Ok! magazine should run an article about teenaged moms that are struggling. Not everyone has a hit show, most of these girls have a hard life. When did all of these issues become so acceptable????
Ok! magazine should run an article about teenaged moms that are struggling. Not everyone has a hit show, most of these girls have a hard life. When did all of these issues become so acceptable????
GET THE BIRTH CONTROL PILLS OUT ...START THEM ONCE THEY TURN 13
I ABSOLUTELY AGREE...ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO THINK IT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH MORALS HAVE THEIR HEADS IN THE SAND. SEXUALITY IS A HUMAN FUNCTION - IT'S OUR SOCIETY THAT CANNOT SUPPORT YOUNG GIRLS WITH NO MONEY HAVING BABIES. ISN'T IT BETTER TO SUBSIDIZE BIRTH CONTROL THAN TO PAY FOR THESE TEENS TO HAVE BABIES??
Birth Control is not the answer it only screws up the natural bodily functions and makes girls sick, why cant anybody teach self-discipline anymore? thats the real answer NOT BIRTH CONTROL!!!
Doctors have the answer for everything... lets just let them have run of our lives, if this medication doesn't work lets try five million others so that these poor people can do whatever the heck they want... wake up people this is the real world! SELF-DISCIPLINE!!!!!! or better yet LEARN TO DO WITHOUT!
I have an eleven year old daughter who was a Zoey 101/Jamie Lynn fan. When news hit that she was pregnant so young and without a husband, my daughter and her friends stopped watching the show and disliked her as a teen icon. I teach inner city high school in Michigan and see many girls pregnant. I think it is terrible that OK Magazine put her quote on the outside of the magazine to glamorize teen pregnancy!!!
This is not reality for most of the girls under the age of 18. Jamie Lynn has the benefit of wealthy parents and a older sister......Her Nanny will be taking care of her child while she's at the mall.
Teenage pregnancy is a real issue and if magazines continue to glamorize it, the situation will never get better. Maybe Ok! Magazine should have run a story about teenaged moms, who actually struggle now that they have a baby, along with the glamorized version of Jamie Lynn Spears version. Most teen moms have a hard time, not a hit show!
I don't necessarily agree that the article is glamorizing teen pregancy, however I do agree that they are not covering all the aspects of teen pregnancy and it's misleading. Try asking a teen parent that is not pulling a a celebrities salary and has the resources to hire nannies, housekeepers, does not have family support, etc. It's not bliss and it's not the best feeling in the world.
Having a baby is a blessing, but with much responsibility comes much work.
oh, please don't write anymore that "I'm sure Ms. Spears did not PLAN to have a baby". That's the problem with most people today let alone our teens. They do not think before they act. If you have sex, make sure that a baby may be in the plan.
why does my gerneration worship these celebrities that are HORRIBLE role models. I do not care if they are young and entitled to make mistakes, they impression young minds. If they are going to do something stupid they should take themselves out of the spot light. Ridiculous!
congrats jamie on your new baby. so how do you feel im glad to see you happy it is such an amazing feeling. well good luck and hopfully i will get to meet you sometime soon because your my hero.
Enter Your Comment ---Just what did jamie what's 'er name do to make her a hero in your book?
I'd like those magazines to do stories on the poor, uneducated, inner-city young girls who have babies that are being raised by grandparents; and babies that are dependent on public welfare. But that wouldn't be glamorous, and sell magazines ; would it? The children are the ones that suffer, languish in foster homes and or are abused. Every day in the newspapers there are profiles of children that need to be adopted and or placed in foster care; many of them entering their teens already! Yes, those slick, glossy pics of teenage movie stars and celebrity kids having kids DOES glamorize teen pregnancy.
I am glad that she choose to give her baby life, she could have done a much more heinous thing than have a baby. I believe every child is a blessing, but that children should be brought into a loving family relationship a mom and a dad. That is how God ordained it to be and that is how it should be. I am glad that we don't allow our children to watch trashy shoes like Zoey 101 and others that show teen girls dressing immodestly, having a attitude, etc. I for one don't believe that celebrities are the most beautiful people. Some of the most beautiful people I know go to work everday so that their wives can stay home and care for the family. America puts these people on a pedestal and then when something goes wrong we are too afraid to speak up and realize they are just people with lots of money. They aren't above us in any way. My husband pays our taxes even though it cuts into our finances but celebrities get a slap on the wrist and an "oh your a star so we understand your circumstances" what circumstances. Yes she made a bad decision, having sex before marriage but at least she didn't compound that by killing her preborn child. As for teaching children, I am glad that we have the freedom to educate at home and to keep my children's mind pure and innocent with all the liberal talk of giving 'sex ed', HIV, gay, etc education to kindergarteners. So go ahead and bash my comment, I don't have time nor do I want to come back as I can see how one sided this topic is. Besides I am sick of seeing Obama's picture on my screen.
You could have just said, "My mind is made up, don't confuse me with the facts," and saved a lot of space. And hooray for Obama if he can save us from the clutches of the "decider".
I sure wish there was a way to peer into your life when your home-schooled children bust out into the real world. Please have the humility at that time to admit your wrongheadedness....l
I think that the magazine putting the story on the cover is them doing their job, magazines don't raise children its up to the parents to instill beliefs into their child. A gossip magazine just did what it does and its not advocating teen pregnancy its simply telling a story. thats what its for. Children need to learn to make their own decisions based on themselves not the media. Its not the medias job to raise children, its the childrens families.
i agree im not gonna hold it feels grea to be a mommy. it makes you happy and your doing for you.
your incoherence can use a bit of English 101 too.
Use spell check and please, learn some grammar. Your post makes no sense.
having a baby at 17 is nothing to be proud of. the true story should be discussed, i.e. nannies, maids etc. in real life, it is a 24/7 job and i highly doubt that a 17 yr old is mature enough to handle it without alot of help.
in this day and time, there is no reason for anyone to get pregnant with all the methods of birth control that is available. don't glamourize an extremely serious life changing situation.
My first reaction when I saw this cover on the newstand was what a poor message it sends to teens, I read your justification that this is an articel about Jamie Lynn etc. etc. Unfortunately most people do not read the article, only observe the cover. I sends a terrible message to the young women who are most easily influenced by pop culture.
This is rediculous that they have indeed GLAMOURIZED Teen Pregnancy. Our society has a hard enough time educating these teens on waiting to have sex until your married. We have gone from wait until your married to wear a condom. I am a young mother myself of 3 at the age of 30, and it has been a struggle, and I wish I would have waited until I was married.
It seems like society is becoming more ignorant that TEEN PREGNANCY is a PROBLEM. And the new TV Show BABY BORROWERS, is a great way to start off, but we as parents need to educate our children, nieces, nephews, whom ever to substain from having sex until your married. If not you might as well go to your local government office and sign up for benefits for the rest of your life, so we can support you and your 8 kids, while you sit at home watching TV and grocery shop on Food Stamps. AMAZING.
I had plenty of friends that were teenage moms, and during high school it was rediculous how many were having babies, that shows the lack of parenting we have in society.
So the key to this is PARENTS ITS YOURS, AND MY RESPONSIBILITY TO EDUCATE OUR CHILDREN THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT A OPTION THAT IS THERE FOR YOU, AND THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED THEN THAT IS THE RIGHT TIME. SO HANDING OUT CONDOMS TO THEM IS A NO NO, YOU MIGHT AS WELL PLAN ON A TEEN PREGNANCY, AFTER ALL THEY AREN'T RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO WAIT TO HAVE SEX, AND YOU HANDING THEM CONDOMS JUST ENCOURAGES THEM TO HAVE SEX AND HEY MIGHT AS WELL HAVE A BABY.
Chick is doomed!!! Already has a kid, getting married. Will be club hopping at 21 and wishing she never had either. She will end up like her sister. Ok magazine has no morals but what do we expect from our media. Dude, Rob Shuter even said what shape Britt was in, isnt that a clue as to what happens to young moms, shut up lady that had a kid at 19, thats a far cry, no pun intended, from getting PREGNANT AT 16!!! Will this girl even finish high school?? Or just be another rich idiot. Lets tax the rich at 40% since they get special treatment on a daily basis. Babies having babies and OK magazine glorifies it. You are an idiot Rob Shuter and it is people like you and your ideas that make our country what it is today. Kids pregnant on drugs and making pregnancy pacts in school. How about everyone at OK magazine let thier 16 year old kids get pregnant, and lets run stories on these people. Nick at Night and Disney both need to lose her fast or they to are saying its OK.
This is rediculous that they have indeed GLAMOURIZED Teen Pregnancy. Our society has a hard enough time educating these teens on waiting to have sex until your married. We have gone from wait until your married to wear a condom. I am a young mother myself of 3 at the age of 30, and it has been a struggle, and I wish I would have waited until I was married.
It seems like society is becoming more ignorant that TEEN PREGNANCY is a PROBLEM. And the new TV Show BABY BORROWERS, is a great way to start off, but we as parents need to educate our children, nieces, nephews, whom ever to substain from having sex until your married. If not you might as well go to your local government office and sign up for benefits for the rest of your life, so we can support you and your 8 kids, while you sit at home watching TV and grocery shop on Food Stamps. AMAZING.
I had plenty of friends that were teenage moms, and during high school it was rediculous how many were having babies, that shows the lack of parenting we have in society.
So the key to this is PARENTS ITS YOURS, AND MY RESPONSIBILITY TO EDUCATE OUR CHILDREN THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT A OPTION THAT IS THERE FOR YOU, AND THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED THEN THAT IS THE RIGHT TIME. SO HANDING OUT CONDOMS TO THEM IS A NO NO, YOU MIGHT AS WELL PLAN ON A TEEN PREGNANCY, AFTER ALL THEY AREN'T RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO WAIT TO HAVE SEX, AND YOU HANDING THEM CONDOMS JUST ENCOURAGES THEM TO HAVE SEX AND HEY MIGHT AS WELL HAVE A BABY.
To the comment made by YouMustThink-
If you have ever read the two very famous stories from the Bible, the first one being called Adam and Eve and the second one being called the Resurrection, you would know that sin starts back at the beginning of time. You are not free from it nor am I as much as we would like to think we are. The shame in the story of Jamie Lynn is not that teenage pregnancy is being glamorized, it is that other teenage mothers are not being given the kudos that they deserve for rising above sin and bringing and raising upstanding citizens into the United States.
You see my comment is not based on a national survey either, however it is based on my, what I would like to call, enlightening story. I was raised in a strict Catholic family, and although I made the choice and sin of having unwed sex at 15 years old, I however was raised by two very devoted and moral parents. Although that one choice I made in life, which I off the record would make over again if given the choice, resulted in a teenage pregnancy, I would say my parents??? moral beliefs and good parenting skills did rub off on me. I gave up being a teenager and devoted my life to God, my son, school, and work. My son is now five. I am married to a wonderful man, and we bought a beautiful home about a year and a half ago. I would sell my left kidney before I would ever be on welfare because teaching my son the importance of hard work is one of the many goals I have as a mother. We are also expecting a baby girl to be born next week. To rewind in time a few years, I graduated high school early with an Academic Honors Diploma so that I could start college two weeks later after I was done with high school. This December, I will be graduating with an Associates Degree as a Registered Nurse! Also, to add a little side note to this story, I was also adopted as an infant so I do see both sides of the coin. I always wondered where my parents were and why I was not wanted by them. I believe that is what gave me the determination to show my son how very special and important he is in God's eyes and mine. If my comment will make one person in America think that maybe they should stop stereotypes of all kinds, not just on teen parents, then I feel justified in spending my precious time away from my family to write this comment. But whatever, ignorance is bliss they say. Thank you. And to the other teenage mothers out there, get your priorities straight and you can be successful!
I am a 27 year old mother-of-two, and I just graduated from law school. Most people see me as quite succesful and envy my happy marriage to a charming businessman. But once in awhile, when they ask how old my children are, and I reply that they are 10 and 13, I get a funny look. I was 14 when I gave birth to my first baby and 17 (and married) when I had my second baby. So, I can offer anecdotal evidence as to what teenagers think about other teenagers getting pregnant.
When I was thirteen and having sex, seeing other girls I knew having babies at 15 and 16 did not impact my decision to have sex or not to have sex. I was going to do that anyway. Nor did it stop and make me think about birth control. However, the fact that some of my teenage friends had babies did impact my decision to keep my baby. I knew several other girls in the community that had given birth and that we're doing okay. I even remember one girl in my church defiantly remarking that she wasn't going to go to hell just because she had a baby at 16. I thought about them when I was deciding whether to have an abortion, place my baby up for adoption, or keep my baby and raise him. In the end I kept my baby, and if that was the influence other pregnant teenage girls had on me, it wasn't so bad.
How are the kids doing with a mom who must have been gone a lot while getting that law degree? I used to do daycare and saw the difference in the kids who had parents that gave their kids the irreplacable gift of time! If you claim that they are ok, just wait and see over time what it has done. I hope your kids are the exception and truly are ok.
I am a mother of two and have been married for 10 years. I am 27 years old...yes I became a mother at the age of 17 and married the love of my life. We must face it that the onset of young woman begin a lot earlier then everyone would like to think. Giving birth to my son was the best thing that ever happend to me. For a lot of people it may not work...and it's not a great thing to begin motherhood at such a young age. But for the other half it is a blessing. No 17 year old every thinks of becoming a mother...but it happens and if you embrace it, and love what you have been givin, then being a mother is the best feeling ever. No one can point there finger's at these magazine's or at Jamie Lynn and say "oh shame shame" Get over the negative and stop judging everyone elses life.
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