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  • Posted By: Danielj155 @ 09/18/2008 3:27:30 PM

    No, that was simply the original purpose for a man and a woman together before sin entered into the world and ruined everything. I think you would agree it needed more than two back then. If they still want to marry, God bless them. Its tough to be married rather than single.

  • Posted By: leonac @ 09/18/2008 3:27:24 PM

    Stop using God to justify your venom. You should be careful of the words you speak into exsistence as God's memory is long and you answer to every comment you make. You should spend more time utilizing compassion and understanding and then you can claim a relationship with God. Using religion to spread bigotry is the mark of someone unable to communicate their own discomfort and fear, God has nothing to do with it.

  • Posted By: Blacklabby @ 09/18/2008 3:26:52 PM

    This is not a matter of judgement. This is a matter of keeping our senior citizens safe. It should not be your place to judge but to be concerned of your fellow human companions well being. How closed minded our society is to scorn someone who is not outwardly harming anyone. Gay or straight we are all people and we should learn to love eachother, differences included.

  • Posted By: typicalamerican @ 09/18/2008 3:07:56 PM

    This is the reality of shunning societies conventions and deciding to live outside of acceptable norms. I am 40 years old and will be paying into social security for a few more decades. I don't mind that money being used to provide benefits to anyone Gay or Not...However, I wouldn't support benefits being paid to someones "Gay Partner" just because they stayed together.

    • Posted By: erutanjaxon @ 09/18/2008 3:14:43 PM

      Then it should not apply to heterosexual couples who have managed to "stay together" as well.

      • Posted By: typicalamerican @ 09/18/2008 3:26:16 PM

        All people who enter into a committed relationship do not merit the same rights guaranteed by law. Marriage is and always has been a sacred union. A union of two people that have the potential to procreate...this is essential to life. Gay unions violate the laws of nature, they are physiologically silly at the very least and at worst can be damaging. I agree that Gay and lesbian people deserve the rights and protections of heterosexual people as individuals. However, a society in conformance with nature and history itself should not be burdened by these individuals choices.

  • Posted By: tonyinstpete @ 09/18/2008 3:25:50 PM

    Great article! There is also a gay over-55 retirement community of perhaps thirty homes and villas in a semi-rural area of SW Florida, only about a half hour's drive south of St. Petersburg and north of Sarasota. It has a very active Homeowners Association, a good social life, and has now survived for more than a decade.
    There are places for sale there. Contact me, if interested: tony@earnestrealty.com

  • Posted By: IronPig @ 09/18/2008 3:25:50 PM

    Maybe it would not be such big deal if it wasn't so glamorized to be a rug muncher in Hollywood or a Sword swallower on TV.
    The couples who legitimately want a family and a "normal" life should look at the role models like Ellen, Rosie and the cast of Queer Eye..........most Americans do not need to see the over the top, look at me displays.
    Don't think that these people and the rest of the wanna bes like Lohan and the rest make your cause look silly and disgusting.
    Most people associate all homosexuals this way, have the mouthpieces shut up and then see what happens.

  • Posted By: skiingrob483 @ 09/18/2008 3:24:38 PM

    Don't be close minded. Do you think people should hate you because you are over weight? Same thing in principle as hating a Gay person just for being Gay. I am not gay, but I do work with seniors doing case management and social services. Seniors today lived through the civil rights movement and the women's rights movement. I do not want to be "poked in the booty" quoting brownsugah, but people have the RIGHT to live the lifestyle that they choice as long as this lifestyle does not interfere with other peoples. If you believe in God and do not accept people for who they are, then you dont believe in the Christian God, aka Christ. For those of you who use God as a reason to hate Gays, then do you believe in a God that hates some of his followers. Several of the more active member of my church are openly Gay, and they dont burn when they take the body and blood at communion every Sunday. Open you minds and your hearts, or just keep it to yourself. Seniors, and anyone for the matter, have a right to live any way they want. You have no right to comment on their life style unless you are willing to put yourself under the microscope and let us point out some of your skeletons in your closet. These "Gays" are people created in the imaged of God. If you can not accept that, then I feel bad for you. Being a senior citizen is not easy, especially when you have to do it alone. Lonelyness is prevalent with seniors who live alone, and the last thing that someone needs when they are already down is to get kicked again. Let these seniors live out their days in peace and what happiness they can find. And if you have more to say, so it to someone of your own generation as you are probably in your twenties or thirties and have never known a senior citizen in the last part of their life. Learn a little, volunteer at a local senior center or for a friendly visitor program or for meals on wheels. Then you will see what it is like to live an isolated life, even if it is only for a short period of time.

  • Posted By: tomsoppe @ 09/18/2008 2:55:21 PM

    Homophobia is a perverted behavior.

    • Posted By: carverxt @ 09/18/2008 3:24:22 PM

      You are free to leave the "LAND of the FREE" anytime. I hear that Iran doesn't have any Homosexuals... have a nice trip...

      Why is it so hard for people to be treated as equals! Blacks the same as whites, gays the same as straights is this to hard for you retards... yes retards, You all say you want to have freedom well guess what that means other people can do what they want in their personal lives, if that means straight sex, gay sex , or no sex!!!! If you want to make rules about how people should and shouldn't live their personal lives then the USA is not where you should be period.

  • Posted By: skiingrob483 @ 09/18/2008 3:23:32 PM

    Don't be close minded. Do you think people should hate you because you are over weight? Same thing in principle as hating a Gay person just for being Gay. I am not gay, but I do work with seniors doing case management and social services. Seniors today lived through the civil rights movement and the women's rights movement. I do not want to be "poked in the booty" quoting brownsugah, but people have the RIGHT to live the lifestyle that they choice as long as this lifestyle does not interfere with other peoples. If you believe in God and do not accept people for who they are, then you dont believe in the Christian God, aka Christ. For those of you who use God as a reason to hate Gays, then do you believe in a God that hates some of his followers. Several of the more active member of my church are openly Gay, and they dont burn when they take the body and blood at communion every Sunday. Open you minds and your hearts, or just keep it to yourself. Seniors, and anyone for the matter, have a right to live any way they want. You have no right to comment on their life style unless you are willing to put yourself under the microscope and let us point out some of your skeletons in your closet. These "Gays" are people created in the imaged of God. If you can not accept that, then I feel bad for you. Being a senior citizen is not easy, especially when you have to do it alone. Lonelyness is prevalent with seniors who live alone, and the last thing that someone needs when they are already down is to get kicked again. Let these seniors live out their days in peace and what happiness they can find. And if you have more to say, so it to someone of your own generation as you are probably in your twenties or thirties and have never known a senior citizen in the last part of their life. Learn a little, volunteer at a local senior center or for a friendly visitor program or for meals on wheels. Then you will see what it is like to live an isolated life, even if it is only for a short period of time.

  • Posted By: George from Westerville @ 09/18/2008 3:07:59 PM

    Uh ... I try to be progressive about these issues and I support gay civil unions and all the rights of marriage ... but do we have to have a big photo of two old ladies kissing on the "front page" of MSNBC? Yuck.

    • Posted By: Valerie1972 @ 09/18/2008 3:23:00 PM

      I agree George. They are trying to make a statement and their attempt didn't do much but, once again have people focus on the sexual aspect of homosexual relationships. Not to mention two elderly women kissing which is just a big old double "wow" factor. I would have preferred a more granny friendly image, holding hands, peck on the cheek perhaps? But, I even gave it a "Wow" and I'm a lesbian...

  • Posted By: Danielj155 @ 09/18/2008 3:19:33 PM

    The Bible commands us to judge righteously. In other words, don't substitute your judgment for God's and don't judge other people when you are guilty of impenitently engaging in the same sins. A careful and open-minded study of the Bible makes it clear that concerning certain vital matters, it is not only right but a positive duty to judge. Many do not know that the Scripture commands us to judge. Ezekiel 3:18-21. The Lord Jesus Christ Himself commanded us to "Judge righteous judgment" (John 7:24) Christ told a man, "Thou hast rightly judged" (Luke 7:43). To others, our Lord asked, "Why even of yourselves judge ye not what is right?" (Luke 12:57).
    Read this again carefully. Notice that it is addressed only to a hypocrite, not to those who sincerely want to discern whether a teacher or teaching is true or false to God???s Word. And instead of being a prohibition against honest judgment, it is a solemn warning against hypocritical judgment, not righteous judgment. In fact, the last statement of this Scripture commands sincere judgment.

  • Posted By: shortjames @ 09/18/2008 2:59:29 PM

    ....what is worse is trying to expalin to our children WHY 2 women are kissing!
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    Why is that difficult at all? How about "because they love each other".

    • Posted By: cchat123 @ 09/18/2008 3:19:18 PM

      If you have to explain two gender kissing people, how about saying "they love each other" .
      ...and leave it at that.

  • Posted By: FaithLoveandHope @ 09/18/2008 3:16:49 PM

    Well I don't support benefits being paid to a heterosexual's spouse just because they "stayed together" either, but I suppose we don't always get what we want. One day the tables will turn and typicalmerican bigotry will be a thing of the past.

  • Posted By: Danielj155 @ 09/18/2008 3:00:28 PM

    Its simply a matter of the lesser evil or voting for neither which is worse in my opinion. Noone has the right to exhibit any kind of sexual behaviour in our parks or on our streets like gays do mostly. Bug chasing is a sport of sorts among many gays to deliberately spreads AIDS. Back to the issue. You cannot make up a different deadly lifestyle and then have it protected just because it is rare. Stick with what works.

    • Posted By: cchat123 @ 09/18/2008 3:16:31 PM

      Please tell me what works? Certainly not heterosexual marriages. Take a look at the divorce rate among this group. Heterosexual raising children? ...news flash....children are
      abused, raped,killed, expolited and abdononed by this group that works. So get off your horse and stop with the bigotry.....and Gay men are not bug chasers nor spreaders of HIV. Ignorance and misunderstanding of every single sexually active person on this planet

    • Posted By: shortjames @ 09/18/2008 3:05:58 PM

      Give me a break. Type "woman dog" or "spring break sex" or "wife swapping" into any web browser and see what comes back. Is that what straight people are all up to? Its on the Internet so it must be true!

      There are promiscuous gay people and promiscuous straight people just like everything else. I personally think that monogamy is the answer for all people, gay or straight and live my life accordingly but I also know that asking a 21 year old to be non sexual is like asking the sun not to shine. Try living in the real world for a change.

  • Posted By: dm92 @ 09/18/2008 3:16:20 PM

    I happen to live in a gay friendly town in Northern NJ, about 15 miles west of New York City. It is a lovely town, with beautiful homes and great people. One of the girls on my 11 year-old daughter's soccer team has two moms. Both of them are delightful people and a pleasure to speak with at the games. I don't feel threatened in ANY way and I don't feel like my lifestyle is in danger and my kids are completely over it. They are growing up in a tolerant environment, they go to church often, but we don't allow them to hate ANYONE for ANY reason. They are developing their own personal relationships with God and are extremely well adjusted. I love living in my BLUE town, in a BLUE county in what is mostly a BLUE state and I wouldn't have it any other way, nor would I raise my children to be intolerant bozos who can't let everyone decide for themselves how they want to live their own law-abidding lives.

    Happy in NJ

  • Posted By: petie1958 @ 09/18/2008 3:15:14 PM

    Many old straight people also feel "invisible and Overlooked" and grow old without children or friends. Why is it that gays need more attention and recognition than those folks?

  • Posted By: petie1958 @ 09/18/2008 3:15:02 PM

    Many old straight people also feel "invisible and Overlooked" and grow old without children, close family or friends. Why is it that gays feel they need more attention and recognition than those folks?

  • Posted By: benchthis @ 09/18/2008 3:13:37 PM

    Because this is what Obama wants to support!!!

  • Posted By: IronPig @ 09/18/2008 3:09:35 PM

    Why do they need special recognition, it is their "choice" to be whom they want to be.

    • Posted By: erutanjaxon @ 09/18/2008 3:12:58 PM

      I would try to formulate an intelligent reply, but then I saw your user name, and decided that your name itself pretty much embodies your character, and I'm better of doing something better.

  • Posted By: mgdleschi @ 09/18/2008 3:12:50 PM

    GO BACK IN THE CLOSET!!!!!!!!!!!

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