How To Keep Him From Cheating

This newsletter has some good advice and i think i could use it some day! I have been cheated on and i have been the one to cheat too.

It was always the feeling of not being appreciated or loved! I have since then ended that relationship and became involved in another relationship and to this day have not cheated because now i know how it feels to be cheated on and its not a good feeling. I have been with my partner for 2 years now to this day yes, we have our ups and downs but we try to work them out and talk about them even if as most men are hard headed you just have to NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP! If you give up might as well say its over.

I just hope and pray that my new relationship with my partner doesnt end in cheating or being cheated on. If you want your relationship to last i think communication is key plus trust!


God Bless Everyone!

No matter what, one will clearly notice, the MINUTE an article is focused on MEN, the women whine about themselves. This clearly shows the problem. Women are generally self centered, self absorbed, and selfish. They can't stand the focus to be on MEN for one minute. Not one stinking minute. One would think with the current female-centric focus on women, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, it would be enough. But, nooooooooooooo, they are never, ever, ever satisfied.

YOu know what gets me about this article...WHY doesn't it read what MEN can do for their wives!...I never felt appreciated or done for...It was always me doing all the work and when I wouldn't do it all anymore, he called me lazy...I am glad I got rid of him, but I am SICK of articles that suggest WOMEN are responsible for keeping men from straying...WHAT ABOUT THEIR RESPONSIBLITIES? What about them ASKinf for help in their marriage. MEN are lousy at showing appreciation but they sure as hell expect us to work, take care of the home, meals, laundry and the kids..God damn it, where are THEIR RESPONSIBILITES!

YOu know what gets me about this article...WHY doesn't it read what MEN can do for their wives!...I never felt appreciated or done for...It was always me doing all the work and when I wouldn't do it all anymore, he called me lazy...I am glad I got rid of him, but I am SICK of articles that suggest WOMEN are responsible for keeping men from straying...WHAT ABOUT THEIR RESPONSIBLITIES? What about them ASKinf for help in their marriage. MEN are lousy at showing appreciation but they sure as hell expect us to work, take care of the home, meals, laundry and the kids..God damn it, where are THEIR RESPONSIBILITES!

A cheater will always be a cheater;men are sexual in nature and...most men are dogs....not all..but most are dogs.

Well I have tried the appreciation thing, and it does not work, ive still been cheated on.

very well said if you ever been cheated on or are the cheater and you talk to someone about it every one will have a dilffrent opion about it. This has been going on from the beging of time and will till the end of time. Everyone has to deal with tepmtation its a part of life it how we deal with it god gave us the ability of choice and in the end that is how we will have to answer to. I have been cheated and I was hurt, mad ect got day i woke up and tired of all the pain and gave my burden and pain to god I have not forgotten or excuse the behavior Iam just not it going to run my life. It is you life sit down and take time out to see what you really want not what you think social should do remember only you live your life do whats going to make you happy over time things do get better.

A cheating man or woman will always cheat no matter who they are with at a time.I have no respect for a man or a woman who will still go ahead with someone knowing they are married.It's different if they don't know............but knowing and still going ahead.............you absolutely have no morals............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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you don't need a relationship expert to know that it is wrong to cheat .Period!!!!!!

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This book sounds dumb. Men cheat because it is built into their system. The nature of human reproduction does not include a relation with one woman. Thus, even satisfied men will cheat and can not indicate why. But if you treat a guy like an old dish towel then you are assuring that he will stray. On the flip side, why do other women make it easy and encourage a guy to cheat? Why do women flirt with men when they are happily married and don't intend to cheat? The fact is that they are all responding to the primevil urge and don't even know it. To prevent cheating, make sure your guy is totally satisfied sexually, don't think of sex as a chore, and make sure you are spending as much time with him as you can and have common activities.

This article (and most likely the book) is full of traditionalist dribble. If a man is straying from his spouse saying things like "remember when we were dating" and such is a HUGE turn-off. The best thing that woman could do is move on, but if that isn't an option she should attempt to lead a more independent life from his. Reminding him of old times just reminds him that they're gone (but not with his new woman). Remember, when you were dating you didn't live together, had your own friends, weren't attached at the hip, and didn't get upset over trivial matters. It's time to realize that all the fun, sex, excitement, and whatnot was the reaction of respect for one another, not the cause of it. Also, no useful relationship information can come from a religious "expert".

I think that relationships all boil down to respect and consideration on the part of both members. We all need to feel loved and appreciated for who we are, not so much what we do. During a very interesting conversation I had many years ago, a man told me that if everyone put 100% into their relationships and expected nothing in return, they would be surprised the effect it would have on their partner, friend, child, parent, etc. I guess that boils down to a simple concept the "Golden Rule". Of course romantic love relationships are taken a step further with physical intimacy, but the basic love, respect and appreciation can never be forgotten or compromised.

Everyone is so quick to rip on this article and assume "cheaters" are the scum of the Earth. Well, as a divorced mom of two, (yes he cheated) I don't agree with that. I really think that there are usually major issues in a relationship that cause people, both men & women to stray. Is that ok? Of course not. But when you commit yourself to someone and take vows, part of that entails putting their needs before your own, not all the time, but being able to truley do that and love that person is tough. And I do agree with the article, it is the little things that count, men are pretty simple creatures:) They need to feel wanted, needed and shown affection by both their wife and children. It's not triginamatry! Make his favorite food one night a week, don't get all bent out of shape when he wants to go play poker with the guys,(isn't it nice to have a break from him too?) and lastly, take care of yourself physically, you don't have to be a super model, but heels and lipstick once in awhile shouldn't be out of the question..Weekly sex helps a lot too, it's good for both of you and makes you feel closer in all aspects.