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  • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:53:18 AM

    "LISTEN HERE BITCH IM NOT NO *** MALE AND FIRST OFF I DID REPLY AND WHY DONT YOU GO CAUSE YOU SOUND LIKE SOME STUPIED IGHNORNANT BITCH WHO DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR TYPH. OH YEAH AND GUESS WHAT I HOPE SHE FINDS THE PERFECT SOULUTION AND YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SOUND LIKE A PERVERT GUY WHO JUST WANT SEX WHY DONT YOU GO EAT SOME AIDS!!!!!! *** SKANK GO *** OFF. AND DISSAPEAR YOUR POSTS MAKE NO SINCE WHAT SO EVER YOUR INTELLIGANCE LEVEL IS PROBABLY 9!!! GO BACK TO HIGH SCHOOL AND LEARN HOW TO TYPH.......*** "

    Wow, you must have attended a great school to write this way. Your logical mind is truly amazing. What an insightful comment. YOu are telling me how to type and questioning my intelligence. You must have gone to our lovely public schools. What do your mom and dad say about you?

  • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:53:11 AM

    Honey ...baby read what you said before all this you must have had someone helping you to typh in english. And if you had read my comments i am grossed out and i hope that SOB goes to hell. And your how old?? And your arguging like a 12 yr old, my neice knows how to argue better than you. And i am a woman i know how to speak english cause one im from this country. All i got to say to you before i waste my time talking to you is go molest a 7 yr old. And go back to your country while your at it maybe you should go back to school. SO take that and suck on some balls.

  • Posted By: EasyMoney @ 07/28/2008 1:52:35 AM

    Who gets stuck with most of the work when a teenage kid gets pregnant? Mom or soon to be Grandma does. I think it is unthoughtful to get pregnant when you are a kid becuse you are really going to rely on someone else for support. And forget the sorry SOB who knocked you up. He won't be there for you at all. Maybe at first when the baby is born but he'll be long gone when the real work comes over the next 18 years. Is it really your life's goal to be undereducated, underemployed, or on welfare. Wake up daughters of America. And here is another nugget for you, odds of you marrying in the future is real slim because most men don't want to raise someone elses child. And no one talks about the rampant STDs nowadays. Because they were so rare in the 60's, most of us olders are ingorant of what is out there. Keep your pants up and your legs crossed until you meet a man who is ready to commit to you more than a roll in the sack.

  • Posted By: johnsbaby62 @ 07/28/2008 1:52:27 AM

    da1973. ok usearubber is a girl u stupid *** ***! i hate people who r as stupid as u r! u need to leave and go back to wat ever country u came from! and the 16 yr old should be put in prison! and i agree with wat usearubber is saying!

  • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:50:34 AM

    " da1973, then y dnt u go throw up and get off this site, u stupid whore!"

    Wow, what a profound, thoughtful comment. YOur grasp of this situation is truly amazing. You must have attended Harvard Law to come with a response like that.

  • Posted By: johnsbaby62 @ 07/28/2008 1:49:07 AM

    da1973 if u dnt like this countr , then LEAVE. bc we dnt need anymore stupid people in this country bc we have enough!!!

  • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:49:04 AM

    da1973...this proves it your not from this countryand cynthia im sorry my apologies. DA you dont like it leave go moloest another 7yr old ... AND I AM A WOMAN SO STFU YOU STUPIED TWAT!

  • Posted By: jkh347 @ 07/27/2008 11:22:20 PM

    I don't believe it's right to have sex without being married. However I am also aware of reality that guys want sex and so do girls at shockingly young ages. I'm 22 and I just gave the gift of my virginity to my fiance of 3 years. (I was unusual I suppose because I wasn't even interested in sex until I was 18 which was when I started dating my fiance.) I know what I did was not right but I did it anyway because what married adults forget is that young people have very strong sex drives. What frustrates me to no end is when my extended family tells me that I shouldn't get married yet cause I'm too young but I shouldn't be having sex either. Do they not remember what it was like to be young and in love and desiring to show that love via the most intimate act? Take someone who has been married for 15 years and then tell them they can't have sex with their spouse see how hard that is for them when their sex drive has (maybe) at least leveled off. Now see how much compassion they have for unmarried young people who are told to stay pure until marriage. Yes I made the mistake of "poking the sleeping dragon" by awakening my sex drive and now that genie just won't get back in it's lamp. The best way is to avoid poking that dragon even slightly (i.e. don't even make out) but short of live under a rock... frankly sex is everywhere so of course teens would be thinking about it at least. I was blessed with two parents who one of which when my brother or I had any questions about sex she would answer us with facts. Yes my parents were very adamant about teaching us about premarital sex is wrong and it's consequences. Yet in the long run I have made my own choice. Parents can only do so much and then parents have to trust that they have done their best to parent their children. Parents do need to have that uncomfortable talk many times with their kids and whatever questions they can't answer they need to supply their children with the age appropriate scientifically accurate books. Books that include unbiased info on contraceptives and STI's must be included as well. Parents must stress the importance of avoiding sex until marriage but must temper that with accurate info about contraceptives and STI's because the reality is that it's better to have info about contraceptives and STI's and not need it than to need that info and not have it.

    • Posted By: standsforchrist @ 07/28/2008 1:49:01 AM

      You might be interested in reading Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry by Lisa Bevere. She talks about quieting what has awakened too soon. It is not impossible. However, you made your choice and perhaps you and your fiance have just deemed yourselves ready. You love each other and want to marry. The apostle Paul says if we cannot control our bodies then it is better to marry. We do not sin if we marry but as you said you already know that you have sinned by having sex outside of marriage. This is said to help you, not condemn you. I too had sex prior to marriage and was at some point frustrated as my husband and I already desired to marry one another and our families said we should wait a while, that would have been good if we weren't having physical contact, kissing in an intimate way, that caused things to just heat up, not cool off. So, self control is the issue. So marry if it is better to marry. I caution you though that if you are young, I was 19 and my husband was 20, that you may want to protect against pregnancy early on to allow you to establish a strong marriage, and financial means. It was a long hard row for my husband and I. He went back to school after we had 2 children in the first 4 years of marriage. We were married 8 years before he finished his Bachelor's in Accounting and got his professional license. It would have been easier had we known each other better and had a lot of the adjustments that come along with marriage out of the way prior to having children. I pray that you make the right decision. God bless you! Sandy S.

    • Posted By: TequilaMockingbird @ 07/27/2008 11:30:55 PM

      Wait...you don't believe it's right to have premarital sex, and yet you slept with your fiance? This argument makes sense.

  • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:49:00 AM

    Use a rubber-first, master the English language before calling anyone stupid, or calling them names. The fact that you have made some judgemental comments about an eleven yr old whilst ignoring the actions of an older molesting punk, says much about your character. I find it hard to fathom that you are not a guy, and dont understnad how a female would not be disgusted by a sixteern yr old molesting a child. Again, try using periods or comments in your sentences and learn to speak English dummy.

  • Posted By: Mountain Laurel @ 07/28/2008 1:47:04 AM

    As a Human being.I understand that EVERYONE is GOING to make mistakes BUT out of Marriage Child Birth should NEVER be glamorized irrespective of who it is but ESPECIALLY Teens.The Child had NO say in being born nor HOW it is born as do ALL of us but although the Child MUST be LOVED and cared for by ALL of us,it still should NOT be glamorized as if is RIGHT.

  • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:19:57 AM

    YOUR 11!!!!!! WHAT WERE YOU THINKING??????

    • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:24:52 AM

      What was an 11 yr old thinking, use a rubber? Probably nothing but love for a loser pervert 16 yr old. You are obviously, from your posts, a young, horny male who does not understand, or care to understand females. that is not your fault, since we tell you boys girls are no different. THis is clear cut evidence of extreem sex abuse and the little 16 yr old punk should be prosecuted. But I am sure the welfare system, so it can get more powerful, will ignore this fact and not report it as abuse. God bless you, little one, and I am saddened that at 11, you were not taught the skills to avoid early sexual contact with older boys. This is how adulsts raise our kids today. God bless you sweetie, and I am sorry that us adults allow this filth to happen and call it "normal" sex behavior.

      • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:34:10 AM

        LISTEN HERE BITCH IM NOT NO *** MALE AND FIRST OFF I DID REPLY AND WHY DONT YOU GO CAUSE YOU SOUND LIKE SOME STUPIED IGHNORNANT BITCH WHO DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR TYPH. OH YEAH AND GUESS WHAT I HOPE SHE FINDS THE PERFECT SOULUTION AND YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SOUND LIKE A PERVERT GUY WHO JUST WANT SEX WHY DONT YOU GO EAT SOME AIDS!!!!!! *** SKANK GO *** OFF. AND DISSAPEAR YOUR POSTS MAKE NO SINCE WHAT SO EVER YOUR INTELLIGANCE LEVEL IS PROBABLY 9!!! GO BACK TO HIGH SCHOOL AND LEARN HOW TO TYPH.......***

        • Posted By: KEEKA237 @ 07/28/2008 1:47:03 AM

          WE ARE DEALING WITH AN 11 YR OLD. BE SENSITIVE TO HER SITUATION NONE OF US KNOW WHAT SHE'S GOING THROUGH MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY.

      • Posted By: cynthiabrooks @ 07/28/2008 1:30:49 AM

        This is insensitive you don't know her situation why don't you try being supportive

  • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:46:44 AM

    easymoney ....not all guys dont want to marry a girl with a family your wrong on that part.

  • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:45:26 AM

    Wow, so folks dont think a 16 yr old who nails a child should be prosecuted and we should ignore it? THis country is amazing to me.

  • Posted By: cynthiabrooks @ 07/28/2008 1:45:05 AM

    This little girl needs help not everyone arguing back and forth. Teen Pregnancy happens it's not the greatest thing in the world but it happens. It's now the end of the world. And none of you know why a girl starts having sex so please don't try and say it was for LOVE or chasing after some guy. So please if you haven't been through the situation and know the emotions this little girl is going through, just be quite.

  • Posted By: usearubber @ 07/28/2008 1:44:23 AM

    Okay back to (to late girl) call on your cell phone or phone or w.e ,411 ask for a hope center and go there or go to yellowpages.com and typh in hope center and try to book an appt. Im sorry i dont mean to take it out on you or anything but theres an ighnornant *** on here that needs to shut her trap. Anyways go to the hope center and try to talk to them. I really wish you the best and if he raped you then take him to court.=]
    i wish you luck young one.

  • Posted By: johnsbaby62 @ 07/28/2008 1:35:52 AM

    da1973, then y dnt u go throw up and get off this site, u stupid whore!

    • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:43:28 AM

      Johnsbaby-this is how you talk to women, especially knowing there is an eleven yr old pregnant girl posting on this site? Calling someone a whore for simply stating you have no right to judge this eleven yr old who is pregnant by A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD? Unfortuantely, it is asswipes like you little turds who are getting laid by these girls. As for as Satan, usearubber, I think you may have to reevaluate your ideas about Satan when you are on this post bashing a child who was molested you little turd. That is about all I have to say about you or to you, and hopefully, other posters wont take ya seriously. If they do, we are in bigger trouble than I thought.

  • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:29:58 AM

    Hey jerks, stop picking on this little 11 yr old. Say some harsh words about the 16 yr old molestor, and leave her the hell alone. Dont you dare judge this child, you morallyl vacant little thugs!! Unfortunately, as women we will I guess enourage girls to think this is ok, and not wrong. Thsi is moral chaos when eleven yr olds are having sex, pills and rubbers aside. We have lied to teens, and they are too immature and selfish to understand sex, though they are obviously good at doing it. Again, back off this young girls and shove your male biased judgements straight up your teen punk asses. this is sexual equality for girls and boys? God, it makes me want to throw up.

    • Posted By: KEEKA237 @ 07/28/2008 1:41:21 AM

      I AGREE!! I JUST HOPE AND PRAY THAT ALL GOES WELL FOR THIS BABY BOTH MOM AND CHILD.

    • Posted By: cynthiabrooks @ 07/28/2008 1:34:40 AM

      You are so harsh. Why? It's too late she's already pregnant now she needs to figure out what SHE wants to do and what help SHE can get. Stop the persecute 16yr old bull. It would be nice for hime to get in trouble but it's not going to happen. So just focus on what CAN be done about the situation.

  • Posted By: cynthiabrooks @ 07/28/2008 1:40:34 AM

    too late are you still there? Please respond there are many things you can do. I know it's hard but ignore the harsh comments. You still have many options and lots of help out there. I also started having sex very young and I paid the consequences for it but I'm older now and doing well. It will be okay sweetheart.

  • Posted By: Dance34667 @ 07/28/2008 1:01:27 AM

    Ok, I don't mean to offend anyone but how does the whole "Wait unti marriage to have kids thing" work out? I mean, if you're going to be a bad parent before marriage, sharing a last name with someone won't make you any better of a parent.

    • Posted By: da1973 @ 07/28/2008 1:11:41 AM

      As for as marriage just being "sharing a last name," studies show kids from married families do better socially, academically, financially, and are more likelyl to be older and married when they give birth. Apparently, marriage is more important than our selfish, instant gratification world thinks. However, it is not possilbe for girls who want boyfriends to wait. Thanks to sexual liberation, men can have sex with anyone. The result-girls go boyfriend less or they have sex and get pregnant to try to rope boys and men in. We have failed, and we raise our kids to be afraid of marriage, we raise girls to think in terms of money as a reason for not having kids (when they know damned well they can be totally supported and edcuated by Uncle Sam)and we never tell them having a fatherless kid is a big deal. Maybe teen moms dont need a man, but her kid does. When I hear kids saying dads are no big deal, I have never met a fatherless kid (especially boys) who are not hurting over not having a dad,even if they love mom dearly and think she did a great job. Men have no male role models, so it is no surprise they think being a man is having sex with multiple girls, abandoning their kids and acting like total useless thugs. We have failed our kids today and it is too late to change.(not that anyone would want my kind of change anyway-it is too old fashioned and boring).

      • Posted By: coolcat @ 07/28/2008 1:37:46 AM

        What about the guys whose parents are married. . . but the father is a complete jerk and totally sends the wrong message about how to treat women and what it means to be a man? Aren't the boys who were raised by just their loving mom better off? Of course, single parents can also possibly be bad parents. . . so personally I don't care what studies show . . . we can't make assumptions about anyone's upbringing based on that. Plus, okay, maybe it's hurtful for some kids to grow up without dad around. But eventually they have to learn it's not due to them, it's due to the fact their father didn't want to face responsibility. It's the father's problem, not theirs.

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