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  • Posted By: ndrock @ 09/12/2008 12:54:22 PM

    You go girl!! Stick with Obama and all the lies, that are buried or white washed over.
    HE is dangerous.
    The news media has buried the facts surrounding his racist church goings, and has glossed over the fact that he has never taken a stand on anything that he hasn't jumped the fence on the very next day.
    If only the poor woman would go out and work, and the rich would just stay home, what a better place this world would be for MEN!!
    This article is so full of crap, it is just another typical Newsweek liberal leaning, Hollywood rag material that they have printed since the start of the campane.
    Obama is their God and now they a woman they can try and nail to the cross, for no other reason than she is as qualified as Obama, and takes a stand on her issues.

    • Posted By: g8crapachino @ 09/12/2008 1:33:13 PM

      To: ndrock @ 09/12/2008 12:54:22 PM
      This article had nothing to do with politics or Obama. You're just trying to associate with this article about working mothers to further your own political motives. The two subjects are irrelevent. Obviously you won't vote for Obama but if anyone else changes their voting decision just because of the misleading way you posted then they are complete idiots, just like you. Pull your head out.

      • Posted By: kas_wolf @ 09/12/2008 2:26:02 PM

        Oh, how wrong you are. THIS article has everything to do with another veiled attempt to bash Sarah Palin for "daring" to run for VP while she has children at home.

        Nice way to be biased Newsweek. 'Course - you keep proving again and again how very biased you are.

        • Posted By: Allegory @ 09/12/2008 3:10:03 PM

          Why don't you people actually go out and learn how to think before you start making coments. american are becoming a bunch of self indulgent weiners trying to stuff everything into whatever limited world view we currently have. if it doesn't fit, we chuck it aside as garbage. I am ashamed.

  • Posted By: jgrawol0108 @ 09/12/2008 2:53:12 PM

    I am just a dumb ol'woman, since I need some man to tell me what criteria I should rank up against in order to be a proper parent. Last itme I checked, life is not all or nothing. We all make compromises. I work, my kid is smart, healthy and happy. And I could stay at home, but what fun would that be? My kid would get exposed to me 24/7 verus being in an environment where there is variety, exploration, meetings lots of different folks, not just boring old me. Gotta run to see if I am allowed to wear pants today (it is Friday after all) and check with hubby to make sure I make his dinner just as he wants it.

  • Posted By: Buzz Crutcher @ 09/12/2008 2:49:20 PM

    Question: Would Newsweek be publiciizing this study if McCain had chosen Romney as his running mate?

    I suspect most people know the answer to that question.

  • Posted By: justanothervet @ 09/12/2008 2:40:40 PM

    Any or every women or man that can work has the right to choose to work or not work regardless of their so called privileged status. This article is full of inuendos and traps inferring some link to SARAH. If some unfortunate souls can't work or won't work (by choice) the more fortunate among us must seek every opportunity to help them in every way we can. Stop trying to harm SARAH with these simple minded articles.

  • Posted By: rubysmama35 @ 09/12/2008 12:52:01 PM

    I have a huge problem with ANYONE - male or female- who works when they don't have to. Exactly how effing greedy are you to take away a job from someone who NEEDS it to survive???

    • Posted By: copper454 @ 09/12/2008 1:42:31 PM

      This does not make sense. There is not a "fixed" number of jobs in the economy to distribute a certain way.

      If someone quits a job, that doesn't necessarily mean the job will be immediately given to someone else. If a person is PRODUCTIVE, then we WANT them to have a job because they're producing something valuable.

      If a Heart Surgeon quits her job, does that mean that an unemployed person with a low income is automatically made a Heart Surgeon? No, of course not, but it means fewer surgeons, which raises the cost of health care.

      If I decide to start a business selling beaded necklaces at an arts & crafts fair when my spouse already works, am I stealing from someone?

      No, of course not. I'm just doing something productive that I enjoy, hoping to make some money on the side. The only way I make money is if I offer better value to people who want necklaces. And if I do, then I'm actually SAVING people money by producing better necklaces for the cost.

      You need a basic course in Economics. You're probably voting for Obama!

      • Posted By: kas_wolf @ 09/12/2008 2:28:07 PM

        :-) good one Copper.

        Hope (if your example was your reality) that your jewlery making is going well. (I do it on the side - for gifts and friends) rock on.

    • Posted By: kas_wolf @ 09/12/2008 2:23:37 PM

      What about goals to better yourself? What about dreams? If a girl dreams of being a doctor - but doesn't "have" to work - her dreams should be squashed?

  • Posted By: BillyD1953 @ 09/12/2008 12:14:17 PM

    Discussions on this topic always seem to miss the fundamental issue. It's not just a matter of what's best for the child's development. What's the point of having a family if you're just going to leave young children to nanny's and daycare centers? Children grow up so quickly as it is! If one can afford to financially why not stay at home for the early years (5 years or so) and enjoy that wonderful once-in-a-lifetime parent-child relationship instead of running off to a career? Ideally both parents should appreciate this, but usually finances require at least one to work. People are more interested in big homes, and fancy cars, and big incomes than the simple wonderful, irreplaceable joy of raising their own child. They lose out on all those wonderful childhood moments and the simply thrill of just being with your child.

    • Posted By: Midwestmom @ 09/12/2008 2:21:30 PM

      Being able to stay home with a young child is a joy, but what about the benefits of a good daycare/learning center. As touched on - briefly - in this article. Some children benefitted later in life, by experiencing an outside influence.
      Daycare allows for interaction with other children in a controlled environment. They learn sharing, conversational skills, and most importantly - the world does not revolve around them. Many of these centers have trained proffesionals, skilled in the art of teaching small children. With the school system not insisting that children know before kindergarten what was required to graduate second grade a few years ago, it's nice to receive a little proffesional help.

  • Posted By: kas_wolf @ 09/12/2008 1:53:53 PM

    Why should "affluent Moms" stay home and jettson their careers? You can do both - very well - if you try and plan your chosen field of work. No, I am not talking about flipping burgers - but, even there, I know Moms who work at night so the Dad is home. Their kids get the best of both worlds.

    The Moms who went to college and graduated with a degree - then decide to sit at home and watch Barney all day - what are you going to do when little Johnny or Susie go to school - and don't need you at their beck and call. What about when they are off to college themselves? What are you going to do with the rest of your lives?

    What about those who stay home - only to suffer the death of your spouse? Then what? You have no experience and no skills. What next? Welfare?

  • Posted By: murphy63 @ 09/12/2008 11:11:27 AM

    My husband and I have professional degrees and we both work full-time. Our two teens have above average scores and do not have weight problems. According to this article, I must be a super human mom---not! This article is just another sexist article designed to have women driving themselves crazy second guessing themselves. It's all about the quality of time you spend with your kids. When are people going to understand that?!!!

    • Posted By: copper454 @ 09/12/2008 1:47:44 PM

      This article is about statistical trends.

      You are giving an individual anecdote.

      Consider this stat: "90% of African-Americans intend to vote for Obama". Does that mean that if you're AA and you're voting for Nader that the statistic is false??

      No, of course not. It just means you're in the "other" 10%.

      Giving individual anecdotes to dispute a broad trend doesn't make sense. Also, even if your kids are doing well, can you prove that they would hypothetically be doing "better" if you or your spouse didn't work? Maybe they'd go from a 3.7 GPA to a 3.9 GPA.

      What is your "professional degree" in?

  • Posted By: dmonmcd @ 09/12/2008 12:25:54 PM

    Can we please just stick with the issues about the canidates! Palin is a highly dangerous canidate with policies from the 1980's! I am an Obama supporter and just find all these articles distractions to what we are really voting about, policies! If this were a job interview as so many see the choice for President/Vice President this question would result in an investigation of hiring practices! I think that she is worse than Dan Quayle and Dick Cheney together!I feel great that Biden could easily step in as President but her no way! All this article does is fire up affluent women to vote for her rather than examine her policies.

    • Posted By: underdog @ 09/12/2008 1:44:11 PM

      The article was questioning wiether a woman can work and raise a family which is a slap in the face for every woman that supported equal rights or a strong woman role in the work place. As far as Palin being "dangerous" ??? You may disagree with her politics or her views but dangerous? You come off as a left extremists. I fel more unsafe with the thought that the VP pick for the Dem's has way more experience then the Barak, who wants to be president, who has no experience. Talk about dangerous. Are you so hateful of George Bush that your not even seeing your quaterback is going to the pros with only highschool experience and is expected to stand up to Putin?

  • Posted By: venna21 @ 09/12/2008 1:42:16 PM

    "Should affluent women work?"...should poor women stay home? should women be allowed to wear pants? wear revealing clothes?...eat in the same room as men?...choose their own partners/husbands? Gees!! Enough already! Why are we still dealing with these issues? Women should be able to pursue their dreams without having Neanderthals tell them what they should be doing.

  • Posted By: venna21 @ 09/12/2008 1:41:11 PM

    "Should affluent women work?"...should poor women stay home? should women be allowed to wear pants? wear revealing clothes...eat in the same room as men? Gees!! Enough already! Why are we still dealing with these issues? Women should be able to pursue their dreams without having Neanderthals tell them what they should be doing.

  • Posted By: Jbright9 @ 09/12/2008 1:37:22 PM

    Kids don't need a full time Mom. It isn't good for Mom or the Kids. I have worked as an elementary school counselor for years and have observed lots of children and their families. I have seen more problems caused by helicopter stay at home Moms who ochestrate every thing in their child's lives. One thing I do believe is that our technology is more of a negative than a positive. Kids needs to play outside and be creative not plugged into a TV or Computer or Video games. Limiting time spent on those activities and teaching good manners and self discipline would be a very positive step.

  • Posted By: copper454 @ 09/12/2008 1:35:42 PM

    I think the whole point of this article was to promote a political agenda.

    Way to be biased, Newsweek!

  • Posted By: dollyrocker98 @ 09/12/2008 12:17:22 PM

    I don't have a problem with a woman like Sarah Palin having strong views. I'm a strong woman, too. The difference? I don't share Sarah Palin's views.

    • Posted By: caroline @ 09/12/2008 12:39:26 PM

      I'm with you !

      • Posted By: Iconoblaster @ 09/12/2008 1:29:49 PM

        I'm not a woman, just an admirer of them. Especially smart, strong, confident, independent women (like my mother, my daughters and THEIR mother). I admire Mrs Palin, too, for those traits, but I won't be voting for her ticket this year...for the same reasons as dollyrocker98. I don't share her views.

  • Posted By: Iconoblaster @ 09/12/2008 1:24:24 PM

    Its odd that folks are so ready, in this political season, to read support or criticism of their own current political debate points into a study that barely touches on issues which are themselves only peripherally relevant to the actual campaign. I'm afraid that it shows how emotion, rather than reason, guides so many of our putatively intellectual decisions and opinions.

  • Posted By: nj_jen @ 09/12/2008 1:23:31 PM

    If this study is so flawed, why print it? This is such an insult to working mothers like myself who have to work just to make ends meet (at least here in NJ - anywhere else in the country we would well off).

    Given the choice, I think there are many moms who would like to stay home, but simply cannot afford to, and there are many who just don't want to. In either case, who the hell is this guy to judge anyone?

    Just using the term "privileged" is condescending - it is insinuating that only people that are "well off" are prvilieged. I consider myself privileged because I have a great family that I go home to every night. just because I don't have a husband who makes the 7 figure salary that doesn't mean that we aren't of value.

    Again - how insulting!

  • Posted By: soonery1 @ 09/12/2008 1:07:04 PM

    What a slap in the face to the wormen who work. It's time that the haves stop being so condecending to the have nots. These privileged women are no better and often worse than the working mother's. To critize Palin for who she is, what she has and will accomplish is pure garbarge. The critics need to take stock of themselves before casting stones at others.

  • Posted By: soonery1 @ 09/12/2008 1:01:27 PM

    Mothers of all incomes have worked outside the home for centuries. Why would it be such an issue now?. It is being made to sound as if the wealthy mothers are better than those who work. What a cop out and a slap in the face to all working mother's.

  • Posted By: sieg6529 @ 09/12/2008 12:28:32 PM

    Sure wish I had the choice to stay at home with the kids or go to work and be celebrated either way.

  • Posted By: techresmgt @ 09/12/2008 12:20:28 PM

    This entire topic is so disgustingly hypocritical and sexist. Women for the past 30 or 40 years did not give a hoot about staying home and being a stay at home mother. They all wanted to be career women. It seems now 'fashionable' to stay at home and take care of family matters. Men do not have the luxury of 'choice' in these matters, women do. They can 'choose to stay home or work' and society applauds them either way, calling them 'heroes', and 'the true workers in America'. Give us a break. Men have had to carry the brunt of work inside and outside the home for a thousand years and all we get is 'male bashing'. Up your nose with a rubber hose, many can't handle the truth and this is it. It is time that men stop allowing women to have their cake and eat it too. Women give men ultimatums, ad naseum. What is good for the gander is good for the goose.

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