How To Keep Him From Cheating

Hey trash, the name fits... are you ready to have your boys life destroyed when you get caught, and you will! You are part of the problem, YOU WAKE UP !!! I feel sorry for your whole family. Why dont you use your " energy" for something other than your lousy excuses to be cheating on your family, its not just your husband your cheating on ...its also your boys!!

is it okay for you to not published my comment in this website?!

First of all my husband doesnt watch any ball game. how can we make the distinction? if we think it is just sex we are wrong how are we supposed to know the difference? Emotionaly and physically men and women need just the same so when does the distinction come? Just because we are different genders does not mean that we do not feel the same, so how come men can have a reason?

First of all my husband does not watch any kind of ball game, how is a woman supposed to know that a man is feeling unappreciated? Are we just supposed to guess? If we dont think that they would cheat then how are we supposed to know that they feel that away? @nd of all is this supposed to be an excuse? That still makes it our fault does it not?

If men are cheating cause they feel unappreciated maybe they should look at why they are getting that feeling from their wife maybe they are the ones that are not appreciateing their wife and that is why in return they feel unappreciated cause they decided to cheat not because they are unappreciated but because they must always have somthing better once it comes along and feeling unappreciated is not the reason for straying but the reaction that comes from the wife being suspicous about him cheating and thus the disconnect happens.

we are not married but been together for three years and have a 6 month daughter... i have been the best girlfreind i can be to him... i cook, clean and want sex all the time while going to school full time and working full time... but i honestly believe he has cheated on me since we have been together b/c i have caught him a few times... not to be vain but i am a very attractive woman and even after the baby my body is in great shape... so i agree with the earlier comment by saying if he wants to cheat he will cheat no matter how good you treat them or praise them

It is very simple, really. No one should ever get married. Men are sleezy, cheating ba*&*&ds and all women are saints that everything they say and do should be gospel according to "women". I have tried this marriage thing more than 3 times and each time it boils down to "I just do not do enough for her or do it right". Guys, your magnetic draw is gone forever the moment she stops having the volcanic orgasms she had when you first got together. It is all downhill from there . . . "don't make enough money" . . . "don't spend enough time with the family" . . "can't say things right" . . . on and on and on. I, for one, do not like to be told how bad I am everyday of my life. I have enough emotional challenges at work and trying to succeed in a very competitive world. If you are a woman that feels telling your man how bad he is at most things, is your way of "not kissing his a&&, then you should not marry ever again . . like me.

I'm sorry but, if a man wants to cheat he will, NO matter what you do! What do you tell the wife/girlfriend who goes out her way NOT to kiss HIS ass but, do what you suggest in the article, appreciate him, make him feel good, etc and he still goes out and cheats.? What do you tell THAT woman? What do you tell ME? I thought and believed that I was doing the right thing by my husband of 15 yrs and what did it get me? Constant cheating. I'm sorry but if the article helps some women out there, that's wonderful but for me it's a bunch of crap!

This article is a load of nonsense. People, male or female, cheat because they have no integrity. If you take an oath to be faithful to someone and then are intimate with someone else, any amount of whiney rationalizing doesn???t change the simple fact that you are a cheat. End of story - and, for any sane, self respecting person, end of marriage. Want variety? Do your partner the courtesy of behaving with honor and file for divorce first. Sneaking around just makes you a pathetic loser. This kind of article does everyone a disservice by attempting to justify acting like a selfish jerk.

I'm sorry but, if a man wants to cheat he will, NO matter what you do! What do you tell the wife/girlfriend who goes out her way NOT to kiss HIS ass but, do what you suggest in the article, appreciate him, make him feel good, etc and he still goes out and cheats.? What do you tell THAT woman? What do you tell ME? I thought and believed that I was doing the right thing by my husband of 15 yrs and what did it get me? Constant cheating. I'm sorry but if the article helps some women out there, that's wonderful but for me it's a bunch of crap!

I am always completely amazed when I read an article such as this. I am sure that Jessica Ramirez is some highly educated pontificator yet I am only impressed by the sheer (and there is no better word to describe than) stupidity of those who write these articles.
Here are the answers ladies of 98% of the time why your man cheats: (and I could not care less about the 2% maybe Jessica in her profound wisdom can explain those to you)

Women while seducing a man before marriage or for an extramarital affair will make sure the clothes, Hair, Makeup are perfect
She will listen to every word he says
Engage him on the conversation at hand
Believe his advice, trust his opinion, care what he thinks
Sex will be great and often
She will want him to be apart of what she is doing and she will want to be involved in what he is doing (genuinely)
Excitement, attention, attentiveness, consideration, devotion will be the order of the day
Little ridiculous items and issues will pass unnoticed

Does this sound like a wife?????
FACT is women are the Architect???s of every relationship (I am shocked they did not teach Jessica that at her institution of higher learning) This is true in every species of creature on the planet and humans are only one of such species. The difference in humans is the capability of blame and irresponsibility. When women fail it is convenient to have a man chose by to blame. If you free your mind of prejudice and misconception, and look around you will see this to be true in every situation of human experience. PROOF find a successful relationship and look for WHY it is successful 100% it is the women excel at being a WOMAN. I am truly sorry to destroy your imagination, but look on the bright side I am a man you can blame it on me.

ONly a woman would say a guy isn't cheating because he isn't getting enough sex from his wife.
Her 'survey' is flawed guys cheat for sex & don't admit it because the 3 rules of not getting caught is deny deny deny

JA! I had to read the part where it says: "you should look at his cell-phone records or his e-mail. The next thing going up the ladder is a GPS magnet that you can place on his car to see if he's being honest about where he's been. Another option is hiring [a private] investigator or asking him to take a lie-detector test." I can't believe people are publishing this, that "we" are reading this and that "some" are even adopting it... There will always be a considerable amount of uncertainty... let there be ??? for the sake of feeling alive! !! Constantly sniffing after our partner is looking for unnecessary trouble??? I do agree with the need in keeping the emotional connection as strong as possible, though. But the way to confront the guy by saying: ???I want us to have fun??? sounds too imploring for my taste and clearly sends the message that you are not having fun at the moment ??? the guy should be approached differently according to his personality??? You are responsible for making it ???fun??? it???s your man??? you should find out what makes him tick??? if he doesn???t respond then He is broken, not you. Never, ever whine, or he will stray for sure. Always keep yourself busy with other things besides him! He could be your first on your priority list, but the list should be long???

JA! I had to read the part where it says: "you should look at his cell-phone records or his e-mail. The next thing going up the ladder is a GPS magnet that you can place on his car to see if he's being honest about where he's been. Another option is hiring [a private] investigator or asking him to take a lie-detector test." I can't believe people are publishing this, that "we" are reading this and that "some" are even adopting it... There will always be a considerable amount of uncertainty... let there be ??? for the sake of feeling alive! !! Constantly sniffing after our partner is looking for unnecessary trouble??? I do agree with the need in keeping the emotional connection as strong as possible, though. But the way to confront the guy by saying: ???I want us to have fun??? sounds too imploring for my taste and clearly sends the message that you are not having fun at the moment ??? the guy should be approached differently according to his personality??? You are responsible for making it ???fun??? it???s your man??? you should find out what makes him tick??? if he doesn???t respond then He is broken, not you. Never, ever whine, or he will stray for sure. Always keep yourself busy with other things besides him! He could be your first on your priority list, but the list should be long???

My husband cheated on me while he was working out of town and I was taking care of his mother!!! He was with a 25 year old for three weeks.( He was Fifty) I did everything a women could do. Clean house,ironed jeans and work shirts,bathing him and shaving him and sex every where. We stayed together but things were definitely different. He broke that solemn vow. I doubted him until he died 15 months ago. It tears a women apart to know that the man she loves could even want to touch another. In my case, he knew that no one had ever made me feel the way he did during sex. Go figure.

It's this simple... monogomy is a failed experiment! We are very sexual and emotional creatures, and our (men & women) eyes will always wander. This doesn't mean we don't love our spouse. It only means we are subject to the huge and overwhelming sex drive that is within us.

If people will be determined to overcome their jealousy and sense of ownership (we don't own anybody), be truthful and honest with each other, admit their fantasies and desires, and then set about to help each other fulfill them, they will find that they have a much stronger and happier marriage. It's called the Lifestyle (LS), and you can find several sites on Goolgle that will inform you about it. Millions of couples across the U.S. are in the LS, and they have a much lower divorce rate than those in traditional monogomous marriages. In the lifestyle, marriages are not typically "open," but they share their experiences together with other people. This overrides any desires to cheat.

My husband of 11 years announced he had cheated on me after I returned from a 2-week visit to my parents. Hius claim was that he had found "love on a higher level." I was devastated, as I thought we had a good and solid marriage. Fortunately, no children. Several months later he decided he wanted to come back to me. Apparently that love on a higher level had fizzled and he figured out it was his lack of self-esteem that was fueling the need. I thought to the past and I think there had been other dalliances, but I was too naieve to see them. Anyway, in my case the neediness was his and I learned I could never have satisfied it. I learned to let go and forgive...something I did for myself. Interesting, after that was behind me I met and later married my best friend, and we just celebrated 21 years.