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  • Posted By: mthon825 @ 07/18/2008 6:47:00 AM

    When I read this, I was shocked! I tell my 9 year old daughter EVERY DAY that having a child when you're young is a VERY bad thing. What this magazine does is glorifies this situation. "Being a mom is the best feeling in the world" only rings true when you're an adult! The majority of this magazines readers are not rich enough to be able to buy all of the things that a child needs. Shame on OK magazine for this article! Shame on Nickelodeon for not canceling her show immediately! Yes, people are going to do whatever they want to do regardless. Like I and everyone else I know, are never going to give one dime to OK magazine for this pile of garbage on the store shelf as well as any other piece of what they produce. This just goes to show exactly what in the hell is wrong with society today. My daughter deserves better than that!

    • Posted By: LAEvans3 @ 07/18/2008 8:33:02 AM

      Why should Nickelodeon cancel or show or feel shameless?

      Does your boss or company come to your house, analyze you and then fire you for something that you do personally?

      This is not Nickelodeons responsibility.

      • Posted By: mthon825 @ 07/18/2008 11:59:39 AM

        My boss does scrutinize what I do everyday. Every company does. If you don't live up to what the company wants you get fired. That's life. This child is an idol to a lot of young girls. Being pregnant at such a young age is not something that shouldn't be dealt with when you are suppose to live up to certain expectations in the eyes of your fans!

        • Posted By: LAEvans3 @ 07/18/2008 2:08:22 PM

          I have to disagree, every boss does not go to your home and scrutinize the way you raise your child. Would you honestly be taken off the job or fired if you made a mistake at home or one of your own children became pregnant.

          I leave work and I do not worry about my boss coming over to make sure I am making good choices and that I am a good person.

          While I understand there is a huge difference, she is in the public eye and we EXPECT certain things her life is not our business!

          My point is - Nickelodeon should not have to take the show off the air because of her mistake. Would your company close the doors to your mistakes?

  • Posted By: glibster @ 07/18/2008 12:24:17 PM

    She should have had an abortion. There are enough people on this planet already; we certainly don't need more, especially those born to dumb teenagers. (Lest you think I'm being sexist, I'm including Jamie Lynn's boyfriend/f**kbuddy/whatever in this category - it takes two people to make a kid.)

    • Posted By: Clemenza123 @ 07/18/2008 1:59:42 PM

      Sure, murder the most innocent of human life. In life we make desicions which have consequences. She decided to spread her legs, Bad.. She decided to NOT muder an innocent baby, Good. In the end It's wasnt a choice its a baby.

  • Posted By: kristiswilliams @ 07/18/2008 1:58:34 PM

    All this talk about race and which race is better is such crap. The truth of the matter is all races here in America have individuals in them with issues. Not just blacks or whites. All of them! Whites and blacks are both on welfare. It's crazy that you all are on the internet and some of you are ignorant as hell! Take the time to educate yourself, the inforamtion is out there if you do the research. That way when you get on a message board like this you don't sound so retarded. But since its obvious that this hasn't been done I have incleded some information for you.

    Traits of families on AFDC (1)

    Race
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    White 38.8%
    Black 37.2
    Hispanic 17.8
    Asian 2.8
    Other 3.4Percent of sexually active single 15 to 19-year olds using
    birth control:


    Germany 95%
    United Kingdom 92
    Netherlands 88
    Norway 87
    Sweden 79
    Denmark 70
    United States 56

    Teen pregnancies per 1,000 teenagers:


    United States 98.0
    United Kingdom 46.6
    Norway 40.2
    Canada 38.6
    Finland 32.1
    Sweden 28.3
    Denmark 27.9
    Netherlands 12.1
    Japan 10.5

    1. Overview of Entitlement Programs, Committee on Ways and Means, U.S. House of Representatives (U.S. Government Printing Office, 1994).

    2. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Characteristics and Financial Condition of AFDC Recipients, Fiscal Year 1992 (Washington, D.C.: Government Printing Office, 1992); 1994 Green Book, p. 47.

    3. Paul Taylor, "When Safety Nets Leave the Needy in Free Fall," Washington Post National Weekly Edition, September 9-11, 1991.

    4. All statistics charts on teen sex taken from Where We Stand, by Michael Wolff, Peter Rutten, Albert Bayers III, eds., and the World Rank Research Team (New York: Bantam Books, 1992), pp. 242-55.


  • Posted By: ChazzyChaz55 @ 07/18/2008 1:58:27 PM

    Seriously?! This has been an issue since she came out and said she was pregnant! In my high school, and MANY these days, there were people who had more than ONE kid. And *gasp* guess what? It was before she got pregnant! So how can you blame her for young girls getting pregnant at a young age? I'm only 20 and I don't have any kids...you know why? Because my parents raised me to know that it would change my like forever and that until you can care for another human don't be stupid. Mistakes do happen and young girls are having sex at a younger age but if you TEACH them how to be safe then it's not a problem. I already said it and I'll say it again. She is a mom now. She is happy and excited. She isn't going to sit there and tell young girls they should go out and get pregnant; if they are stupid enough to do that because of her then that is a parenting mistake. She is a mother now so yeah, she is going to say how much she likes it and how excited she is to be a mom. FORGET HER AGE and get over it. She is 17 and she is taking responsiblity for acting like an adult at a young age but don't you dare expect her to sit there and act like her child is a mistake. Who cares if she has money? That isn't the issues here. The issue is that she is getting blamed for having a baby and being famous. I don't know if you care any other way but how many stars are having babies before they even get married? *gasp* They are such TERRIBLE role models! Stone them! Come on now, if you want to jump all over her case then you better do it EVERY TIME a celebrity gets pregnant out of wedlock. That's all I have to say because this is just ridiculous. She's happy. Get over it. Go teach your kids not to have unprotected sex or no sex at all until they are 'adults' instead of criticizing something that has already happened.

  • Posted By: grandma59 @ 07/18/2008 1:52:47 PM

    These girls are a bad example for young girls. The parents are also. Why put them on the cover of a magazine and glorify them. It 's all about making money. What a way to make a living.

  • Posted By: adrienp @ 07/18/2008 1:52:39 PM

    Raising a baby is definately not easy. However, it is one of the best things in life. A baby gives you a feeling that never goes away. Jamie Lynn is young. And I don't think anyone should ever plan to have a baby before they are settled financially and physically. You need to be married, have good paying jobs and a big enough house for the family. I had an unplanned baby and now I raise her, work, and go to school. It's very hard, and it shouldn't be about whether you feel you are ready or not. You should know if you're ready and if you feel like you are able to give a baby the best of everything then having a baby would be the perfect thing. Just make sure you are prepared and remember that the baby comes first. Being a parent changes everything. Even though Jamie is 17 she has to act like she is 28. I wish her luck to her and her baby!Take care of her! And to all the young ladys out there who might be thinking of having a baby...wait until you are ready! You can have a a baby whenever. Your only young one time!!!

  • Posted By: grandma59 @ 07/18/2008 1:49:33 PM

    I feel that she and her sister are a bad example for young girls. The parents are also . So why put them on the cover of a magazine and glorify them. It's really to bad that this is done all for the sake of "money".
    What a way to make a living!!!!!!!

  • Posted By: allthewayusa @ 07/18/2008 1:48:56 PM

    Praise Jesus she gave up her life and kept the baby! All little girls should be having babies too so men can get their jobs back - like prison jobs to take care of the teen babies when they grow up. Kudos to the wonderful no-child-left-behind school system that teaches our star-spangled girls to forget men's careers and return to their real career as mommies. This strengthens the family unit too because the family gets bigger when the new mommies cannot afford to live on their own and stay with grammy and grampy. Praise Jesus and God bless America!!!.

  • Posted By: lightenupworld @ 07/18/2008 1:48:21 PM

    Is 17 really to young? Most all of our grandparents/ greatgrandparents were married by that age, having babies. Isn't the reason most people wait nowadays, to establish a career, and fianances, well she already accomplished that, she has probably had more life expierence then most 30 year old non celebs, so heres to wishing her the best, and to all those who think this is a bad influence, you are the ones who need to teach your young daughters, the ways of the world , not a mag. cover.

  • Posted By: joeAmerica @ 07/18/2008 11:53:32 AM

    This is just the kind of thing organized religion does to people. If we had more sex education programs that taught how to use condoms instead of the god damned abstinence thing then she may have had more knowledge to make a better decision. Why don't we idiots realize that our kids are going to have sex, teach them safe ways of doing it, and get over it. She had a kid... big deal... what's sick is how much we all care about some stupid mid-western family. Get a life america.

    • Posted By: sunshine1979 @ 07/18/2008 1:47:06 PM

      Research has shown that the school that adopt curriculum and after school programs based on job readiness, resume writing, jog interviewing skills, the pursuit of college, etc have been the most effective in decreasing the teen preg. rate in their community. It is no longer about a teacher demonstrating how to put a condom on a banana, its about giving our kids some goals and a future to look forward to. Our kids know how to use condoms, c'mon now people!!!! Its not about the friggen condoms!

  • Posted By: best of times @ 07/18/2008 1:46:21 PM

    I had my first child in 1978 at the age of 16. It was an unplanned pregnancy and the marriage that followed ended in divorce a little more than a year later. My son has grown up to lead a productive life, but it was definitely hard on both of us while he was growing up. I was too young,. Unlike Jamie Spears, practically all of the girls who are having children at that age do not have the financial resources to take care of themselves, let alone to be able to provide the basic necessities of raising a child too. I am happy for Jamie and I wish her and her baby all the best, but her situation is extremely different from most of the population that idolizes her.. She has the financial means to take care of a child and continue her education while a nanny keeps the baby. She doesn't have to worry where her next meal is coming from or choose whether to pay the electric bill or get the baby formula.. Unfortunately a lot of the young girls that will see this will think it is cool to hae a child so young. Having a child is a HUGE responsibility, one that doesn't go away when you want to go to a dance or a movie or sleep. The responsiblity is still there when you have the flu and the baby cries. The girls of average American households cannot see that from a glamorizing article where the mother probably does not have to deal with the actual day to day life events without any help from anyone.

  • Posted By: carla_marie1 @ 07/18/2008 1:35:46 PM

    I think her gracing the cover is inappropriate and encourages young mothers. I know that they point out that she has money and is well off, but there are plenty of ritzy families out there who are just as well off. And some young girls don't understand how much it takes to have a baby young, hopefully the girls who are encouraged by this story will have wonderful families who can support them and the new babies they are desireing

  • Posted By: carla_marie1 @ 07/18/2008 1:34:23 PM

    I think her gracing the cover is inappropriate and encourages young mothers. I know that they point out that she has money and is well off, but there are plenty of ritzy families out there who are just as well off. And some young girls don't understand how much it takes to have a baby young, hopefully the girls who are encouraged by this story will have wonderful families who can support them and the new babies they are desirering

  • Posted By: aeammons @ 07/18/2008 1:29:09 PM

    While I think the article does paint teen pregnancy in a positive light, what bothers me the most is that the baby was shown strapped into a bouncy chair placed upon the kitchen counter. Every bouncy chair I've ever seen has explicit instructions to not place the chair on an elevated surface due to a falling risk. I guess this is just another example of how Jamie Lynn ignores common sense and does what she pleases. Someone needs to give the Spears family parenting lessons.

  • Posted By: lori1965 @ 07/17/2008 9:04:48 PM

    Teen pregnancy is disgusting no matter who the teen is. The fact that someone paid a million dollars for the little bastard(because that's what it is)photo makes it more disgusting, of course it is sending the wrong message. That million dollars could have been donated towards more education on how not to treat your vagina like a hole in the wall. More educations in school to are young ladies that you have all the time in world why rush. Jamie Lynn(to me) is know more then a common street walker and her mama is her pimp. My prayers go out to that poor little baby.

    • Posted By: sunshine1979 @ 07/18/2008 1:23:55 PM

      Let me get your comment straight....you call the baby a "bastard" and then ask us to pray for the "poor child"? Are we really still calling babies "bastards" in 2008? What is wrong with America? I can only pray that the baby never runs into someone like you. Disgusting.

  • Posted By: lukokis @ 07/18/2008 1:21:30 PM

    What I'm wondering is, in this article, do the interviewers ever ask Jamie Lynn what she is going to do when she comes to a point where she just wants to go hang out with her friends? Lets see, for her I'm sure she can have her fiance, mother or a nanny watch the child for the night. Yeah - well that's her. What about those young, single mothers who don't have anyone to "pawn their baby on". This is just one example. When you have a child, you are no longer # 1, Especially with a newborn. Does the article ask her what she's going to do when she can no longer get a full nights sleep or even take a shower without someone watching the child. Celebrities have the means to do these things - REAL teenagers do not!!!! This article MOST DEFINITELY glamourizes teen pregnancy. Please, go find a "normal", single, teenage mother and ask her how much glamour is present in her life.

  • Posted By: sweetletta27 @ 07/18/2008 1:19:21 PM

    i think that this subject has been glamorized, if the magazine is going to publish this story then they need to show a real reality and have actual teens and others that were teen mothers and tell their story of how they struggle. Yes being a mother is an experience that is undescrible but what happens after the effect of being a new mother wears off on all your friends and you left with the reality of life. Having to deal with bills and work and balancing time with your child and every thing else. Having a child young should not be shown as the next gotta have fad.

  • Posted By: Ally...oops @ 07/18/2008 1:18:14 PM

    This spread does a good job of telling teens that if their parents have money, and if they themselves have a boyfriend, then go ahead and have a baby because it is "the best feeling in the world". And people wonder why tweens and teens starve themselves to be "thin and beautiful" and follow in the glorified footsteps of their celebrity heroes. The media and the pressure that comes along with stories like this, are major problems in this society. It's true, we shouldn't be condeming her for her actions, for not being the responsible in the first place, she is suprisingly taking this very well and showing how mature she is. She could have had an abortion before news even got out, but she chose to keep the baby, which also teaches teens that these babies are not just mistakes, they are lifes that rely on them. Yet, OK magazine shouldn't be saying that her situation is ok just because she has enough money to pay the electric bill. Does this mean that you can have a kid before you can have a drivers lisence as long as someone can pay the bills? Teen Pregnancy is an issue, and a big issue as far as I am concerned, and while this spread does manage to still treat Spears as a human that makes mistakes and deals with them, like many of you would not be able to do, it does nothing to show the most vulnerable members of society the getting pregnant while you are a teenager can ruin your life, it never says to practice safe sex or abstinence. Someone out there should show what truely happens when teens get pregnant, in its raw and unglamorized way, because this truly is a rare occurence because the mother does make enough money to support the child. But what happens when that's not the case? Answer that OK!

  • Posted By: legitmom @ 07/18/2008 12:59:22 PM

    It not only glamorizes teen pregnancy, but also trailer trash. We should leave these little skanks alone to deal with their dramas and not support them or make them seem "all american heroes" when they do the wrong thing. Her older sister and some of her friends could use the same message. What a bunch of losers!!!

    • Posted By: Autumn McNeil @ 07/18/2008 1:11:42 PM

      First of all not ALL teenage pregnancies ends up w/ the mothers being LOSERS. But alot of them YES. I had my son when I was 15, with the love & support of my family I accomplished my high school diploma, I am currently attending college courses & I am NOT a loser. My own personal opinion is that with the help, love & support from any family in a situation like this.. ANYTHING is possible. It is sad to read those words you wrote.. But that only shows how SMALL minded & prejidice you yourself are. Do you have children? If you do, Would your child be a whore / Loser? Remember these were your words, not my own.

  • Posted By: uberlostchick08 @ 07/18/2008 12:34:11 PM

    "when I was a student nurse" god damn now we have college drop outs giving their input... how about trying this on for size... the biggest influences in a child's life is THEIR enviroment... their PARENTS... and the lessons they are TAUGHT.... look into the psychological developement of a child before you voice your opinion... get educated and then talk.... you won't sound as stupid

    • Posted By: BSNRNCSN @ 07/18/2008 1:06:18 PM

      I did finish college. BSN RN sorry you can't read , miss nasty

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