999, when the time was right. We did the right thing--by us and by our daughter. I commend Jamie Lynn for not taking the EASY WAY OUT, the COWARDS way out, like most peice of sh*t teenagers would now days. I HATE what I am seeing with teens and adults--selfish f*ckers who don't deserve to breathe my air. Thank you for having a conscience, Jamie. Thank you for having a heart, and a soul, and giving your baby a chance. JUST A NOTE TO ALL THE BITTER MOMS OUT THERE: I have not once thought my freedom or life was stolen or ruined by my kids. They have not spent one minute in daycare, ever. They have only been babysat by Grandparents, Mom and Dad and my best friend a couple of times over the last 11 years. I don't go out barhopping, I don't go to strip clubs, I don't cheat on my man. I guess that's why it doesn't bother me to be home with my husband and kids. We are happy because we are functional, not dysfunctional. You choose your destiny--My husband and I worked opposite shifts and had one vehicle for 4 years to make ends meet and make sure our kids were cared for properly (not by a sitter). It was hard at times, but so worth it now, rewarding to say the least. Our kids are happy, well adjusted and behaved. Most of all, they RESPECT and LOVE us. Your kids only give back what they are given, remember that.

    • Posted By: aquamorphine @ 07/17/2008 5:03:09 PM

      Are you trying to flaunt your pregnancy to the public? You have no right to rant whatsoever to the crowd about the positive effects of teen pregnancy. Being a teen myself, I am able to decipher between good or bad. And this, the situation, you had brought yourself into, is not a good thing at all. You, with your 'luckiness' of how wonderful your child was, are trying to explain that Jamie Lynn did no wrong. It is, obviously, a mistake. Her fiancee isn't there anymore, unlike the situation you said yourself to be in. Would you not say that she had not commited a horrible mistake?

      You sound like you're trying to be a saleswoman about this subject of teen pregnancy.

    • Posted By: Mommy4ever88 @ 07/17/2008 2:36:16 PM

      I do agree that children do not ruin your life and if you are responsible and loving to them then you are giving them everything they need.
      You sound like an amazing mom and we need more moms like you. :) :) :)

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