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The friend didn't tell Larry about the threat—she thought Brandon was just kidding. There are many rumors of another confrontation between Larry and Brandon, on Feb. 11, the day before the shooting. Several students and teachers said they had heard about a fight between the two but they hadn't actually witnessed it themselves. The next morning a counselor at Casa Pacifica asked Larry what was wrong, and he said, vaguely, "I've had enough." When he got to school, his friends quizzed him about his noticeably unfabulous appearance. He said that he ran out of makeup and hair gel (which wasn't true) and that he had a blister on his ankle (this was true—he'd just bought a new pair of boots). Larry walked alongside Boldrin to the computer class and sat in front of a computer. A few minutes later, a counselor summoned him to her office. She told him that his grades were so low, he was at risk of not graduating from the eighth grade. He went back to his computer. He had written his name on his paper as Leticia King. Most of the campus heard the gunshots. Some described it like a door slammed shut very hard.

On March 7, the school held a memorial service for Larry. Epstein stood at the podium with students who read from notecards about what they liked best about Larry: he was nice, he was unique, he was brave. The band played "Amazing Grace," and two dozen doves were released into the sky. Averi read a poem about how her friend was like a garden seed that grew, and died; Larry's mom wept in the front row. Deep in the audience, an eighth grader turned to one of Brandon's friends and whispered, "That's so gay."

The obvious question now is whether Larry's death could have been prevented. "Absolutely," says Dannenberg. "Why do we have youngsters that have access to guns? Why don't we have adequate funding to pay for social workers at the school to make sure students have resources? We have societal issues." Many teachers and parents aren't content with that answer. For them, the issue isn't whether Larry was gay or straight—his father still isn't convinced his son was gay—but whether he was allowed to push the boundaries so far that he put himself and others in danger. They're not blaming Larry for his own death—as if anything could justify his murder—but their attitude toward his assailant is not unsympathetic. "We failed Brandon," a teacher says. "We didn't know the bullying was coming from the other side—Larry was pushing as hard as he could, because he liked the attention."

Greg King doesn't feel sympathy for Brandon, but he does believe his son sexually harassed him. He's resentful that the gay community has appropriated his son's murder as part of a larger cause. "I think the gay-rights people want it to be a gay-rights issue, because it makes a poster child out of my son," King says. "That bothered me. I'm not anti-gay. I have a lot of co-workers and friends who are gay." That anger was made worse when he heard this summer that Epstein would be promoted to principal of an elementary school. "This is a slap in the face of my family," Greg says. Many teachers wonder if the district moved her because she had become a lightning rod for criticism after Larry's death. Dannenberg, the superintendent, says that she was the most qualified person for the new principal job.

The school has conducted its own investigation, though its lawyer won't make it public. But it will likely be brought up when Brandon goes to trial. He is charged with first-degree murder and a hate crime, and is scheduled to be arraigned this week. Hundreds of his classmates have signed a petition asking that he be tried in juvenile court. The district attorney wants him tried as an adult, which could result in a prison sentence of 51 years to life. "Brandon was being terrorized," says Bill, who has set up a public defense fund in his son's name. "He was being stalked almost, to the degree of the school should have never let this happen." What happened to Larry and Brandon was certainly extreme, but it has implications for schools across the country. "If we're going to be absolutely sure this isn't going to happen again," says Elaine Garber, 81, who has served on the school's board for 48 years, "this has got to be discussed some more."

As if anyone has stopped talking—and arguing—about Larry King. He had an entire page devoted to him in the E. O. Green yearbook. On the Internet, he's become a gay martyr, and this year's National Day of Silence, an annual event created to raise awareness of homophobia, was dedicated to Larry. And in Averi Laskey's bedroom, she still keeps a handmade purple get-well card she made for Larry on the day after he was shot. At the time, there was still hope he would pull through. He had survived the night, which the doctors said was a good sign. Averi rounded up dozens of teachers and friends between classes to sign messages of encouragement. "Larry, I miss you. Get better," Boldrin wrote in blue ink. "Keep up your spirit. A lot of people are rooting for you to get better," the principal wrote. Some of Larry's classmates apologized for how he had been treated. A few even left their phone numbers, so he could call them if he ever needed to talk to someone. But when Averi got home that day, she learned that Larry had suffered a fatal stroke. Larry was pronounced brain-dead that afternoon, and the family decided to donate his organs. The following day, Feb. 14, doctors harvested his pancreas, liver, lungs and the most important organ of all, which now beats inside the chest of a 10-year-old girl. On Valentine's Day, Larry King gave away his heart, but not in the way he thought he would.

In the five months NEWSWEEK spent examining Larry King's death, we spoke with several dozen people, including faculty, students and parents. All students named were interviewed with their parents' permission. Some of our sources would speak only anonymously; the school's staff was instructed not to speak to the media because of the criminal proceedings and the possibility of civil litigation. While they agreed to be interviewed on the record, Jerry Dannenberg, the district superintendent, and Joy Epstein, E. O. Green's former assistant principal, were limited in what they could say for the same reasons.

With Andrew Murr and Jennifer Ordoñez

© 2008

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  • Posted By: Jeppydog @ 06/07/2009 7:27:07 AM

    How dare anyone blame Ms. Epstein who was a friend to Larry. Also, the school meant well, but swept too many complaints under the rug. You have to listen to students as well as teachers' complaints to bring a problem out in the open. Larry was being catered to too much. He had a right not to be harassed but so did Brandon. Larry should've had to adhere to the dress code and behaviior for his own sake. His father can't blame the school however for allowing Larry to dress that way if he allowed it as well.

  • Posted By: AngelinaKnight @ 05/05/2009 3:46:07 AM

    I am a TG from Washington State. That being said so no one accuses me of Homophobic comments I want to say this. That a school would allow students to feel comfortable and free to be themselves is excellent. No child should be told to pretend they are something they are not. However, If the reports are true of his pursuing taunting and forcefully flirting with the boys in his school are true regardless of who it is Boy, Girl, gay or straight Sexual harassment is sexual harassment and should not, can not, be permitted on school grounds. Just as young GLBT kids should feel safe to be themselves without threat of bodily harm to verbal harassment all children, tweens and teens regardless of gender or sexual identity should feel safe from the unwanted advances of another student.

  • Posted By: foxspirit5 @ 02/19/2009 10:42:24 AM

    Sad.

    This is sad. The world as we know it is crumbling before our very eyes, and everyone is doing nothing but blaming the other! I as a single parent know first-hand that my child is FULLY GAY. And I love him no matter what he does. Why? The world turns their back to what I would call the worst hate crime ever. Little Larry even CHANGED HIS CLOTHES to avoid his tragic downfall. He had admitted his feelings, and been punished far worse then he should have been!

    I also feel that Bradon should be locked up for his actions. If let free...who knows if he may strike again?

    As for his FATHER. I am sickened that he would blame a poor child that was killed by his own SON. Then he had the nerve to blame Larry, when he in the end was the victim of a horrible hate crime. But be not blind my friends. For Larry is not the first to have been killed for being Gay.

    I have no doubt that the law may let him go. The law, religious, and sometimes even friends and family...have never really supported the thought of Gay people. Lend a hand to children, young teens, and even adults. Because they are no different from you and I.

    Larry gave his heart to a child...proving that even in death he was an innocent spirit. At least now...his soul lives on in that shild, and we can remember that face. The National Day of Silence...Is a day where everyone should stand up and protect what they believe in. And I BELIEVE THAT GAYS HAVE A RIGHT TOO!

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