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  • Posted By: dawayne @ 07/21/2008 5:18:20 PM

    people who support dadt and discriminatory acts like it need to mature. personally, the military needs to adapt to a higher moral code by making its installations co-ed. our military prides itself on honor and disipline..where is the honor and disipline in needing seperate quarters? are our military personel not dignified enough to understand that our militarys overall function is more important than our own personal/social/political divides? please. think about it.

  • Posted By: military man iraq @ 07/21/2008 5:14:34 PM

    this is for michael.taylor @ 07/21/2008 4:58:02 PM
    Have you ever been in the military??? My quess is no. If you haven't how do you know what we go through or how (close) we have to be. In cobat is not like watching TV or going to the gym.

  • Posted By: bwtarvin @ 07/21/2008 5:11:19 PM

    Don't think for a minute there is not a liberal spin to this. I know of numerous soldiers who were discharged because of being openly gay..............the problem is this, all of the ones I know of claimed to be gay, as a way of getting out of serving! I agree with the other comments......What about my rights and my privacy and my modesty?

  • Posted By: military man iraq @ 07/21/2008 5:05:56 PM

    I'm not saying gay people should not be in the military. What im saying is if they are open and everybody knows it it is the same as non gay people should be able to use one shower. You are going to say thats stupid but whats the difference??

  • Posted By: michael.taylor @ 07/21/2008 4:58:02 PM

    Please gay people are in the military now. Don't be fooling yourself that you look so good in the shower that gay military people can't wait to see you in the shower. Straight people look too. If a gay Soldier dies dosen't it mean the same. This law should be overturn so we get on to the business of defending our country with all of our citizens.

  • Posted By: edjohn333 @ 07/21/2008 1:57:28 PM

    I am out of the military now, and have no problems working with gay people. But what people who have never been in forget is that while in you are forces to take group showers. It is bad enough to realize that there may be someone there checking you out, but I certainly don't want to hear about it. I support the "don't ask, don't tell" policy.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:18:24 PM

      What a lame comment. Do you think for one minute that a man or woman is not being "checked out" as you put it in every health club, professional sports lockerroooms, on every beach, etc.

      Wake up buddy. 9 out of every 10 men and women "check out" each other on the street, in the workplace, and everywhere else. You don't have to be in the military and nude in a shower to be "checked out".

      • Posted By: military man iraq @ 07/21/2008 4:57:06 PM

        Thats cool I agree with you so next time I'll like to take a shower in the girls room. It will be fun!!!! Stupit

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:27:06 PM

      That is one lame excuse for supporting the policy. Do you really believe that men and women are not "Checked Out", as you put it , daily in every health club, professional sports lockerroom, on every beach in this country? Are you completely tunnel visioned that you do not see that 9 out of every 10 men and women check each other out in every office, in every social setting, and on every street in America every day? You do not have to be in the military, naked and in a shower to be "checked out". I may believe that if someone is so hideous that people look away out of stupidity, fear, or ignorance, but your reason for supporting the policy doesn't hold one drop of water. Wake up!

  • Posted By: AD132008 @ 07/21/2008 4:46:16 PM

    As a lesbian woman I am grateful for all progress - even if in small steps. This country is making progress in the direction of acceptance more and more as years go by. Thank you to all of those that are stepping up and taking a stance for gay rights. We are people with feelings. It's ashamed that the stereo typical flamboyant in your face gays have ruined the image the rest of us wish to represent. Hopefully the more the educated well spoken and respected gays speak out - the more those words won't fall on deaf ears.

  • Posted By: Gaithersburger @ 07/21/2008 3:55:50 PM

    I was struck by the question concerning public support for allowing gay men and women to serve in the military versus same-sex marriage. While a large majority of Americans are now okay with gay men and women serving openly in the military (around 75%), a small majority (probably around 55%) still opposes same-sex marriage, When asked how to reconcile this, the interviewee surmised, among other things, that it "may be that in this country we greatly value those who are interested in sacrificing for our country." So apparently the approximately 30% of Americans who are okay with gay men and women sacrificing for their country are also okay with those same people being treated as second-class citizens. Talk about hypocrisy.

    It is long past time that this country joined its allies and abolished this backward and unnecessary policy.

  • Posted By: spjon @ 07/21/2008 3:15:24 PM

    I think Don't Ask Don't Tell is a wonderful thing. I have many gay friends due to my brother being gay and they all love it too. When you have a crazy President trying to get us in a war with every single country that says one thing to us it's a good thing. Pretty much what my gay friends say is that they have no problem serving this country if it's their choice and it's a cause they believe in but not if it's just out of stupidity and falsehoods. They say that had Iraq come down to a draft, the very first thing they would have done was to be out and proud and get kicked out of the military. If anything, we should feel bad for us straight people because we don't have a tool like this one to stop ourselves from being used.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:24:20 PM

      However, if there ever was a draft again, it would be immediately abolished. HYPOCRITES!

      • Posted By: spjon @ 07/21/2008 3:33:00 PM

        Thanks for the support and you're probably right. I don't mean to be a jerk. But you sound like an angry gay man. Just an observation.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:23:26 PM

      If the draft is ever reinstated, I hope the policy of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" is still in full force and every gay and lesbian person takes advantage of it. SHOVE IT RIGHT BACK IN THE LAWMAKER"S FACES!

  • Posted By: MCallegri @ 07/21/2008 3:15:42 PM

    This is all interesting talk. Being a retired military person, I really don't care whether gays and lesbians can serve in the military. Bieng a Navy man, I will say it is very difficult. Of couser quarters are seperated between men and women and rightfully so. Does this mean because of the hormonal factor that there will a furhte division? Why do I ask that you woner? Well I can tell you of two seperate instances on my last ship of illegal sexual activities going on with gays. The first involved a female officer and an enlisted., the second three enlsited males. And yes, all four of those are inlcuded in those booted totals. The second incident had to do with the three males fondeling other men in their sleep in their berthing area. So personally, thought "Dont' ask don't tell" may be flawed, its a matter of control. It's difficutl enough keeping straight men and women apart when you have been out to sea for one month or more without pulling into port. If they can all keep their privates in their pants and complete their jobs, the military will be that much strong for it.

  • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:14:30 PM

    Bush/Cheney Legacy:

    Liars, frauds, advocates of fear, blood-thirsty war mongers, homophobes, hypocrites, mass-murderers. Rest assured, they will have their place in histroy!

  • Posted By: hankthehorrible @ 07/21/2008 3:09:21 PM

    Tony, we all do know who passed the law & who won't change it. See a pattern here? Keeping the status quo, a pattern of any politico trying to hold on. Change will come, has to be done soon though. I just don't think any contemporary politicians will make that change, sadly enough.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:11:43 PM

      Now we finally agree on something. The policy needs to be abolished!

  • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:05:18 PM

    The days of Bush's and the republicans maniacal dictatorship is fast approaching. Counting the days until that fool is sent packing back to the cowpaddie pastures of TX with the rest of the shi*!

  • Posted By: Sane in Utah @ 07/21/2008 3:00:14 PM

    "including nearly 800 with skills deemed "mission-critical" by the Pentagon: 322 were language experts, and of those 60 were proficient in Arabic."

    That line alone should give neo-conservatives pause. And by the way Republicans, this should be an answer to your prayers in your war on gays -- gays willing to be cannon fodder for a country that sees them as 2nd class citizens. You think you'd all be doing "Amens" and "Hallelujiahs" in the aisles for these people to put themselves in harm's way.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 3:02:52 PM

      HEAR!!!!!!!!! HEAR!!!!!!!!!!!

      One would think that the blood-thirsty, war-mongering, fear-spreading Bush would understand that, but as the last 8 years have proven, Bush and the republicans understand little, if anything at all.

  • Posted By: hankthehorrible @ 07/21/2008 2:57:23 PM

    Sorry for the double post, my computer had a glitch. OOPS!

  • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:57:08 PM

    Yes Hank, we know who passed the law, and we also know who can and won't put an end to it.

  • Posted By: hankthehorrible @ 07/21/2008 2:55:28 PM

    As the late Distinguished Gentleman from the great state of Arizona, the late Senator Barry Goldwater once said: "You don't have to be straight to shoot straight."
    Don't ask/Don't tell has run it's course & we need to progress as a society to get over it, simple as that. But that's not what I'm going to complain about.
    My sole complaint is the liberals (especially in academia) blaming Dubya for said policy when it was clearly enacted during Slick Willy Clinton's reign. What a farce!
    Here @ UCSB they were considering removing the ROTC program from campus because of the "discriminatory nature of the policy." Funny thing is the military also has a anti-fraternization rule for heterosexuals too.
    If the liberal academics REALLY want a change, don't just remove ROTC from campus, stop refusing grant $$$ from DoD, DOE, USAF, USN & all other military contributors. While they're @ it, refuse ANY future $$$ grants from the military.
    But as we all know, liberals have about as much determination as France has military resolve & they'll never back up what they say w/ actions such as those I've listed.
    We do need to change that rule, but in the process, stop blaming the wrong administration, it only makes the argument seem more like an agenda rather than an attempt @ social justice.
    Of course, liberals love revising history to suit their cause so expect more to come & no change due to this, ESPECIALLY when McCain gets the election in Nov.
    get it straight, who passed the rule, nothing to do w/ sexual orientation!

  • Posted By: hankthehorrible @ 07/21/2008 2:43:58 PM

    The late Distingushed Gentleman from Arizone, Senator Barry Goldwater said it best: "You don't have to be straight to shoot straight." That's coming from the conservative that even conservatives feared, yet respected. Things need to change, no doubt.
    But here's what I'm ticked @: Why is it that "Don't ask/Don't tell" gets blamed on Bush by the liberals, especially in the ivory tower of academia? It was Slick Willy that it passed under, not Dubya.
    Here @ UCSB they wanted to remove the ROTC program from campus because of "Don't ask/Don't tell" citing it as a Bush directive.
    Well, if you're going to remove it, might as well give back all that $$$ in grants from DOE, DOD, USAF, US Dept. of Navy & every other military contributor to the UC system.
    While they're @ it, refuse ANY future $$$ grants, that'll send a message. But liberals & determination go as good as France & military resolve.
    The biggest thing the liberal contingent has to figure out too is that it was the darling of the lefties, Slick Willy, that enacted the law, NOT DUBYA! Bottom line, get it straight, who passed the law, not sexual orientation.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:51:35 PM

      It got blamed on Clinton and deservedly so. It gets blamed on Bush now for not reversing it. He is just as complicit in the policy existing today. Racists, homophobes, and bigots galore in every segment of society. However, those in elected positions who have the power to do away with policies that single people out and discriminate against them, and choose NOT to need to be held accountable.

      It never ceases to amaze me that the people who cry the loudest, institute and agree with policies such as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" more often than not, have something to hide.

      • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:53:35 PM

        Spoken like a true Republican!

  • Posted By: shortjames @ 07/21/2008 2:36:19 PM

    In Israel, England, France...etc etc...this is a non issue. Yet in the USA they say it will hurt troop morale. Why is it that US troops are less disciplined than these other countries? Thats the real question here.

    • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:43:16 PM

      ShortJames:

      Only in America man. How convenient 9/11 was for Bush/Cheney and the rest of the crew. It strengthened their neandrathalic, discriminatory case of gays in the military, as well as gives them a reason to torture.

      Only in America!

  • Posted By: Tony C. @ 07/21/2008 2:39:28 PM

    The policy on torture, instituted by the maniac we have had in the White House for the last 8 years should also be abolished.

    The NY TIimes today refused an editorial by John McCain on his Iraq war policy. Good for the NYTimes.

    McCain's policy on Iraq is the same as Bush/Cheney/Rumsfeld/Rice and so many others have.

    The administration knew so much prior to 9/11, had the information, knew an attack was imminent, that planes were going to be used, NY and Wash. were targeted, etc., but as many people know now, Bush/Cheney, etc. used National Security as an excuse to keep only the smallest possible group of people knowing what was going on.

    A lot happened after 9/11 as everyone now knows, but one thing that happened that most people do not know is that America became a torture country.

    McCain, deny as he might, believes in, and has many of the same policies as Bush.

    If the American people have not awakened to the damage done by this administration in the last 8 years, has not bothered to read, digest and realize what really happened and how complicit Bush and other members of his administration were then the U.S. deserves what it gets. All Americans need to get up off their backsides from in front of their reality tv shows, register to vote and VOTE!

    If those who do not do so, those who refuse to believe the facts that have come out since this war began, those who do not hold Bush and his administration responsible for their actions, then they should remain silent, not complain, and prepare themselves for what comes next, whatever that may be.

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