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  • Posted By: jwwsu @ 07/15/2008 11:29:04 AM

    Why is this ignorant kid of such importance? She's a twerp who had a baby for the publicity. Either that or she is dumber than we give her credit for since she seems to have never heard of condoms or any other means of birth control. She's news because the media says she is.

    So, what happened in Iraq today? How's the economy doing? Is our boy Bush gonna try for a third term? Maybe we all should get a life and quit paying the least attention to meaningless people. Jamie Lynn Spears! What a crock!

  • Posted By: leethepoet7 @ 07/15/2008 11:28:39 AM

    ...does it glamorize teenage pregnancy? You mean any more than the nationwide news coverage of the alleged preganancy pact in that Massachussetts high school? Or, possibly the baby dolls we (as a society) tend to put in our little girls hands which subconsciously foster's the same spirit. This is already an issue affecting many inner city communities, but now it's "new" and a "concern" now that it's affecting a different demographic? For better or for worse, anything that becomes a hot topic in the media is going to be sensationalized. This issue started through lack of effective communication in the home, it needs to be countered by effective communication in the home. Stop blaming the media for doing what it always does.

  • Posted By: hillari @ 07/15/2008 11:28:13 AM

    I think it is absolutely glamorizing teen pregnancy! Think of the audience that is still watching reruns of Zoey 101. I think acknowledging her pregnancy and birth is ok, but I think she could spend her time teaching other children about abstinence and the hardship it can bring on a teenager. Not everyone has a "staff" to take care of their child!

  • Posted By: southern_chic_345 @ 07/15/2008 11:06:19 AM

    I think that a new baby in the world is a blessing. Do our children need to be taught better? Yes. But they also need to be supported when this happens. I do not think that it is any of our business to judge her. She had sex (most high school age people do.) Most of the people on her judging her did not make it through your teenage years with you virginity still intact. You were just "luck" enough not to get pregnant. Let her live her life. And the next time you forbid your daughter from watching Jamie Lynn???s tv show think about the reasons why as you give them money to go see the latest Lindsey Lohan movie and ask yourself who is worse. Don???t be a hypocrite.

    • Posted By: Fear&Loathing @ 07/15/2008 11:27:37 AM

      Southern Chic, are we on the same page? We are not judging Jamie Lynn; we are judging OK Magazine's choice of glamorization for the almighty dollar. Who cares about Jamie Lynn Spears. She has wealth and fame. Her problems are miniscule compared to the NORMAL PUBLIC. The real issue is interpretation upon other impressionable teens who could get a feather up their butt and say, "Hey, I can do this to!" It has nothing to do with the Jamie Lynn Fan Club. Who cares about her pathetic show - brain damage is the only result!

  • Posted By: DMcStraw06 @ 07/15/2008 11:21:22 AM

    I don't feel that this magazine cover is "glamorizing" teen pregnancy at all. Jamie Lynn should be proud of the fact that she has a healthy, beautiful baby. Teen pregnancy is a fact of life and it happens every day. I agree with KissaSue713. Teen pregnancy is already becoming more and more acceptable. One photo shoot of a teen mother is not going to sway the statistics one way or another. So therefore, everyone should just let this issue go. It is not going anywhere anytime soon.

    • Posted By: LiveLoveLaugh @ 07/15/2008 11:26:51 AM

      Wow! Teen pregnancy is not acceptable. We should not be accepting of it, now or ever. Research shows that children born to teen parents score much lower on testing, will require additional help in school (your tax dollars) have more medical problems, and are depressed. Teen parents yearn to continue living like their peers, and take it out on their children. Sure, some rise to the occasion but too often they do not.

    • Posted By: willi583 @ 07/15/2008 11:26:41 AM

      It is NOT acceptable! Not only do the young mothers suffer but even more so the baby being brought up by a baby! It is causing serious issues and problems in our society. Get real and get some common sense. Your comments are really scary!

  • Posted By: mistyblu @ 07/15/2008 11:25:45 AM

    I think that Jamie Lynn is sending mixed signals to teens that it's ok to be so young and have a baby. She is after all rich and can provide for her baby. I am glad she is keeping the baby. Teens who get pregnant should keep the baby not abort it or adopt. They play they should pay.

  • Posted By: heimey11 @ 07/15/2008 11:25:31 AM

    Jamie is going to be a very good mother. you can tell by her personalty. So what if she is 17. there are alot of girls out there these days having kids very young. not to say my mother was one of them. and she had it hard. her daughter ( my older sister) was born with Cerable Palsy. try having to finish high school and deal with thar everyday.

  • Posted By: jondoe @ 07/15/2008 11:13:23 AM

    yuck it up guys... this is exactly why society is going in the toilet. the more attention and credibility you give behavior like this, the more it becomes socially acceptable and enabling to kids.

    • Posted By: KatKitty074 @ 07/15/2008 11:25:18 AM

      Very good point jondoe! You hit it right on! For those who say its ok to have a baby so young, watch how many "young" grandmothers" are going to be stuck with raising their own grandbabies!!!

  • Posted By: msauerbrey @ 07/15/2008 11:25:18 AM

    A teen pregnancy is not as bad as drug use and the criminal activity that is associated with athletics and acting folks. Yes she should have waited but, she is following society's example of what is acceptable, sex before marriage. It's not the end of her life and with her money it won't even be a problem to provide for the child.
    Folks are acting like this is terrrible. Just keep the media pops away from the situation and it will be fine. It's been happening since God made Adam & Eve. It is a God given life!
    As long as she raises the child in a God ly home things will work out fine.
    Mark S, Thomasville NC.
    Come on America get your priorities in order

  • Posted By: mammalove @ 07/15/2008 11:24:41 AM

    This is for the person (YouMustThink) who left the comment stating that 99.99% of all teen mothers end up on welfare. Where do you get your statistics?
    I got pregnant when I was 17 and had my daughter when I was 18. I was never on welfare or financially supported by family! I worked and put myself through nursing school and later met and married a great man, a corporate medical Lawyer. We now have three children. My daughter is one of the best things that has happened to me, because of her I pushed myself to work harder and get my life together to make a better life for her.

    No I am not the 00.01% I have made it my commitment to teach young girls about making better decisions. Over the years I have met MANY young girls who too have been able to pull themselves out of a tough situation.

    Abortion should never be an option, it is NOT an easy way out! The guilt and sorrow will follow young girls through out there lives. They will often end up having other children out of wedlock. Where as many girls who are forced to grow up to take care of their child often don???t repeat the same mistake.

  • Posted By: emoh @ 07/15/2008 11:24:35 AM

    I looked at this issue when in line at the supermarket yesterday. You didn't even have to read the article to see that it was presenting an totally idealized view of motherhood. From the picture of Jamie Lynn's teenage boyfriend pouring her a cup of coffee as she smiles lovingly to the picture of her and the baby on the couch with lit candles winding up the staircase, it presents the dream vision that teens have of romanticized, family bliss. As a mother of two, who has a comfortable income, I know that this is not the reality of a newborn. Even more important is the fact that teenagers are rarely emotionally and psychologically equipped for the challenges of parenting. They are still often in need of significant parenting themselves.

  • Posted By: Ingrid2005@hotmail.com @ 07/15/2008 11:24:31 AM

    I think OK magazine came across as glamorizing teen pregnancy. Teens who are still in high school and living at home do not have a clue what it means to earn a living, pay bills, rent etc... due to lack of this experience, they can not be expected to see the real facts. I will never buy OK magazine for promoting and glamorizing such a negative thing as teen pregnancy.

  • Posted By: Motherly Love @ 07/15/2008 10:30:12 AM

    I think everyone who is putting her down should just shut up. Jamie Lynn his not the first nor will she be the last teenager to have a baby. No I do not wish for all teens to have baby;s but it will and is happening. I hope that she will be a great mom and that the baby grows up healthly and happy because after all is said and done ist'nt that what we all wish for when it comes to our children.

    • Posted By: willi583 @ 07/15/2008 11:23:58 AM

      Get a reality check! Parents need to put this young lady down for her irresponsibility and lack of morals so that their children don't get the wrong message. Having a baby at this young of an age is not a smart choice nor can most young people afford the cost of raising a child. The magazine should have done an article to compare the reality that the typical child would be going through in comparison to Jamie who is wealthy! Parents need to speak up about this article and address this very sad issue, not shut up.

  • Posted By: ashmeg2727 @ 07/15/2008 11:16:25 AM

    I certainly am not an advocate of teen pregnancy (who really is?) but you know what, it happened. I think that its terrible that we are asking Jamie Lynn to downplay the excitement and joy of being a new mother just because of her age. Being a mom, at any age, should be celebrated. This child needs to grow up knowing that regardless of the mistakes of her mother, she is a wanted child who was brought into this world with anticipation and happiness. Why should we ask Jamie Lynn to pay pennance in the public eye? I think that is selfish and shameful on our part. It is our job as parents to teach our children about teen pregnancy and the hardships that follow, not Jamie Lynn's.

    • Posted By: APRIL1963 @ 07/15/2008 11:23:53 AM

      TRUE BUT TO UPSIZE THE BIRTH FOR ALL THE PUBKIC TOO SEE! NO IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN KEPT PRIVITE AND CERTAINLY NOT PRICED AT A MILLION FOR ALL TEENS TOO SEE....... HER HAPPINESS AT HOME IS GRAND BUT NOT TOO THE REST OF THE WORLD!!!!

  • Posted By: maddy44057 @ 07/15/2008 11:23:21 AM

    If she wasn't a star this would not be out and thats the bottom line.As a parent we have to teach our children what is right and wrong.

  • Posted By: KatKitty074 @ 07/15/2008 11:23:02 AM

    HMMM? I'm wondering if the female students at the Massachusetts High School thought that since Jamie Lynn was expecting, then why not them? For those pf you who thinks it is good for Jamie to be a mom at such a young age, and that because she has money, it will all be ok, I HOPE YOU DON'T HAVE TEEN AGED GIRLS AT HOME!!!! Follow the "celebrity" leader is catching on, so be careful when you support teen pregnancy, your own daughters may be closely watching! Grandmothers (young ones too) will be taking care of a lot of babies in the near future!

  • Posted By: tas0876 @ 07/15/2008 11:22:19 AM

    I think jamie lynn will make a good mom and she'l learn alot along the way but good things. she's doing well for herself at the age of 17 so lets hope it continues as there's a child to consider now. so many congratulations on the birth of her gorgeous baby and i wish them all well.
    I would also like to see her sister get her life back on track and accept all the help she's been offered and get her kids back with her and become the mom she set out to be,it's never too late to change things around for the better. teenagers know the difference between right and wrong but at the end of the day it's a decision theyv'e made but teenage pregnancy shouldn't be encouraged but it's widely known to happen so think of both parent and child and help give them the support they need. If they become parents at such a young age it'll be their responsibility let them face up to it.

  • Posted By: 40yrMOM @ 07/15/2008 11:21:47 AM

    I watched my 12 year old daughter look over this cover and read some of the interview as we were in a checkout line at the store. She couldn't believe that Jamie Lynn was on the cover and that (in her words) they were making it seem OK to get pregnant when you were 16 and to live with your boyfriend in a house when you are only 17 and not married. Out of the mouth's of babe's. I do think, regardless of the comments of the magazine editor, that it totally glamorizes having a baby out of wedlock as a teen. Jamie Lynn can pay her bills and has resources that the vast majority of teens do NOT have ..... and that vast majority is the crowd reading this article and seeing that "being a mother is wonderful". Yes, wonderful when you are rich and don't have to worry about bills. It's always wonderful when you fall in love, get married, THEN have a baby. Most teens have not "lived" as much as Jamie Lynn has in her life either. They are just the normal girl in high school that will be missing out on SO much! My daughter said, MOM, that baby will be 5 years old when Jamie Lynn can drink legally. Yup. I might sound old fashioned, but back in the day (and I'm only 40) girls who got pregnant in school were shamed! Now they get covers on magazines. It truly scares me what this world is coming to.

  • Posted By: paulte @ 07/15/2008 11:20:59 AM

    The last thing this society needs to do is encourage teen pregnancy! Look at that situation of the pregnancy pact among teen girls in MA. And how many of them were impregnated by some homeless guy? Were they brought up in barns? What are their mothers like? That's probably the real problem. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree! This is not an isolated situation. I remember reading about a bunch of teenage girls in upstate NY who caught AIDS from a local homeless guy a few years ago.

    There is something very wrong with our society. There is a sexual sickness which is a symptom of a much deeper problem. That problem is a lack of self-worth experienced by many teens in our society today. This is not a question of religious values missing although they certainly are to a large extent. It is a question of human dignity. Reasonable people can disagree about sexual standards which change but all people should agree that promiscuous sex especially with strangers is foolish and dangerous.

    People who have a sense of dignity don't use their bodies which is an integral part of themselves for fun & games or to please others. Religious people know that the body, beyond its innate dignity as part of the person, is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Sexual immorality pollutes the temple and drives the Spirit from the body and God's grace from the immortal soul. "What doth it profit a man if he should gain the whole world and in the process lose his immortal soul?

  • Posted By: Afromex2008 @ 07/15/2008 11:19:38 AM

    Rob Shuter and OK Magazine are totally irresponsible in printing this article! And to Southern_chic - yes we should support teen mothers but we need to do more on the prevention end and promote more responsible parenting so these young ladies are not pregnant in the first place. It would have been nice for the magazine to print an article on the downside of teen pregnancy. It is defnitely an issue of race and class. You will likely not see a young white woman of middle or lower class or a woman of color of any class publicized and promoted in this fashion. Lastly it is an issue of making money taking precedence over community responsibility - no surprise!

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