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  • Posted By: quezzers @ 07/17/2008 10:54:53 AM

    Don't buy the magazines that are catering to her cashing in on her baby. We as a society cannot glamorize this teen pregnancy. She is the only teen mom I have ever seen that has a house and maid to go along with her illegitimate baby. Get real and let's be a little more discreet Jamie Lynn. She is selling out for her own financial gain....just like her mom. Call it what it is...Sluts.

  • Posted By: cmolinar @ 07/17/2008 10:53:29 AM

    MzJnkns84, being a mother is a blessing the best kind of blessing there is in life. Just because she's a teen doesn't mean that she can't feel the same joy in being a mother. Who are we, the public, to say that she should have given her baby up for adoption or the alternative just to set a good example. In case you didn't know this, it's the PARENT'S responsibility that their children don't have sex as teens or if they do to make sure they use protection. It is NEVER a celebrity's job to teach our children.

  • Posted By: JHellsing @ 07/17/2008 10:39:36 AM

    Funny. Teen pregnancy in minority communities is rampant, and I dont see any of them getting the cover of magazines. It just amazes me the biased interpretation of things in this country. I guess now it'll be considered "cool" by the suburban teen girls and babies will be their new fashion accessory. Teen pregnancy is terrible, and something that should be discouraged, not glorified by some blond teenie bopper princess.

  • Posted By: calipzo22 @ 07/17/2008 10:11:20 AM

    It all starts with parenting; parents have to discuss sex with thier children (If you haven't noticed, girls are attempting to mature at a much younger age) Granted schools do the job of explaining sex and it's ramifications but reinforcement from the parents to wait until you're "ready" (married, financially stable, ect) I am constantly surrounded by teenagers and from years of experience, a 15 year old doesn't have the mentally nor fanancial stability to properly care for herself and a child at the same time. The children that get pregnant in their teens be very humble and grateful to the members of your family that took care of your child while you graduated from HS and college...children deserve to come into this world loved and taken care of, not babysat by someone's mother while you finish getting your life together.

    • Posted By: L&D.Q @ 07/17/2008 10:26:25 AM

      I would just like to say that I am 18, married with an almost 3 year old little boy and Im pregnant again, due Jan. 14th. I still graduated highschool and Im attending college. To the people that say a mom and dad should raise their children not family members..me and my husband raised our son all the way. He was in daycare like many other children while I finished school and my husband worked. Jamie Lynn is courageous for keeping her child and having to deal with close minded people like you. Teen pregnancys happen everyday and just because she is in the public eye doesnt mean she is not dealing with the same pressures every other teen is.

      • Posted By: calipzo22 @ 07/17/2008 10:51:14 AM

        Teen pregnancy happens everday...see, that's our first mistake...accepting that as the norm.
        Secondly, you don't get a pat on the back for doing the right thing, it's what is expected of you. You're suppose to take care of your baby and be a productive member of society
        I don't believe you were 110% happy when you found out you were pregnant at 15. In fact, I think you'd be more excited to find out you didn't have homework that weekend; you're highly immature and you should know better than to say you're life is perfect; for someone so young, you should be telling people that your life journey thus far has been very difficult.

  • Posted By: Pochacco1986 @ 07/17/2008 10:50:28 AM

    I agree with Hikari. I work at a Target, and the only ones I saw interested in Jamie Lynn's magazine cover were little girls. Nobody even bought that stupid magazine. It is ridiculous that she is up there smiling like an idiot like being a mother at 16 is so cute. All she is is another statistic: a teen girl getting pregnant at a young age. She's not going to be sitting there smiling for long when life really hits her and her lame boyfriend. And it hope it does hit her, b/c it would give her and these other little idiots a serious reality check.

    And btw black eyebrows and blonde hair is not cute, and Jamie Lynn looks like a man.

  • Posted By: kyliesmom1115 @ 07/17/2008 10:40:28 AM

    I think that the cover does glamorize Jamie Lynn and her choices. As a single mother myself I know it would be a "breeze" if I had someone to help me out with my child all the time or I did have millions of dollars to pay someone to do it. I am one of the mothers who does not allow Zoey 101 on. Sounds crazy but the world has turned into some sort of "if it feels good do it" society in an age where it is not only dangerous it can be fatal. I don't want my daughter thinking that she can do as she pleases and there are no consenquences for her actions. She is not famous and doesn't have the money to make a teenage pregnancy "be the best thing that ever happened." IF raising children was such as easy task The Nannie would be out of business.

    • Posted By: almadeus @ 07/17/2008 10:49:56 AM

      God says: "That's my point. You are supposed to get all the help you need....and more...from family, friends, community and church."

  • Posted By: PassionDiva @ 07/17/2008 9:58:28 AM

    My question is to those of you who are saying that the media is glamorizing teen pregnancy. IF you think this is ture then you are not involed in your kids lives. People need to stop looking at the media for parenting advice and step up to the plate. Teens are having babies everyday yes it is sad and they have lost their childhood for ever,BUT if you talk to these teen moms you will find that the PARENTS ARE ABSENT. You can't blame the media for bad parenting. Young boys need to be talked to about sex babies and std's just as much as teen girls. Most parents get very uncomfortable when the sex talk comes and up. SO they don't talk about it. YOU NEED TO BE TALKING TO YOUR KIDS EVERYDAY. If they ask a question GIVE THEM AN ANSWER. BY THE WAY.... The sex talk isn't a one time talk, it's a conversation that you have with your kids everyday!!! STOP BLAMING EVERYONE FOR YOUR BAD PARENTING SKILLS. Again if you are looking to te media for parenting advice you need to take some classes and step up the plate.

    • Posted By: cybrsufr @ 07/17/2008 10:03:59 AM

      You are an idiot. As a single dad of a teen daughter I talk to her all the time about this subject and we have a great relationship where we can hold very open talks and not be critical of each others opinions. BUT THE MEDIA IS STILL GLAMORIZING TEEN SEX,. It is on the magazine covers, on the N network with their DeGrassi show and other, it has even found its way to Nick with Jamie Lynn and other teen star that these 10-16 year olds look up to as role models.

      • Posted By: mama0820 @ 07/17/2008 10:12:46 AM

        Stop getting so pissy with the fact she's on a magazine rack!!!! If you and your daughter have such great "open talks" then why are you so upset with this whole thing?! You shouldn't even care about it!

        • Posted By: cybrsufr @ 07/17/2008 10:25:56 AM

          Because the media is out of control and they need to show restraint on what they report and post on their covers. they have a lot of responsibility when it comes to how people perceive subjects such as this.. I get so "pissy" because the media glamorizes these types of thing and there are idiots that think it is perfectly OK. How about if OK magazine had a cover story supporting Gangs and Drugs. Would you think thats OK also? It is the exact same thing. The media should be helpi9ning to instill morals and responsibility instead of capitalizing on every slutty story that comes along. I think you handle says it all if you are Latin you know what your name means if not then look up Mamao

          • Posted By: mama0820 @ 07/17/2008 10:49:32 AM

            my name means "mama".... which is what i'm called everyday!! You know, let me explain better so your stupid ass can understand.... "MOMMA!!!" Idiot!

  • Posted By: syd2286 @ 07/17/2008 10:49:26 AM

    Ashley13 said it all, young girls likes myelf, DO NOT need to be having babies. What ever happened to the Bible?? I am also a firm believer in marriage before sex.. Young girls don't have the power, money , or energy to take care of a kid. Enjoy your life while you are young!!!!!

  • Posted By: mama0820 @ 07/17/2008 9:56:53 AM

    it's up to parents to teach their kids about sex... and the consequences. First of all, it doesn't matter if this magazine is "glamourizing" teen pregnancy. Jamie Lynn wants to show off the pictures of her new baby... what's so wrong with that? If parents would talk to their kids in the first place about these things, you wouldn't have to worry about what Jamie Lynn is doing. Most of the people commenting on here are adults that waited to have their children til their late 20's or early 30's. And you guys are getting really nasty with the fact that she's only 16 and has a baby. A baby is a gift from God no matter what age you are!! It's a miracle! And she is very lucky to have had a healthy baby with no complications. I don't see why people could get so upset about such a little deal. Who cares if she's on a magazine rack! There's nothing a single person can do about it. The only thing you can do is explain to your kids why this isn't a good idea even though Jamie Lynn has done it. Welcome to the year 2008 people!!! This isn't the 60's or 70's anymore... a lot of teens are going to be getting pregnant whether Jamie Lynn did or NOT!! Teen pregnancy was an issue BEFORE Jamie Lynn got pregnant! People just didn't notice it as much until now! So stop coming down on her for something we had a problem with a long time ago... all you people that are upset about this whole thing make me sick!!

    • Posted By: cybrsufr @ 07/17/2008 10:09:23 AM

      The child is not a gift from gos, life is. the baby is from an irresponsible teen spreading her legs for a broke teenage boy who will now sponge off her millions. She is nothing more than a trailer park tramp. All of you liberal that think it is OK for a 14-16 year old to have kids are just plain SICK. That is what there are laws that protect our kids until they are 18 years old. The only reason this guy is not in jail for statutory is that he was not over 18 when it occured and Spears trashy mothother did not press charges.

      • Posted By: momofonegirl @ 07/17/2008 10:46:59 AM

        Why take up a jail cell with someone whose only crime was to have unprotected sex? I suppose you equate teens who are 19 and have sex with someone who is 17 equal to the men and women who molest small children. Also not everyone who has a child young is trash. I had my daughter at 16 and am currently getting my master's degree in chemistry. I am a hard working mother who has made mistakes in her life. Everyone does so hold your agner and judgment for someone who has commited a real crime.

      • Posted By: mama0820 @ 07/17/2008 10:18:44 AM

        I don't know what GOD you're thinking of, but in MY religion, as a Catholic, A CHILD IS A GIFT FROM GOD!!! IF IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE, SHE WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! I'm not saying that it's okay for young teens to have babies, but it's not exactly wrong either!! It's already been done... Let me ask you something, if you had a 16 year old daughter and she told you she was pregnant, you would be the type to MAKE her get an abortion and probably even pay for it to be done, right?!?! There's too many jerks around here like you!!

    • Posted By: momofonegirl @ 07/17/2008 10:01:05 AM

      Thank you so much. Teen pregnancy has always been an issue and if Jamie Lynn helps open up a dialogue between parents and children, then Jamie Lynn should be appreciated for choosing life and being responsible for her blessing that is a child

  • Posted By: Hikari @ 07/17/2008 10:46:32 AM

    She needs to get her skank ass out the spotlight and go back to where ever she came from. It's not something to be proud of and glamorize all over a damn magazine or t.v. it's disgusting she's not even old enough to take care of herself let alone another life. She'll probably end up just like dear older sister Britney down the road. The public has been there done that please stop covering stories about stupid people.

  • Posted By: princessmia @ 07/17/2008 10:44:10 AM

    I think it wonderful that shes happy to have her baby. We should be concerned if she was having reactions like her "adult" sister. She is displaying love for her child. This is a good thing for all mothers, young or old. The fact of the matter is she is not the first, only, or the last teen to get pregnant. Don't stimulate any discomforts for her during this mother process. So knowing this, and to stop being so judgemental about her pregnancy as a teen will help mothers build a closer bond with there daugher. Her having a baby wont get girls pregnant, sex will. Focus on that education and less on her and mothers might find that to be positive. Also, i would love for her to talk to young girls about being a teen mom, and the effects it takes on your life. That might help girls to be more inclined to be more knowledgeable about sex and consiquences.

  • Posted By: becca0601 @ 07/17/2008 10:41:46 AM

    Maybe instead of everyone commenting on how they shouldn't do it (have sex at all), maybe you should include how to be safe as well. Be for real guys! How many of you were virgins when you were married or even when you reached the age of 20...
    And when these kids have children they should probably be encouraged to do the right things as far as education and employment. Of course it'll be hard, but that's part of the whole thing about becoming a parent to soon. They'll have to know that these are the kinds of things that happen when you become a parent too soon wether your 16 or 22. I agree that is most difficult as a teen for obvious reasons. But it's hard when your 22 and not mature at all as well.

  • Posted By: dsgrl01 @ 07/17/2008 10:39:51 AM

    I agree with most people that this story about Jamie Lynn is just being blown way out of proportion and glamorized just because she's a tween star. I work in a hospital and I have seen plenty of teenagers, as young as 12 and 13, having a baby. And what about the pact made by those girl in Mass.? 15 and 16 year olds having babies. I can guarantee you that they're not going to get a million dollars for the first pictures of their babies. People, I don't know why this is even news in the media. Hundreds of teenagers are getting pregnant around the world and you don't see their stories plastered all over the media. Get over it!

  • Posted By: mykaellester @ 07/17/2008 10:37:43 AM

    I do think that a young mother can be a great mother, just because one 30 or 40 doesn't mean that they are going to do a better job then a mother under 20. BUT however I do feel it's better to wait at least in your 20's since your teen years go by so quick. Youth years are so short, it's a bummer to speed it along even quicker. It's best to have lived some life before you start raising another. I have 4 children and I am only 30, my kids are 4, 2 1/2 and 2 @ 11 months. I LOVE being a mother, and I truly think age has nothing to do with it. My niece is 20 and having her first, I think she will be a fantastic mom and I am so happy for her!

  • Posted By: GoldPanther @ 07/17/2008 10:36:21 AM

    Once again, more sweeping generalizations. I hate to tell you, calipzo22, but at 15 I would have stayed around. I had a pregnancy scare with my girlfriend when I was 16. I started planning and preparing the day she told me she was late. That's always been me. I know I am not the only one out there like that. I also realize that it is a very small percentage of us guys that would have. Any teen girl that reads this message should take notice of that. Most guys that age will let you down no matter what they say especially if they have that "bad boy" persona. Don't expect to be able to depend on them. If they turn out like me in the end, congrats. Don't expect it though.

  • Posted By: aperez1007 @ 07/17/2008 10:35:00 AM

    1 out of 10 pregnant teens become sucessful and great mothers. Opinions are great but with a sensitive subject as to inncocent children the FACTS are what really matter. Those 9 other babies are stuck in a ugly situation all because teen pregnancy is shown to be OK. Look at the FACTS and not at opinions. Opinions are only opinions after all!

  • Posted By: jojobinks70 @ 07/17/2008 10:33:31 AM

    Now that is a dumb question. Of course it does, the headline does it alone, regardless of whats on the inside, many more kids are going to just see and read the cover while standing on line in the grocery store. This is shamless exploitation at its worst. To say otherwise is ignorant. "Being a mom is the greatest feeling in the world"!?!? Did they have to put that quote up too?? I want my daughter to be saying at that age, "the greatest feeling in the world is reaching the honor role". Our society is so screwed up and their doesnt seem anyway to right the ship, as it were. I honestly worry deeply about the world my 2 yr old daughter is going to live in.

  • Posted By: Hikari @ 07/17/2008 10:31:09 AM

    She needs to get her skank ass out the spotlight and go back to where ever she came from. It's not something to be proud of and glamorize all over a damn magazine or t.v. it's disgusting she's not even old enough to take care of herself let alone another life. She'll probably end up just like dear older sister Britney down the road. The public has been there done that please stop covering stories about stupid people.

  • Posted By: trenasa @ 07/17/2008 10:06:11 AM

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    It???s hard for me to believe that in this day and time a 16 years child would want to have a child at the age of 16, but it happens. I believe that the article glamorizes a teenage girl having a baby. Your magazines would never admire an urban teenage mother and place her on the cover of their magazine with her baby and pretend it???s great and offer 1 million dollars for pictures. In fact they would call her bad names, and ostracize her and give her every bad label they could come up with. They would even go as far as blame her parents for not being good parents by allowing this awful thing to happen. The magazine mentions how exceptional her situation is. I don???t think so, there???s nothing exceptional about having a baby at 16, it???s been happening since the beginning of time. Many, many years ago getting pregnant by accident was likely to happen when you are not protecting yourself, there wasn???t a whole lot of preventive things you can do to avoid it from happening. Today, there are too many things to do to prevent it. As far as her making a handsome living, that may be true which is why she should have known better. Because of her position, with being a teen idol, or having thousands of young girls look up to her having this so called pure, innocent girl image (those are usually the ones that do the do) she should have been a little more careful. Just two months after she announces she doesn???t have a boy friend oooops she???s pregnant. It???s not cool. The message she???s sending as well as many adult celebrities is that it???s ok to have unprotected sex and get pregnant five minutes after you start dating someone. It???s ok to have children out of wedlock because you can afford too. It also tells out daughters that that it???s ok to be a single mom on purpose and be called a fiancé by accident of course, and to not marry. What is wrong with waiting? My daughter watches some Disney and Nickelodeon shows a lot of time I watch them with her as I think some of them are so far off from the real world it makes me ill. I explain to her probably every other day that, that???s not how it is and T.V is make believe. I wish that they would put a show on television that the average child can relate to, whether she???s African American, Caucasian, Asian or Hispanic. I am a 39 year old working mother of two: a 14 years old son, and a 9 year old daughter, would your magazine like to pay me 1 million dollars to have a photo shoot of me and my children in the realist setting you could be in: The Real World.

    • Posted By: almadeus @ 07/17/2008 10:30:19 AM

      God says: " All of your comments are correct....one thing though.....they are all comments about what is wrong with society........Nothing is inherently wrong with teen pregnancy."

    • Posted By: cybrsufr @ 07/17/2008 10:15:15 AM

      Quote:"ere wasn???t a whole lot of preventive things you can do to avoid it from happening."

      Yes there is and was, its called doing the right thing by keeping your legs closed.

  • Posted By: becca0601 @ 07/17/2008 10:29:05 AM

    I don't thnk that the cover glamorizes teen pregnancy/parenting at all. When did we start letting magazine covers and television teach our children about sex and relationships? I had my first child at 16 and yes I needed help. I got married and my husband had already graduated from high school so while he was working I was in high school. Even though I was so young I realized my priorities had changed and did not go out and party with friends on the weekend while someone babysat my son. I did what I was supposed to do and my son is now the age I was when I had him. We've had numerous conversations about safe sex, abstinence, and children. He's comfortable talking to myself or my husband about these situations and I'm very happy about that. And I'm happy to say that he isn't a father or a father to be. As a matter of fact he says there are girls at his school that talk about having a baby and how he tries to change their mind about it letting them know that it's more than just feeding and changing. It's late night crying, ear aches, diaper rashes, tantrums, etc.
    I just think that parents need to really speak with there children about sex, not at them but with them.

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