Can You Say ‘Sexist’?

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  • Posted By: Traci P. @ 09/08/2008 12:46:48 PM

    Being an assertive woman who makes and achieves goals whether personal, career or political seems to be the ultimate definition. I'm a feminist who believes that every woman should take responsibility for her actions, including having unprotected sex. I'm a feminist that believes my rights are already protected under the constitution, I don't need more government to "give me more." I'm a feminist that believes that families are the foundation to a successful society, not the bane. I'm a feminist that believes burning bras is bad economics and bad breast health--tee hee. And last of all, I'm a feminist that refuses to be placed in someone else's politically partisaned pink box, with or without a bow.

  • Posted By: Polgary @ 09/08/2008 11:38:26 AM

    Has anyone really contemplated the fact that the Presidency and Vice-Presidency are 24 hour/7 days a week jobs? This is NOT the position for someone who needs a work life balance.This is the woman you would put up against Putin, Ahmadinejad, North Korea, Afghanistan, not to mention the mortgage crisis, health care issues, etc., etc., etc.? The woman who less than 2 months ago uttered, "I don't really know what the Vice President does?" Are you so religious and neo-conservative that this choice is OK with you? God help us all if McCain suffers another bout with skin cancer and she gets into office. All of you will get exactly what you deserve....another C student in the White House wreaking another 4 years of havoc on our country. Give me a break! A woman who can't even face the media for questions? You want her to be Vice President of the USA inside of 60 days? This is so insane, I can't stand it anymore.

    • Posted By: soundofreason @ 09/08/2008 12:08:49 PM

      Everyone has a balance of life. And Sarah did not ask "what the Vice President does" and stopped. She asked which role will this Vice President play. Involved or backseat. She wanted to be involved. Read the text and avoid showing your ignorance.

      • Posted By: Polgary @ 09/08/2008 12:45:16 PM

        i don't want the VPOTUS to need to balance work and life. I want her focused on the American people 24/7/365. Period. And if you really understood what is at stake in this country, at this time, you would too. You wouldn't want her stopping off in the bathroom to pump before she met with Putin. I know exactly what she said, this: "As for that VP talk all the time, I'll tell you, I still can't answer that question until somebody answers for me what is it exactly that the VP does every day? I'm used to being very productive and working real hard in an administration. We want to make sure that that VP slot would be a fruitful type of position, especially for Alaskans and for the things that we're trying to accomplish up here for the rest of the U.S., before I can even start addressing that question."
        And this is who you want as VP. Take your head out of your Neo con butt and get real!

  • Posted By: acrin @ 09/08/2008 12:43:09 PM

    A HUGE thank you to the author of this article! I'm speechless at the base, offensive remarks from Palin supporters, spewing sexist insults while saying they espouse feminism, "screaming" their support, but not explaining it. Might Obama lose? Yes, unfortunately it appears that we haven't hit bottom enough in this country to take a good, hard look at the real issues in this campaign or give a fair shake to the candidates' past records. Will it take an invasion on US soil as our leaders continue to push their agendas with might rather than diplomacy? How many sons and daughters have to die when the draft has to be reinstated? How many have to lose their health care, their houses, their freedoms for it to make a difference? If you're part of the media, please keep talking, analyzing, criticizing, and don't be cowed by these cheap intimidation tactics. Fight to write another day.

  • Posted By: lovetheflag @ 09/08/2008 10:28:54 AM

    Not all of us are hypocrites. I am a full- time physician, full-time wife (with no illicit affairs in my history), and a full-time mother of four (ages 10 months to 10 years). I am also a solid conservative & republican. But thank you for joining with others in generalizations that both enrage and motivate me to be more policically active than ever before in my life.

    • Posted By: village crazy @ 09/08/2008 11:11:48 AM

      lovetheflag - you may not be a hypocrite, but you are a bad speller. "policically"? Really? Try politically. You may be a physician, but I doubt your patient survival rate is very high! One little misspelling on a prescription and it's "oops, I'm sorry". And what is a full-time wife? Is that anything like a half-time or quarter-time wife, or husband for that matter? You seem to be quite full of yourself. You might try some remedial spelling lessons and, possibly, a dose of humility. P-o-l-i-t-i-c-a-l-l-y.

      • Posted By: Dante A @ 09/08/2008 11:18:05 AM

        Is that the best you can do? Typical ad hominum attacks - you find it so much easier to attack the person rather than the issue. As a Democrat, I can say that you quantify all that is bad about our party. That physician and mother of four has a viewpoint and took some time out of a busy day (she is a mom and has a full time job - excuse her for not spellchecking...) and all you can attack is her spelling? Get a life.

        • Posted By: village crazy @ 09/08/2008 12:41:33 PM

          To cubeman - That's what it's all about, mistakes and lies. Mistakes and lies that have been overlooked by your ilk for the last 7.5+ years. People like you, I love to insult.
          To Frodo - Frodo?
          And, finally, to my bestest buddy Dante - If you don't like me correcting or questioning the poor physician, mother of four, then I'll correct (or attack, as you prefer) you. You are no Democrat. You are a liar. You want to talk issues? Okay, your physician friend states that Ms. Quindlen uses generalizations - not true. Ms. Quindlen cites specific instances where the republican party " trashed the women's movement ". Your physician friend is misrepresenting the facts of the essay. If she really is a physician, she should be able to read and comprehend what she has just read. Or maybe comprehension takes too much time out of her busy day? And when will you republicans come up with something better than "Get a Life"? You Dante, like your physician friend, are also full of yourself.

      • Posted By: cubeman4 @ 09/08/2008 11:31:39 AM

        The lady makes a simple one-letter typo and you childishly insult her knowing nothing about her. Perhaps you feel jealous of her accomplishments and are tearing her down to feel better about yourself. Or maybe you just insult everybody you come across. Very classy.

      • Posted By: Frodo1945 @ 09/08/2008 11:26:16 AM

        Typical Obamaite. Turns every issue into a personal attack. Good thing there are not many of these kind of people.

  • Posted By: Unicorn54 @ 09/08/2008 12:40:33 PM

    Anna, you're so out of touch. You can't stand a feminist that is not on the Left. You think that women's choice is a privacy issue that extends to a new and distinct life growing within her. Why not just sday it. Women should have the choice to kill their own developing children. Everything else is delusional denial. Can you really tell me when life begins? BTW, the Republican Party overthrew slavery, which was then considered to be a privacy right. While maqny conservatives have been suspicious of feminism, it is because Leftist wingnuts like you have hijacked the movement. When people on the right become more idealistic, then you write them off as Neocons. The truth is that you can't stand anything other than New Left Liberalism. Any republican or conservative opinion will be trashed by the likes of you aging Hippies. (BTW, I came from the same ideology, so I understand it. Guess that makes me a Neocon. - a Unicorn to you, for all you know). The only thing you consider appropriate is an "affirmative action" program that smacks of mandated state fascism. Yes, Anna, you are a fascist, in the truest sense of the word.

  • Posted By: theduke89 @ 09/08/2008 12:40:27 PM

    The Republican Party hasn't changed. Quindlen is exploiting a stupid and utterly convenient stereotype of Republicans that "feminists," i.e. left-wing idealogues who are women, have used over the years to divert attention from the anti-male, anti-child extremists in their own ranks. It's a caricature, and the fact that Quindlen is reduced to using doesn't make it any more real.


  • Posted By: nonein2008 @ 09/08/2008 12:39:44 PM

    The new sexism by the "liberals" is equally amazing. Amazing to see how many Democrats also said "Hillary is not the best woman choice, their are better women candidates". Too many on both sides hide behind facades of labels. How many feminists turned their heads regarding Bill Clinton's base treatment of women?

  • Posted By: Appman @ 09/08/2008 12:36:22 PM

    TO A DEM A FEMINIST IS ONE WHO accomplishes nothing ...

    Whines for more rights ... if they can't earn something - give it to them

    Treats children as a nuisance rather than a gift

    Aborts children as they are pests - nuisances - it is their claim to fame

    Goes along with the "Community Activist" and his approval of infanticide.

    Moans about being deprived ... rather than actually accomplishing anything


  • Posted By: HarleyDavidson @ 09/08/2008 12:35:37 PM

    Obviously, a liberal feminist is a female too narrow minded to take her own side in a quarrel.

  • Posted By: Seabecker @ 09/08/2008 12:34:17 PM

    Don't lecture us about your so-called GOP hypocrisy. The conservative position in general, and GOP position in specific, has always been pro-woman and pro-minority. It's just that you liberals have such a narrow view of of what "Pro-" means. You limit your feeble definitions to the right to kill your baby for women, and the right to discriminate against non-blacks for minorities.

  • Posted By: Seabecker @ 09/08/2008 12:33:56 PM

    Don't lecture us about your so-called GOP hypocrisy. The conservative position in general, and GOP position in specific, has always been pro-woman and pro-minority. It's just that you liberals have such a narrow view of of what "Pro-" means. You limit your feeble definitions to the right to kill your baby for women, and the right to discriminate against non-blacks for minorities.

  • Posted By: thinker1104 @ 09/08/2008 12:11:48 PM

    Excellant! Women today should read more articles like yours rather than voting for McCain just because he has a woman on the ballot. She is not the all American woman, she is a good ole boy just like the rest. Attention women: Get the facts! Don't vote for sex, that is the same as voting for color. Vote for the person who will really be your voice.

  • Posted By: ModerateAmerican @ 09/08/2008 12:33:15 PM

    Anna, that's why the choice of Palin was so brilliant. Can you imagine if the Dems had picked a white male candidate who's main governmental experience was running a town that serves a smaller population than some city blocks yet had sucked down over $24 million in federal earmarks (better known as handouts) in the space of a few years, then topped that experience of with slightly more than a year and a half running a state with a population less than San Bernadino, California (a sub, sub, suburb of L.A.) that ranks nationally as the number three recipient in federal earmarks (based on state federal revenues) and tried to run on an anti-earmark, anti lobbyist, government reform platform? The GOP mouthpieces, conservative bloggers and anonymous e-mailers would've torn him to shreds with the mainstream media (much of which is more conservative than the GOP likes to admit) going along for the ride. Throw in a pregnant teenage daughter, and we'd have all heard about the collapse of family values propagated by the liberal elite. But make the candidate a Republican woman, and that same candidate is a groundbreaker, and any criticism can be deflected as being sexism. What a brilliant choice Palin makes for a running mate, although I fear the choice was not made with the best interests of the country in mind. But hey, McCain put his conscience in long term storage when he decided to actively campaign for Bush in 2004 (allowing Bush to follow a policy in Iraq that McCain now admits he knew was wrong for our troops and wrong for our country). America first? Yeah, right.

  • Posted By: Slownomad @ 09/08/2008 12:23:41 PM

    Oh, please! The Republicans are the furthest thing from feminism. Not only are they anti-choice, they are anti-birth control! Worse yet, they don't support equal pay for equal work. All they are doing is trying to jump on the bandwagon this year and hope to God that American women are too stupid to notice that it's a ruse.

  • Posted By: Tom Emerson @ 09/08/2008 12:32:17 PM

    Dear Ms. Quindlen,

    Please continue directing vicious hatred and vitriol at Governor Palin. Not only is it entertaining to read; it has also helped put McCain/Palin in the lead in this race. Your angry words will, no doubt, help Obama carry Manhattan, San Francisco and L.A., but it is likely to have a rather different effect in the rest of the country. Keep it up! You're one of the best friends the McCain/Palin ticket has.

  • Posted By: Seabecker @ 09/08/2008 12:32:05 PM

    Don't lecture us about your so-called GOP hypocrisy. The conservative position in general, and GOP position in specific, has always been pro-woman and pro-minority. It's just that you liberals have such a narrow view of of what "Pro-" means. You limit your feeble definitions to the right to kill your baby for women, and the right to discriminate against non-blacks for minorities.

  • Posted By: colddeadhands @ 09/08/2008 12:30:24 PM

    Probably the worst assessment of a conservative I have ever read. Full of bias and misunderstanding on AQ's part. Too wrapped up in her liberal thinking, She does not know at all what makes the conservative mind tick. Euphamising "private reproductive decisions" for the choice of ending a life would be laughable if it was not so sad. And calling McCain sexist for referring to Hill as a bitch is more description than sexism.
    Guys can't be ***. And Sarah Palin is the beneficiary of affirmative action? Not quite. She would abhor such a description. AQ's way of diminishing Palin's accomplishments.

  • Posted By: RavenCMT @ 09/08/2008 12:26:59 PM

    Here's the Republican version of feminism in a nutshell - Hillary had a vagina and Palin has a vagina. That's enough for you women, right? Now you'll vote for us, right?

  • Posted By: aniski @ 09/08/2008 12:26:22 PM

    What annoys me most is that the GOP really believes that just because Palin is a woman, the women should and will vote for her. I find that demeaning to women who are actually smart enough to know who they want to vote for based on their politics, not their gender.

  • Posted By: popmanifesto @ 09/08/2008 12:24:55 PM

    For all the talk about "change" at the Republican convention, it's clear from reading these posts that the ultra-conservative wing of the Republican party has no intention of letting any change happen.

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