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At 25, I'm still questioning what it means to be an adult. But I know that part of it means having the financial independence to never have to rely on my parents for my decision making. This is indicative of a sort of social independence as well. If I want to plan a vacation halfway around the world, I do—and no one can tell me otherwise, because I am depending on my own means to get there. I can live wherever I want because I am paying my own rent. Financial independence has allowed for absolute control over my own life—an undeniably liberating feeling.

There is something to be said for writing that rent check each month and knowing you've managed to live comfortably on your own terms. Racking up $500 shopping sprees on Mommy and Daddy's credit card may have its momentary allure, but the adult part of me believes that working for what you have is much more rewarding than being handed it on a silver platter. And I have my own mom and dad to thank for that.

Serafino lives in New York City.

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  • Posted By: mustireallyweighin @ 05/12/2009 3:58:42 PM

    I need to stop reading all of "your" nonsense...this article is directed at a certain segment of the population (middle-class types who live off their parents when they don't need to)...if that ain't you, then tough...but don't whine about her being a princess or what not, because she has advantages that you don't.


    There is a lesson in the article. Living independently is better than relying on parents. Not exactly a message to inspire the laughably silly venom I've read in the comments.

  • Posted By: tempnewsweeker @ 03/28/2009 2:39:59 AM

    This article speaks volumes about assumptions of the privileged middle-class. Apparently, if you're a fortune 500 exec whose company doesn't pay any taxes, like Westinghouse or AIG, you've made it. You are morally pure because you've figured out a way to shift your economic burdens to the tax-payer semi-legally. If you're a struggling musician who has to ask an uncle for the rent you may as well not show your mug in Serafino's circle---give her an Enron man every time.

  • Posted By: tempnewsweeker @ 03/28/2009 2:39:31 AM

    This article speaks volumes about assumptions of the privileged middle-class. Apparently, if you're a fortune 500 exec whose company doesn't pay any taxes, like Westinghouse or AIG, you've made it. You are morally pure because you've figured out a way to shift your economic burdens to the tax-payer semi-legally. If you're a struggling musician who has to ask an uncle for the rent you may as well not show your mug in Serafino's circle---give her an Enron man every time.

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