It’s Not Just White Girls

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  • Posted By: msrockie @ 09/08/2008 12:17:46 PM

    I am an anorexic...an eating anorexic but still one the same....I wasn't concerned with my appearance...I just didn't like to eat. Often the smell of food would nauseate me and I couldn't eat. I'd put a fork of food to my mouth and my stomach would flip. I couldn't eat it if I wanted to....it would come right back up. I didn't take pills or laxetives or force myself to throw up...my system would do it for me. I struggled with it from age 15 to 24. I still live with the systoms of it every day. I smell something cooking and instantly get nauseated. I started eating a meal and within minutes my stomach is churning. I don't throw up anymore....I've learned to stop when I know I need to. I do drink a lot of liquid nourishment, fruit & veggie blends, protein shakes. When I was 22 I had 2 misscarriages within 6 months, I weighed 89 pounds & I am 5'5". That's when I discovered what my problem was. They checked everything trying to find a reason for my not being able to eat. By age 23 I was up to 100 lbs. At 24 I met my husband, I was 102....He called me a walking skeleton. I explained to him what was wrong with me and he decided he was going to get me over it. Every morning he made breakfast and he made me eat it before he left for work. What he didn't know was that I was tossing it up before he got to the end of the driveway & we had a short driveway. It took several months but the food started to stay down and I could eat in small portions without getting sick. Like I said, I still deal with it every day & I am now 51. But...no longer am I a walking skeleton.

    • Posted By: maia1981 @ 09/10/2008 12:23:40 PM

      I was very touched by your post. I have also struggled with anorexia and bulimia since my early teens. My weight has ranged from 85 to 145 lbs. These illnesses not only interfere with your physical health, but also in your ability to maintain healthy, stable relationships. As I have struggled with my weight, I have also struggled in relationships; most of the time, I ended up being dumped because I was just "too difficult to deal with" due to my eating disorder. Oh, by the way, I live in Latin America, and you should see how many anorexic girls and women are to be found in this region. So no, eating disorders are not only for "white chicks".

  • Posted By: jojobean @ 09/10/2008 12:18:35 PM

    "www.freewebs.com/iwlw-eatingdisorders"

    Hey I'm Jovi. I'm a 16, almost 17, year old girl and I struggled with the eating disorder cycle (anorexia, binge, purge) for about year. I still struggle somedays mentally, but I'm glad to say that I hve recovered quickly and well. I feel like, for me, God gave me this disease because He knew I could handle it, and He wanted me to do something about it. The website at the top is a business I created a few months ago. It has forums, a video, statistics, and a web store with t-shirts. All the shirts have an inspirational word on them, whether you find it inspirational or not someone does. 15% of all profit goes towards eating disorder awareness and research. I think this article is AWESOME for awareness, and everyone should know how prominent eating disorders are, and how fatal they can be.

  • Posted By: Adurant @ 09/10/2008 12:14:09 PM

    I don't think there are many black women who suffer for this disease, I think more often than not, we are happy with our bodies. For a black women its okay to be a little thick in the right places. Butt, legs and thights, it always has been okay. Our culture loves thick video type bodies. I am 5'5 and 140 pounds to a white person, that is fat, for a black person it isn't. White women I feel want to look thin cause they like that model look, and they are always trying to look " so called PERFECT". I do agree it may be black women who suffer for anonerixia but not alot. Body image is different within cultures.

  • Posted By: BellaMia33 @ 09/10/2008 12:14:01 PM

    i like the title...just not white girls...if that had hispanic or black it would be racist but since its towards whites i guess its okay.

  • Posted By: KariK @ 09/08/2008 10:35:51 AM

    MaverickGreen, it would be nice if you did not assume that just because someone is thin they are anorexic. I am 5'6" and wear a size 0-2, but I am a healthy person. That is the key, not someone's size, but are they healthy at that size?

    • Posted By: anothrsara @ 09/10/2008 11:49:40 AM

      Thanks for posting KariK! I'm also 5'6" and for a long time was a 0, im just now bulking up to a two. Instead of having anorexia, I've developed a near obsession with proving to people that i DONT have an eating disorder. I was tormented in HS because of the rumors. I never go to the bathroom after a meal no matter how badly I just have to pee, and I don't really go to the gym anymore so that I can stay a size two. Everyone processes food differently. I have a very good friend that exercises every day and eats healthier than me, but is of course, much bigger than me. I'm just glad it hasn't become an obsession for her

  • Posted By: cab041087@gmail.com @ 09/10/2008 9:19:21 AM

    Hey aerskine, just because you happened to be a Seventh-day Adventist whose anorexia was not caused by the religion DOES NOT MEAN that the man in the book's religion (which happens to be the same as yours, I know) didn't cause his. Just because your religious views have the same basis, it DOES NOT MEAN the teachings or the raising within that religion were the same for him and his family. You are essentially claiming that every Catholic, Jewish person, or Muslim is exactly the same, owing to the commonality of religion between them, or that because you weren't affected so shouldn't all other Seventh-day Adventists be, which is just plain IGNORANT.

  • Posted By: loradmills @ 09/10/2008 9:16:18 AM

    Hmmm...first time user, here. Sorry I posted a similar message, twice.

  • Posted By: loradmills @ 09/10/2008 9:13:45 AM

    Hey, SDAs...relax. This article is about people with a pathology who interpret the Gospel and any other number of messages in such a way that they end up harming themselves with anorexia and bolemia. This is not an attack on SDA.

  • Posted By: aerskine @ 09/10/2008 8:36:23 AM

    I was anorexic at 17, but I'm also a Seventh-day Adventist and trust me, it had nothing to do with my eating disorder. "Bodily Excess?" As in, "Don't pig out?" Isn't that common sense, or at least should be? If the man had a problem, it was due to other factors then religion, unless he made religion the problem himself.

  • Posted By: Bobbio @ 09/09/2008 1:02:34 PM

    I lost a great relationship with a woman who was anorexic. As an adult she learned to maintain a reasonably healthy body weight, which probably saved her life. The underlying psychological causes however don't just "go away". Those inner struggles prevented her from having a mutual, healthy relationship. Anorexia at it's worst is a life long battle for survival.

    • Posted By: pipermaru @ 09/09/2008 6:18:42 PM

      i think "anorexia at its worst" is actually death. at its best, its a lifeling struggle, managing, and surviving.

      • Posted By: fischer9132 @ 09/10/2008 8:26:43 AM

        Actually - at its best its receiving the support and treatment needed to live a healthy and satisfying life. It can get better and does not need to be a struggle forever. If it continues to be a struggle, perhaps additional forms of treatment could help. I think Bobbio made a very valid and honest comment.

  • Posted By: Rissyka67 @ 09/08/2008 1:48:31 PM

    Reporter Guy --hope that your comment made you feel better about yourself, you must be a prince. I'm sure anyone who would put your comment in black and white must be perfect. You must feel like a BIG STRONG MAN NOW. Thank you!!!

  • Posted By: atlholley @ 09/08/2008 12:34:12 PM

    i'm a current bullemic. the reason i say current is b/c you never get over this. you think about it all the time. eating disorders seep into every part of your life. i was a raging bullemic/anorexic in high school. oh, by the way i'm a gen-x - A-A woman. after, HS i went to the other extreme and blew up to over 231 lbs. now, i am at 148. understand, i realized what i was doing. i coul not stop. it was my addiction, my security, it was me. however, A & B is worse than any "normal" addiction. i say that b/c unlike most addictions this one is FREE. you don't have to go to a special store to buy booze, or travel to some alley to buy drugs. you can just go to the golden arches (or not depending on which you suffer from) and then head to the privacy of your own bathroom. you get your high from purging. this is not about what other people think. it is about control. it is about when you feel like you have none and you want to control something in your life. what is easy, visible, and fast? food. it's funny sometimes i THINK i have control.... . but when things start to feel "shaky" i think about it all the time. i still have habits that linger from my A&B days. what i mean is.. i won't eat past 6pm, i abuse laxatives and diruetics. also, i have "scars" from my raging days. I have lost teeth, i have chronic bad breath, and hormone issues. no kids...it a'int just white chics

  • Posted By: Rissyka @ 09/08/2008 12:24:59 PM

    shar8559, my friend is a vegatarian and her wt was 299, she joined weight watcher about 3 yrs ago counting her points and she is now 164. feeling great and looking very healthy. I am more like you dont eat much but am 239. my thyroid is fine, but it would be good for you to get that checked. my daughter is anorexic and bulimic. she is 7 months pregnant now and is driving herself crazy with thinking shes fat. i am so worried about her and my unborn grandbaby. I wish i could help her. good luck to you.

  • Posted By: Rissyka @ 09/08/2008 12:22:55 PM

    shar8559, my friend is a vegatarian and her wt was 299, she joined weight watcher about 3 yrs ago counting her points and she is now 164. feeling great and looking very healthy. I am more like you dont eat much but am 239. my thyroid is fine, but it would be good for you to get that checked. my daughter is anorexic and bulimic. she is 7 months pregnant now and is driving herself crazy with thinking shes fat. i am so worried about her and my unborn grandbaby. I wish i could help her. good luck to you.

  • Posted By: Psolaris42 @ 09/08/2008 12:12:55 PM

    St. Teresa of Avila was Spanish...I think you are thinking of St Theresa the Little Flower...that one was French.

  • Posted By: Psolaris42 @ 09/08/2008 12:11:19 PM

    St. Teresa of Avila was Spanish. Avila is a city in Spain and her birth name is Teresa de Cepeda y Ahumada. Here you go: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teresa_of_Avila

    I believe you are thinking of St. Theresa, the Little Flower...she was French. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Th%C3%A9r%C3%A8se_de_Lisieux

  • Posted By: foodpd @ 09/08/2008 12:08:27 PM

    Shar8559, I'm a dietitian and I think that you may need to get your thyroid checked. You may have what is called hypothyroidism. This is caused by your thyroid not functioing properly; and therefore, affects your metabolism (controlled by the thyroid). The doctor can diagnosis this by a simple blood test. As for your calorie intake and weight, your body has more than likely gone into famine survival mode. This dates back to when we, as humans, were nomadic and didn't know when/ where our next meal was coming from. What happens is the metabolism grinds to a slow crawl and preserves the body's resources (fat, muscle, etc) for energy later when the body doesn't get the required level of calories it needs to function properly on a day to day basis. It is very evident that you do not get your body's required caloric amount from your reported intake. So, that's part of your problem right there. You definitely don't sound like the typical anorexic, from your self description. However, we're finding more and more that eating disorders don't always follow the typical body types that you would associate with them. So, it's very possible for you to be overweight and still be anorexic.

  • Posted By: McCainPalin08Girl @ 09/08/2008 12:00:06 PM

    Al right. I was wrong. I'm sorry. I was thinking of Therese of Lisieux.

  • Posted By: foodpd @ 09/08/2008 11:59:35 AM

    Shar8559, You may need to get your thyroid checked. It is possible that you have what is called hypothyroidism, where your thyroid isn't functioning properly and is therefore affecting your metabolism. Also, after depriving your body of the calories it needs for an extended period of time, your body goes into survival mode. Meaning, your metabolism grinds to a slow crawl to preserve the fat, muscle, etc in the body for use later. This dates back to when people first came over to America and when they didn't know when their next meal was coming from or what it would be. It's the body's way of famine survival.

  • Posted By: McCainPalin08Girl @ 09/08/2008 11:49:54 AM

    Bull. Therese of Avila was French, and she died of tuberculosis. NNDB.com and the movie Therese prove this.

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