This kind of behavior does not make Jamie Lynn a good role model for young girls. I hope Hanna Montana won't wind up this way.
This kind of behavior does not make Jamie Lynn a good role model for young girls. I hope Hanna Montana won't wind up this way.
Baby830 - are you on crack or what - this is fantasyland for Jamie Lynn - all she is showing other teens is how to be irresponsible. she is "engaged" to a kid who is going along for the media ride.
She is following in her sister's footsteps - soon we'll see Jamie, Brit and mommy in some reality TV series or in a movie ... Bringing Up Baby ... the porn version
I believe that Jamie Lynn brings hope to teens that are pregnant or who have already had children. No it's not a good situation to be in but if you're already there then you have to roll with the punches. Atleast she is raising her baby and didn't get an abortion secretly (like so many other teens) or putting the baby up for adoption. She's engaged to be married, raising her baby and showing other teens that if the same situation happened to them then here's what they can do: Be happy and live life!
You can't solely blame parents for how their children turn out. A parent can do everything in the world to raise their children right and the children will still do whatever they want. There are a lot more things in a child's life that can influence them to do the wrong thing. I do agree that their biggest influence should be their parents but that is not always the case. I also agree that this magazine is glamourizing teen pregnancy. It is not something that should be glamourized in any way. It is a mistake that people sometimes make. A lot of children looked up to Jamie Lynn Spears because of her show on Nickelodeon and I don't think that OK! should put her on the cover and glamourize her for being a teen mother.
I understand that there are outside influence, however if you feel that your child is believing that teen pregnancy is glamorous, then reevaluate what you allow her to see. If you communicate with your child regularly, you know where their mind is. Kids don't have to watch certain shows or listen to certain stations. Cut it out period, if your child is that weak minded and easily influenced. Give them a book. It won't kill them. Explain the importance of safe sex regardless! Human interaction can lead you to learn about sex. If you feel like kissing on tv is harmless, ask yourself where does kissing lead to. Sex Ed is vital!
Bonde69 - are you an idiot.
BTW I think I did sleep with florgirl's daughter
Blonde69 - are you an idiot or what?
What's wrong with these people? Seriously, being a mom when you can't even vote yet is a lack of reponsability. What kind of unmature parents will they be? I strongly disagree with the magazine which is showing these as if it was a total natural and spectacular thing. Is this what we want our girls to learn? I am 16, and I am really concern with this whole thing. I can't believe that this girl (still considered as a child) is showing off her BIG bad choice as if it has been the most amazing thing she has done with her life. She is just a kid having another kid. What kind of role model would these young parents be to this baby? They should be embarrassed for what they did and should not be telling other kids that being a parent, when you are still under age, is that good. Grow up Jammie Spears!!!
Wow, you sure know a lot for a 16 year old... NOT. A baby is NEVER a mistake. I had my daughter at 18. She is beautiful and smarter than ALL of the other babies she plays with who are being raised by 30 something moms. You are pathetic, obviously you have some growing up to do.
Well, I did not say kids are a mistake. I said that she made a really bad choice when she started having sex without protection. C'mon, this is 2008, there are many ways to prevent an "unwanted" pregnancy. And yes, your kid may seem real smart but not the smartest. I am sure there are kids better than yours. There is always going to be someone better than us, even if you don't like it. You had a baby at 18, and you may be proud of it, but you never had the opportunity to become and adult (be responsible, mature, etc.) at its proper time. You got a child right away and never really learned what being young (without kids to worry about) feels like. Sorry for you, but I want to enjoy, take advantage of being young and build a better future for my kids. I want to give them something and show them that being a mom is more than just having kids. The parents set the example for their kids. Do you want your daughter to be a mom at 18 and stop her goals to support a baby that could have been prevented? Kids are beautiful; I love them, but we should have them when we are ready to give them everything they need. I also wanted to say that you are right. I still need to grow up. I am 16, and I still have a lot of thing to learn, and I also have the time, not like you, you have a child to protect and your mistakes also affect her, so you better be careful with what you do. I will be learning from you, too.
For 16 you seem to have the maturity and good judgment that Jamie lacked. I predict you will have a successful life. I would much rather read an article about what you and your parents have done RIGHT than what Jamie did! Geez, every animal on earth can create a baby, it doesn't take any skill or brains.
CRAZYGIRL737, do you have any advice to other girls your age or would you tell us what your parent did so right to have a duaghter as wise and well spoken as you are?
"The treatment OK! magazine gave the Spears story on its cover is a disservice to good parents everywhere." I'm sorry... I have to stop at that comment right there... OK! Magazine does not do any kind of disservice to good parents anywhere... it does a disservice to bad parents who don't want to take the responisbility of thoroughly talking to their children about sexual activity and the consequences of it... get your facts straight whoever you are and I hope you're not a parent, Carp5665. For everyone else and the negativity they share on the article... again... it is an article on a person who is constantly in the media... and if your teenager can't tell the difference between celeblife and real life... then you better have a talk with your teen... everyone is complaining about the article and the effects on teens but honestly... be a parent and talk to your kids... obviously people I'm positive if you share a good relationship with your children and have a discussion with them to help them understand then maybe just maybe you're a good parent... claiming you're a good parent and saying that the media is the reason why your teen is acting out or doing inappropriate things is only a scapegoat to make you feel better.... AGAIN TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT SEX AND THE CONSEQUENCES.... you just might get through to them!! How about those anti-drug commercials where they encourage you to TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN about drugs... it goes the same for sex... TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT SEX..... it's not that hard... now one more lesson "good parents who are being opressed by the media" LEAVE THE MEDIA OUT OF YOUR OWN PROBLEMS.... IF YOU THINK THIS ARTICLE ABOUT A TEEN HAVING A BABY IS OFFENSIVE AND "WRONG" THEN MAYBE YOU ARE THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD.... I can't stress it enough... this article nor any other article on teen pregnancy is influential to a child as long as you talk to your children... it's not hard to talk to them... they are your kids... IT'S TIME TO TAKE RESPONISBILITY "GOOD PARENTS" AND TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN!!!! Is that so hard that you have to blame a magazine for your kids wanting to have sex??
Exactly!
Society is not to blame - the parents are, but the parents will not take the blame, they will point a finger.
What about the parents who have checked out of their children???s lives, refuse to get them health care let alone discuss sex education? I agree that parents are responsible for their children. How do I make them take that responsibility? By the way what are your credentials to be such the expert? Sorry..... I'm not as educated as you, LOL
Not sure if your childish comment "Not as educated as you, LOL" was meant for me - but you probably are not. I know you are a BSN RN, doesn't make you the expert though and does not necessarily mean you are more educated than everyone here. I have a masters working toward my PHD. I have been working for 20 years in my field of study with children. What I would like to know is "When did you receive your diploma?" Education does not make you the expert, but experience.
flour girl i bet your daughter if you have one is out having sex right now. you dont have the right to call these girls anything when u were probably the same way. that is judge mental. and you have no idea how there mother raised them!! its not how your parents raise you its life and society. so you should watch wat you say cause it could be your son or daughter who is having a baby are you going to call them trash?
shut up you see teenage pregnancy everywhere, it doesnt matter just cause she is famous people atually care but if she was some other chick walking down the street it wouldnt matter leave her alone and let her be a mom if you dont want your kids see pregnant teens lock them in there room and take away their tv. i bet 90% of your kids are having sex regardless of their age! she doesnt glamorize anythin. she is happy so just leave her be!
im a fan of jamie lynn's hit show zoey 101. i think that her getting pregnant was a bad choice, but i also think that she is going to make a great mother. they always say that with that many little kids watching her show, she is setting a bad example for them. i dont think that. i think that she made a mistake but who can blame her nobody is perfect.
You don't know that she made a "mistake". How do you know that she didn't plan this because she wanted it?
Also there are soo hypocrits on this board and in the US. And yes I am American. Parents allow their children to watch anything on tv. And I often hear people say "my child is ok, they only watch Disney or Nick!" Let's be real! Even Nick and Disney must be censored. The teens on there are dating and kissing. When people start kissing or touching, regardless of age, their bodies start wanting to move further. Yes we are wired to desire sex. Therefore even at a young age you must teach them to have SAFE sex because the world is teaching them to have sex. Pregnancy is a consequence of having sex. Jamie Lynn was making out on her Nick show and dating. Parents let their kids watch then. Were you shocked at the kissing and telling your children not to even do this, because us as adults know where that could lead? It is the responsibilty of the parent to teach the child values that they believe are fit. Instead, so many people allow their children to enroll at "What's Ever On TV or Radio High" and take "How You Should Live 101". Then thier child learns something that they don't agree with and start pointing fingers and playing the blame game. A few of you here might just need to pick up a mirror and point at the person in the reflection. Because if by watching tv or listening to music, your child feels that it is glamorous to be a teen parent. Then it is you that should be blamed!
That girl is trash just like her older sister. It's disgusting the way their mother obviously raised them, and yes, for the record, this magazine does portray teen pregnancy to be ok, and it's just not. It messes up so many young girls' lives, even if their children are a great joy. But of course, since she's rich off her silly little career, she doesn't have to worry about struggling. It's not something younger girls need to see as ok, and that is exactly what this magazine is portraying. It is so sad and disgusting that this image is allowed on the cover of a public magazine.
I was 17 when I had my daughter. It was tough because I was just a normal girl. I dug in my heels though and vowed to give my daughter the life that I knew she deserved. I just took her to her fave waterpark this week for making the Honor Roll every semester this past school year. I've been very open with her about my experience as a young mother and have made it very clear to her the sacrifices that had to be made. My point is that I communicate very openly with her about the world and what's going on it. I don't try to shelter her. She knows that girls do get pregnant at very young ages, her mother being one of them. She also knows how that happens and in most cases, it's due to a lack of responsibility. She also understands the consequences. I don't see anything wrong with Jamie Lynn's cover. I congratulate her for taking responsibility and just hope that SHE and her FIANCE raise their baby and not their parents or worse yet, a nanny! If there are parents who have a problem with it, I have to question why. Are you afraid of the questions that your children might ask? If your child's role model is a celebrity, then you seriously need to rethink your relationship with your children. They may drift away, but drift with them and discover what THEIR interests are. That will make all the difference in the world... the fact that you really do care!
I can not believe how many ignorant comments are on here. As a mother of two young children myself and a social worker I can tell you how difficult it is to care for a child 24/7. Research has shown that the teenage body is not done growing. This includes the area of the brain where teens get their. lack of impulse control and bad decision making abilities. Yes, Jami Lynn has money and a nanny but most young mother do not.
As for those of you who argue that your daughter should be getting life lessons from the parents and not a celebrity magazine cover, I totally agree. However, it is also shown that as a teenager, peers have more effect on their decisions than their parents unless they are sheltered from the real world.
And whoever, made the comment about God arguments being weak, could not be more wrong. God is what this country was founded on and is where most people get their morals and values. God is not just a Sunday thing as he is the foundation of everything. God is the one who says thou shall not steal, kill, be envious, obey your parents, etc. Those are the laws of today so God is everywhere and in everything.
If you people want to continue to let you children read this crap then don't be surprised when they have an inappropriate role models. This trash is everywhere, just like the half naked Bratz dolls and hooker clothing that I can't believe parents actually let their kids have.
I couldn't agree with you more! If there were more Americans like you, we'd be a much better country!! It is so sad that God is left out of things for fear of offending someone, when God is the reason we are here at all!! God bless you!!
That girl is trash just like her older sister. It's disgusting the way their mother obviously raised them, and yes, for the record, this magazine does portray teen pregnancy to be ok, and it's just not. It messes up so many young girls' lives, even if their children are a great joy. But of course, since she's rich off her silly little career, she doesn't have to worry about struggling. It's not something younger girls need to see as ok, and that is exactly what this magazine is portraying. It is so sad.
Reading many of the comments, I have to say that I don't think that this issue is a matter of age-yes, women 100 years ago were having children at young ages but there is a big difference. MARRIAGE. Way back when women finished schooling when they were 14-15 years old and getting married at 16 and THEN had babies. These were women, not little girls still in school relying on mom and dad. There is a huge difference in the maturity level between sixteen year olds today and sixteen year olds 100 years ago. I commend Jamie for keeping the baby and not getting an abortion, I would hope that young girls who find out they are pregnant do look at alternatives to abortion. Celebrities are going to have media attention regardless their situation., because that is their career, being in the spot light, unfortunately Hollywood is becoming a worse and worse example to Americans of any age, expamples: Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie, we need to stop being "ok" with these girls' actions. With their fame also should come some responsibilty, knowing they are idols to millions of kids. Money is not a ticket to do whatever you want without facing consequences!
In America today teen pregnancy is rapidly growing and I think that families really need to sit down with their tweens/teens and discuss some of the consequences of sex before marriage, such as the reality of STD's and or Pregnancy. I've had several family members have children at young ages, and it is hard! Not only on the young mommy or daddy, but on their parents. Teens please think about your actions and what consequences they may bring upon not only you but those around you. Sex is something that is to be shared between a husband and a wife-PERIOD. No if's and's or but's, Unfortunately people are not going to stop having sex outside of marriage, not matter what anyone says. I think it's time to get some good examples in the media spotlight-if we can find any.
These girls are just an example of normal life and what trully happens in the world. This is nothing that has not happened before and god for bid the are famous and the media focuses on them. what would you think if it was your neighbor girl in the same situation? Children dont do it because it "looks cool" they are exploring, and if anything its the parents not educating them or talking about sex to them so they find out on their own . Second, think about your parents or grandparents they had their babies at the age of 16 and up. Our society is no longer focusing on raising families anymore we are so preoccupied with work and money. So i bless her and her family and will not loose any sleep over it because IT"S NOT OUR BUSINESS IN THE FIRST PLACE! ITS NOT YOUR CHILD and if you are an amazing parent it wont happen to you.
These girls are just an example of normal life and what trully happens in the world. This is nothing that has not happened before and god for bid the are famous and the media focuses on them. what would you think if it was your neighbor girl in the same situation? Children dont do it because it "looks cool" they are exploring, and if anything its the parents not educating them or talking about sex to them so they find out on their own . Second, think about your parents or grandparents they had their babies at the age of 16 and up. Our society is no longer focusing on raising families anymore we are so preoccupied with work and money. So i bless her and her family and will not loose any sleep over it because IT"S NOT OUR BUSINESS IN THE FIRST PLACE! ITS NOT YOUR CHILD and if you are an amazing parent it wont happen to you.
In 1978 I had a child at 16. I married and divorced his father who was 19 within a little over a year. I had to quit school. My son has grown up to be a responsible productive member of society, but it was a tough row to hoe while he was young. I did remarry and have another child, but that relationship ended in divorce also. I raised my 2 children by myself. I wish Jamie and her baby all the best, but most all the girls who are having children at such a young age are not as lucky as Jamie. She doesn't have to make the decision as to whether pay the electric bill or buy formula and diapers. She has someone to keep her baby while she goes to a party, not having to worry about who will keep the baby while she works overtime to pay rent in a place that is cold in the winter. It is unfair to glamorize that and falsely lead girls to believe that all they have to do is have a baby and the world will be ok. A baby is a full time 24/7-365 responsibility. A baby doesn't quit crying just because you are tired. A baby doesn't have the abilty to take care of itself while you go out with your friends. A baby doesn't quit needing you when you are sick. I believe if they are going to run a story on celebrity childbirth, they should give equal print time to the teenage girl with a new baby in the "Realtime World" who is struggling every second of every day just to make it from day to day or hour to hour.
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