How To Keep Him From Cheating

I have a question and matbe this is not the right forum, but here it goes. I am 31 yrs old, and have been in my relationship for three years with the first year being perfect the second not so perfect and now I live in miserey everyday? when is ok for me to cheat? I am not appreciated, acknowleged or even told I look nice anymore. I get complants on how I walk how I talk how I dress and how I act. It has gotten to the point that I am not really sure why I am in this relationship any more...So heres my question can you right a book on how to stop a Lady from cheating then send it directly to my hubby?
ps I have not cheated or would ever . I would leave first.

It's not a question of "bringing home a trophy". It's a matter of each person recognizing the qualities that each brings to the relationship. Very, very few things are equally divided. If a relationship is, chances are it's a rare event that will not last very long; it's the nature of life. Both people have to put effort into themselves, and the relationship, for it to work long term. It's a continuous effort, because it's a team, whether children are involved or not. For the team to succeed, each person has to work at it. The minute one partner starts taking the other for granted, the disintegration begins. No one likes it. One spouse may think, "This person's guaranteed to stay here till we're dead, because they promised", and begin to give more time and attention to everyone/thing else besides the other partner. It's a guaranteed recipe for pain.

Yes, it's a disconnect between the partners, a "get-away", a sneaky breach of trust. Nothing you can do but cut the dude off like a dead branch.

My husband cheated on me, but like in the article, he won't admit it, despite the overwhelming evidence I told him about (and some I didn't reveal). The question that he can't answer, nor anyone else, is if you were unhappy or feeling under appreciated, why didn't you tell me or ask to go to counseling? Why use your issues as a platform for launching yourself into adultery? Cheating is not about the women, it is about the men.

Why isn't anyone addressing the fact that men don't bend over backward to "praise" their wives. Taking kids to school, doctor's appointments, kung-fu, etc. Where is the daily "I'm proud of your honey"? It's expected of women to do these things without "praise". Well guys, get over it...so we expect you to help. I say it's about time! Praise should be shared equally, just like the chores!

Those of you who have children, how many times did you praise your child for the messy but homemade gift that child lovingly made? How many times did you thank your husband for making dinner but instead growled at him because all the pots were dirty? This is what he is talking about. Too often we as women, will ask for a chore to be done, only to criticize the way it is done. Who would want to do for anyone when treated like that? I know I would not but unfortunately I did treat someone like that. Finding out and dealing with my husband's infidelity has been the hardest thing ever in my life. Worse than my parents deaths. But as "Dear Abby" says, you make your choice as to whether you want to stay or go. I have chosen to stay which I think is sometimes harder to deal with because I have to deal with my part, passive that it may be. Everyone in an infidelity needs to take a hard critical look at his/her responsibility in it. This is only a snopsis of the book. The full book explains more. Men are different than women but we all need to be loved and appreciated

If you don't want a husband who cheats; don't get married, after my husband cheated, got caught, said he wanted the marriage, kept in contact with other woman, refused to stop contact...I left, done; filed papers. Got happier on my own, ended up in a wonderful relationship with a very good friend and have been together in a solid (unmarried) relationship. Paperwork, yeah...we're in each others wills and committed and appreciate and nurture each other. I would't trade that for any ring or priest, jp or rabbi...happycowgirl

I have read this book and it has helped me to understand why my husband strayed. We are still together, putting the pieces back. Each person in the relationship is 100% accountable for the infidelity for different reasons. Not all cheating involves sex but just someone hitting the right emotional note with a vulnerable person. My husband is a good person but he made a mistake.and it is a whopper. I too have made mistakes. accepted each's human frailties

I think the results of this research needs to be viewed with caution. The results likely reflect how men rationalize why they cheat but do not actually explain it. Research in social psychology demonstrates over and over that people do not often know why they do the things they do and are inaccurate in their explanations. This is especially true when the topic is sensitive.

I think the results of this research needs to be viewed with caution. The results likely reflect how men rationalize why they cheat but do not actually explain it. Research in social psychology demonstrates over and over that people do not often know why they do the things they do and are inaccurate in their explanations. This is especially true when the topic is sensitive.

I partially agree with thee book but things are more difficult that what is described in the book. I can't say that men really cheat, seen other woman is like getting away from a problem that is boiling up. I have interviewed more that a hundreds men and women and the results is that is the woman that force a man to cheat by not been a woman. Women today, they believe that the whole world rotate around them and it is our fault for not doing the right thing at the right time. Not so. I respect women as long as they respect me. Woman today, they want to have a pet for husband, they want to wear the pants; so what happens is that a man that is smart play alone with her and makes her believe that she is the man while he is laughing about it. Women think that they have been liberated, well, who liberate them or at least made them feel liberated? (Men) but they are still jailed in their own emotions. I have had hundreds of affairs and I find that any woman can be conquered appealing to their emotions and life style. But one thing I always rejects is a woman that start talking bad about her husband in order to gain my attention. To end with women are the most beautiful creation on earth and the right woman can make the difference in a man's life. A good woman is the woman that acts like a woman. She is friend, mother, and wife a person that can be trusted. I salute all the good wives of the world for they have gained a good husband Any way show me a man that that say that he doesn???t??? cheat and you are showing me a liar.

This is dangerous rubbish. This is what was always said years ago - and I am old enough to remember - that it was the WOMAN'S FAULT if the guy strayed. This is pre-feminist view of a relationship where the guy is a gullible but good sap who just needs a good wife to steer him through. I feel outraged that misogynist crap like this is still getting into print. Hell, I can rent old movies from the 1930s and 1940s and get this in situ. Shame.

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I think cheaters suck personally. Its just wrong.

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