APPRECIATION

David Foster Wallace, 1962-2008

An author of infinite erudition who found artistic and moral value in simply registering his dread.

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  • Posted By: amyaimee @ 09/14/2008 8:30:49 PM

    I'm sure Mr. Gates means well, but I find the quick, blase diagnosis and the parallels with Hemingway careless and inane. Hemingway was sickeningly delicious - full of vile black gunk. David was beautiful and real, and he *got* people, no matter what they were like. He got *everything* in a way that no one else does. It's a devastating loss. I thought I'd get to spend the rest of my life intermittently waiting for his next book or essay, as I have since I first stumbled upon him, and now I have nothing.

    • Posted By: Disgruntled and Disgusted @ 12/16/2008 7:45:19 PM

      Hah, it's nice that you can, basically, dismiss the most influential American writer ever (for better and for worse) with eye-catching phrases like "sickeningly delicious" and "vile black gunk". "Big Two-Hearted River" is "vile black gunk"? Gates' comparison is needless and trivial, but I believe yours to be equally so. The loss of DFW is a heavy one, but there's absolutely no need to indulge in literary cattiness. Still like the phrases though. :)

  • Posted By: luvzgb @ 09/22/2008 7:57:18 PM

    DFW, I will miss you so very much; your infinite insight and wisdom opened my eyes on so many levels, made me realize there is so much more right here in front of my eyes than I was ever able to see before, and put me on the path of becoming a more AWARE human being. I wish you were able to find a way to stay, for selfish reasons, but I understand, although it makes me incredibly sad. I will always cherish your words. Thank you.

  • Posted By: tisenor @ 09/16/2008 11:06:14 AM

    To Reporter Guy,
    It is obvious that you have no understanding of suicide or the tortured mind or you would not make the comments that you make. Suicide has nothing to do with toughness or with being a coward. Maybe you should educate yourself on something before you spew venom about it.

  • Posted By: tisenor @ 09/16/2008 11:04:34 AM

    To Reporter Guy,
    Obviously you have no understanding or knowledge on depression or the tortured mind or you would not make the comments you make. Suicide has nothing to do with being tough or being a coward. Please educate yourself on a subject before you spew venom about it.

  • Posted By: andyhillmusic@hotmail.com @ 09/15/2008 1:34:00 PM

    My best friend bought me a copy of "Infinite Jest". At page 100, I told him I wasn't getting into it. He implored, "keep reading!" At about page 300, I became one of those people who couldn't leave the house without it, and couldn't wait for the next opportunity to read it. When I finished it, I read it again from the beginning, now knowing all those characters. DFW signed my copy at a book reading in LA, and noticing the terrible condition of my copy, said, "Well, this makes an writer happy...," or something like that. I am still in shock from the news of his death.

  • Posted By: Velvetine @ 09/14/2008 1:37:25 PM

    Never heard of him--didn't find the excerpts compelling or original. People die every day. His day came sooner rather than later, by choice. He was obviously depressed for a long time, which may have been from too much thinking, not enough action, and the wrong drugs.

    • Posted By: nashvillegonetoashes @ 09/14/2008 2:04:21 PM

      Is not knowing who a critically acclaimed novelist is something to be proud of, Velvetine? You're literally bragging about being dumb.

      Also, trolling an obituary? Wow. What a winner you must be! I feel sorry for your friends (if you have any) and family. Never doubt what a disappointment you are to them.

      • Posted By: picassooverride @ 09/15/2008 2:54:58 AM

        (Year of the Presidential Campaign Advertisement) DFW was probably smarter than all of us. The reality of the situation (by numbers) is that he had a limited audience. You have zero reason to chastise or ridicule someone for not knowing. You have only to educate. Who among us knows everything?

      • Posted By: picassooverride @ 09/15/2008 2:50:46 AM

        (Year of the Presidential Campaign Advertisement) DFW was probably more intelligent than most of us. The reality of the situation (strictly by numbers) is that he did have a limited audience. You have no reason to chastise or ridicule any person for not knowing. You have only to educate. Wouldn't it be great if people gave instead of continously taking. To paraphrase - I believe it was Ambrose Bierce writing "The Devil's Dictionary" that defines, "Idiocy is that disease which afflicts someone who knows nothing about something which you know a great deal, but knows a great deal about something which you know
        nothing.

  • Posted By: cromeyellow @ 09/14/2008 10:14:45 PM

    Why oh why does a brilliant writer from Amherst College like David have to silence himself while a terrible writer like Dan Brown continues to spout garbage.

  • Posted By: tomowens2 @ 09/14/2008 3:48:33 PM

    I read Broom of the System and Girl With Curious Hair with mixed chagrin and joy. Signifying Rappers informed an urban creative response to alienation and I really never had time or energy to finish Infinite Jest which sits on my shelf half finished today. I feel terrible for the loss of David's voice in our culture, so that what there is left for me is to finish reading that densely diffucult text and suffer this fresh atrocity. --tom owens, shelby, mi

  • Posted By: INTJ @ 09/14/2008 3:29:12 PM

    I couldn't help but point out the irony, heartandlogic, having both read the book and understanding Wallace's fixation on the English language - Infinite Jest is a 'tome' not a tomb, though in some ways I suppose for him it could have been both.

  • Posted By: alphafe @ 09/14/2008 3:16:51 PM

    I began reading David Foster Wallace after my daughter was born. I was an English major at Berkeley and had always lived very much in my head. The catapult to heart and hands upon becoming a mother was shocking; it was a time when I was so emotionally porous, so exhausted from the day to day, so felled by love, that I found balance and joy and a return to what was only "mine," in David's cerebral, challenging work. Today David occupies my heart far more than my mind and I send all love to his family, especially his wife.

  • Posted By: alphafe @ 09/14/2008 3:15:32 PM

    I began reading David Foster Wallace after my daughter was born. I was an English major at Berkeley and had always lived very much in my head. The catapult to heart and hands upon becoming a mother was shocking; it was a time when I was so emotionally porous, so exhausted from the day to day, so felled by love, that I found balance and joy and a return to what was only "mine," in David's cerebral, challenging work. Today David occupies my heart far more than my mind and I send all love to his family, especially his wife.

  • Posted By: Feelah @ 09/14/2008 3:09:45 PM

    I was introduced to Infinite Jest by a boyfriend back in 1997. At the time, I was actually living in the part of Boston that is fictionalized as the locale of the tennis academy, and the book sucked me into a world that completely, totally took over my life. I remember finishing it in a deli (I never left home without it) while waiting for some friends. When they arrived, I excused myself, went to a pay phone, and called my boyfriend. When he answered, I simply said, "I finished it." Having been through the experience, he asked, "Are you OK?" I'll miss you, Dave. Thanks for the great, great ride.



    "My boyfriend, who understood how this felt, having

  • Posted By: Feelah @ 09/14/2008 3:08:04 PM

    I was introduced to Infinite Jest by a boyfriend back in 1997. At the time, I was actually living in the part of Boston that is fictionalized as the locale of the tennis academy, and the book sucked me into a world that completely, totally took over my life. I remember finishing it in a deli (I never left home without it) while waiting for some friends. When they arrived, I excused myself, went to a pay phone, and called my boyfriend. When he answered, I simply said, "I finished it." Having been through the experience, he asked, "Are you OK?" I'll miss you, Dave. Thanks for the great, great ride.



    "My boyfriend, who understood how this felt, having

  • Posted By: tormp @ 09/14/2008 2:52:16 PM

    seconded dimitripunk. someone who declares ignorance and then ascribes judgment anyway is a fool and should seek success in politics. the world is a richer place for wallace's intellectual generosity and thanks to david gates for lending his voice on the matter.

  • Posted By: Only here to say this @ 09/14/2008 2:42:10 PM

    David Foster Wallace, Dave, was very important to me, and my sadness--both because he is gone and because he had to suffer while he was here--is great. This article says better than others I've read today something about what his work was about and what a gift it was for someone to do the work of wrestling his thoughts onto the page to hold up a mirror for those of us with ???teeming, unruly??? skull-encased minds of our own. To let us into his mind in however a limited way; it was an intimacy many of us felt.

  • Posted By: theticbreak2hevin @ 09/14/2008 2:28:26 PM

    I itz ttL`/ radicalz that DUDrFW is t0t3z n0t halving 2 lisend 2 anym0r3 stupidz. #3 was relly awe-dical & 1 nVr wulduv p1@yd t3nni5 W/0 him5. also, u r probably 2 stoops to kare but if u can u shoud bcuz h3 mai B smarter then u thinx, d00tz. pees.

  • Posted By: heartandlogic @ 09/14/2008 2:20:27 PM

    Thank you for this thoughtful and moving obituary. It saddens me that the man's courage to face his demons was not enough to take it past them. I will now read, Infinite Jest, a tomb whose size has put me off. We all experience the reverberations of modern life in what is supposed to be that Mr.Tamberline Man place of creation inside us; I am moved to read about a life that glorifies man's drive to know himself all costs, and I regret his loss.

  • Posted By: bassist @ 09/14/2008 2:17:33 PM

    based on the human sensitivity of velvetine, i understand why david wallace chose to leave this world. for a visionary it is clearly discouraging to realize that humanity has taken a wrong turn. i have a feeling velvetine considers themselves a religious person. i'm sure you have asked or bartered favors with your deity. read about his son. he too saw his own demise approaching. but continued on his path, to his end, undeterred. ddon'tdon't be afraid

  • Posted By: bartleb @ 09/14/2008 2:16:55 PM

    Comment / Velvetine: Your icy inhumanity is an appalling reflection of the barbarity of our world that tormented this great American writer. His loss is an enormous tragedy. Take a look at yourself, please.

  • Posted By: bartleb @ 09/14/2008 2:14:49 PM

    Comment / Velveteen--Your icy inhumanity is an appalling reflection of the barbarity of our world that tormented this great American writer. His loss is an enormous tragedy. Take a look at yourself, please.

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