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Kids started whispering about Larry when he was in third grade at Hathaway Elementary School. "In a school of 700 students, you'd know Larry," says Sarah Ranjbar, one of Larry's principals. "He was slightly effeminate but very sure of his personality." Finally, his best friend, Averi Laskey, pulled him aside one day at the end of class. "I said, 'Larry, are you gay?' He said, 'Yeah, why?' " He was 10. Averi remembers telling Larry she didn't care either way, but Larry started telling other students, and they did. They called him slurs and avoided him at recess. One Halloween, someone threw a smoke bomb into his house, almost killing the family's Jack Russell terrier. In the sixth grade, a girl started a "Burn Book"—an allusion to a book in the movie "Mean Girls," where bullies scribble nasty rumors about the people they hate—about Larry. The Larry book talked about how he was gay and falsely asserted that he dressed in Goth and drag. And it ended with a threat: "I hate Larry King. I wish he was dead," according to one parent's memory of the book. "The principal called my wife on the phone and she was crying," Greg says. "She found the book, and said we needed to do something to help protect Larry." His parents transferred him to another elementary school, hoping he could get a fresh start before he started junior high.

E. O. Green is a white slab of concrete in a neighborhood of pink and yellow homes. In the afternoons, SUVs roll down the street like gumballs, the sound of hip-hop music thumping. Once the students leave the campus, two blue gates seal it shut, and teachers are told not to return to school after dark, because of gang violence. Outside, there's a worn blue sign that greets visitors: this was a California distinguished school in 1994. The school is under a different administration now.

E. O. Green was a comfortable place for Larry when he arrived as a seventh grader. He hung out with a group of girls who, unlike in elementary school, didn't judge him. But that didn't mean he was entirely accepted. In gym class, some of his friends say that the boys would shove him around in the locker room. After he started dressing up, he was ridiculed even more. He lost a high heel once and the boys tossed it around at lunch like a football. "Random people would come up to him and start laughing," Moreno says. "I thought that was very rude." One day, in science class, he was singing "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" to himself. Kids nearby taunted him for being gay. "He said to me, 'It's OK'," says Vanessa Castillo, a classmate. " 'One day, they'll regret it. One day, I'll be famous'."

Larry's home life wasn't getting any better. At 12, he was put on probation for vandalizing a tractor with a razor blade, and he entered a counseling program, according to his father. One therapist said Larry might be autistic. At 14, Larry told Greg he thought he was bisexual. "It wouldn't matter either way to me," Greg says. "I thought maybe some of the problems would go away if we supported him." But the therapist told Greg he thought that Larry was just trying to get attention and might not understand what it meant to be gay. Larry began telling his teachers that his father was hitting him. Greg says he never harmed Larry; still, the authorities removed Larry from his home in November 2007. He moved to Casa Pacifica, a group home and treatment center in Camarillo, five miles away from Oxnard.

Larry seemed to like Casa Pacifica—"peaceful home" in Spanish. The 23-acre facility—more like a giant campground, with wooden cottages, a basketball court and a swimming pool—has 45 beds for crisis kids who need temporary shelter. Every day a driver would take Larry to school, and some weeks he went to nearby Ventura, where he attended gay youth-group meetings. "I heard this was the happiest time of his life," says Vicki Murphy, the center's director of operations. For Christmas, the home gave Larry a $75 gift card for Target. He spent it on a pair of brown stiletto shoes.

In January, after a few months at Casa Pacifica, Larry decided to dress like a girl. He went to school accessorized to the max, and his already colorful personality got louder. He accused a girl to her face of having breast implants. Another girl told him she didn't like his shoes. "I don't like your necklace," Larry snapped back. Larry called his mom from Casa Pacifica to tell her that he wanted to get a sex-change operation. And he told a teacher that he wanted to be called Leticia, since no one at school knew he was half African-American. The teacher said firmly, "Larry, I'm not calling you Leticia." He dropped the idea without an argument.

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  • Posted By: Jeppydog @ 06/07/2009 7:27:07 AM

    How dare anyone blame Ms. Epstein who was a friend to Larry. Also, the school meant well, but swept too many complaints under the rug. You have to listen to students as well as teachers' complaints to bring a problem out in the open. Larry was being catered to too much. He had a right not to be harassed but so did Brandon. Larry should've had to adhere to the dress code and behaviior for his own sake. His father can't blame the school however for allowing Larry to dress that way if he allowed it as well.

  • Posted By: AngelinaKnight @ 05/05/2009 3:46:07 AM

    I am a TG from Washington State. That being said so no one accuses me of Homophobic comments I want to say this. That a school would allow students to feel comfortable and free to be themselves is excellent. No child should be told to pretend they are something they are not. However, If the reports are true of his pursuing taunting and forcefully flirting with the boys in his school are true regardless of who it is Boy, Girl, gay or straight Sexual harassment is sexual harassment and should not, can not, be permitted on school grounds. Just as young GLBT kids should feel safe to be themselves without threat of bodily harm to verbal harassment all children, tweens and teens regardless of gender or sexual identity should feel safe from the unwanted advances of another student.

  • Posted By: foxspirit5 @ 02/19/2009 10:42:24 AM

    Sad.

    This is sad. The world as we know it is crumbling before our very eyes, and everyone is doing nothing but blaming the other! I as a single parent know first-hand that my child is FULLY GAY. And I love him no matter what he does. Why? The world turns their back to what I would call the worst hate crime ever. Little Larry even CHANGED HIS CLOTHES to avoid his tragic downfall. He had admitted his feelings, and been punished far worse then he should have been!

    I also feel that Bradon should be locked up for his actions. If let free...who knows if he may strike again?

    As for his FATHER. I am sickened that he would blame a poor child that was killed by his own SON. Then he had the nerve to blame Larry, when he in the end was the victim of a horrible hate crime. But be not blind my friends. For Larry is not the first to have been killed for being Gay.

    I have no doubt that the law may let him go. The law, religious, and sometimes even friends and family...have never really supported the thought of Gay people. Lend a hand to children, young teens, and even adults. Because they are no different from you and I.

    Larry gave his heart to a child...proving that even in death he was an innocent spirit. At least now...his soul lives on in that shild, and we can remember that face. The National Day of Silence...Is a day where everyone should stand up and protect what they believe in. And I BELIEVE THAT GAYS HAVE A RIGHT TOO!

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