The Pornification Of A Generation

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  • Posted By: Cavallino_Rapante @ 10/07/2008 3:40:06 PM

    The author assumes that sexual pop culture actually leads to sexual activity - this has already been proven false. Teen sex is DOWN everywhere. Teen pregnancy is DOWN everywhere. Just because something seems 'sexy/sexual' to some conservative, middle-aged codger does not mean the rest of society (including the youth) agrees. The rise of the information-age, if anything, has separated people - not brought them closer together. If the author's vision of the present had any accuracy regarding the psychological damage of pop culture, every High School in America would be one non-stop orgy. Its not.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:07:14 PM

      AND YOU AS WELL.... A PERV

      • Posted By: BaaBaa Woolrich @ 10/07/2008 6:28:29 PM

        Check your facts before you start your rant. Teen pregnancy and STD's are up...do you hear me...Up from where they were. The study did not explain why, however. This article may be pointing out at least one of the reasons.

  • Posted By: jayarr @ 10/07/2008 6:26:05 PM

    Education my dear what's your name ! And that begins at home, then school, idealized in church and practiced in society..Then maybe after a few generations (80- 120 years) we will see some positive changes. It is called the enculturation process. Sexual expression is as natural as eating but our children must be taught , like eating, the good and bad of it. Our nation is still influenced by certain religious cultures emphasing sex as 'dirty" ( the Adam and Eve syndrome) so we repress it and release our natural desires in unnatural and surreptitious venues. Sex sells, just like junk food,. and to get customers it is presented in a way to entice every appetite . It is in fact junk food for the soul when presented in mediums that appeal to our more baser desires

  • Posted By: DarrenFoster @ 10/07/2008 6:17:28 PM

    Americans are too anal. You try to hide your kids from sexuality, sex and drugs, but it doesn't work. Get over it, trying to hide your kids from the world only makes them want to explore it more. I went to a rich, private, catholic highschool and you should see how those "sheltered" kids turned out.

  • Posted By: berlee @ 10/07/2008 6:15:58 PM

    I agree, I think violence on t.v. is more wide spread than sex. I mean from cartoons to prime time our children are more exposed to that than the other.

  • Posted By: curryjm @ 10/07/2008 4:25:44 PM

    While amy of us from the older generations seem to assume that the young kids now are having sex earlier and more often than we did, I really don't think that is the case. I think that the lewd manner in which teenage girls dress has much more to do with style and rebellion than hormones. Nonetheless, I find it rather disgusting. But that is the point isn't it? Kids are always trying to piss-off their parents; this is just how they do it now. In the long run perhaps Americans will finally got over their obsession with breasts because of over-saturation from TV, the internet and in the way people dress. In fifty years or less I'll bet that topless sunbathing at the beach will be no big deal.

    • Posted By: FutureSoylentGreen @ 10/07/2008 6:04:05 PM

      good one.

      • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:15:02 PM

        Lets check our 2000 plus years of written history.....hmmm...yeah, we should be getting over our fascination with boobies any minute now......yup, any minute now.......NOT...........
        boobies, there i said it.

    • Posted By: mahadragon @ 10/07/2008 6:13:32 PM

      To: currjm: I think your comments are off regarding little girls dressing lewdly to piss their parents off. Just the other day I was at Ice Cream Shop and there was a little 10 yr old girl dressed like a total prostitute with little heels. Her mom was at the shop buying her ice cream. Lo and behold, the mother was dressed like a prostitute as well! People dont understand that lots of these moms are dressing or allowing their kids to dress like this. Y ou have to wonder, who exactly is helping to perpetrate lascivicious dress in our schools?

  • Posted By: mrzoid @ 10/07/2008 6:13:15 PM

    It does typically strike me as odd that people who rally against sex on tv fail to bring up the fact that kids will see ten thousend more murders than they will see *** on television..... just a thought about perspective in this country.

  • Posted By: JonMarsh @ 10/07/2008 3:49:26 PM

    re: "Why is it that everyone likes to pretend that no one likes to have sex? It's something that nearly all of us do and enjoy, but we're supposed to deny it."

    This isn't about pretending to not like sex, this is about the sexualization of our society and how it is having a destructive effect on many individuals and families. Can people enjoy sex, porn and promiscuity as a lifestyle choice without destructive consequence? Yes. But as RecoveryNation points out, these same behaviors can devastate otherwise healthy lives. As a nation, our values should be to protect our values and our people...not exploit them.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:09:49 PM

      a perv, responded to by another perv, commented on by yet a third perv....WAIT,,,,oh, thats me.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 5:52:48 PM

      I LOVE HAVING SEX....... it's my partners that complain about it......when the tape comes off their mouths.

  • Posted By: berlee @ 10/07/2008 6:09:14 PM

    Again talk to your children be responsible parents. And be responsible americans by upholding the first amendment Freedom of Speech too many people want to censor censor censor!!

  • Posted By: sai_chai @ 10/07/2008 3:46:57 PM

    The Bratz dolls for young children are only part of a trend that has continued to erode all the things the women's rights movement strived to overcome. Women wanted to be recognized for their brains and not their breasts. Walking around with tight-fitting blouses, excessive cleavage, bellies hanging out, and generally lookibng like prostitutes and acting like brainless little ditzes does nothing to make women more respected in the world of men -or of women! This "pornification" of our culture mostly adversely affects women, not to mention objectifying children for sex, and it is no surprise that women are, once again, after so much hard work to gain equal rights, becoming only sex objects. Pathetic to think that other women have been the main perpetuators of this distorted image of what womankind is really capable of.

    Those who feel they must put their sexuality constantly on public display clearly are the ones who have some sort of sexual problem, not those who understand which behaviors are appropriate in certain situations. and which are not.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:08:45 PM

      a garden variety perv...

    • Posted By: Mrs. Downhome America @ 10/07/2008 5:51:40 PM

      When I can't find a newscaster on the air without seeing excessive cleavage, women are not being taken seriously. When I can't find a decent swimsuit for a six year old, children are being sexuialized in a very purposeful way. Denial won't improve this trend, only concerted action will. The safety of women and children is being eroded faster than the Black Hills. I'm not against sex per se, I just don't think it's a spectator sport. When it becomes this, the stilted, harmful images make the user eventually incapable of having a normal, healthy, sex life, and virtual sex and violent sex are the only thing left for them. My personal freedom is being jeapordized by this, not to mention my children and grandchildren. It's dangerous.

      • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:08:18 PM

        ahhhh, a female perv...

    • Posted By: nimodahooligan @ 10/07/2008 5:19:29 PM

      so it only affect women huh?? so it wouldnt make men out to be lusting sexual animals and then women like yourself come and bash on "us" like your saving the day with your rant... hmmmm...seems that "pornification" affects the image of men to you moron...i for one enjoy porn. and so what? its an industry, people make legitimate livings off of it, it puts they're kids through school so they dont end up like porn stars...people choose to be involved in porn, and people CHOOSE to watch it...people also CHOOSE to think that only woman are made to look bad as a result...

      • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:07:46 PM

        YOU SIR, ARE A PERV SQUARED...

  • Posted By: BRobertson @ 10/07/2008 3:30:17 PM

    Why is it that everyone likes to pretend that no one likes to have sex? It's something that nearly all of us do and enjoy, but we're supposed to deny it. I'm not advocating promiscuity, actually I advocate the opposite, but to pretend like no one has genitals or hormones is a bit ridiculous. - chalkyantacid@yahoo.com

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:06:43 PM

      YOU ALSO ARE A PERV

  • Posted By: slothguy @ 10/07/2008 3:26:18 PM

    Saddly this is so true, I can not count the number of times in local schools kids get kicked out for sending text messages and photos to each other that are way beyond anything i even imagined thinking let alone saying to anyone in my classes. Not that we need to be puritanical but maybe the problem is we have not built the correct understanding of human sexuality into our culture and therefore this ideal of "sexiness" that is infultrating our youth as "pop culture" is way more than it should be if we simply taught ourselves and our children to comfortable with ourselves and not glorify what we are not.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:06:24 PM

      YOUR A PERV TOO....

  • Posted By: peggypwr1 @ 10/07/2008 3:25:19 PM

    God said "Let there be Porn!!!" and there was.

    • Posted By: Benoliwal @ 10/07/2008 4:55:38 PM

      Actually God did not say that, but these puritans what to seem to be so shocked and surprised. It shows how much many so called "good" adults have kept their dirty minds in the sands of ignorance. Porn has been around, and it ain't going no where. Here we go again, some in society are again looking for scapegoats for the "ills" these puritans can't seem to face squarly on. Everyday someone is forced to be called and labeled a sex offender, where the real offenders are the puritans who become traumatized even at the thought of public nudity, public sexuality, etc. Has porn bred sexual perverts? Probably not, but on the other hand there are people who have gone way beyond sex to things that are purely demented. If you don't want your childern have worped views of sex and sexuality, then teach them. Some still will go their way.

      • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:06:01 PM

        YOUR A PERV.....

  • Posted By: brainofjfk @ 10/07/2008 5:46:05 PM

    if you think makeup, high heels and short skirts mean you are a hooker than it is you who has the problem.

    All it is is makeup which is colored paint and a skirt. You are the reason there are problems. You are repressed and thinking kids animals and kids toys are sexual. YOu are the one with the problem not the little girls ofr the toys.

    YOU HAV

    • Posted By: GeoSapper @ 10/07/2008 6:05:03 PM

      No, but if you wear makeup, high heels and short skirts *and you solicit* then it means you are a hooker. The point is that we are glamorizing a lifestyle that is destructive and demeaning.

    • Posted By: olderbutnowiser @ 10/07/2008 6:01:16 PM

      Listen numbskull....Do you know why MacDonalds shows PICTURES OF THEIR BURGERS AND FRIES?? DO YOU???
      Because "seeing them" makes MEN hungry....So yes, my appetite is MY PROBLEM, enticed by
      your thoughtless display of your "burgers and fries"......NYUCK, NYUCK, WOO, WOO...truthspeaker...

  • Posted By: jesusluvme @ 10/07/2008 6:02:50 PM

    To the person who claimed this reinforced stereotypes of gender roles, you've got it backwards. This doesn't encourage women to think their place is in the home. This demeans women into nothing more than sex objects and encourages boys to see women as nothing else BUT sex objects. Thanks to the feminazi movement, this is what we end up with - the pornification of women and young girls everywhere, and young men who have no respect for women/girls as anything other than to satisfy their lusts.

  • Posted By: mrzoid @ 10/07/2008 6:01:37 PM

    Now i feel the need to precourse my view on this story by saying that i have seen some of the most perverted stuff that any human could imagine. My friends are the same way; all very encouraged by the opening up the conservative outrage about all things sex and porn. Im of the Clerks generation, and nothing (seriously) can offend me. However, there has to be a line when dealing with children. Come on people, the obserdity of comparing the 80's to today is beyond bogus; if today is pushing the envelope of the limits, the 80's were buried in the mail bin. I dont mind 16 and 17yr olds who want to dress like strippers, in fact, dont mind is an understatement, i love it (and be aware that the legal age of consent is 16 in most states, which it should be), but when were talking about stripper culture being marketed to 11 and 12 yr olds, its just a little too much; not for me, i dont care, but for society, and i get why parents are concerned, and yield to them on wether it needs to be taken on. The culture i want for the country is pretty outlandish for contemperary tastes, and i'm good with just rolling in my ever expanding drunken, degenerate, 20 something circle; but lets allow kids to be kids for a whie before we teach them how to sexualize themselves, at least till there old enough to realize that that is what they're doing.

  • Posted By: javirod @ 10/07/2008 5:53:06 PM

    Unfortunately americans have their children raised by others including the media. We are sold by sexually provocative advertising for our most basic needs. Furthermore any family or previous generations of family are usually detached and fragmented so its up to the idividual to teach their child about sex at a rather early stage.
    We tend to glorify and mystify sex by sweeping it under the rug, thinking we are "protecting the children" by hiding the most basic and natural aspect of life, sex.

  • Posted By: berlee @ 10/07/2008 6:00:09 PM

    Sex sells and it's not going anywhere. Talk to your children! Open communication is the key explain things to them in terms they can understand. Censor what you can and choose what to expose them to in your own home but you can't keep them locked up. They will see things other places you can't stop that, so just talk to them. As a parent my job is to give my child values, morals and knowledge. I do not let my daughter have Bratz dolls either and I have explained to her why and she understands but I can't stop her from playing with them at her friends homes I can just keep them out of mine but at least she knows why.

  • Posted By: GeoSapper @ 10/07/2008 5:58:53 PM

    This article is dead-on. The trouble is, how do you put the genie back in the bottle?

  • Posted By: brainofjfk @ 10/07/2008 5:48:16 PM

    it is not the toy or the doll it is the sick pervert who is thinking about sex and little kids when looking at a toy or a doll.

    The problem r the sick people who sexualize kids toys. Not the little girls who want cute toys or the toys.

    • Posted By: zviw @ 10/07/2008 5:56:58 PM

      Question: If these are really no more than just toys, why are the manufacturers choosing styles that -- in real life -- WOULD be sexually suggestive? Also, why -- in fact -- ARE children starting to behave in more overtly "sexual" fashion if this is all "just harmless"?

    • Posted By: zviw @ 10/07/2008 5:55:11 PM

      I must ask 2 questions:
      a. If it is just "make-up" and "colored paint" -- why is the style copied one that is associated (in real life) with highly sexualized behavior?
      b. Why *are* children behaving in more overtly "sexual" way if it is all just "colored paint" and "a skirt"?

  • Posted By: berlee @ 10/07/2008 5:53:08 PM

    Sex is everywhere and it sells. There's no way to get around it our children are undoubtedly going to be subjected to it whether we like it or not inappropriate or not. Parents need to TALK to their children about what they see and hear not keep them from it. I believe it is the Parents job to censor what their children see, and in the case of the Bratz dolls have in their own home based on what they feel is appropriate for their age level but it is definitely at their discresion, the children will be exposed to things outside of the home that is beyond parental control. That is why communication is the key, talk to your kids tell them things, answer questions. When my daughter was 4 she started asking for Bratz things and I refused to let her have them and told people not to buy her them as gifts and I was honest and explained to her why I would not let her have them. Now she is 6 and if someone gives her something Bratz she turns it down and I do not have a problem with her playing with Bratz at other childrens homes, I cannot dictate to other parents what is appropriate for their children and cannot be there all the time I can just give her knowledge, values and morals and I will continue to do so.

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