Teen Pregnancy, Hollywood Style

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  • Posted By: bobomack @ 07/27/2008 8:20:29 PM

    This is a classic example of the demoralization in this country. Jamie Lynn Spears is worshiped by young teens. We fail as society to teach our teens abstanance or to use protection. Jamie Lynn is a celebrity and not the best role model for our teens. As she makes the comment "being sa mother is the best feeling in the world". I'm sure with all the overpaid money she made, she will hire a staff to look after the little tyke, while she continues her acting career, But at this point, she has neither the brains or skill to raise a child and at the same time sends a message ot young teens everywhere it's so glamorous to be a pregnant teen and young girls will follow her lead. If you think the fall-out from this story has long reaching effects, just watch the increase in teen pregnancies in our society. Parents need to step up to the plate and educate our young peaple about unprotected sex. You can bet the bank that Hollywood sure won't, that would cut down on movie sales and profits. Dirt sells and the SOBs are in it up to their eyeballs. By the way, teen marriages have a the highest failure rate due to the fact the majority of teens are not intellecually ready for that commitment, as well their maturity level, in todays society is way below par. Jamie Lynn is fortunate to have made a substancial sum of money to aid her in hiring her staff to raise the baby. Otherwise this would be just another tragic teen pregnancy and another teen on welfare, hud and AFDC.

    • Posted By: Shawnee_18 @ 07/27/2008 10:28:03 PM

      I don't tottally agree with you there are thousands of teen girls who don't idolize Jamie Lynn Spears. now, i agree with you that she makes teens think that it's glamorous...and it is to some extent. No is not glamorous that you have a new baby who has to rely on you to feed it and cloth it. But it's a god sent child.

  • Posted By: AshleyAnn2488 @ 07/27/2008 8:24:37 PM

    Well I think its just showing the reality of what could happen. Its not glamorizing anything it shows the consequences of being irresponsible and being sexually active at a younger age. It shows the trials and tribulations of a teen mother in high school the way it effects her LIFE, friends, family, school work; how older generations look down upon teen pregnancy and an abortion is 50/50 in the looked down upon to only other
    option ratio. On the other hand it is the "trend" in Hollywood and could in turn be associated with being sexually active to influential teenagers wanting to be like their favorite actress. But either way I see it is, a parent shouldn't look down upon their child for being a teen parent its happened get over it, accept the fact that change is inevitable good or bad, and embrace the fact that the miracle of life is giving you a new addition to your family.

    • Posted By: Laurie09 @ 07/27/2008 8:52:46 PM

      Ashley Anna...I think I understand what you are saying, but it seems that you're glossing over things. No, as a parent you cannot change the fact that your daughter is pregnant. I agree that there should be love and support from the parents of the pregnant teen. However, you make it sound so easy to just "get over it," and disregard the feelings of a parent. I don't know many parents who raise their children with the idea that their child will become a pregnant mother, so several emotions come about when that happens. Shock, a feeling of failure on their part (not the teen), betrayal (especially if the teen lied about having sex), etc; and all of this can be intensified depending on the parent or even the religious beliefs of the family. It doesn't mean that the parent loves their pregnant teen any less, but it certainly does bring about a huge change that everyone in the family must come to terms with, often after a substantial period of time. You sound a little too idealistic or immature with your ideas that parents could just "get over it" as though it was simply their teen having a scraped knee.

      • Posted By: Shawnee_18 @ 07/27/2008 10:22:53 PM

        I tottally agree with you. I was pregnant as a 16 teen year old. And I know that my parents felt like they failed, and im sorry that they felt that was, but i tried to explain it to them. I choose to have sex. And it's not something that you can easily dismiss.

  • Posted By: mbailiff @ 07/27/2008 10:22:17 PM

    Raising a child well when you are an adult with a good paying job and a husband is the hardest thing on earth to do. Why would anyone think they could do it as a teenager? I think we really need to be talking to our kids about birth control and not just about abstinence. I know a lot of people who are very religous will have a heart attack at the thought of buying condoms for there teenage sons or taking a 14 year old daughter to the doctor and putting her on birth control pills but by doing either of those two things you may be securing your childs future. I think we need to realize that kids are having sex and they will continue to do so. The only thing left to decide is whether you want your child to have safe protected sex or unsafe unprotected sex.

  • Posted By: jayzarkara @ 07/27/2008 9:45:01 PM

    ok, sexydasha2009 needs to haver her fingers removed and her tongue cut out. or better yet, tie her tubes. that way she cant reproduce and make more little sl***!! american society is not yet ready for 15-17 year old girls to become pregnant. i'm noe saying that pre-marital sex is wrong, just be cautious and if the girl DOES get pregnant, GET AN ABORTION WITHIN A WEEK OF KNOWING!!!!!!!

    • Posted By: Shawnee_18 @ 07/27/2008 10:08:54 PM

      Do you know how painful it is to get an abortion......don not joke about thoes kind of things......unless you've had one, shut the *** up

  • Posted By: LIAO @ 07/27/2008 10:06:31 PM

    I HAVE SEEN THAT TEENAGER PREGNANCY MOVIE FEW MONTHS AGO WITH MY HUSBAND. THAT IS AN INTERESTING MOVIE BUT AT THAT TIME I TOLD MY HUSBAND THAT I AM WORRIED THIS MOVIE WILL ENCOURAGE TEENS TO HAVE BABY. I BELIEVE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE TO HAVE BABY, YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT ENSURING TO GIVE HE/SHE A HEALTHY, COMPLETE AND CARING ENVIORNMEN. FOR THE TEEN MOTHERS, IT'S SAD NOT TO FINISH SCHOOLS IN THEIR YOUNG AGES.

  • Posted By: Tanner'smom @ 07/27/2008 10:06:20 PM

    It's hard enough to be a married adult having babies. I couldn't imagine being a teenager. It's definetly alot harder then it looks. You're the only there in the middle of the night when the baby is sick and on top of that you still have to get up and go to work. Not to mention if the baby is sick all the time and you miss work...guess what...you're gonna get fired. Think twice about it...live your life...there is plenty of time to have kids....

  • Posted By: Tanner'smom @ 07/27/2008 10:05:10 PM

    It's hard enough to be a married adult having babies. I couldn't imagine being a teenager. It's definetly alot harder then it looks. You're the only there in the middle of the night when the baby is sick and on top of that you still have to get up and go to work. Not to mention if the baby is sick all the time and you miss work...guess what...you're gonna get fired. Think twice about it...live your life...there is plenty of time to have kids....

  • Posted By: brettborg @ 07/27/2008 10:04:04 PM

    I have adopted a little girl, she has blessed my life in ways I can't imagine. Teen pregnancy can be a huge blessing to thousands of couples who can't have children, like my wife and I. I want teenage girls to know that adoption is a great option out there. The birthmom of my daughter did an amazingly selfless thing in giving us a child, and she gets to see our daughter all the time. It has been wonderful. A negative situation can be a positive one if we let it. brettandjenny.blogspot.com

  • Posted By: sexy_dasha2009 @ 07/27/2008 9:27:45 PM

    i am a teen mother im eight months pregnant with my first child for the longest people have always you know been afraid to talk about teen pregnancy it always been viewed as a bad thing you always here something like theres that pregnant girl dnt hang around her like its such a bad thing .like its a disease or something .Grow up America please half of u wouldnt be here if it wasnt for your parents being a teen mother really .Teen parents are much better parentsthen they were back in the day .in my community teen fathers or young fathers are wanting to be more in there childs life having a child id also helping them because some of them feel as if they really dnt have nothing to live for but when a child is brought into thier life it is totally diffrent. People are so overrated these days get over your self .its 2008 not 1888

    • Posted By: cafesmitty @ 07/27/2008 10:03:43 PM

      I would like to see how you think in about a year. It sounds as if you have already been obstracized. No one wants to talk to you, and people being told NOT to talk to you. So sexy_dasha2009 do you have plans for college? Is the baby father going to support you? Is this a planned pregnancy? Did you planned to be an unwed teenage mother?
      But hey! What do anyone know right? You got it ALL planned out. You are going to be in that one percent that things just work out great. Good luck with that! I really do hope you have all that support. But let me leave you with this bit of nugget. It was hard for teens in 1888 and its still hard for young teens in 2008 otherwise it would be no articles.

  • Posted By: brettborg @ 07/27/2008 10:01:21 PM

    I have adopted a little girl, she has blessed my life in ways I can't imagine. Teen pregnancy can be a huge blessing to thousands of couples who can't have children, like my wife and I. I want teenage girls to know that adoption is a great option out there. The birthmom of my daughter did an amazingly selfless thing in giving us a child, and she gets to see our daughter all the time. It has been wonderful. A negative situation can be a positive one if we let it. brettandjenny.blogspot.com

  • Posted By: NewYorrk89 @ 07/27/2008 9:58:15 PM

    Sex outside marriage IS ok. Also, anyone who relies on the media for moral advice is an idiot. Also, there is absolutely no way that Juno glamourizes teen pregnancy. Have you people ever even seen the movie? The fact is that it happens. People should just be more careful and use condems.

  • Posted By: Eye Of The Beholder @ 07/27/2008 9:55:29 PM

    I would think that the starlets have more money and possiably more help than most. But this however does not change the heartaches and at times overwhelming needs of a baby no matter if one has a nanny or not. sure it all seems so sublime but I agree that all is not always as it seems. I am not against the starlets but rather trying to say that no matter how much fame, fortune or otherwise that it ultimately takes alot to be an effective parent.

  • Posted By: ObamaMama @ 07/27/2008 9:54:57 PM

    Sarah Kliff: your opening statement is total ignorance and reduces your professionalism and Newsweek's !!Bash the Catholic Church with sarcasm and disrespect in a cheap attempt to grab attention to sell copy ??Why don't you educate yourself and try to improve those credentials ? Media hacks who spread hate and ridicule are part of society's problems, not part of the solution.

  • Posted By: GaLiberal @ 07/27/2008 4:50:07 PM

    This points out what the religoNazis and the Republicans have done to this country. First, they get draconian laws passed that prevent teens from access to abortion services then they stick schools with this phony 'abstinence only' approach to sex ed. Planned Parenthood, which was about the only good place to get contraception and non-judgmental sex information has been demonized as baby killers and promoting teen promiscuity. We wag our societal fingers and say 'Tisk Tisk, you should have just said No.' to any teen that get pregnant. The social support system that would have provided them a way out has been completely dismantled by the religoNazis and the Republicans. So we are left with a bunch of teens who are just told to say No, who don't have access to contraception, who no longer have an alternative, and we wonder why there is a problem. When you vote Republican, you vote against your own best interests. And teen sex and pregnancy is living proof.

    • Posted By: e_denny @ 07/27/2008 9:52:05 PM

      Planned Parenthood? What do they and there founder stand for? Read it for yourself http://www.dianedew.com/sanger.htm

  • Posted By: cafesmitty @ 07/27/2008 9:13:45 PM

    You know what I found interesting here, it seems as if this article is blaming movies like Juno and people like Jamie Lynn Spears for teenagers getting pregnant. This is not a new phenomenon and sure Juno is purely a fairytale, I don't think teens are watching and being influenced by that film. Teenage pregnancies have been around for decades if not centuries. And from I have read in the past, they powers that be are trying to legislate sex education out of schools all together.
    It boils down to one thing and one thing only... PARENTS! Part of being a parent is to have those uncomfortable talk with your children. If you don't want your daughters to get pregnant, tell them to keep their legs close and if that isn't possible, then tell them that any boy that doesn't wish to use a condom, then that boy doesn't respect you in the first place. In fact no one should have unprotective sex unless they decide and actually get married. But I do know that girls have their heads in the clouds and think all is going to be a fairytale. Well stop reading them fairytales. There are no cinderallas, no snowwhites and that 15-60 minutes of fun stupidity is going to leave to a lifetime of headaches. But no one wants to have that talk, they want to leave it up to movies, magazines and television to educate their girls.

    • Posted By: lilyjareth2001 @ 07/27/2008 9:28:11 PM

      I see what you are saying here, but you have to also look at it in another way, Jamie Lynn didn't have to publicize it as she has, nor did her crazy, clearly unfit sister. But do you hear them saying anything to the kids about it not being what they should be doing. The famous moms have it all, money, nannies, ect. they don't HAVE to be there every sencond for their new babies, they don't understand it as normal working class do.

      Parents should certainly take responsibility as well, I agree 100%. But when my grandparents were young, they were having kids at young ages, and back then it was ok, school wasn't the big deal it is today, and the kids were eventually a help in the family businesses, farms and around the house. Only recently with the push of getting a good education is teen pregnancy a bad thing.

      What the teel celeb mothers should be doing is talking about the consequences, hardships, and advising teens to go to the dr, get the pill, or condoms or get tested. But instead Jamie Lynn toots her own horn and smiles her stupid smile in the cover of a magazine with her soon to be raised by nannies child.

      • Posted By: cafesmitty @ 07/27/2008 9:51:37 PM

        But you know we aren't going to get those messages from the celeb teen moms. They are either too disillusional themselves or they simply don't care! Do you think Jamie Lynn would have gotten pregnant if her sister was a positive influence? Celebs crave attention, positive or negative. Britney really didn't fight for her kids, so now she is off the hook and can continue to live her destructive lifestyle. No consequences! You have Jamie Lynn Spears who thinks it's all going to be snowflakes and puppy dogs, living in a dream world of rasing a child. No consequences! And unfortunately their are too many girls who think they have the mental capabilities to be the "best moms in the world" and raise their kids in love and rainbows because their whole lives they are taught the Disney line of happy endings. They do learn from the movies. The movies of the charming romantic comedy.
        No one wants to hear the truth. The truth on how hard it is for them to find a guy who is willing to take on the added responsibilities instant fatherhood when he decided to get involved with a single parent. I am a guy and guys will say the right thing and next thing you know its baby father no. 2 and no.3...

        Here is the thing that should be hammered into these girls head. There are a lot of deadbeat guys. It's easy for a guy to just walk away. The guy can finish school. The guy's body will not change. And if these girls don't fight for it, the guy will not give them one red cent in raising that child. It is going to be hard to be a single mom because there is a greater chance that you will be single for the rest of your life and you will struggle to make ends meet until that kid is grown. That in order for you to have YOUR dream, you will have to sacrifice greatly and work INSANELY hard in order to make it happen. There are too many grandparents raising their grand kids.

        You are right, the celeb teen moms have MONEY to hire Nannies so their lives don't have to change. And the celeb teen moms do not care about their "adoring fans". How are we ever going to expect the celeb young mothers to ever give the speech of regret when they can have their fairytale.

  • Posted By: jayzarkara @ 07/27/2008 9:51:36 PM

    getting pregnant is kinda hard. first, must be the right time of the month for the girl; second, you must be stupid enough NOT TO CHECK THE P**** FOR A CONDOM!!!!

  • Posted By: onoalyssao @ 07/27/2008 9:50:31 PM

    I am 17 years old and i just gave birth to a premie He is the love of my life and its not such a bad thing having a baby at a young age just tell you parents right away when you know you are don't wait that baby didn't asked to be brought into this world so don' t take the baby out raise it like you owen and if you can handle it give the baby up for adoption to a loving family that can take care of it! But everything happends for a reason live life on don't regret! A baby is a wonderful gift from god and saver every moment you get with you baby!

  • Posted By: jayzarkara @ 07/27/2008 9:48:48 PM

    "secret life" is a disgrace to american society. girls from 14-17yrs old who get pregnant are partially to blam cause it takes two to f*** and make a kid. seduction is a powerful weapon but KNOWING WHEN/WHEN NOT IS EVEN MORE POWERFUL!!!!! guys, plan ahead, pack a condom, keep it with you at all times. girls should do the same PLUS

  • Posted By: set_it_up14 @ 07/27/2008 9:47:17 PM

    This message is to the writer, Sarah Kliff. If you're going to use the opening line: "It could have been Immaculate Conception" you might want to know what the Immaculate Conception actually is. It's the doctrine that MARY was conceived without sin. `Not Jesus being miraculously conceived. I don't think that's the correct example you were looking for. Or at least I hope not.

  • Posted By: hardcorerightwing @ 07/27/2008 9:41:36 PM

    Giving birth as a 14 year old is wrong, it's as simple as that. There I'm judging you. If you don't like being judged, don't get pregnant......

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