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  • Posted By: jessicapuentes @ 07/17/2008 12:40:42 PM

    The first thing I thought of when I read the article in OK magazine was how they overglamorized the pictures. Yes I understand she is acostomed to a different kind of life that most teen mothers will never experience, but when impressionable (dumb) teenage girls see these kinds of stories it only makes them want that kind of life too. "If Zoey101 can do it. . . so can I" and don't for one second think that teens don't idolize their favorite young stars. The pictures that were taken just made me laugh. I can accept the cover shot, any mother will pose for a picture like that but flip the pages and you see her boyfriend/fiance pouring her a cup of coffee with a plate of muffins and the baby sleeping on the counter? Give me a break. Those kinds of pictures indicate children playing house and its laughable.

    Not once in the article did I see reference to her age. I mean I know most people are aware she is a minor but still. I didn't read questions about the hardships she'll face being a young mom. I just read fluff about how great it is to be a mother and how she can get her body back.

    Dang. . . I want to have a kid now too! ha ha ha kidding. . .

  • Posted By: ChazzyChaz55 @ 07/17/2008 11:29:08 AM

    Regardless of her age, and she's not the only one, she is still a mom now. Is she suppose to look at her baby girl as a mistake? She is happy, as most mothers usually are when they have a baby, and somehow she is the one glamourizing teen pregnancy. Seriously, you people need to grow and realize that really it isn't the stars that are making young girls get pregnant. It's the parents not not paying attention to their kids and teaching them to know that having a baby at 16 will most likely make you grow up too fast.

    • Posted By: Kammysmama @ 07/17/2008 12:40:10 PM

      Thank you! You just said what I wanted to say. How can you call such a precious little baby a mistake? That is just not right. And in that she is "glamourizing" teen pregnancy. That is rediculous. Thank you!

  • Posted By: trctex @ 07/17/2008 12:40:03 PM

    Thanks to the Spears family 2009 will see a rash of young teens dropping their copycat babies to join in the fun of being a parent. The picture is of a young teen holding a baby, not an Americal Girl doll! As long as the kids bring in the megabuck, Mom and Dad are elated at the new grand kids, too bad the copycat kids won't be able to have $1MM paid to Mom for their pictures.

  • Posted By: xaveriijade @ 07/17/2008 11:35:44 AM

    I think the photo shoot in OK! says it all why teens should not have babies. The baby is in a bouncer on a countertop (which should never happen, a bouncer should never leave the floor for any reason) and neither parent had an eye or a hand on the child. What OK! and Jamie Lynn did by publishing those ridiculous pictures was irresponsible, and certainly glamorizes teen pregnancy.

    • Posted By: Kammysmama @ 07/17/2008 12:36:10 PM

      It is not bad to have the bouncer on the counter when the baby is young and isn't moving around a jumping around. People do it all the time. Grown women do it. It isn't a big deal.

  • Posted By: trctex @ 07/17/2008 12:35:33 PM

    It's very apparent that Britney and her younger sister are representative of a childhood where their parents gave them Carte Blanche to do as they pleased as long as they were bringing home the mega paychecks. The cover picture is of a young teen and her child, it's not of a young teen holding her American Girl Doll. Copy cat babies will be everywhere come early 2009, thanks to the Spears family, well done!

  • Posted By: thomas17 @ 07/17/2008 12:35:06 PM

    OK magazine is trash for your teenagers mind, but guess what that is what they read. OK magazine knows this and that is why they paid her $1 Million for the photo/interview shoot. They know teenagers would buy this magazine for $0.50 and still turn a profit. Based off that notion they had to have known that it was a moral issue that would glamorize teen pregnancy and get them more attention than it deserves. Their arguement of "wanting to tell the truth" is pathetic one at that and shifts the guilt they may feel to the industry of journalism. Everyone knows that a picture speaks louder than words, especially to teens. Journalism is reporting the facts, not glamorizing it with airbrushed photo shoots.

    Having said all that I hold nothing against this girl for looking out for the best interest of her future and doing the story. To know that these *** magazines pay this much for a story is insane!

  • Posted By: M.Singer @ 07/17/2008 11:46:09 AM

    Whetehr any of you want to admit it or not sex outside of marriage is wrong. Thats not my opinion thats a fact stated by God. This shouldn't be an issue it is wrong, They should not have put this on the cover. This kind of stuff is why Jesus had to take the penalty of death for us, We always break Gods Laws and we are all doomed to hell, unless we are willing to accept the fact we are all guilty and ask for forgiveness and receive the promise of eternal life that was given when Jesus came back from the dead and went up to heaven.

    • Posted By: Nel95 @ 07/17/2008 12:00:51 PM

      Many of the laws in Leviticus were based on sound scientific reasons, even if that was not known back then. Teenagers should be taught to refrain from having sex because they just aren't emotionally prepared to handle the consequences, if for no other reason. Having a baby changes everything and for most girls, it ruins their lives. It ruins their chances to really have a good life, and it certainly is the children who will pay. Been there, done that, still trying to mop up after 34 years.

      • Posted By: Kammysmama @ 07/17/2008 12:32:25 PM

        Obviously teenagers (at least teenage girls) are capable of having sex and dealing with the consequences since they have been doing it for hundreds and thousands of years. You just took God words and turned it around to fit YOU.

    • Posted By: TequilaMockingbird @ 07/17/2008 11:47:31 AM

      What about for those of us who don't believe in god?

      • Posted By: MissRed @ 07/17/2008 12:04:20 PM

        Exactly! What does God have to do with this???
        This is killing me! The amount of excuses using God as a shroud against reality.
        OUR KIDS WILL SCREW! No matter what!
        Teach them how to do it right. How to protect themselves. About RESPONSIBILITY!
        Making babies for fun, is not responsible.
        That's a REAL LIVE HUMAN! Not a doll, not a puppy and certainly not an accessory.

        The generation gap is shrinking and we can change this by being the responsible adults with our children.
        Yes, teenagers are children, too! Remember??
        And if we don't guide them, then at least let's be wise and allow Sex-Ed back in the schools.
        (Thanks a lot Bush! You big fat idiot!)

  • Posted By: jncjj @ 07/17/2008 12:31:55 PM

    I was a teen mom. I was married at age 16, chose to have a baby at 17, had another at age 20. I won't say it was easy but I am now 54 and I would not change a thing. I had the most wonderful experience growing up with my children. Life is what you make out of it, young, old, rich or poor. I am proud of Jamie Lynn for taking on the responsibility. She could have easily gotten out of the pregnancy but she chose to give life.

  • Posted By: luvact @ 07/17/2008 12:31:52 PM

    Do not listen to them, it is bad to be pregnant teen. Emotionally, physicly and financially. All those stars-they have money to support early and late pregnancies, but unless you or your parents have millions in the bank account, then no way. It pretty easy to get pregnant and not that hard to be pregnant, bu tyou have to raise child and not all capable of doing that.

  • Posted By: AWESOMENESS @ 07/17/2008 12:28:38 PM

    I have nothing really to say to Miss Spears or about her family except I hope she does what is best for her child and loves it to the best of her ability. I hope she understands that she is not the center of her life anymore... which I think would be the hardest thing about parenting... especially for someone as young as she is. Regardless of this story, I believe parents need to take charge of where their children are, who they are hanging with, what they are watching, what they are consuming, etc. The government and schools keep wondering how to instill honor and morals into OUR children... operative word here... 'OUR' !!! We are the parents! They are our children and they need guidelines from us. Don't be ignorant... sex and drugs are rampant in this society... don't trust your children... they will lie to you. Children need to be sheltered more so than they are now. Teen sex should NOT be the norm. It should be abhorred! They are still growing children and don't understand the consequences of most of the mistakes they will make until they are older. This is not coming from an elderly, bitter woman... I am twenty two years old and am glad to say my parents guided me and my decision-making abilities until I moved out of the house. I made a lot less mistakes than I would have if I was not sheltered the way I was. I have a son who I will be just as strict with as my parents were with me. I will love him to death and help him become the great man I know he can become.

  • Posted By: sparkles0604 @ 07/17/2008 12:26:56 PM

    so who else thinks she needs a dna test? OK can do a story on that too.

  • Posted By: Sandy4of6 @ 07/17/2008 11:50:09 AM

    The comments I've read are mostly focused around blaming OK! magazine for glamorizing teen pregnancy and fear that tons of girls are going to want to have their own cute little babies. There is something VERY wrong with what this says about young people AND their parents. Is no one believing that teenagers are capable of learning there are consequences for their actions? Where are the parents or guardians that should be teaching young people they are in control of their own behaviors and attitudes?

    I'm concerned for the future of any girl with a baby at 16. Financial security will help provide for the needs of the mother, father and child. But what the child needs most is love, and that includes the selfless act of the parents learning how to take responsibility for themselves.

    A young girl on the brink of a promising career chose to give her child life rather than see it as an obstacle that can go away with one quick visit to an abortion facility. The father could have run the other direction. In other words, I don't see what these young people are trying to do as a selfish decision at all. I say give them a chance and lets hope things go well rahter than wish disaster upon them.

    Jamie Lynn, you could have chosen abortion and the world never would have known. I hope at some point you will talk to the world about learning to take responsibility for your bahavior and the joy and happiness it brings, far beyond any fortune or fame. By choosing to give your baby life you have saved yourself decades of agony and regret. I wish you all the best.

    • Posted By: nylina @ 07/17/2008 12:23:36 PM

      you obviously don't deal with todays parent/child relationships. 99% of parents aren't telling their kids the right way of doing things......and kids are nuts! Thet have no impulse control, it hasn't developed yet. Didn't you read about the teen girls who made a pact to get pregnant because they thought it would IMPROVE there lives.........nuts..........we,re all nuts, and that jesus lady is nuts too, get that log out of your eye and stop posting it to others that YOU judge as judgemental...........nuts!

  • Posted By: calipzo22 @ 07/17/2008 10:27:39 AM

    I cannot remember who posted it but a TEACHER said it best, Jamie Lynn's situation is very unique. A 15 year old can't get out of bed for school, do you think the 3am feedings, the crying and all that other fun stuff is "the best feeling in the world"? NO! Jamie has the money to pay for the mistakes she's made; most girls in her situation would be ostracized and for a teen; that's a big deal. I've seen girls cry about being made fun of for wearing something; do you think they'll be able to handle the jokes about being pregnant. There is no rush to get pregnant; we should be glamorizing have a life, going away on vacations with your friends, enjoying a care free college life, getting your first paycheck, moving out, getting engaged, buying a house, ect. the pregnancy will fall into place, when the time is right...kids, you have your WHOLE lives a head of you; don't screw it up by getting pregnant at 15...plus at 15 no young boy wants to stick around and be a dad...be serious. granted, a child is a blessing but a 15 yr old will never be able to accept that type of responsiblity.

    • Posted By: eparrish62 @ 07/17/2008 12:17:38 PM

      This was so well said. Although I believe that in any unplanned major circumstance there are people who are unlike statistics that can pull through and be the 3% who are different. I do feel that JLS and her story are unreal, everything is "perfect" .... Her story just seems so fake, like she wants people to think she has everything under control. It's like watching a cheesy movie or something. Hopefully in six months she does a real interview looking all haggard and worn out like a "real" person. (I don't really wish that, I just waish she would be real, no props; bagels, coffee, fake smiles..... Best wishes.

    • Posted By: cedarridge @ 07/17/2008 11:05:35 AM

      hi there, maybe you should keep your unrational opinions to yourself. just because YOU wouldnt have been able to accept such responsibilities at the age of 15 doesnt mean others cannot. i, myself took on such things at the age of 15 and contrary to your belief i finished school, enganged the father (who was 16 at the time AND STUCK AROUND), and will be graduating from college next year. if you ask me ive done a damn good job of providing a life for my child. and i am in a very happy place in my life. not everything is about you or your own life. once you have a child you understand that your priorities change dramatically, and paraties, friends, and vacations arent really as important as people, such as yourself make them out to be. SEVERAL young teenage mothers are a great success, and they will always be the best they can be in their childrens eyes. so please, dont be so narrowminded.

  • Posted By: heathersopinion @ 07/17/2008 12:17:36 PM

    its not up to jamie lynn to talk to the tweens who idolize her...its up to the parents to explain that its not all fun and games. I think also that those scandals they publish have EXACTLY the same amount of negativity as you all talk about. let the magazine be responsible and fair for once, and let the parents explain the rest. did you know that some places and schools offer childcare classes that make you take home baby dolls whom you have to change and feed and they even cry for you to just comfort. they wake up at night and cry uncontrollably. have you ever seen the show baby borrowers? they do a great job of showing how each stage of childhood is for real. i also want to say that not all people who have babies as a teen are irrisponsible and their parents dont all take on the responsibilities for them. alot of the times the teens are more responsible than their peers!!! like i said, its up to the parents to let the children know its not all fun and games, not jamie lynns

  • Posted By: Mommy4ever88 @ 07/17/2008 11:51:36 AM

    Everyone on here that disagrees with this can get a life. People are going to do what they want to and if a teenage girl wants to have a baby at 16 then so be it. The birth of a child should always be celebrated. ITS NEW LIFE! Its such a beautiful thing to go through and no one should judge because im sure your not perfect too. Americans these days are so caught up in other peoples stuff that they dont realize that they need to be looking and fixing their life first before saying anything. A BABY DOESNT MESS UP YOUR LIFE! My daughter was born when I was 19. She is the only reason i am the person i am today. I go to school. I work. I make better decisions. I can honestly say that she changed my life for the better. STOP JUDGING EVERYONE. IF YOU WANT TO HATE AND FIGHT...GOT TO IRAQ. This is America and people will do what they want. UNLESS YOUR PERFECT THEN KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!

    • Posted By: JHellsing @ 07/17/2008 12:17:08 PM

      I seriously doubt she "wanted" to have a baby. More like she was screwin around and "woops I'm preggo." At the time she "didnt have a boyfriend" anyway. I just find it hilarious how badly minority communities get criticized for these things, but this is defended. What exactly is the difference? Is it the fact she's rich or what?

    • Posted By: M.Singer @ 07/17/2008 12:04:52 PM

      A little bit of truth and a lot of ERROR!
      Jesus said "why worry about the speck in your brothers eye when you have a log in your own". you were right in that part. He then said "first remove the log in your own eye then you can se clearly to remove the speck from your brothers eye". You are not seeing clearly yet. He also said whoever is without sin let them cast the fist stone. you are right there also. It is also written there is no judgement for anyone who believes in Jesus. You need to find out what that means.

  • Posted By: benotconformed @ 07/17/2008 12:15:40 PM

    In a culture that finds life so easily disposable, I find it refreshing that Jamie Lynn embraces motherhood- trials, suffering and joy! It's encouraging to see a young person willing to place another above herself.

  • Posted By: sparkles0604 @ 07/17/2008 12:04:54 PM

    This mag did glamorize teen pregnancy. I am not blaming the tabloids for making teen pregnancy sound so awesome. If a 16 year old girl has a baby out of wed lock it still is having a baby by a baby. Then there is a story saying how her life is amazing and awesome and then you will have other teens thinking they can have an awesome life if they have a baby at a young age out of wed lock. Teens and children are gulible. The difference between Jamie and normal teens is she has money from doing a tv show. Her "so called" baby's daddy got a job and they will live happy ever after because she already has money. Normal teens doing have money already and most times the baby daddy doesnt get a job and doesnt help he leaves. Jamie has a fairy tale and other teens will think that is how their life will be if they have a baby. But the that isnt what will happen.

  • Posted By: 012beaches @ 07/17/2008 12:04:24 PM

    Famous or not we are all faced with the same hurts , shame,dissappoinments, failures and success this does not mean that its right for a child to behave in this manner and yes mistakes happen to the best of us greatness comes when we face our mistake or life lessons and own up to them she has shown like many young girls poor or rich to be great by keeping the life they carelessly made and making the best of bad situation many ppl decides to have abortions even thoughs that can afford a child decides to do away with there shame, but i salute you young girls that give it all you gat and brought this babies in the world ...hats off to you But remmeber A LESSON IS NOT A LESSON BUT IF LEARNED!!!!

  • Posted By: breathe78 @ 07/17/2008 11:53:07 AM

    im sorry last time i checked OK mag. and all other media outlets were business's, they are in the business of making money. Magazines, movies, tv, music, and all other easy scapegoats are not responsible for raising our children. They went this the story that makes them the most money. Exactly what they should do. I am the father of an 8 year old son and I certainly dont expect him to get his values from TV, radio, or any of that other crap out there, I speak to my son about the right way to treat women, about drugs, and about what is right and wrong, and if he makes mistakes I sure won't blame some magazine.

  • Posted By: Shea67 @ 07/17/2008 11:44:47 AM

    I think that this cover of Jamie Lynn is sick and twisted. It makes her look like she has this perfect life with the perfect house, perfect baby, and perfect family. I would not let my children see that even if they begged me. She is not a hero for what she did and she has no business flauting her baby around either.
    What ever happen to telling about all the sleepless nights, the dipers, the puking, how its a 24/7 job to be a mother and how tired she really is.

    I am sorry but to a tween, trust me I work at a school, they are thinking about having babies young to be just like Jamie Lynn. They think its great that shes going to get married and have a family so young they assume that its going to be the same way for them if they have SEX at 12 and 13!!! They assume that its all going to be taken care of as they can be just like Jamie Lynn Spears.

    OK! You should have stuck to your morals on this story and told them that it is sick and discussting that they would want to SELL their baby photos for $1 Million. And have them break the story like its perfectly normal. Thats just wrong. I am sorry but some one needs to knock some sense into the Spears family asap. It needs to be done before more girls get pregnant just to be like Jamie Lynn. OK! You sicken me.

    I agree with Miss Red and benellylove, we need to start teaching our children about birthcontrol and safe sex practices. Its sad that we have to teach that at such a young age but its become a very BIG problem.
    This is a scary and very REAL problem that we have on our hands and this article needs to be taken off the racks as soon as possible!

    • Posted By: C-chika @ 07/17/2008 11:50:18 AM

      WOW. Thank you. I just could find the words

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