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  • Posted By: sportmom59 @ 07/15/2008 12:22:25 PM

    having a baby at 17 is nothing to be proud of. the true story should be discussed, i.e. nannies, maids etc. in real life, it is a 24/7 job and i highly doubt that a 17 yr old is mature enough to handle it without alot of help.
    in this day and time, there is no reason for anyone to get pregnant with all the methods of birth control that is available. don't glamourize an extremely serious life changing situation.

  • Posted By: GIBBERS&GABBERS @ 07/15/2008 11:57:34 AM

    COME ON PEOPLE, SURE WE ALL WORRY ABOUT WHAT OUR CHILDREN VIEW, BUT THIS TOPIC IS A LOT EASIER TO DEAL WITH THEN THE ONE ABOUT THE WOMEN WHO TURNED INTO A MAN AND IS MARRIED TO A WOMEN AND SHE/HE IS HAVING A BABY. THAT EVEN MADE OPRAH!! WHERE IS ALL THE HOOPLA ABOUT THAT? HOW DO I EXPLAIN THAT TO MY KIDS!!!

    • Posted By: serenity45 @ 07/15/2008 12:21:19 PM

      But we're talking about the OK! Article..not Oprah.

  • Posted By: GivingMy2cents @ 07/15/2008 12:20:56 PM

    Jamie Lynn getting pregnant is not going to start a "trend" of teenage pregnancies and for goodness sake she also shouldn't hide in a hole from shame.

    She took a chance having sex at her age..and low and behold she was a fertile-mertile. She didn't have an abortion, which would have been more of a scandal in my opion. She also is setting the baby aside, she is showing that she is taking responsibility and loving her baby.

    Glamorizing pregnancy? Please....the kids these days are probably having more sex than ever before because of the media/movies/suggestive other things. To think that Jamie is that powerful in the opions of youth is big stretch.

    I applaud her for taking responsiblity for her actions. Let those who have never sinned throw the first stone.

    If any of you had sex when you were a teenage...now let's be honest...and didn't get pregnant the only difference is she conceived and you didn't!

  • Posted By: H's Dad @ 07/15/2008 12:20:32 PM

    Another train wreck starting down the tracks of disaster. Another horribly poor example for the young teens in "real life" society, who's "public life" role models are diisfuntional nominds that are foolishly supported by the greed of an immoral media. Socially and morally responsible parents will now struggle even harder to try to teach their children what is right and wrong, socially and morally. The media is responsible for the quanity of garabage that is presented to young teens as symbols to idolize; their parents are resposible for the quality of the garabage, supporting immoral decadence and intitlement rather than personal, social and moral responsibility. Spears, Lohan, Hilton, etc, etc. Money, drugs, rehab, sex, jail, babies...all the ingrediences necessary to get featured on the cover of a magazine and targeted at influencing the minds of impressionable young teens. Pathetic!

  • Posted By: GivingMy2cents @ 07/15/2008 12:19:56 PM

    Jamie Lynn getting pregnant is not going to start a "trend" of teenage pregnancies and for goodness sake she also shouldn't hide in a hole from shame.

    She took a chance having sex at her age..and low and behold she was a fertile-mertile. She didn't have an abortion, which would have been more of a scandal in my opion. She also is setting the baby aside, she is showing that she is taking responsibility and loving her baby.

    Glamorizing pregnancy? Please....the kids these days are probably having more sex than ever before because of the media/movies/suggestive other things. To think that Jamie is that powerful in the opions of youth is big stretch.

    I applaud her for taking responsiblity for her actions. Let those who have never sinned throw the first stone.

    If any of you had sex when you were a teenage...now let's be honest...and didn't get pregnant the only difference is she conceived and you didn't!

  • Posted By: charmedone @ 07/15/2008 12:19:29 PM

    Teenagers: whether we choose to believe it or not, are very impressionable. Yes, some of us are smart enough to understand that our choices have consequense. However, that doesn't always mean we are going to make the right choice. Getting pregnant as a teen, yes, is a mistake. But after having a baby and holding it in your arms, I think it's cruel to expect the mother to feel regret. How can you regret having a baby you feel so much love for? Jamie Lynn made a mistake: true. But shame on OK magazine, they're the ones who are publicizing it and glamorizing it. And as for Jamie Lynn all I hope is that she does a better job parenting as a yound celebrity mother than her sister.

  • Posted By: DaveeR5 @ 07/15/2008 12:18:46 PM

    This is rediculous that they have indeed GLAMOURIZED Teen Pregnancy. Our society has a hard enough time educating these teens on waiting to have sex until your married. We have gone from wait until your married to wear a condom. I am a young mother myself of 3 at the age of 30, and it has been a struggle, and I wish I would have waited until I was married.
    It seems like society is becoming more ignorant that TEEN PREGNANCY is a PROBLEM. And the new TV Show BABY BORROWERS, is a great way to start off, but we as parents need to educate our children, nieces, nephews, whom ever to substain from having sex until your married. If not you might as well go to your local government office and sign up for benefits for the rest of your life, so we can support you and your 8 kids, while you sit at home watching TV and grocery shop on Food Stamps. AMAZING.

  • Posted By: dashergirl13 @ 07/15/2008 12:17:50 PM

    OK! Magazine knew what they were doing when they put Ms. Spears on the cover and they knew the risks of backlash that could happen. I would like to believe teenage girls know to wait and that premarital sex can have consequences that they may not be ready to handle, but the media is a powerful tool of influence on everybody...young and old. They could have had another relevant topic as their front cover, but they chose what would sell.

  • Posted By: goofynana @ 07/15/2008 12:17:38 PM

    Magazine covers "Glamorize" fame,fortune,rich, and famous too much anyway. This just goes along with the normal regular visual stimulation society gives our kids/children anymore. Family, marriages,and relationships all suffer from this type of promotion! God help us all anymore.

  • Posted By: ejthomps @ 07/15/2008 12:17:19 PM

    I think this is interesting. I don't necessarily believe that the article is glamorizing teen pregnancy, however I do believe it is a skewed perception of the reality of having children as a teenager. As an adult and a mother of two, I am able to read between the lines as well as think outside of what I am reading. I am not discrediting our youth, but b/c some have not gone through these experiences yet, they are only to take the word of someone who has (that's scary to me). Let's also take into account, the Ms. Spears will have a lot of assistance with raising this child and she also has the finances. The majority of our youth will not.

    And on another note, please don't say "I don't think it was in Ms. Spears plan to have a baby", all teenagers, adults, whomever that decided to have sex, must know that this could be the plan. If you don't want to take the chance of having a baby, then we all know what you must do.

  • Posted By: Meek03 @ 07/15/2008 12:17:16 PM

    I can't believe the pictures in the issue. She is too young to be laying on bed taking pictures talking about when her and her boyfriend go to bed. What kind of example is she setting for her young fans? Why is she in her own house? She needs to still grow up and be under supervision a lot closely. She acts as though shes twentie and perfectly married. I don't agree with any of this. Its all money and they want it anyway they can get it. They should have stayed low and figured things out as a family.

  • Posted By: Ton123 @ 07/15/2008 12:17:11 PM

    I have a seven and a 10 year old daughter who both loved watching Zoey 101. My heart sunk when I heard about her pregnancy on the news. I quit watching news that week just in case one of them passes by the TV. I have even gone as far as moving any magazine that talks about her to the back of the rack. As far as my daughters are concern, God gives babies to a husband and wife. I am not naive, just trying to protect their innocence as long as possible. They will find out about reality soon enough.

  • Posted By: mullins_l @ 07/15/2008 12:17:10 PM

    The story does glamorize kids having kids and it is not "OK".
    Jamie is a child. She is a "Rich" spoiled child who can pay others to raise her child when she gets bored or has a party to go to. She does not lead an average life.
    I have two daughters myself who watch her shows on TV. I now am having to explain that it is not "OK" regardless of how much "OK" makes it appear that it is by plastering a kid with a kid on the front cover of their magazine.
    They should be ashamed. Oops, media and shame in the same sentence, is that an oxymoron?
    I guess it's anything to make a buck huh?
    I am curiouse to see when and who sues "OK" first, when their child has a child and blames it on the article from "OK".
    The whole thing disgusts me.

  • Posted By: Perfect @ 07/15/2008 12:16:46 PM

    YES, THIS GLAMOURIZES TEEN PREGNANCY. 20 YEARS AGO THIS WOULD HAVE NEVER MADE THE NEWS. HOLLYWOOD HAS TOO MUCH OF AN INVULENCE ON SOCIETY NOW. IT SEEMS HOLLYWOOD IS MAKING IT "COOL" TO HAVE A BABY OUT OF WED-LOCK. THAT IS WHY THIS WORLD IS GOING TO HELL IN A HAND BASKET!

  • Posted By: Baboon @ 07/15/2008 12:02:27 PM

    In 1956 I married my sweetheart whom is my husband of 52+ years now. We were married when I was 17 and 2 days old and my husband was 2 & 1/2 years of 21 years old. We had known each other since he was 16 and I was 12. He promised if I married him that I could finish my Senior class and I did. I took a coorespondent course out of Chicago along with my high school after we were married and our first daughter was born in November 17th., 1957. I finished my Senior Class and graduated in 1959 with the class 2 years behind me at my original school. I had waited for my husband for 2 years while he was in Korea and we wrote letters to each other almost every day.

    We have another daughter that was born 2 years & 7 months later after the first daughter. Then when the girls were 7 1/2 & 5 we had our boy. All three children are fine and we have 5 grandchildren and a Great Grand Son and are expecting 2 more Grandsons on October 06th.
    We had our ups and downs but we have never fallen out of love with each other.
    We were very responsible and both worked on farms. I hoed grass and weeds out of bean and corn fields, painted, mowed yards, etc. and my Daddy's boss paid me $5.00 a day so I bought my clothes, and school supplies for my 8th grade through the 11th grade and my Daddy gave me lunch money each day. I was reared in a very protected way and miy Daddy always told me not to ruin his name and I took that very seriously. Today's 17 year old kids are not as grown up and as responsible as I was. Of course that was my Daddy that taught me the way of life and I to this day honor him for treating me as an adult.
    Just had to express my feelings on young marriages. Mine worked because I was very much older in my mind thanks to my Daddy and the loveable husband that I have had all these years. Today kids have a lot more than I did and does not even have to work for anything necessarily so they need to grow up first, be responsible like having a job of their own and to be responsible for their own actions. Thank you for letting me express my life so far. BJP

    • Posted By: ThinkAboutThis @ 07/15/2008 12:16:35 PM

      There are still some children that were taught the value of hardwork by their parents in these days too believe it or not. I am fortunate to be one of those children. Praise the Lord because I too was a "teen parent" and I need the values that my parents taught me to raise my own son. Five years later, I am proud to say I have never even considered welfare. My son has thrived and is becoming so smart. My husband and I own a beautiful home that we have both worked very hard to afford, and I will graduate in December with a Registered Nursing degree. Teen parents, depending on what type of parenting they themselves received, mature on a faster level than you could imagine because they have to. I would never promote teen parenting, but if it did happen to your son or daughter, wouldn't you want he or she to know that success and "happiness" is still within their reach?

  • Posted By: LawyerDad @ 07/15/2008 12:16:30 PM

    I asked my two sons, ages 16 and 14, about this and asked their opinion. They are both appalled.

    My 16 year old son said, Dad, I'm embarassed for the US and for my generation.

    I said, why are you embarassed for your generation?

    He said, think about it Dad. The world sees Britney Spears
    and Paris Hilton as the face of my generation.. How would you feel?

    He has a point.

    LawyerDad

  • Posted By: 6grteacher @ 07/15/2008 11:05:07 AM

    Teenage pregnancy has been around for generations. Should we glorify it? Not really but we shouldn't pass judgment. We do not know her personally nor do we know the entire circumstance. I read the story out of pure curiosity. I found her to be happy and blessed. Happy Birthday, Maddie Briann!

    • Posted By: LiveLoveLaugh @ 07/15/2008 11:22:42 AM

      happy and blessed? HELLO???????? the baby is weeks old, surely anyone would say that the child is the best thing that ever happened, they are on a high. Come back in say 3 maybe 4 months, when you haven't had sleep, the dishes are piling up, dirty diapers smell permeates the entire home, and you look 10 years older.

      We certainly can pass judgment. She is on the cover of a magazine at 17 holding her child she conceived at 16 while unmarried and living at home with mommy.

      TEEN PREGNANCY IS 100% PREVENTABLE - IT SHOULD NEVER EVER EVER BE GLORIFIED! TEENS HAVING BABIES IS A CRIME AND HURTS ALL OF US.

      • Posted By: 6grteacher @ 07/15/2008 11:26:50 AM

        YES! Blessed! I know older parents of young children not handling parenting that well. Is it wrong that she is on the cover of a popular magazine? ABSOLUTELY! But this is a human being! Get over it.

        • Posted By: moralsrkey @ 07/15/2008 12:16:18 PM

          Yes, a human being that is all over the cover of grocery store magazines who could not pass judgments? especially young kids who are still developing what is right and what is wrong!!! how do they know that her huge smile and cuddling a baby on the FRONT PAGE was a mistake... especially when the don't see the piles of money behind her and the one she sits on or the golden crib she will put her baby in... the kids just see --young girl--baby--eternal bliss

  • Posted By: enuffznuff98 @ 07/15/2008 12:15:54 PM

    "I don't think teenage girls wil decide to get pregnant just because a Jamie Spears did!!!"

    then you don't know many teenage girls. i'm a teacher and i can tell you that you'd be surprised at what teenage girls can get into their minds. 13 year olds and 15 year olds have different ways to rationalize things. and it also has a great deal to do with the PARENTS and SIBLINGS! if mom had a kid young, guess who's probably more likely than ANYONE to have a kid young? you get one guess and the first one doesn't count.

    this article is wrong, plain and simple. it doesn't matter what the article says really, the fact that a teenage mom is happily holding a cute little baby is enough to make some young girls think...'aww, i want a baby too!' if you don't realize that...PLEASE don't procreate!

  • Posted By: realitycheck04 @ 07/15/2008 12:15:53 PM

    I was at the supermarket and saw the magazine on the stands- initial response- my heart sank. Its one thing to annouce that she is pregant, totally another to publicize and showcase her and pay her for her indiscretion and lack of common sense. We have too many teen pregancies, your publicizing a teen who is suppose to be a role model for other young girls. In some instances you have to stop thinking about selling magazones, and have a moral conscience.

  • Posted By: kmc_esq @ 07/15/2008 12:15:30 PM

    I am a 27 year old mother-of-two, and I just graduated from law school. Most people see me as quite succesful and envy my happy marriage to a charming businessman. But once in awhile, when they ask how old my children are, and I reply that they are 10 and 13, I get a funny look. I was 14 when I gave birth to my first baby and 17 (and married) when I had my second baby. So, I can offer anecdotal evidence as to what teenagers think about other teenagers getting pregnant.

    When I was thirteen and having sex, seeing other girls I knew having babies at 15 and 16 did not impact my decision to have sex or not to have sex. I was going to do that anyway. Nor did it stop and make me think about birth control. However, the fact that some of my teenage friends had babies did impact my decision to keep my baby. I knew several other girls in the community that had given birth and that we're doing okay. I even remember one girl in my church defiantly remarking that she wasn't going to go to hell just because she had a baby at 16. I thought about them when I was deciding whether to have an abortion, place my baby up for adoption, or keep my baby and raise him. In the end I kept my baby, and if that was the influence other pregnant teenage girls had on me, it wasn't so bad.

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