Posted By: lisa malome @ 10/27/2008 12:13:41 AM
Comment: I told my ex husband , if he really wanted to heal himself from his sex addiction all what he needs to do is to keep his pantes zipped up . I do not think anypartner should site in the sex addicition support group meetings to help their partners . I went to one and I met people whoes been going to these meetings for years and still feel and have the same level of anger and frustration towordes there husbands as I did and I was new to the situation . I was sitting in my last meeting and I asked myself do I want to be that woman for the rest of my life one day out of every week for the rest of mylife sitting here talking about my husband sex addiction and I also saw that this woman whoes been going to these meeting for years is a very sad person . I did not want to be that I have my 3 year old son who I want to live happy life with , I want to show him what happiness is , so I called my divorce laywer . Every person who puts their families through a life full of sex addiction , cheating , and laying should be punished by divorce and it is the only way they would learn what they have done is wrong