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  • Posted By: rjgwood @ 10/22/2008 7:04:07 PM

    I am the mother of a special needs child - a six year old daughter with autism. Let me tell you this, Sarah Palin has earned NO badge for merely giving birth!!! Who is caring for her young son? Who is making sure that he is getting his therapies??? He is being used as a prop, and the two people on the ticket are pandering to special needs families for our votes!!! I went to Obama's website, his stance on autism and special needs in general makes actual sense! McCain's lacked specifics, and his campaign stood up the special needs community at our campaign forum - so give me a break!!!

  • Posted By: mama2beansandcheese @ 10/22/2008 5:07:22 PM

    As a mother of an autistic daughter I too relate exactly to the comments the mother in the story spoke about. I was highly offended and irritated that McCain assumed that Sarah Palin knows what I go through because she has a son with Downs. Agreed our concerns overlap but it is not one and the same and I believe his comments made his look and sound foolish and uninformed.

  • Posted By: TruthForward @ 10/22/2008 4:39:09 PM

    A spending freeze would not help any special needs child.

    A lot of parents have to deal with schools who will not even begin proper treatment for Autism. Some schools claim there is not enough money. However, the schools can not show specific overspending because they don't have the records to prove the cost, on treatment that has not begun. Therefore, some school districts suppress all the special needs children. However, some school districts use a federal autism waiver to cover the costs: or somehow pay for the early intervention.

  • Posted By: SanMarcosTxMan @ 10/21/2008 11:44:41 PM

    Thank God we have a constitution to protect us from prejudiced idiots like TigerX. That means even idiots have a right to speak, but they can't force their idiotic political and religious views on the rest of us. Let religious freedom ring! Let's just hope that Obama can get us out of the mess that W. and his party has got us into. Of course, they will not accept that their cronyism or deregulation had anything to do with the problems. Obviously, they are appealing to delusional, idiotic fanatics, like TigerX. "Muslin controlled country," really? What rock do these people live under? Let us pray that the rapture comes soon to get these idiots out of here!

  • Posted By: TigerX @ 10/21/2008 10:15:01 PM






  • Posted By: dave55555 @ 10/21/2008 8:46:20 PM

    Oh, give it up. There is no way in hell that you would vote for McCain/Palin even if they could cure your child's autism. I have to wonder about people like you who would use your child's disability for cheap political points.

  • Posted By: Sista @ 10/20/2008 2:17:43 PM

    davissally-"The man said he wants to help and yet he is still criticized! "

    There is nothing in his record nor future proposed policies that suggest that to be true. That's the basis of the criticism. Who the hell said we're garnering for a morons support? We are a community of parents who support one another. McCain is a user and our children should not be used for political fodder.

    • Posted By: tracyruns262@netscape.net @ 10/21/2008 5:25:46 PM

      And there is NOTHING to suggest that Obama is prepared to be president either - NO VOTES, No Executive Experience of any type - and many have bought into the Hope and Dreams Tripe - WITH NO EVIDENCE that he can carry it out !!!!

    • Posted By: davissally @ 10/20/2008 3:43:34 PM

      and yet you prove my point - thumbing your nose at anyone who doesn't say exactly what you think they should.

  • Posted By: Sista @ 10/20/2008 11:30:20 AM

    McCain doesn't have a clue what he's talking about and nor does Palin. She has the worst record in the nation on disabilities. Maybe that will change if she has to live with her on decisions, but her son doesn't have Autism. Her baby has Down Syndrome which is very different in how to care for someone with Autism.

    My son has Austim and I was deeply offended by McCain to try and play the sympathy card for a vote. His consistent policies contradict what he said in the debate. I think I will believe what he's been saying, "less government". That means " your on your own".

    • Posted By: lmas23 @ 10/20/2008 2:44:25 PM

      First of all, Palin's sister has a child with autism. She has said many times that when she found out that her yet to be born son Trig had down syndrome, she knew the love and joy he brought the family would far outshine any challenges in dealing with the condition because she had witnessed that with her sister's child and what he brings to their family. It was her experience with her sister's autistic child that brought comfort to her when she learned of her own child's condition. McCain IS NOT confusing Autism with Down Syndrome. If the media and public stopped focusing on how great Obama is for a minute, they may actually find positive things about Palin. Although, that may be hard because the media clearly only publishes negative things about her. How can Newsweek possibly put this article together and not even comment on the fact that Palin has an autistic child in her family?

      • Posted By: tracyruns262@netscape.net @ 10/21/2008 5:16:49 PM

        You had to know that NEWSWEEK is the Official Magazine of the Obama campaign !!!

  • Posted By: srvoter @ 10/20/2008 4:21:55 PM

    A heart-warming and realistic view of the difficulties faced. No Child Left Behind has done little to help the large numbers of children who are not succeeding in our schools right now. So there's a lot to be done at a time when budgets (Fed, State, School District, Family) are tight. Obama got it right when he said all parts of the budget must be scrutinized, so the goal is to spend wisely -.after setting goals and priorities.

    • Posted By: tracyruns262@netscape.net @ 10/21/2008 5:07:12 PM

      But Obama's support is coming from the Teachers Union - Good Luck with getting any type of reform to the school system accomplished!

  • Posted By: sunfish123 @ 10/20/2008 11:18:55 PM

    Every time John McCain says he wants to help a certain segment of the population, he is criticized as looking for a sympathy vote. Yet, when Obama says he wants to help a certain group, he is praised for it. Talk about a double standard! Now I understand what Hillary was experiencing when she ran against Obama. Let's face it--this election is about the same thing every 4 years for both parties--trying to appease as many special interest groups (families with special needs children, college students, retirees, environmentalists, the self-employed, those without health insurance, farmers, you name it) as possible in order to get the most votes.

    I have no idea why Obama is such a media darling. Just because someone is young, attractive, energetic and a good speaker does not mean they will be a good President. Kennedy was elected for the same reasons, and if my memory of history is correct, his short presidency had a number of major problems. Ever hear of the Bay of Pigs or the Cuban Missle Crisis?

    And to those out there who say that Sarah Palin is unqualified to be President because she has no international experience, do the names Ronald Reagan and Bill Clinton ring any bells? They were both governors before they were elected President, and I'd say they did OK.

    And to the person who stole the McCain/Palin sign from my front yard, you are an IDIOT, because McCain is going to win in Texas anyway. Is this the kind of people that Obama has supporting him. . .?

    • Posted By: tracyruns262@netscape.net @ 10/21/2008 4:56:53 PM

      I saw the double standard from the beginning - that is why I LEFT the DEM party..... I'm an African American who could stand the BS that the party put Hillary and Bill thru on behalf of a candidate who has had the luxury of Preparing for A Job during the Interview process!

    • Posted By: Mobius32 @ 10/21/2008 2:06:01 PM

      Not that I ever was a big JFK fan, but if he were running today, he would make McCain look like a conservative on most major issues. This lends some perspective on how far Left the Democrat party has shifted. His famous statement of "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country" has been completely turned upside down by Obama who wants to control virtually every aspect of your life, cradle to grave. Under Obama, the U.S. will move from U.S. to U.S.S.R., United States Socialist Republic, Obama's dream.

  • Posted By: Denise1968 @ 10/21/2008 4:09:39 PM

    I think that the celebrities who are drawing attention to autism, are those who have autistic children. They are entitled to speak up and be heard because they have intimate knowledge of having a child with autism. With that being said, I think it is somewhat shameful for John McCain to mention helping autistic and mentally disabled children because (using his running mate's child) it is clear to me that he is pandering for the vote of the parents. If it was a real concern of his, why didn't we hear him speak on this 18 months ago, even 6 months ago. Has he ever met with parents of special needs children before now? It is a question worth asking and having answered.

    • Posted By: tracyruns262@netscape.net @ 10/21/2008 4:51:40 PM

      JOhn and Cindy adopted a child from Bangledesh - that would provide its own challenges!

  • Posted By: sarah'smom @ 10/21/2008 4:26:11 PM

    As the mother of a 6 year old with Autistic tendancies, I, too, share your concern about Sarah Palin knowing what it means to be the mother of a special needs child. Even after 6 years, I'm still learning at every stage what it means. I think she's a fool if she things she knows. And I resent the fact that John McCain was playing the sympathy card for my vote. I resented it when he chose a woman as his running mate because I think he thought that would get all those women who were disappointed that Hillary didn't get the Dem nomination to vote Republican. And I resent that he thinks, as the mother of a special needs child, that I would vote for him because of Sarah Palin. I have more brains than that!! As far as the media attention on autism and special needs, someone needs to say that all children, typically deveoloping or special needs, are different, with different needs, wants, talents, and challenges. They each need parents who are not so tired at the end of the day, that have a few more dollars in the bank, and that have the ability to to be the best parents they can be. The government can't fix all that--but they can start by focusing on good education, support for families, and community projects that benefit entire communities--the young and old alike. Our focus needs to be on that and not scheming to get my vote by fooling me into thinking you know where I come from and how hard it is to do a good job raising kids everyday. Go Obama!!

  • Posted By: sarah'smom @ 10/21/2008 4:20:07 PM

    As the mother of a 6 year old with Autistic tendancies, I, too, share your concern about Sarah Palin knowing what it means to be the mother of a special needs child. Even after 6 years, I'm still learning at every stage what it means. I think she's a fool if she things she knows. And I resent the fact that John McCain was playing the sympathy card for my vote. I resented it when he chose a woman as his running mate because I think he thought that would get all those women who were disappointed that Hillary didn't get the Dem nomination to vote Republican. And I resent that he thinks, as the mother of a special needs child, that I would vote for him because of Sarah Palin. I have more brains than that!! As far as the media attention on autism and special needs, someone needs to say that all children, typically deveoloping or special needs, are different, with different needs, wants, talents, and challenges. They each need parents who are not so tired at the end of the day, that have a few more dollars in the bank, and that have the ability to to be the best parents they can be. The government can't fix all that--but they can start by focusing on good education, support for families, and community projects that benefit entire communities--the young and old alike. Our focus needs to be on that and not scheming to get my vote by fooling me into thinking you know where I come from and how hard it is to do a good job raising kids everyday. Go Obama!!

  • Posted By: notyouraveragegirl @ 10/21/2008 3:45:39 PM

    I wanted to say I grew up in the 70's with an autistic sister. At that time people were not familiar with autism and would confuse me saying my sister was austistic and the word "artistic". Once they met my sister, they then had no doubts that something inheirtly was not right with my sister. Autistism is a cruel disabilty that robbed me of having a close relationship with my sister. Any media that draws attention to the disorder is a plus and a blessing.

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  • Posted By: ahcrn1 @ 10/21/2008 2:11:06 PM

    Autism and Down's Syndrome are entirely different. Since I haven't seen anyone say anything about Gov. Palin's dragging her special needs son in the spotlight, on her campaign stops, I would say she doesn't even understand what Down's is all about. Most Down's children are very susceptible to diseases and conditions just by itself. But here she is, exposing her child to all the germs in the environment and shaking people's hands. one would think, she shouldn't even be doing that for a 'normal' child. Yes, we all know she has a special needs child; she doesn't need to be exposing that child every opportunity she gets. She needs to be taking care of that child, as far as I am concerned, at home. He needs his mother to care for him. I probably would have been impressed if she (Palin) has declined the VP invite and say, her family is more important and they need her. Let's not forget, she has that teenager who is pregnant--just because the kids are having the baby and getting married does not make this right. I am with a lot of people, Palin is not the right candidate for vice-president, and certainly, not the president. And if McCain chose her to be his running mate, it only shows he lacks the decision-making ability one has to have as president.

    • Posted By: No Assumptions @ 10/21/2008 3:19:10 PM

      You appear to be under a lot of stress about how Sarah Palin is choosing to live her life, which is very definitely not how you choose to live yours. Do you want someone to tell you how to live your life and the choices you should make with your children? She chose, obviously, to Be the mother of a child with Down's Syndrome, and has also chosen to have a career according to her interests and passions as millions of other women have. I chose something totally different for my life, but applaud her and would love to have the strength to do all she does, knowing that, like myself, she won't do it all right no matter where she is!! Would you want to leave your children all at home for a long period of time? Would her children prefer that? Lets believe that she is doing the best she can with the circumstances and times of her life, shall we? I believe that will eliminate some of your needless stress about Sarah Palin's choices. Or you could check out what all of the other male and female polititions are doing with their children you don't see, or focus on flourishing and being thankful for the choices you have in your own life! Isn't America wonderful!!

  • Posted By: Concerned One @ 10/21/2008 2:01:55 PM

    I am curious. What did Sarah Palin do regarding children with autism while mayor and or Governor? I hope I am wrong as a parent myself, but it seem to me that she is using that baby, and that would be a shame. Since the baby is only 5-6 months old what was her views on autism 2 or 3 years ago? Please correct me if I am wrong.

    • Posted By: No Assumptions @ 10/21/2008 2:54:41 PM

      I appreciate your curiosity and openness for comment, O Concerned One! (A small attempt at humor myself!!) You might also ask yourself what communications, bills, etc. were brought to her desk by those who are vehemently close to the issues of autism in the same question. People are obviously passionate about those things which greatly touch their lives. I think it's never a good choice to think the worst about another's intentions when you have no way of knowing them, and that is a standard that, I believe, we would want upheld for ourselves as well as others. The general public knows and hears much more these days about autism and has been in the limelight so addressing this topic along with other special needs is not out of line to me. Would you want to leave your baby at home while you were maintaining the schedule she's had in these past weeks? She appears to be a dedicated mother and to be very proud of her children, not making apology or complaint to society for the realities of life 'at home' that they are experiencing. I've seen her in campaign meetings with McCain and others in her sweats feeding her baby his bottle. She's a working mother like millions of other women out there, and obviously loves her job!! I am the mother of 5 adult children and was a 'stay at home mom' and I loved my job!! Thank you for your comments and curiosity as I do apprec iate them. None of us are perfect or above reproach, but all in need of grace and the 'benefit of the doubt', right? Assumptions are thoughts, not the truth. You can't live or choose by them.

  • Posted By: Mobius32 @ 10/21/2008 1:50:45 PM

    While I can empathize with any parent of an autistic or or special needs child, Ms. Chew's cynicism in accusing John McCain of pandering is completely unwarranted, based as it is upon surmise and her own refusal to accept his statements as made. Her concerns are manufactured and disingenuous, particularly as compared to his opponent's who offers universal solutions by speaking vague platitudes about hope and change. Of course, it is not surprising that Newsweek would interview an Obamamanial college professor to work another angle against McCain, in the mainstream media's transparent effort to get Obama elected. For Ms. Chew to use her son's condition as a political tool to support her candidate is beyond despicable.

    • Posted By: cuti26 @ 10/21/2008 2:39:47 PM

      Oh, please. Why do you Repub's blame everyone else for your candidates problems? McCain IS pandering. Look at his history on domestic programs. He said himself he wants to institute a spending freeze, which would further hurt parents of disabled children. Have you ever tried to find a daycare center that will take a disabled child? Stop blaming Obama because his ideas are more progressive, more inclusive and more "people-centric, rather than "corporation-centric" than John McCain.

  • Posted By: galipaxmom @ 10/20/2008 4:18:34 PM

    Personally, I'm outraged by McCain's suggestion that Palin understands children with special needs because she has a six month old baby with Downs. My two high functioning autistic boys, now 8 and 11, were angels at six months, like most babies. Difficulty doesn't start until the child needs to communicate and socialize. She has no idea what it is, and it is blatant pandering to use it as a selling point. I also take offense at the ease at which he conflated autism and Downs,as if these two disabilities are the same with the same fixes. Although I also agree that it's good to get any spotlight on this issue. What I would like to see the candidates pay more attention to, in both the issue of autism and insurance coverage, are the insurance companies' freedom with what they choose to cover. An annual neuropsychology bill they've always covered in the past, is suddenly rejected because the've arbitrarily decided it falls under mental health. These sort of things need to be watched more closely by the government.

    • Posted By: Marve1 @ 10/20/2008 6:20:29 PM

      GalipaxMom:

      I couldn't agree with you more.

      I live in the state of Kentucky, where there is minimal assistance given to families with the cost of treating autism. There have been several instances in which families have gone broke trying to help their children because neither the state nor the federal government would give them a hand. And the insurance companies add insult to injury by denying coverage to services that they deem ???educational??? rather than ???medical???.

      As a parent of a child with autism, telling me that a politician has a child with the disorder doesn???t make me vote for him/her: his/her careful, deliberate plan sways me. McCain presents Palin as a mother who understands special needs because she has a son with Down Syndrome, but he offers nothing with respect to how to help our children. Quite the contrary: in his second debate, McCain said that he would be freezing all programs with the exception of defense, veterans??? affairs, and entitlement programs. Anyone can safely bet that autism and other special needs will not be among those programs that McCain would expand. And with respect to Palin, whose gross income in 2007 was of $166,080, she in a financial position that many families with autism are not and thus, cannot truly comprehend our situation. On the issue of autism Obama expressed the need to provide funding to help families out. Obama may not have children with autism, but he has demonstrated a better understanding of its implications than McCain-Palin.

      And for those of you who keep harping about Obama being a socialist, let us consider the implication of the term. According to McCain and other Republicans, any assistance given to Americans is considered as "socialism" but bailing out Wall Street and Savings & Loans banks as absolutely necessary. The day that the Wall Street Rescue program was signed in which the U.S. government was to acquire an equity stake in these different financial institutions, the U.S., in effect, walked into socialist territory. And from my viewpoint, if the government can pump billions of dollars into corporations to keep them solvent, and many billions more into keeping our country at war unnecessarily, then the government should be able to pump some billions in helping children with special needs grow up to become productive, happy members of our society. Our children are, after all, the future of our country and, therefore, our most precious investment.

      • Posted By: seedaybreak @ 10/21/2008 2:13:28 PM

        You are both "spot on"! We can only wait a few more days and hope that the American people vote for the right candidate: Barrack Obama. Thanks for the time the two of you took to thoughtfully write these intelligent posts.

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