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  • Posted By: Bydand @ 07/19/2008 5:52:54 PM

    Six years ago it happened and it's only getting on the news now? Someone's playing a game! And I really do not think it's the LDS Church. And why do people get so upset about it.?. Could it be that they are not members and don't understand how satan works?. Sorry for the negative thoughts people have about other people. I've been a member of different Christian church's and have found fault in all of them.

  • Posted By: limbo @ 07/19/2008 5:48:41 PM

    this calendar is unfortunate. its a mockery of church members' beliefs to regard their bodies as pure and sacred. i can't think of a more cheap, degrading way of drawing attention to the church than having members who want to be more accepted by the world wax up and flex. Hardy is kidding himself if he claims that he only meant to shed positive light on the LDS faith. it's sad, and it proves that Hardy like so many other Americans favor exploitation of the human body over a reverence and respect for sacred things.

  • Posted By: luv2laf @ 07/19/2008 4:35:26 PM

    I just don't understand why people are acting like this situation is a big deal, Mr.Hardy had no intress in staying with the church and was giving the church an image that the church didn't want. The church has strong morals and standards and it is sad to see someone mocking the church for wanting to raise above the firth that there is out there today. Why should a church be mocked for not promotting provocative pictures, what is wrong with that? Whether you like the church or not, whether you are a memeber or not, people shouldn't have a problems with people trying to better them selves and having respect for sacred things. They think the body is sacred and a wonderful gift from God, so why should they suport that kind of calender. Good for them and people really should lay off the mormons, some of the things that people are saying here are very bigot and prejudical comments. Have some respect for peoples belives please, we are a country that stands for people right to live and choose their life and beliefs.

    • Posted By: tha8 @ 07/19/2008 4:43:13 PM

      luv2laf - If your the last sentence of your post was true, THE CHURCH would have just stayed out of it? You don't understand why people are responding the way they are and I don't understand why THE CHURCH had to get involved at all. Oh and as for the other post someone made about these missionaries being like the Pope, I'm sorry but they are NOT on the same level as the Pope... Thanks!

      • Posted By: homieDclown @ 07/19/2008 5:48:14 PM

        your right, the missionaries have much more authority than the pope.

      • Posted By: luv2laf @ 07/19/2008 5:19:00 PM

        The church didn't get involved with the calender. They got involved with Mr. Hardy's actions. He wasn't excummnicated because of the calender, he even said so in the artical, but becasue of some actions that he did, and some of them he even stated in the article. Where he made the calender or not, he would have been excummunicated because he was doing things that church doesn't stand for.

  • Posted By: jolynn61 @ 07/19/2008 5:36:27 PM

    To in the middle of the road to sit there on your computer and knock the mormons just shows how small minded you are the body is sacred and what you have beneath your clothes is no ones business but your owns and your spouces we are taught humilty and privacy my body parts are no ones business and that missionary knew better and so do not use it as an excuse to name call the mormons causer you do not know anything about the lds way of life as christ said he who is without sin cast the first rock so put yours down sinner

    • Posted By: inthemiddleoftheroad @ 07/19/2008 5:45:30 PM

      Hold on here. I AM mormon, and I love BEING mormon and I follow ALL the rules. If you are refering to the one post where the previous comment got posted with mine, that was a mistake. Did you see my post underneath it? I had copied the post so I could reply to it because my screen goes black when I post. And as for my own post - the paragraph that starts with "Gosh . . " - its my own little brand of sarcasm directed towards the uneducated comments. In no way have I berated the gospel of the LDS church. Look at all my posts. Wow, you really are quick to judge to anyone who makes a mistake. And by calling me a sinner, aren't you really casting the first stone? Calm down!

  • Posted By: AnnetteMyers @ 07/19/2008 5:17:56 PM

    I dunno--maybe I should become a Mormon, if their members are that hot! I am really turned on by the juxtaposition of religion and sex, for some reason!

    • Posted By: AMAND @ 07/19/2008 5:45:26 PM

      thank you for proving the point the leaders of the LDS faith were trying to make in saying they didn't feel it was right by using sex to sell religion.

  • Posted By: karmagran@hotmail.com @ 07/19/2008 5:45:05 PM

    No one beats the Muslims for modesty. I respect the fact that the Muslim women e.g. Afghan women cover up completely. It may be a little overdone, but hey they're on the right track, not exploiting their bodies and trying to tempt men.

  • Posted By: Anne-Elisabeth @ 07/19/2008 5:42:47 PM

    Hello, my name is Elisabeth - I am America's Sweetie and featured on my profile at the site of one of the leading adult websites. I'm also a transition specialist. My husband passed away 18 months ago. He was a paraplegic for 34 years as a result of a spinal cord injury at the age of 17. Coincidentally, and perhaps not, we were both very open to providing information to persons with disabling conditions to enrich and improve their personal lives. This includes sexuality issues. Many persons in transition are faced with these circumstances. A little adaptation and information opens up a whole new world for them. I hold a twice-weekly Internet based presentation which draws many viewers who recognize the need for this area of counseling and advisement. This is a private show and, obviously, available to persons only of legal age. The issues I address advocate for men who honor, respect and wish to engage in providing healthy sexual fulfillment for their wives, partners or potential partners. I've addressed different ways of nurturing your partner through difficult times: surgery, rehabilitation, a new course of medication, grief, depression. These are things my husband I faced together and we had a very loving and fulfilling relationship and sex life. I have presented the program partially nude as I've become more comfortable. My first nude photograph has been posted this past week - an elegant black and white demure photograph of my backside in very good taste. I am very pleased with the results. My advocacy of transitional counseling includes many other subjects including career skills and employment training, academic advisement, advocacy for special education issues, barrier free universal design and ADA compliance, reintegration and re-socialization. I'm very pleased to be a part of the world Bob and I dreamed of which, I've gone forward to create. Why the nudes? To change, and to increase awareness of the image of someone with a disability as I strive, with others, to remove societal stigma. I myself have a disabling medical condition. This assists me in raising funds to support the non-profit organization and scholarship foundation in memory of my husband. I was baptized and raised as a Roman Catholic and converted to the LDS church almost 15 years ago. I remain true to my testimony in the church. No one has ever questioned my activities or actions. In fact, I know we are a progressive church adapting to societal changes and needs, while still holding true to our Christian beliefs and personal values and integrity within the teachings of the Church. I'm pleased to say my clientele (for counseling, there is no sexual interaction involved), includes the Veterans of the U.S. They love me, and I love them right back, unconditionally.

  • Posted By: justmeinaz @ 07/19/2008 5:40:53 PM

    If you make an issue out of something, then it becomes one. People have a basic right to choose what they do, how they worship, what they believe. If you are offended by something, you simply have the right not to buy one! It is simple. It's not about which religion you are. Personally, I can't believe that people can be faithful to any religion that reserves the right to pick and choose members who they feel are worthy. But, that is me, my belief, my preference as it be. Do I condemn anyone? NO! That would make me a hypocrite.

  • Posted By: AMAND @ 07/19/2008 5:38:12 PM

    It is so sad that people pass judgments on other people's faiths when they are so un-educated on what they truly believe. For example the "mormon" faith doesn't believe sex is bad, they just have higher standards then most in today's world in how they will behave and present themselves. I'm so sick of ignorant people publically judging others beliefs when they don't even know what it is these people believe. if people truly want to disagree with what a religion believes then first find out what they believe and why- http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng
    http://www.mormon.org

  • Posted By: newsyone @ 07/19/2008 5:03:22 PM

    I have always said that the only good Mormon is a excommunicated one. They are very close to Islam. Mind control over the weak and uneducated.

    • Posted By: inthemiddleoftheroad @ 07/19/2008 5:34:19 PM

      This comment is so completely offbase its not even offensive. Obviously you know nothing of the LDS church or even Islam. In my opinion, the similarity I see is that Islam has suffered do to the actions of extremists, who *say* they are Islamic.

  • Posted By: catinsd @ 07/19/2008 4:31:56 PM

    I had a dear Mormon friend tell me Aids was caused by God to punish gays. She didn't have much to say when I asked about babies being born with aids... or people dying of aids because of blood transfusions. I had Mormon 'elders' tell me I was going to hell... because I 'knew the church was true' so even though I wasn't a member of the church... this supposed knowing I had was worse than if I had never studied the church. When I finally joined the church... and had my family baptized... the first Sunday we attended... I was told in Relief Society..(the womans worship service) that homosexuals were going to hell... "we may love you' said the leader...'but you are damned." I am a married mother of 3 and not gay... but to hear that just turned my stomach .. at the very least it wasn't very 'christian'. When I picked up my 3 kids from Primary.. (Sunday school) they were crying and scared... apparently some adults had come to their class dressed up in scary bloody costumes and were teaching about getting into heaven... while scaring the kids... I took my family.... left the church grounds and never returned again ... that was 15 years ago.

    • Posted By: jjjacks @ 07/19/2008 4:51:14 PM

      I've been a mormon for 25 years and have never seen any of that. Are you sure you're talking about the right church. I don't think your friend is the authority on why we have aids. The LDS church doesn't teach any such thing.

      Mormons have their own opinons that do not mesh with the church's doctrine sometimes and unfortunately those opinons come out wrongly in class. When teachers share their opinions in class they need too state that is is just their opinion. Too bad the members of the church can't be perfect like everyone expects us to be.

      The church teaches that it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage and that a marriage is between a man and a woman. You are not going to hell for feeling that your gay. If you have sex outside of marriage and do so with another person of your same sex, then that is not in harmony with the gospel of Jesus Christ. How I look at it is that there are alcoholics that will be alcoholics forever even if they don'r drink anymore. You can still be gay and not have to live a gay lifestyle. If everyone decided it was okay to have sex with whoever and whatever I think the family group would fall apart. And that is my opinoin.

      • Posted By: pete1119 @ 07/19/2008 5:32:57 PM

        So are you saying that people who are gay and practice gay sex are going to hell and those who are gay but don't practice a gay lifestyle aren't going to hell? You didn't really make yourself clear in that last point. I have to say that I have learned a lot about the LDS church from a very dear friend of mine and feel that those who practice this religion are very nice, helpful, and try to be understanding but they are set in their ways (just as most of the world is) and feel that anyone who is not mormon does not know any better. My friend and I are very close and we can talk about a lot of things but that is actually one of the reasons why I chose not to become a member of the chuch. I do know better and I believe in a God that does not descriminate and will accept people into heaven (one heaven, not different levels of heaven) no matter what lifesyle they choose to live. People who are not members of the LDS church do know better and I have made an educated choice and know in my heart that this religion is not for me. I believe in some of the teachings but I do not wholeheartedly believe in everything that is taught and some stuff I think is a big crock. You can act as tolerant as you want but when it come right down to it mormons are no different than anyone else they can just hide it better because of their teachings. BTW, no one expects you to be perfect except you and your church.

    • Posted By: luv2laf @ 07/19/2008 5:02:43 PM

      If your friend told you that, they were mistaken or lying because Mormons don't believe that. My husband's family is LDS and all of them were adopted and his brother was born with AIDS and died at only 3 years old. Never once did people claim that or say that. The church does not believe AIDS are a punishment. And the church doesn't shun gays or that they are going to hell. My brother-in-law is gay and he still goes to church, not super active, but he believe it. There may be stupid and ignorant people that treat him bad, but that is because some people can be judgmental.. whether they are mormon, cathorlic, homophobs, or what ever. The church do not hate gays and does not try to discriminate against them. They do think is wrong to be gay just like they think it is wrong to have premartial sex or to commit adultery. But they don't teach to hate people for making their own choices. I am sorry that you had a bad situation and that you think the church is like that. Sorry that some incorrect and stupid people made you think the whole church is like that... that a few stupid people made you think that all 12 million members arre like that. I hope your situation with future members is better.

    • Posted By: marthkpetersen @ 07/19/2008 4:56:02 PM

      I am sorry you had a bad experience in your ward. This is not typical. Latter Day Saints look on each and every person as a beloved son or daughter of God, and try to treat them in that way. Your experience is due to the fact that the church is made up of people who are imperfect.

      As for the previous comments, it is interesting that most of the anti-LDS ones are crude and elemental. There is no deep thought here, or evidence of simple education in writing a convincing sentence. What does that say? Why should anyone give any credence to these comments?

      The church has never desired to be more like the world, or to create bridges by becoming more like others. It sets a standard, tells the truth, and allows those who will listen to come to it. What does the world offer - chaos, unhappiness, high divorce rates, irresponsibility, heartache. What does the gospel offer - peace in this world and eternal life in the world to come. It is up to us to choose, and we are absolutely free to choose either path. I am very happy to know that the church leaders have drawn a line in the sand, so to speak, between the gospel teachings and the world that is constantly trying to push its chaos on us.

  • Posted By: Eternal Happiness @ 07/19/2008 3:18:06 PM

    It's so sad that you guys who have commented are so sadly uneducated. "Yourface", check in on church doctrine and you'll see that none of what you said is true. "Bigduckfan", what part of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints doesn't say Christian to you? Read the Book Of Mormon and see the scriptural references to the Bible. "Karmagran", garments beat a panty line and wedgy any day! You should work on earnng the privilege to be in such comfort!

    Bottom line... fix your own lives before you start bashing on others'. There's a reason it's said that we "Mormons" are the happiest Christians on the planet. :o)

    Oh, and Heavenly Father and Jesus still love you!

    • Posted By: Tana21 @ 07/19/2008 5:29:53 PM

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    • Posted By: Tana21 @ 07/19/2008 5:28:22 PM

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    • Posted By: katcelata @ 07/19/2008 3:35:31 PM

      My only difficulty, Eternal, is I have tried to get a copy of the Book of Mormon, and can't get sent one, though I am truly interested- I have to have a visit, though I would be delighted to welcome some young missionaries, I am a very retiring person in ill health , and would rather read the book, THEN welcome the children to talk to me, at my own time. However this is a small consideration and I am totally in line with your atatement.

      • Posted By: Eternal Happiness @ 07/19/2008 4:19:52 PM

        Katcelata, please know my prayers are with you in this time of need. I hope your health will turn for the better. :o)

        Were you the one who said earlier that you have church members for neighbors? If so, ask any of them for the Book of Mormon. You are more than entitled to read it before discussing it with the missionaries, but know that they are available to answer questions. :o) But you can ask any member of the church for one and we're sure to get a copy.

        I am a convert to the church. I chose to be baptized when I was 20 years old, after having researched and attended countless other churches. I instantly felt "at home" in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. There are wonderful people in all churches known to man, but I felt whole and complete with the Spirit of God in what I've called my church for the last 8 1/2 years.

        Regardless of what negativity these people may say, I know the church is true. As hard as they may try, they will not convince me otherwise because it's been testified to me through the Spirit of the Holy Ghost and through prayer. I know that this is Christ's church. I know that he loves each and every one of us. And you know what? I am formerly an Atheist... so if I can be touched by His hold spirit, any of these people can! I know that Christ's love is never-ending. This is my unwaivering testimony to you, in His sacred name, even the Lord Jesus Christ, amen!

        Good luck in your search for the truth! Don't let the horrible lies of the uneducated deter you. God's hand is outstretched to those who are willing to seek Him!

        Blessings!

      • Posted By: inthemiddleoftheroad @ 07/19/2008 3:49:54 PM

        Try http://www.mormon.org/mormonorg/eng/ask-a-question/have-missionaries-contact-me and put your info in. The missionaries will give you a book and let you read it and will be very eager to answer any questions and instruct you on the meanings of the information. Good luck. ;)

    • Posted By: the0ne76 @ 07/19/2008 3:31:48 PM

      CLAP!CLAP!CLAP! FOR YOU eternalhappiness.... very well said!!!! face has this retards comments

    • Posted By: Jubilee12 @ 07/19/2008 3:22:56 PM

      This is about naked men, not dogma. Let's try to stay on topic, shall we? (LOL)

  • Posted By: msldyj1 @ 07/19/2008 5:28:35 PM

    About 36 years ago I belonged to the Mormon Church. I was raised as a child. My mom did not go regularly but I did. The church was my lifeline to a bad situation at home. I took care of the bishop's children (8) of them while the parents spent hardly anytime with them. When I turnedt 18 I moved as things were very bad for years(use your imagination of what kind of abuses were happening it happened) The person I moved in with had been there for me as a friend since I was 13. He knew everything and offered a spare room when I was 18 so I could go on to college. He began reading .through my book of mormom The church called a meeting to excommunicate me. They assumed we were having sex and a rumor started we were getting married jumping out of an airplane. The fact was he was a respectable flight engineer in the air force, I decided they would do what they wanted to do no matter what I said because did I mention he was black/cherokee indian.I felt defending the untrue rumors were useless because it was the family I worked for many years and They already had their opinions on race and what I might be doing never giving him a chance as a human being. Update we decided to date and see where it would go and now I have been married 34 years ago and treated better than most women i the church I am sure. His mom did a great job he does not belive in even raising a voice to woman language is always respectable and he is not beyaond doing housework, kids grandkidd It is a never his job or my job it is our job to make a good marrige. We have 3 children and 8 grandchildren now and are as happy as the day we decided to date. As for what I learned in the church the family values are a great part of my life, still never smoked drank coffe etc. How many people fo to the mormon church and can say they follow My husband as much respect and any man I have ever met in the church yet he never stood a chance.

  • Posted By: lbjcariad @ 07/19/2008 5:21:32 PM

    If sex is so bad, I wonder where little Mormons come from?

    • Posted By: inthemiddleoftheroad @ 07/19/2008 5:25:52 PM

      I don't know where you got the idea that sex is bad. It is awesome, between a husband and wife.

  • Posted By: dl-109 @ 07/19/2008 5:24:38 PM

    wow, something is upsetting some religous group. christ, everything is wrong according to these kooks. i'm surprised breathing isnt considered a sin.

  • Posted By: karmagran@hotmail.com @ 07/19/2008 5:14:34 PM

    "newsyone," agreed. Religion is a way to control people. I live by the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I try to be kind, honest, and moral. It's not that complicated.

    • Posted By: BIGDUCKFAN @ 07/19/2008 5:21:15 PM

      KARMAGRAN; NOT TRYING TO STFLE YOUR FREEDOM OF SPEECH, YOU MENTION THAT CHRISTIAN BASE RELIGIONS SEEM TO LOVE WAR, TO ANSWERE WHERE WAR CAME UP AS A SUBJECT. YOU DO SEEM TO CONTRADICT YOUR SELF THRU YOUR MANY COMMENTS THOUGH

    • Posted By: paladin7 @ 07/19/2008 5:19:33 PM

      Goo ponalt

  • Posted By: hortablast @ 07/19/2008 3:11:29 PM

    I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Days Saints (the true name of the church). I also served a two year mission. The issue with this calendar is not sexuality. In my opinion the issue at stake is the sacredness of the missionary calling. Missionaries are respected in the church for their faith, devotion and discipline, not for their physical appearance. As far as the church's action in regards to this matter it is commandable.Any church would have reacted the same way. Just imagine if someone was to create a "beefcake calendar" of the Catholic church cardinals.

    • Posted By: katcelata @ 07/19/2008 3:22:32 PM

      This is the BEST comment I've seen yet, and the ONLY one that goes to the heart of the issue. Very well said, I wish I had had the knowledge to express this so well- I hope people pay attention to what you have posted.

      • Posted By: Aeddon's mom @ 07/19/2008 5:19:59 PM

        I'm not so sure we would want to see that calendar. If we are speaking of awareness of other religions - bear in mind - I'm not Catholic- but I do have the knowledge of their religion.

        Those guys are rather .... how to say it nicely..... old..... and not often.....attractive. That is also not the image the Catholic church wants because also - contrary to your returned missionaries - the Cardinals have taken a pledge of celibacy. you know they aren't supposed to have sex, marriage or otherwise.

        A significant difference. We wouldn't want to see them, and they are supposedly asexual. I believe former missionaries get married and have kids - at least my friends did.

  • Posted By: chickie @ 07/19/2008 5:19:21 PM

    Seems to be a double standard here...no posing for a calendar...bla, bla, bla. But a higher up in the church can make a sexual advance and nothing is done about that even when a Bishop is told about it. DOUBLE, DOUBLE STANDARD. Lets look in our own backyard first. Where can I buy a calendar?

  • Posted By: virginian13 @ 07/19/2008 5:17:18 PM

    I'm glad the boys got a calendar, God knows they deserve some fun after years of riding their bikes in the hot sun and rain in out of the way places, knocking on strangers doors trying to explain what the hell they are doing there. I had the pleasure of knowing (yes that way too!) numerous Elders while living on a small island over the last 8 years. Every 4-6 months a new couple or sometimes two couples could arrive. With the except of two in the 8 years they were all great guys very concerned for the locals and with wonderful intentions.. Most were also either intimate with one another or a number of us expats on the island. They worked hard but also played hard and loved hanging out on the beach on the days off. I often thought those beautiful boys should have a clanedar! I'll be nominating some for the 2009 version! Maybe one will even bare his special underwear!?

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