The Bible and Gay Marriage

In a matter of days, more than 40,000 readers responded to our Dec. 15 cover story, "The Religious Case for Gay Marriage." The vast majority stemmed from a letter-writing campaign encouraged by the American Family Association, which took issue with the piece. Below, a sample of the responses from both sides.

In "Our Mutual Joy" (Dec. 15), Lisa Miller fails to recognize that the natural order of creation, not the Bible, defines what marriage is. The Bible confirms what was already present—namely, that marriage is a relationship constructed on the basis of heterosexual difference. Miller selectively references biblical instances of polygamy and abusive conduct to attempt to show that marriage was never intended to be only the union of one man and one woman. These situations demonstrate the limited consciousness and societal practices of the time. The subsequent teaching of the prophets and of the Wisdom literature rebuilt the consciousness of the people about the true nature and dignity of marriage. The teaching of Jesus in the 19th chapter of Saint Matthew's Gospel makes clear that marriage is between one man and one woman. The sexual difference between man and woman is the baseline template essential to marriage because only this difference allows a true union of persons on every level of their being. As Miller correctly states in her article, "We cannot look to the Bible as a marriage manual, but we can read it for universal truths." The nature of marriage as exclusively a heterosexual union is one of those universal truths.
Rev. J. Brian Bransfield, Incoming Executive Director
Secretariat of Evangelization and Catechesis
United States Conference of Catholic Bishops
Washington, D.C.

As a Christian, I'll be the first to tell you that I don't have all the answers, though God promises to reveal all to us at the appointed time. But let's be clear: if the Bible is the divine word of God, then you either accept it all or none of it. It's not a menu to just pick and choose and create your own interpretation. I choose to believe God's word and God's plan. I've got gay friends, and I don't condemn them or judge them. That's not my job. I just love them and leave the rest up to our God.
Jeff Conwell
via internet

I was saddened but not surprised that NEWSWEEK would run a blatantly distorted interpretation of Scripture regarding homosexual marriage. As Christians, we are taught to love the sinner and not the sin. Well, you've taken it two steps further—condone the sin and then put it into law to validate it. The Christian, Muslim and Jewish faiths agree that homosexuality is a sin. All that's left are the nonbelievers and agnostics who are trying to rewrite the Bible, like Lisa Miller.
Nancy McKay-Rosa
via internet

This is probably the most well-reasoned and calmly written essay about gay marriage I've ever read. This last big struggle in civil rights has burst open a festering sore that not only shows the true ugliness of organized religion, but threatens the separation of church and state. For what this is really about is removing the last obstacle in patriarchal control of people's private lives. In my own family, if one were to apply biblical proscriptions, every single person would have been stoned to death by now. Yet some of the condemned would still deny me my private civil rights based on laws even they have broken. Who decided that the Bible is the law in this country and not the Constitution and our Bill of Rights?
Monique Bryher
Studio City, Calif.

Your cover story on same-sex marriage is shameful. Lisa Miller's misunderstanding and dismissal of Scripture is astonishing. Voters in 30 states have recognized that marriage is the bringing together of the two sexes. They understood that gender matters, and that both husbands and wives matter to society and to children. Children need both a mother and father, and two men do not make a mom. If marriage is to mean anything political activists desire, then it will ultimately mean nothing to society.
Micah Clark
Noblesville, Ind.

I was very disappointed by the article on gay marriage. I would rather have seen someone take the time to talk to those whom the author vilifies: Bible-believing Christians. If she had done research, the author would have found that she was misstating the position of Bible-believing Christians as well as getting her facts wrong about what the Bible says. I also would have thought that she would mention that Islam condemns homosexuality as well. But then I suppose it is politically incorrect to bash Muslims.
Bruce Goettsche|
La Harpe, Ill.

Thank you, NEWSWEEK and Lisa Miller, for your timely and insightful article about equal marriage. Please know that many people of faith wish and hope for a more capacious and gracious world—one in which divergent faith and beliefs are respected and are given freedom to grow. Your article provides a much-needed rebuke for fundamentalists who would seek to keep others from the love of God and from civil marriage and all the joys and trials that might result. Thank you again for your courage and your voice.
Tim Johnson
Las Vegas, Nev.

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Sun City, Ariz.