WOMEN'S HEALTH

The Changing Face of Abortion

Teen abortion rates have plummeted in the past 30 years. Why aren't we seeing the same decreases for older women?

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  • Posted By: EYow @ 01/30/2009 3:36:45 PM

    "Thanks mom for chosing to let me live." Oh PLEASE. I was born before Roe v. Wade, so although my mother is pro-choice like I am, she didn't have much of one. She got pregnant, my parents got married, and I was born (in that order). They argued a lot while I was a kid, probably almost split up but stayed together ???because of the kids???...so we got to listen to them fight, and they projected a lot of their marital angst onto us. Yay. I've struggled all of my life with depression, I've got a college degree and when I do work I get good reviews...but I'm usually the one who gets cut when it's time for a layoff. I'm a member of Mensa, but I've never gotten a promotion at work. Honestly, most days, I just wish I weren't here. So no, I'm not at all sure I can thank my mom for choosing to let me live.

    • Posted By: Latinknight @ 06/09/2009 11:24:42 AM

      WTF people have grown up with a much worse childhood and arent depressed like you, yeah maybe your parents should have traeated you better but quit feeling sorry for yourself and realize your life isnt that bad you just got to learn to enjoy life. And if your a man of faith realize the only love you need is gods. I am a single child from a single mother, and yeah it was though growing up with my mother always working andwithout a father, and sure it would have been easier for my mother to not had have me, but I thank her and god for my life. I am a premed student and hope to make my moher proud and hoppe to repay her for everything she has given me including giving me life.

  • Posted By: forhumanism @ 01/30/2009 9:08:24 PM

    I see moms almost every day who should not be moms. They have no idea how to deal with their kids, usually they are poor and uneducated, sometimes single, sometimes their kids' father is as uneducated, helpless, and, well, as useless. That's why I am pro-choice. Children deserve to have the best-possible starting points. I had a nice childhood but honestly, if I had not been born, I would not be alive. So what? As long as abortions are carried out within the first three months, embryos cannot feel pain - but may be spared a whole lot of pain later on.

  • Posted By: thinkaboutit @ 01/30/2009 2:35:40 PM

    Thanks mom for chosing to let me live. 1/3 of my generation has been slaughtered at a rate of 4000 babies a day out of convenience. Next time you people bitch about how science can't cure something maybe the answer was held by one of the 50 million babies that were murdered.

  • Posted By: Zenara @ 01/29/2009 4:48:05 AM

    I was a 26 year old mother of two children age 2 and 8 months when I became pregnant a third time.
    I wasn't on birth control becasue I was still nursing my infant.
    I was also not having periods at the time.
    I sobbed in the doctors office when I found out I was pregnant again, I was exhausted, nursing, working 50 hours a week, pumping breast milk for my daughter and trying to hold my little family together with everything in me.
    My husband had lost his job and I had exhausted my maternity leaves with my employer. As main breadwinner, my job and my marriage were on the line.
    It was the worst hardest decision I have ever had to make But I made it. I made it to save the family I did have that was living so precariously on what I could provide, So yes, I had an abortion of my third pregnancy, I had i as early as they would give it me for it to be as moral as I could make it. I will never feel happy about that. I woke up and cried and cried.
    I got pregnant again ,on birth control, when why children were 2 and 4. I begged god to take this choice from me I couldnt have another abortion. I did miscarry my 4th pregnancy.
    When my children were 4 and 6, I got pregnant again, on the birth control pill
    YES THAT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME the birth control companies dont talk about it but it does. I know dozens of women who have gotten pregnant on the pill .Docs dont tell you that if you take cold medicines, antibiotics or have a lot of stress, it can cause the pill to fail. So people out there stop thinking "they should just take their birth control"
    Anyway so there I was with children age 6 and 4, pregnant again while on the pill, just moved to a new town, new boss, really bad timing for another baby. But I felt I had to keep my baby. I had one abortion and one misscarriage and I felt it was my last chance and I that I owed something back. I bled for 10 weeks while pregnant with my third child and still she hung on and I held fast. She was born ontime and healthy and is the light of our family.
    I can't say if what I did was right, but there was no one there for me to help me decide. It is a awful sacrifice to make to choose your two living children over your unborn child. I can only hope and feel that she kept trying to be born and finally came to term when I was 30 years old and in a much better place to care for her.
    Please don't judge women when you don't know there story. Be there for them to help them raise that baby or you need to look at yourself in the mirror before judging her. If I had someone who could have stood by me, my story would be different and my baby would have been born.

  • Posted By: teresita @ 10/06/2008 8:49:28 PM

    ABORTION IS MURDER OF INNOCENT CHILDREN WHO DO NOT HAVE ANY WAY TO DEFEND THEMSELVES. WHAT ABOUT THE CHILD'S RIGHT TO LIVE?

    • Posted By: slayer @ 10/08/2008 7:56:27 AM

      Abortion is NOT murder of "innocent" children. Anyway there is no proof that children are innocent.
      And what about the mother's right to live a child-free life if this was an accidental pregnancy? Just like humans take the right (forcibly) to have sex whenever they feel like it, women should have the right to abort unwanted pregnancies.
      As men dont get pregnant, most men claim that they love children and should have the right to decide on whether to abort or not. They will rarely support a women's right to opt for abortion.
      If men would get pregnant (due to having sex all the time), they would be singing a different tune.
      Everyone wants to enjoy at the expense of women and at risk to her health, which is inadmissible.
      If abortion is illegal, then make sex also illegal. Will any one do that? Never.
      So if sex is allowed indiscriminately, it will result in indiscriminate abortions too.
      Women should decide if they want to carry the parasite for 9 months and then care for it the rest of their lives (most probably single-handedly). Men or the world can not decide for the woman in this situation, only she gets to decide on this.

  • Posted By: teresita @ 10/06/2008 8:53:38 PM

    ABORTION IS MURDER OF INNOCENT CHILDREN WHO DO NOT HAVE ANY WAY TO DEFEND THEMSELVES. WHAT ABOUT THEIR RIGHTS?

    • Posted By: ghostmasseur @ 10/07/2008 3:18:16 PM

      Screaming will not make your comment any more valid.

      It is only murder in YOUR opinion, not in fact or in law.

      They are not "innocent children" they are neutral fetuses. BIG difference.

      They have no legal rights.

  • Posted By: cadypink @ 10/06/2008 3:40:05 PM

    Abortion is best left to the women and her doctor it should never have fallen into the hands of controlling men! Th right-wing chrisitians have not even considered the idea of handeling the mothers and children who would need assistance from them.in raisng these unwanted children. We donot give men this same kind of grief that we cast upon women!

  • Posted By: cadypink @ 10/06/2008 3:37:38 PM

    Abortion is a personal matter that is best left to the women and her doctor. It is interesting to note that laws try to make a teenager have an unwanted baby but an adult women is another story. it is called reality! and those right-wing so-called christians don't have an argument for that unless they want to deal with the large numbers of women and children asking for assistance from the church and government. lets not forget that even though we pressure women about sex and unwanted pregancies we never would think to give men the same kind of grief!

  • Posted By: cadypink @ 10/06/2008 3:37:35 PM

    Abortion is a personal matter that is best left to the women and her doctor. It is interesting to note that laws try to make a teenager have an unwanted baby but an adult women is another story. it is called reality! and those right-wing so-called christians don't have an argument for that unless they want to deal with the large numbers of women and children asking for assistance from the church and government. lets not forget that even though we pressure women about sex and unwanted pregancies we never would think to give men the same kind of grief!

  • Posted By: samuraiStar @ 10/06/2008 11:07:05 AM

    as A '30' something who's had an abortion myself, I don't need any 'education' on the how's and why's of anything. I know how to make children, I know how to use protection, i didn't use protection, and now i live with myself and the decision I made. It was my choice to have unprotected sex and my choice to end the pregnancy. And it should forever remain the choice of the individual, not the government and the men and women who have no ideas the struggle we go through as middle to under class women.

  • Posted By: Billionheiress @ 10/06/2008 8:14:13 AM

    Another point to consider could be that these women in the older age groups might be the women/girls who had abortions at earlier ages. It might be percieved as an acceptable form of B.C. Extreme but acceptable. Economics truely plays a big part. Many women are career oriented and don't want to have large families.

  • Posted By: teacher ECE @ 10/04/2008 11:38:38 AM

    Slayer,
    are you having a bad hair day??

  • Posted By: teacher ECE @ 10/04/2008 11:37:23 AM

    Slayer,
    are you having a bad hair day??

  • Posted By: MommaRe @ 09/24/2008 7:26:50 AM

    Slayer, You admit the "fetus" is alive when you say it could be "put to sleep". Every baby born needs a support system until it can feed itself. Should we have a "choice" until then? Margaret Sanger wanted women to be able to work outside the home without responsibility of children. Planned parenthood - the plan was to eliminate the poor, the blacks, the "undesirables", & handicapped before birth. Hitler loved her ideas, too.

    • Posted By: ghostmasseur @ 09/24/2008 9:40:21 AM

      MommaRae,

      I would argue that Slayer's choice of words is incorrect. Nature determines when a fetus become a independently viable life as opposed to a mass of cells. Once born ANY person can raise and feed a child (it is not a child until it is born). Given taht no fetus can survive outside of the womb at 4 months even with extrememly extensive medical intervention, that fetus is NOT alive in any real sense. It has no rights. I would argue that until a fetus can survive outside of the womb without extensive medical intervention it is not alive.

      Once real birth has taken place (either throgh the womb or through C-section) then there is a human being and it has rights even if later on in life it needs extraordinary medical care. (Dilation & Extraction [since the term "partial birth " is not a medical valid term it has no real meaning as far as I am concerned] is NOT birth.) I make that point to shut down any anti-abortion person (since they are not really "pro-life as the woman is the only life in the equation) trying to raise teh invalid issue of people who have serious illnesses and need extensive medical intervention to live. They are alive. a fetsu is not.

      Also there is no murder (or even killing) in abortion. It is simple termination of pregnancy.

      • Posted By: slayer @ 10/03/2008 8:48:58 AM

        Hey, I am not a medical person - I dont know much about the stupid technicalities of all this, neither do I care. I am a pro-abortionist. If anyone doesn???t want a baby they should abort it, irrespective of the # of days or months of the fetus/baby. And as far as I am concerned, if one could abort a 9 month alive or un-alive fetus/baby, its fine by me. Its the same thing for me, and everyones invited. If you dont want to deliver, go ahead and kill it - BUT first: try not to get pregnant, if you will end up killing it anyway, OK? I am anti-pregnancy - get it??? I hate kids, so I could never be an anti-abortionist.

    • Posted By: slayer @ 10/03/2008 8:34:59 AM

      I dont really care if the fetus is "alive" or "dead" either way... Whoever wants babies can have them, and those who dont can abort it - if they get pregnant - which they should try not to get, to avoid the abortion. Its the health of the woman who has to go thru abortion that is a concern, not the abortion of the baby.

  • Posted By: slayer @ 09/23/2008 4:48:05 AM

    Darn... scrap all educational programs and organizations. First thing to do is castrate all lust-filled men and hysterectomize all lust-filled women so that they can do what they want with their lust without the danger of getting pregnant. Or, as we all know, teach your children just ONE thing - sex is for reproduction. Everyone needs to have this drilled into their brain that only if you want to have a child you should indulge in sex. This world has become such a shitty place, where children are aborted because they are not male. If you want a child, the sex of the child should not matter. If it does, then you dont want a child, you want a SON. And that is pathetic in itself without the abortion part. Men cant keep their penises to themselves and women let them stick these penises into them all the time. What can be done about that??? This is the problem that has to be fixed. Teach human beings that they are humans with will power, and need not pander to hormones or animalistic reproductive program. TEACH humans celibacy, instead of making businessmen/women out of them.
    Oh, and continuing in this vein, women should stop taking pills and the other forms of contraceptives, to avoid harming themselves. Everyone cribs about how smoking is injurious to health and all the rest of it. How come SEX is not injurious to health - all those sexual diseases, pregnancies, dangerous abortions, and a miserable life for all the unsuccessful abortions and unwanted births. I could go on forever with the reasons why SEX is a curse, but you get the picture already - dont ya???

    • Posted By: basedrum777 @ 09/23/2008 11:50:54 AM

      Abstinence teaching doesn't work. Just ask Gov. Palin.

      • Posted By: slayer @ 10/03/2008 8:19:44 AM

        True... its hard work - so why take the trouble?!! Just let the world fill up with unloved and unwanted babies...

  • Posted By: slayer @ 09/24/2008 4:25:02 AM

    * For those already "accidentally pregnant" - go ahead and have the abortions.
    * Abortions should be legal for all pregnancies resulting from rape, or if there is danger to mother's/child's life or if it is a defective fetus.
    * For the rest of the womenfolk (currently only women get pregnant) - you need to understand the root cause of wanting an abortion:
    1. Wanting an abortion indicates an accidental pregnancy (exclude scenarios where there is danger to mother/child or defective fetus).
    2. Accidental pregnancies happen when you have unprotected sex (exclude rapes here).
    3. Unprotected sex means either you or the partner did not care much about your getting pregnant.
    4. Now, include failed contraception under "unprotected sex".
    5. So unprotected or protected sex could cause accidental pregnancy.
    6. Thus the root cause of accidental pregnancy is SEX.
    7. So, the fool proof, 100% safest contraceptive is NO SEX if you intend to avoid accidental pregnancy.
    Case closed...

    • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/24/2008 8:20:36 PM

      So my aunt is 45 and has been married for 20 years. She discovered she was pregnant even though her husband has had a vasectomy. She wants to get an abortion because they already have 3 kids and she just got laid off.
      Are you saying that they shouldn't have been having sex?! They should have stopped having sex 15 years ago, right?

      • Posted By: slayer @ 10/03/2008 8:17:19 AM

        Exactly - its not rocket science.

  • Posted By: desertman @ 09/23/2008 2:39:49 AM

    Use a good contraceptive or keep your damn legs shut! Their is no good reason to kill a baby!

    • Posted By: beaglesrock @ 09/23/2008 10:20:42 AM

      What an ignorant comment! Even good contraception sometimes fails. And lets remember sex is joint decision not just the womans.

      • Posted By: slayer @ 10/03/2008 8:08:06 AM

        Aborting or not aborting is the womans decision, as she has to look after the parasite.

    • Posted By: Phoenix77 @ 09/23/2008 1:18:52 PM

      What about the victims of Rape and Incest?

    • Posted By: slayer @ 09/23/2008 4:28:26 AM

      Perfect answer by desertman... It will come to abortion only when an unwanted pregnancy takes place, so best option is dont get pregnant in the first place :)

  • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/23/2008 3:55:02 PM

    If God and only God has the right to decide when a child should be born, then why are infertility treatments ok?

    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/23/2008 4:08:16 PM

      Inferlity treatments are still not a guarantee of life.... even if a person conceives using one.... it is still up to God to bring the child to full term.... God doesn't make mistakes and nothing surprises Him....

      • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/23/2008 5:21:43 PM

        Yes. But how can one argue that the free choice we have to go against God (ie. He decided Person A should be pregnant so an abortion would go against that) is more acceptable in one circumstance than another (ie. He decided that Person B cannot ever get pregnant so infertility treatments would go against that)?

        • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/23/2008 6:07:13 PM

          Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/23/2008 5:21:43 PM
          Comment: Yes. But how can one argue that the free choice we have to go against God (ie. He decided Person A should be pregnant so an abortion would go against that) is more acceptable in one circumstance than another (ie. He decided that Person B cannot ever get pregnant so infertility treatments would go against that)?

          Does God do everything supernaturally? Who says that God cannot use medical technology to carry out His will for a person's life? If God would decide that a person woudn't bear children then they wouldn't plain and simple.... not all who go to the fertility clinic bear children... successful ratings depends on a persons age and that of their partner....

          As for the argument of free choice .... go back to Genesis.... the argument has already been made...... Selah!

          • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/23/2008 8:33:06 PM

            Sorry, I don't know about "Genesis." Our family stretches 3 large religions (Islam, Christian, and Buddhism) so my parents decided to raise us without emphasis on Scripture of a particular religion. I also don't quite understand what you are trying to tell me. My understanding is that you feel that God will only grant conception if he wants to and no amount of treatment will help that. However, my arguement is that just like everyone is entitled to seek infertility treatment, every woman should be allowed to seek an abortion. I feel that forcing multiple zygotes into the womb (infertility treatment) is no different than forcing a zygote out of the womb.

            • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/24/2008 11:08:43 AM

              What I was saying is about the argument that you presented to me on free choice and I reference Genesis to let you know that argument has been settled ???. Meaning for you to go back and read it for yourself??? as far as being raised with no particular religious view??? that is a shame (in my opinion) but an opportunity for you to study the view points on all three religions and decide for yourself which is true and which is not true??? I have studied a lot of religions myself???. I???m a Christian???

              My understanding is that you feel that God will only grant conception if he wants to and no amount of treatment will help that.

              Here is what I believe and here are some scriptures that supports my beliefs???. One is that children are a gift from God???
              Pss.127
              1. [3] Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
              God is the giver of life and is able to make a woman to conceive and bear children???
              Pss.113
              1. [9] He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the LORD.


              However, my arguement is that just like everyone is entitled to seek infertility treatment, every woman should be allowed to seek an abortion.

              This argument is weak ???. You are saying everyone woman should be allowed to seek having children through infertility treatments???. Thus giving the right to every woman to terminate a life through abortion???

              I feel that forcing multiple zygotes into the womb (infertility treatment) is no different than forcing a zygote out of the womb.

              So are you saying that zygotes (a fertilize Ovum) which has begun the process of life are not entitled to the right to life? And if so for what reason do you give this right to terminate this beginning of life?

              • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/24/2008 8:13:34 PM

                Yes, it was a great experience studying different religions, which only makes my point about Scripture more sincere. Your Bible has very many verses which are confusing and sometimes a little frightening. My favorite is the shellfish one from Leviticus. "But all in the seas or in the rivers that do not have fins and scales, all that move in the water or any living thing which is in the water, they are an abomination to you." (Leviticus 11:10).
                Abortion is a MORAL issue that transcends the teachings written so long ago as the writers could not possibly fathom the technology. Therefore, we should not argue for laws based on the SELECTED Scripture of the religion. I mean, I trust that you obey/believe ALL the rules set in the Bible and not just a few of them.

                So every woman must come to terms with her own morality, this is free choice. I do not think that a cluster of cells equals a child, but that is MY morality. If you do believe that a cluster of cells is a child, then there can be no exception made for rape or incest, as murder is murder. (This is not the same as murder in self-defense as the "child" is not the perpetrator.)

                The infertility thing had to do with manipulations of the zygote. If you use technology to create an embryo, why is that any different than using technology to destroy that embryo? Either way, isn't one playing God? Maybe instead of a termination of the embryo we could just suck it out and keep it on ice. That's what they do with the embryos not used in infertility treatment.....

                Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to encourage abortions. I just think that we shouldn't force our morality on others who live with us.

                • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 11:41:28 AM

                  Speaking of Leviticus most people like to point out this scripture to justify homosexuality???. If you notice it say ???they are an abomination to you??? Not to God??? as Peter thought and God corrected him in
                  Acts.10
                  [11] And saw heaven opened, and a certain vessel descending unto him, as it had been a great sheet knit at the four corners, and let down to the earth:
                  [12] Wherein were all manner of fourfooted beasts of the earth, and wild beasts, and creeping things, and fowls of the air.
                  [13] And there came a voice to him, Rise, Peter; kill, and eat.
                  [14] But Peter said, Not so, Lord; for I have never eaten any thing that is common or unclean.
                  [15] And the voice spake unto him again the second time, What God hath cleansed, that call not thou common.
                  [16] This was done thrice: and the vessel was received up again into heaven.

                  This law was given clearly to the people to be distinguish from the rest of the world and to present themselves as such even in their daily diets??? now God has bridged the gap and make all one in Christ
                  Gal.3
                  1. [28] There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
                  Now if you look at Leviticus 20 [7] Sanctify yourselves therefore, and be ye holy: for I am the LORD your God. This scriptures tell that the following scriptures are an abomination to God which led???s to Leviticus 20: [13] If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. And nowhere else in scripture does God says that what was an abomination or unclean about men with men is now clean or not an abomination???

                  • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/25/2008 1:01:10 PM

                    I must say that I'm very glad that we can be on opposing sides of the issue without being mean and nasty to each other.

                    However, for me, it all really boils down to whether or not one believes the organism should be afforded the same rights as a human being. If you believe the zygote is a human, you would never kill it. If you believe the zygote is a bunch of cells with no more rights than a tumor, then you should be able to terminate your pregnancy.

                    No amount of Scripture will ever change one's mind about that distinction.












                    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 1:51:01 PM

                      Yes we can debate without calling names.... but I have to confess that I have been outspoken before...lol... it depends on the person to whom I'm debating with....

                      Let us look at it from a scientific aspect...There is no universal definition of life; there are a variety of definitions proposed by different scientists. To define life in unequivocal terms is still a challenge for scientists.[5][6]

                      Conventional definition: Often scientists say that life is a characteristic of organisms that exhibit the following phenomena:

                      Homeostasis: Regulation of the internal environment to maintain a constant state; for example, sweating to reduce temperature.
                      Organization: Being composed of one or more cells, which are the basic units of life.
                      Metabolism: Consumption of energy by converting nonliving material into cellular components (anabolism) and decomposing organic matter (catabolism). Living things require energy to maintain internal organization (homeostasis) and to produce the other phenomena associated with life.
                      Growth: Maintenance of a higher rate of synthesis than catabolism. A growing organism increases in size in all of its parts, rather than simply accumulating matter. The particular species begins to multiply and expand as the evolution continues to flourish.
                      Adaptation: The ability to change over a period of time in response to the environment. This ability is fundamental to the process of evolution and is determined by the organism's heredity as well as the composition of metabolized substances, and external factors present.
                      Response to stimuli: A response can take many forms, from the contraction of a unicellular organism when touched to complex reactions involving all the senses of higher animals. A response is often expressed by motion, for example, the leaves of a plant turning toward the sun or an animal chasing its prey.
                      Reproduction: The ability to produce new organisms. Reproduction can be the division of one cell to form two new cells. Usually the term is applied to the production of a new individual (either asexually, from a single parent organism, or sexually, from at least two differing parent organisms), although strictly speaking it also describes the production of new cells in the process of growth.

                      • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/25/2008 4:27:42 PM

                        Hmm. Tumor cells also fit all those characteristics...However, I don't think that you are talking about whether or not the zygote is alive (as I'm sure we would all agree that it is), but whether or not its stage of development is such that it crosses the line from "unworthy of protection" to "worthy of protection."

                        Here we make the distinction that some things are more worthy of our protection than others. For example, if you have been following the election coverage lately, you will know that one of the views that Gov. Palin supports is the killing of wolves for predator control. As she is pro-life, one could assume that she views the life of a wolf as less worthy of protection than that of a zygote. That is where she draws her line.

                        The problem with this issue is that no one draws their line in the same place. Having said that, we can't even agree on birth control! Some believe that prevention of fertilization is acceptable (the Pill), while prevention of implantation is not (an IUD). Some believe that any form of birth control is unacceptable.

                        • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/26/2008 10:37:35 AM

                          Here is the problem that I have with your views and that is you want to call or give names to the un-born child that deprive it of it humanity therefore making it easily to destroy???.. this is the same tactics that most racist people employ when the try to justify killing of others not like them???. Example??? we call indians ???savages??? and wipe the out in a savage way???. Hitler says Jews are less than human and slaughter them by the millions, racist calls blacks animals and enslave and kill them, now we call children (unborn) fetus, zygotes, bunch of cells so we can justify killing them by the millions ???.

                          No matter how one spins this??? they cannot deny that being a fetus, zygote or a collection of cells in the normal process of HUMAN life and all 6 billion humans that are now on the face of the earth have went through this process??? and I have never heard of a woman given birth to anything else but a human being! So we already know from the offset that when the doctor comes in to the room and announces ???you are pregnant??? to a woman??? we don???t make any assumptions that this is a zygote, fetus or a collection of cells that formed in her body???. The normal saying is ???you are going to have a baby???

                          Another problem is that you or shall I say those who give the label of life to the egg of a bald eagle and pass laws that even taking the egg of a bald eagle to sell it will garner you with a $500,000 fine and 2 years in jail??? yet we say terminating a zygote (to use your term) is not to be punish or look at as a crime??? so not only have people like yourself elevated animals above humans you give examples of Gov Palin not being as pro-life as she should be when it comes to animals!! Unbelievable???..
                          The problem is that you and others are drawing the line in places that don???t concern human life??? next thing you know we will be taking the African Lion to court for harassing and killing the antelopes in his area???. As for methods of prevention of pregnancies ??? there have been methods and prevention controls in place for decades and people still refuse to use them ??? so it doesn???t matter what others believe is acceptable or not when people still don???t use protection.

                          • Posted By: Mesothelin @ 09/26/2008 6:40:09 PM

                            Oh Bojack. It is clear that you do not feel the same empathy for all living creatures, an opinion which is as valid as mine. Is not all life sacred?
                            Yes, the saying is "you are GOING TO have a baby," NOT "you have a baby." My view is that she does not have a baby YET. Your view is that she already has a baby. These opposing views are both valid. I would argue that the actual responsibility we have as a society is to ensure the HEALTH of the zygote as opposed to just the EXISTENCE of it. If you feel abortion is such an abomination (but not like shellfish right? *wink*), then we should also be advocating for free pre-natal care for all FIRST. It is no victory for any if we save their existence without preserving their future. Also, I think more women would keep their pregnancies if they didn't have to worry about pre-natal care.

                            • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/29/2008 2:51:22 PM

                              My view is to not stop the process of life your view is anything goes???. I disagree that both views are valid???. Being that you finally called or acknowledge the unborn as being a baby??? now you saying that it should be killed??? totally endorsing murder of the unborn (baby)???
                              I would argue that the actual responsibility we have as a society is to ensure the HEALTH of the zygote as opposed to just the EXISTENCE of it.
                              Actual responsibility of society is to recognize that all human life is precious and no one has to right to terminate the unborn regardless of the health of the baby???. If we start suggesting that life is not worth living if the health of a child is in a weaken state then what stops us from killing all those in the hospital who are in weaken states of existence???. Oh I forgot we do this already???
                              If you feel abortion is such an abomination (but not like shellfish right? *wink*), then we should also be advocating for free pre-natal care for all FIRST. It is no victory for any if we save their existence without preserving their future. Also, I think more women would keep their pregnancies if they didn't have to worry about pre-natal care.

                              Your ignorance of why God gave dietary laws to the Jews was to distinguish them from among other nations??? and the abomination was to be to them not to God??? as Peter found out when he was told to eat unclean animals???. But that is another subject ???. To worship other gods is an abomination and Molech or Baal required child sacrifices ??? sending or passing their children through a fiery sacrifice ???. These practices are abominable in God???s sight especially since man is made in His image??? and any blood spilled was a sin against God especially innocent blood???.
                              As for having victory in preserving their future??? What kind of garbage is this??? can you preserve your future? NO! You cannot even guarantee that you will be living tomorrow let alone pay your bills???. If you have been following the economic crisis???. As far as women keeping their children if pre-natal care was available???. Give me a break???. Most abortion occur without even thinking about pre-natal care??? and they happen for selfish reasons???. Meaning I (the woman or man) don???t want the responsibility or they are to selfish to share their lives and it is expedient to do without the emotional demands of children???.

                            • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/29/2008 2:50:46 PM

                              Sacred meaning set apart for God???. Well it depends what god you are worshiping???. India the set apart the rat and the cow as being sacred???.. Christianity set apart that which is made in the image of God???. (mankind) not objects, birds, creatures, or four footed beast???.

                              Rom.1
                              [18] For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
                              [19] Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
                              [20] For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
                              [21] Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
                              [22] Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
                              [23] And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.

                              Yes, the saying is "you are GOING TO have a baby," NOT "you have a baby." My view is that she does not have a baby YET. Your view is that she already has a baby. These opposing views are both valid.
                              My view is to not stop the process of life your view is anything goes???. I disagree that both views are valid???.

                    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 2:12:31 PM

                      As for changing the mind of one person through scriptures.... there is no need to change one's mind... sub-conscience tells those who have engaged in abortion that it is wrong.... I tell you this through experience in my family and others that I know... to try to justify something by reducing it as a bunch of cells to me is a shot in the dark.... peoples conscience will be revealed during judgment day....

                      Rom.2
                      [11] For there is no respect of persons with God.
                      [12] For as many as have sinned without law shall also perish without law: and as many as have sinned in the law shall be judged by the law;
                      [13] (For not the hearers of the law are just before God, but the doers of the law shall be justified.
                      [14] For when the Gentiles, which have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, these, having not the law, are a law unto themselves:
                      [15] Which shew the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and their thoughts the mean while accusing or else excusing one another;)
                      [16] In the day when God shall judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel.

                      You say no matter what amount of scriptures I show you that you or shall I say people will not believe.... the purpose of showing scriptures is not always used to convinced people but to ensure that once anyone stands before God that they have no excuse and they are going to be judge according to what the have heard...
                      2Pet.2
                      [20] For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning.
                      [21] For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.
                      [22] But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.

                • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 11:43:40 AM

                  Maybe instead of a termination of the embryo we could just suck it out and keep it on ice. That's what they do with the embryos not used in infertility treatment.....

                  Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to encourage abortions. I just think that we shouldn't force our morality on others who live with us.

                  I like when people say we shouldn???t force or morality on others who live with us???. Yet nowhere in the world does one live that morality (rule, laws, practices) aren???t governing a body of people ??? if so you would have anarchy all over the world???. Which ultimately leads to war??? so are you suggesting that we are to be lawless? Morality is the standard of conduct that is generally accepted as right and proper. There lies the dilemma or shall I say debate that what is the generally accepted conduct concerning this matter???. Each side has presented it???s case but few are accepting the others opinion???. I can make the argument that the side that I???m on has determine that life is worth fighting for???. Your side or where you stand I don???t know but standing in the middle of such a debate is to be against the right of the unborn to exist??? just my opinion???. Selah!

                • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 11:43:05 AM

                  So every woman must come to terms with her own morality, this is free choice. I do not think that a cluster of cells equals a child, but that is MY morality. If you do believe that a cluster of cells is a child, then there can be no exception made for rape or incest, as murder is murder. (This is not the same as murder in self-defense as the "child" is not the perpetrator.)
                  Your definition doesn???t even line up with science ??? they have already conceded that life begins at conception???. As for the case of rape or incest ???. Yes it is murder to abort even this life??? there are options like adoption ??? I remember watching a movie ???Braveheart??? I believe or something similar where this guys wife was raped by his enemy and his wife asked him would it bother him if she bear this child??? he said the child is innocent the father is not so why should I punish the child???. Or something like that??? I found it profound that a movie would bring out this point ??? especially in Hollywood???.



                  The infertility thing had to do with manipulations of the zygote. If you use technology to create an embryo, why is that any different than using technology to destroy that embryo? Either way, isn't one playing God?
                  If you use the word create??? in a Christian???s mind create is to bring something out of nothing or to bring into existence through your own intellect???. And only God can do the first portion of this definition???. Science through their intellect can help bring along a process that has already been establish and help facilitate that which is known???. Thus they do not hence create but duplicate a process through technology that God has already created. So my point is if you think technology is creating in the since that the scientist are playing God then you don???t have a clear understanding of God nor what science has done in the process of helping those who have trouble conceiving. When technology is use to produce (which is the definition of technology) either a method to help a process along the way it is being use towards the benefit of mankind???. Once technology is used in the capacity to produce weapons of destructions (ie??? guns, Nuclear weapons) then it is the purpose of the design, production, and use of technology that one implements that determine if they are playing God. This is done by deciding who has the RIGHT to live or die; thus the are determining the worth of that person and are playing God. Abortion is not technology or shall I say new technology it is methods of killing used by the means of evil men???.. example Hitler use saline to kill Jews and saline is a method abortionist use to kill the unborn. Thus abortionist like Hitler have determined who is aloud to live and determines who are the undesirables in life and are fit for elimination??? Thus putting themselves in the role of God???.

                • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/25/2008 11:42:05 AM

                  Abortion is a MORAL issue that transcends the teachings written so long ago as the writers could not possibly fathom the technology. Therefore, we should not argue for laws based on the SELECTED Scripture of the religion. I mean, I trust that you obey/believe ALL the rules set in the Bible and not just a few of them.

                  I disagree that the abortion issue transcends the writings of the past??? It is true that it is a MORAL issue???. But technology has nothing to do with the same act that was being committed in the past (killing of children) for selfish reasons, than it has to do with the present of killing children for the same reason??? here is a scripture that most don???t know??? it shows what the prophet (one who speaks for God) thought of the act of ripping the children out of the stomachs of women???.
                  2Kgs.8
                  [10] And Elisha said unto him, Go, say unto him, Thou mayest certainly recover: howbeit the LORD hath shewed me that he shall surely die.
                  [11] And he settled his countenance stedfastly, until he was ashamed: and the man of God wept.
                  [12] And Hazael said, Why weepeth my lord? And he answered, Because I know the evil that thou wilt do unto the children of Israel: their strong holds wilt thou set on fire, and their young men wilt thou slay with the sword, and wilt dash their children, and rip up their women with child.
                  [13] And Hazael said, But what, is thy servant a dog, that he should do this great thing? And Elisha answered, The LORD hath shewed me that thou shalt be king over Syria.

                  Notice that the man of God calls it Evil???. And in this prophecy was fulfilled in 2Kgs.15 [16] Then Menahem smote Tiphsah, and all that were therein, and the coasts thereof from Tirzah: because they opened not to him, therefore he smote it; and all the women therein that were with child he ripped up.

      • Posted By: nimodahooligan @ 09/23/2008 4:16:47 PM

        so...lets say god doesnt make mistakes...than why on earth does he allow millions to live without clean water, food, shelter...why does he allow unjust and illegal wars to be led by "christian conservative republicans"? if god doesnt make any mistakes and nothing suprises him, then he ment for the united states to develop nuclear weapons and drop them on a country of innocent people. if god doesnt make mistakes, hitler would not have ever existed, war would not exist, all childeren would be born healthy and happy with 2 loving parents...if god doesnt make mistakes, then he must have ment for humans to destroy eachother in ever more brutal fashions...if he doesnt make mistakes, he ment for humanity to destroy the only home that we have...he doesnt sound like a very nice guy to me...or its just that the REAL WORLD is cold, and harsh...the real world OUTSIDE OF AMERICAN SUBURBIAN MINDSET is not a fun place to be at all. get a clue...god is not saving the childeren, jesus hasnt come down in his flaming chariot and washed the world clean of sin...

  • Posted By: juliesatx @ 09/26/2008 5:02:32 PM

    Re :bojack27
    Why do you assume that what you have read is right and that I am wrong? Have you ever read anything about Gandhi. If you are not convinced of his truth then that???s your problem. I can???t convince you that he freed India from Britian, advocated against the caste system and the oppression of women, helped create a new government, used fasting to stop a war, and lived meagerly and in celibacy with his wife, by choice. You don???t have to believe anything. His message is powerful but obviously someone has been able to fool you into not learning about him, which is the goal of the ???the state??? (our current governing body).

    You used the word ???witchcraft??? which incites negativity. You know this because Christians have been using it for centuries. Millions of women were killed during he Inquisition all in the name of Christ. The Biblle has been used to justify lots of terrible things??????..usually because of a literal reading of it.

    These witch killings still happen today, (see Tanzania) and for you to continue the use of this language that means to suppress thought and incite fear, well that makes you part of the Bushie government. Palin just recently was ???pastorally blessed from witchcraft??????..
    http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080925/ap_on_el_ge/palin_witchcraft_blessing;_ylt=AkVcoLbc23cJ5.xLVQxDuhYXr7sF?????????..
    I suppose you will vote for her, right?

    There are many great thinkers who speak truth, Socrates, Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Buddha, Mohammed, etc etc etc. they have something to offer you, whether you agree or disagree.

    When you read the bible all the way through, you will find numerous contradiction. You can read it as a Christian or as an educated Christian. You must always consider the context in which it was written by humans, and mostly Jewish people,( not Christian). Have you heard of the Epic of Gilgamesh? Have you heard of the Akhenaton???s Hymn to the Sun? These are ancient texts similar to those in the Bible. You don???t have to believe anything. But if your one argument is scripture???.then maybe you can see if I quote your Christ??????..

    ???behold, in the days to come, I will send you prophets and wise men, and teachers, even these you will kill and crucify. Yes, even these you will persecute, and pursue to the ends of the earth???

    ???be forewarned: unless your righteousness exceeds the pseudo-righteousness of the religious, you will not set foot inside the kingdom of heaven???

    ???be witness to you own inconsistency! You are the decendents of those who killed the prophets and have surpassed even their wicked acts. Snakes! Generation of vipers! How ill you escape the condemnation of eternal judgement?

    Sorry I mistook you for a woman. Its not so bad you know. I love being a woman.

    My purpose is to teach not judge. Love is the law.

    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/29/2008 2:08:19 PM

      Sorry I mistook you for a woman. Its not so bad you know. I love being a woman.

      One should be proud of what they are especially since God has made them that way???. Meaning (man & woman)???..

      My purpose is to teach not judge. Love is the law.

      My purpose is to teach and judgment comes once a person rejects the teaching of God???. Not from me quoting the scriptures???. God is love ??? the law of love is to
      Matt.22
      1. [37] Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
      John.3
      [16] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      [17] For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
      [18] He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      [19] And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
      [20] For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
      [21] But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

      Judgment or condemnation comes not from one preaching but the rejection of Jesus and his Word???.

    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/29/2008 2:05:09 PM

      ???be forewarned: unless your righteousness exceeds the pseudo-righteousness of the religious, you will not set foot inside the kingdom of heaven???

      Matt.5
      [20] For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

      Good scriptures if you understand the meaning??? I don???t seek a righteousness of myself ??? I have the righteousness of Christ (not from what I have done but what I have believed)

      Rom.10
      [3] For they being ignorant of God's righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.
      [4] For Christ is the end of the law for righteousness to every one that believeth.


      ???be witness to you own inconsistency! You are the decendents of those who killed the prophets and have surpassed even their wicked acts. Snakes! Generation of vipers! How ill you escape the condemnation of eternal judgement?

      Matt.23
      [29] Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye build the tombs of the prophets, and garnish the sepulchres of the righteous,
      [30] And say, If we had been in the days of our fathers, we would not have been partakers with them in the blood of the prophets.
      [31] Wherefore ye be witnesses unto yourselves, that ye are the children of them which killed the prophets.
      [32] Fill ye up then the measure of your fathers.
      [33] Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?
      [34] Wherefore, behold, I send unto you prophets, and wise men, and scribes: and some of them ye shall kill and crucify; and some of them shall ye scourge in your synagogues, and persecute them from city to city:

      Good Scriptures???. But what is your understanding of these scriptures? Or are you trying to use these scriptures in reference to me???.lol??? well you do fall way short of the mark (sin) since you think that I???m misleading people and killing prophets???. Or if I???m inconsistent ??? then point out where I???m being inconsistent using scriptures?

    • Posted By: bojack27 @ 09/29/2008 2:04:06 PM

      When you read the bible all the way through, you will find numerous contradiction. You can read it as a Christian or as an educated Christian. You must always consider the context in which it was written by humans, and mostly Jewish people,( not Christian).

      No contradictions just your lack of understanding of the scriptures and the context in which it was written??? Yes written mostly by Jewish people (who converted to Christianity = meaning those who follow Christ)

      Have you heard of the Epic of Gilgamesh? Have you heard of the Akhenaton???s Hymn to the Sun? These are ancient texts similar to those in the Bible.

      Similar? The Epic of Gilgamesh tells how he is seeking to become immortal (not being immortal) the Akhenaton is an Egyptian Pharaoh who died and never rose from death (yet you say they are similar ancient texts to the bible???. Yet none of these men claim to redeemed the world from sin and reconcile humankind back to God the Father???. I think you are stretching it to say they are similar and are in fact entirely opposite of the teachings of the bible???.


      You don???t have to believe anything. But if your one argument is scripture???.then maybe you can see if I quote your Christ??????..

      You quote yet you misquote just like Satan himself???..

      ???behold, in the days to come, I will send you prophets and wise men, and teachers, even these you will kill and crucify. Yes, even these you will persecute, and pursue to the ends of the earth???

      Luke.11
      [47] Woe unto you! for ye build the sepulchres of the prophets, and your fathers killed them.
      [48] Truly ye bear witness that ye allow the deeds of your fathers: for they indeed killed them, and ye build their sepulchres.
      [49] Therefore also said the wisdom of God, I will send them prophets and apostles, and some of them they shall slay and persecute:
      [50] That the blood of all the prophets, which was shed from the foundation of the world, may be required of this generation;

      ???be forewarned: unless your righteousness exceeds the pseudo-righteousness of the religious, you will not set foot inside the kingdom of heaven???

  • Posted By: dana201052 @ 09/28/2008 11:49:58 PM

    You can't determine anything from just these numbers alone. What about controlling for the increase in teen-age pregnancy. More teenagers today are choosing more to have and keep their baby unlike the old'n days. After they control for this I may be more convinced.

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