Had my first and only baby, naturally, at the age of 42. Had what I considered to be "miinor" complications--blood clot, bilateral carpal tunnel syndrome. Remarkably, with all that, my high blood presure went down to normal while I was pregnant. I suspect it was because I was HAPPY! Having my beautiful son at the age I did made me more appreciative of life, my family, etc.; though my pregnancy was not planned and I am a single mother (working 2 jobs as a lawyer and part-time community college instructor). I just know that whatever age you are, whether it is 20 or 40, you need to be ready to be unready for motherhood--it is an unpredictable, sometimes bumpy glorious ride. It's just that at 42, I thought I was more ready to be unready than some people (not all mind you) half my age. And, by the time had my son, I had the education and job to support him









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