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  • Posted By: joebunda @ 12/18/2008 6:19:00 PM

    I bellieve that if the kids want to move back or have to move back in with thier parents, the parents did a poor job of raising them and teaching them to be responsible. These kids could live on their own they would have to live at a lower social-economic staus than their parents. What happen to starting out with nothing and working your way up on your own and not depending on Mom and Dad.

  • Posted By: 20thcenturyboy @ 12/18/2008 6:14:27 PM

    I would never put the burden on moving back home on my mother. She did a heck of a job raising six boys on her own and now she is out living her life to the fullest! I am proud of her for always having an open door to my older brothers who repeatedly moved back home with their wife AND kids. I know the stress that put on her but she never once said no. I am eagerly waiting for the time that it is my turn to open my door for my mother and I can return all the love she gave me as a child.

  • Posted By: johnytp@gmail.com @ 12/18/2008 5:29:07 PM

    I am not sure you could generalize how parents feel about their children moving back in , but I am sure of one thing is that my mother is eagerly looking forward to the day when my wife and I move back into our parents home or the other they move into ours.

  • Posted By: pisapiag @ 12/18/2008 3:16:58 PM

    In most cases for me, when kids want to go back to their parents, that's a sign that the parents did a good job. I have two teens and life with them is just wonderful. I know that they'll leave eventually and I love my wife but I don't particularly look forward to those days.

  • Posted By: valark @ 12/18/2008 2:57:29 PM

    Mrs. Collier would do well to remember women tend to outlive men by several years. When her husband dies, her friends leave her ( assuming she has some )...it will be her children who are there for her. When they shove her off to a nursing home instead of welcoming her in one of their homes or even with every day care and concern, we will all know where they got their values from.

  • Posted By: jblanchard87 @ 12/18/2008 2:40:49 PM

    As a college student planning to move back home after next semester, I find many issues with this article.

    First, I don't see why Mrs. Collier must reduce time spent with her husband, or why they cannot go to the Inauguration- her kids are 19 and 23, and I'm sure they can cook a meal on their own for a few nights. If they cannot handle this or if they cannot clean up after themselves, I think there are much deeper issues in this family.

    Secondly, a poll if 123 women is not a very large sample size, so I think this data is problematic.

    I'd say if these families just treat their returned children as adults and there is mutual respect between them, everything should be fine.

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