This narrowly defined view of sex is what half the problem is. People hear the word sex and think, man and woman having intercourse. Would calling it sexuality education help? We all know that sexuality is much more than sex, right? How about "age appropriate". Do we all know what that means?
We are all born as sexual beings, by the very fact that our sexual body parts are there from the time we are born. As parents, if we use every day opportunities as teachable moments then we are teaching "sex ed" when kids are two and three years old: "yes, touching your penis/vagina feels good but that is done in private and you need to tell me if anyone touches or tries to touch your penis/vagina even if he/she says not to."
If parents aren't teaching this, or worse, they make children feel dirty about their private parts, or worse yet, one of them is molesting his/her own child (or family friend, uncle, etc), then it will damage the child, possibly irreparably (in the latter case) and both could ripple throughout society in detrimental ways.
All one has to do is look at the thriving porn industry in the US or how many men are caught on Dateline's To Catch a Predator.









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