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  • Posted By: Lee Holmes @ 12/20/2008 1:24:35 PM

    ''Safer''in that towns and cities such as Elko,Wells,Winnemucca,Sparks,and Ely in Nevada use the bordello,rather than the still-illegal ''streetwalker''. The safety of such an arrangement comes in its dependable ubiquity. Locals simply ignore the things,allowing these to flourish in their midst. The bordello system does not appear to evidence many of the same problems as the pimp-controlled walker,and state health standards are stringently applied by routine inspection. As a bonus,the bordellos actually assist in several other areas of local economy,with one in Wells,Nevada running a coffee shop,contributing to the tax base,and serving local charities. One small piece of political humour ensued when during Democrat primaries in the famed ''battleground'' state, the-then victorious Hillary campaign workers celebrating at a local Elko watering hole that included several women in from New York,asked if they could find a ''good restaurant'' to continue the celebration. One wag in cowboy hat,boots and Wrangler jeans[ a Republican] gave them straightfaced directions to the excellent dining at MONAS,some few blocks away to which the campaign team repaired,perhaps finding out upon arrival that MONAS...is a bordello.....

  • Posted By: etfonedhome @ 12/20/2008 1:04:58 PM

    mz Santana
    i apologize to you for those that attacked you
    clearly you have the sense to see both sides of the issue thank you for well thought out comment.
    and you are absolutly correct that if legal the industry would require close regulation otherwise there would be no improvement. your absolutely right that prostituion is wrong, i would not participate in it so long as i have a choice, but if were down to that or my kids starving, i dont even have to think about what my answer would be. but so far there has always been a better way for me. the point really is (and you hit this) no matter what my personal opinion (or mine) we should not make laws based on those opinions. laws should be for the greater good of all, and in my opinion that is where legal prostitution falls.
    sorry if insulted your children that was certainly not my intent
    im outta here for real this time have a good day all

    • Posted By: Brian33 @ 12/20/2008 1:22:58 PM

      Its great that you stated your opinion on what choices you would make for yourself in your life. Now, if you would also have the same respect for others to make the choice in there life as well. Or, are you not willing to allow them this choice? Here is the next twist that I find kind of funny. Your not one of those people who go around touting a "free market" and that everyone should make there own choices in their lives from one side of your mouth, and then from the other side say to others they do not have the choice to make a living selling sex? Kind of a double standard, don't you think ?

  • Posted By: JHutch2008 @ 12/20/2008 1:22:37 PM

    Oh, you're unsafe while working in the sex industry? How horrible. Have you tried NOT being a prostitute? Seriously though, explain to me why I should care. That's like complaining that you were injured during the commission of a robbery. It's illegal. Here's an idea, let's just get rid of all laws, that way no one will ever have to feel bad or be punished for breaking them. Society will collapse, but we'll all feel good about ourselves, no matter what we do (unless we're the ones it's being done to). The only sex workers that are deserving of any sympathy are those that were trafficked/forced into the trade (and yes I'm aware there are many other types of trafficking). If you chose the profession, then you made the decision to objectify yourself, and so you are just that, an object, so I fail to see why anyone should care (would we have this conversation about a table, or a computer?). And yes, I feel the same way about strippers and porn stars. I have no problem with sex. You want to give a striptease? Go ahead. You want to film yourself having sex? Cheers. Just don't charge for it or try to turn it into an industry. Oh, and just throwing it out there, but you don't actually have to charge to be a whore. According to Websters you can also just sleep with a lot of different people and still earn the title. So congrats all you swingers out there, you're all whores.

  • Posted By: johnjohn411 @ 12/20/2008 1:10:53 PM

    I paid 50 bucks for 1/2 hour with Mz Santana and when she didn't do all that I wanted I blackened her eye and snatched 100 bucks from her purse. The service I called offered me an attractive nice looking chick with nachas grandes and what arrived was a saggy old overused whore that smelled like ciggarettes and still had coke residue falling out of her nose ! BAD SERVICE do not call the mz santana sex line

    • Posted By: MzSantana @ 12/20/2008 1:16:48 PM

      Is that supposed to be funny? Your comment is extremely insulting.

  • Posted By: tokiohotellovemuch @ 12/20/2008 1:11:56 PM

    im a hooker....

  • Posted By: tokiohotellovemuch @ 12/20/2008 1:11:41 PM

    im a hooker....

  • Posted By: forensicme @ 12/20/2008 1:10:38 PM

    I am all for the legalization of prostitution. Here are some points I consider: these men and women (women making up the larger percent of sex act workers world wide) should have protection. The act of taking money for the exchange of sex is the illegal part. The dehuminization of these people is the moral part. Morally, these men & women are somebody to someone even if the world never sees their face. Morally we are obligated as a society to protect each other and do no harm to one another. Society gets away from remembering that- although quit a few would never choose to live this lifestyle or were fortunate enough not have been turned out to this lifestyle- there are millions who profit from the illegal act. In Nevada (I want to say Storey County), the legalized prostitution has benefited not just the women and the owners of the brothels. The money used helps many of the residents. As a matter of fact, many residents polled did not have a problem because the prostitution brought money to their businesses that otherwise would not have traffic. Taxes paid on these facitlities help the schools, hospitals and growth of the community. Crime is very low.
    Some main reasons I would like to see prostitution legalized is: if there were lisences given to legal prostitutes, maybe these runaways would find it harder to stay on the streets. Liscensed sex workers must have STD test reguarly and thus, like in Storey County, would decrease the spread of disease. Legal prostitutes pay taxes!!!! (A lot of people don't know that) The biggest reason is simply this: I am a Criminalist and I am really tired of cleaning up the bodies of young people who the world thinks we can throw away. My department gets to tell families that we have found the person they have been looking for please come identify them. Whether this lifestyle is chosen or forced upon by whatever means, it's the people everyone is forgetting about. They are still someone's someone.

  • Posted By: RealityCheckl0l @ 12/20/2008 1:08:35 PM

    I have four daughters. No I would ever want any of them to enter into the trade of prostitution!!! BUT if their life led them to having to do that for a living - I would want it carefully regulated by the government. If it is illegal, then there is little protecting their safety. Legalizing it could provide them with standard benefits including pensions. Sex is a biological requirement. Men lose all control when it comes to sex because it is an underlying biological drive and are going to get it one way or another. Women have been compensated for this for the entire history of "civilized" humans and it will continue until we can come up with toys that are identical to the real thing.
    Any of you that are so opposed to legalizing it on moral principles - are YOU willing to take a prostitute into your home and help her through school to learn an acceptable profession? Maybe a few of you would answer yes but most would say it???s not their problem but will go on to criticize and judge the ones that do. None of them ever grew up dreaming of being a prostitute. Generally most of them fell into the trade out of desperation, hunger, addictions ??? nothing any of them wanted. It's very easy to judge people you don't know but you have NO idea what has led them to this life. Many religions frown upon alcohol and tobacco but if those products weren't regulated, they would still exist but there would be more dangers involved because there would be no accountability. Prostitution is going to exist - like it or not - and our government has a responsibility to protect those citizens just as much as you or I. If they made coal mining illegal do you think the companies wouldn???t still be able to find workers anyway ??? but where would any protection come to the workers that suffer long-term illnesses due to the profession ??? at least government tries to protect their rights to a certain degree. No it???s not perfect, every government is going to have some corruption due to greed but at least there would be some form of checks and balances there. These workers are not criminals in the sense of someone stealing such as robbing a bank - they are conducting a mutually agreed act and compensation. Regulating it would also help protect our nation's children from being exploited in this trade as legal prostitutes would better be able to handle the demand that is out there.

  • Posted By: etfonedhome @ 12/20/2008 12:49:16 PM

    Mz santana
    ok and very true. but let my ask you this, if for some unforseeable and unfortunate circumstance your daughter was to enter prostitution, ( and i hope that never happens), would you want the laws to protect her or people who want to harm her?

    • Posted By: iowablogger @ 12/20/2008 1:06:02 PM

      of course no one would want there daughter hurt, but there are serious consequences to any dangerous behavior. That doesn't mean that criminal activities should be legalized.

    • Posted By: MzSantana @ 12/20/2008 12:55:16 PM

      You know what I can't say that it would never happen but if it did you can bet your life that I would be giving everything I had to get my daughter off the streets. Most of the girls who end up on the streets have no where else to go and no matter what my kid is my kid and I feel obligated to be there for my child. I don't currently have a daughter, I have a son but the same rings true. I wouldn't want my son out there either.

      I think the point is that if prostitution was legal they would definitely have to implement taxes, self sustaining healthcare and keep it to a localized area and out of the neighborhoods. That still won't change my opinion that I think prostitution is gross, I also think smoking is gross but that's a different issue.

  • Posted By: bac512 @ 12/20/2008 1:05:36 PM

    being a hooker is just a job.. just like any other job.. how many people go to work at say fast food, and get 'screwed' everyday? why does sex have to be something more than it is? a physical act. Stop classifying everything it it's own little group. If you're good at something, or you enjoy something, why not get paid for it? and don't tell me about all the people that do it cause they have to support their family or habits or whatever... again, people working minimum wage jobs probably don't do it cause they enjoy it.. they do it to support their family or habits or whatever.... Just cause YOU don't like it, why does that mean someone who DOES shouldn't be allowed to do it?

  • Posted By: iowablogger @ 12/20/2008 1:03:14 PM

    "the only way to really protect sex workers like Sharmus, is to make what they do both legal and legitimate."

    Hmm.....maybe another solution would be for Sharmus to stop engaging in dangerous and illegal activities.

    Maybe we should make home invasion legal to protect armed robbers???

  • Posted By: andreswife @ 12/20/2008 1:03:12 PM

    OH YEAH, LEGALIZING PROSTITUTION WOULD MAKE THIS WPROLD A MUCH BETTER PLACE. NEXT DRUG DEALER'S WILL DEMAND TO BE ABLE TO SELL DRUG'S WITHOUT FEAR OF THE LAW!!!

  • Posted By: Seeker~ @ 12/20/2008 1:03:00 PM

    read a little closer gdccreation...agoodbadhabit is saying that in places where prostitution is legal the workers feel more comfortable reporting problems hence it appears to be an increase but is not necessarily so...the numbers could be significantly greater in places where it is illegal simply because the workers have little choice but to take the abuse and keep it to themselves; it is risky for them to report problems.

  • Posted By: andreswife @ 12/20/2008 1:01:14 PM

    OH YEAH, LEGALIZING PROSTITUTION WOULD MAKE THIS WORLD MUCH BETTER! WHY DON'T THEY JUST ALLOW DRUG DEALER'S TO SELL DRUG'S WITHOUT FEAR IOF THE LAW!!

  • Posted By: kkep it real @ 12/20/2008 12:59:18 PM

    are they serious!!! they exploit some mans extreme need for sex the way drug dealers exploit a addicts desire for drugs and were supposed to feel sorry for them!!!

  • Posted By: MzSantana @ 12/20/2008 12:44:08 PM

    I just have to say that I think it's funny how I say that being a hooker is disgusting and all of the sudden I am turned into a religious freak who doesn't have sex. All of you who are personally attacking me are amusing. My husband is more then satisfied and I don't have to justify myself to any of you just like you don't have to justify yourselves to me. I am allowed to have an opinion. So before you spout off about my marriage and my life remember, you don't know me, you know nothing about me other then I think being a hooker is gross. I am tired of people glamorizing the perversions of our society. Being a prostitute is not glamorous or a good way of life. I would never want my daughter, sister, mother or anyone being a prostitute. Oh and FYI I am not religious at all so you can all get off that one. Hope you all have a great day and learn to form and opinion by way of facts not personal attacks.

  • Posted By: agoodbadhabit @ 12/20/2008 12:41:33 PM

    "some Nevada counties, Germany, Australia and the Netherlands???both illegal prostitution, as well as the number of rapes and assaults against prostitutes, has increased." Hmm, they left out the word "reported" that should have gone before "number of." Rapes and assaults haven't necessarily increased, but in an environment in which sex workers are free to report them OF COURSE the number is going to increase.

  • Posted By: jo.the.medical.doctor @ 12/20/2008 12:31:11 PM

    so sad - just stop selling yourselves and you can avoid heartbreak, violence, std's, expoitation, dehumanization, and the drug crowd that ALWAYS are assoicated with the sex industry and sex "work" - no matter whether legal or not - so utterly sad that these people are so deranged in their thinking - let's find an alternate work for these people other than trying to make a buck off of the "john's" libido

    • Posted By: Brian33 @ 12/20/2008 12:41:01 PM

      Hey jo, alot of people would like to find another job, if it was economically fesiable and they could enjoy there work. Unfortunately, most of those good jobs were shipped out of our country to China and India, and whatever jobs were left over, the illegal immigrants took over thanks to our illegal immigrant friendly corporate system. Now all we have left is Government jobs, and Service sector jobs. Not everyone can work for the government, and not everyone likes to work at walmart or Mc donalds either. Besides, prostitution is a service sector job as well. Oops, you didn't see that coming did you ? LOL.

  • Posted By: gdccreation @ 12/20/2008 12:36:43 PM

    he jo whats ur ph r u a doctor???Mr Phil wannebe

  • Posted By: DanniGurl @ 12/20/2008 12:11:45 PM

    Perhaps the sex trade would decrease but I do not think rapes, assaults, and murders will decrease. There are a lot of sick men out there, regardless whether something is legal or not. The problem lies deeper...we need to start education about these matters at a young age for women and men. Why aren't people questioning why people are selling something like sex in the first place???? Why don't we target that and ask ourselves "Well why would someone put themselves in a very dangerous and risky situation for money?" And please, there are a ton of people that are broke ass poor and need money but you don't see them prostituting themselves to make ends meet. There are other things that need to be addressed. And legalizing sex will not decrease the amount of life threatening diseases that are being spread all the time. Also, I think we would just be contributing to a vicious cycle and not helping these women and men in any way. I am not saying that they need to be saved or anything but studies have shown that individuals who have suffered childhood sexual abuse are at a greater risk for being arrested for prostitution compared to non-victims and studies have found that individuals who were raped or forced into sexual activity were more at risk to become involved in prostitution than non-victims. Do your research and lets look at this issue in a totally different light. Perhaps the target should be more treatment for prostitutes rather than punishment but legalizing it seems to just cover up possible deeply imbedded issues.

    • Posted By: jlowrie @ 12/20/2008 12:36:20 PM

      really the govenment should make prostitution legal then put down some basic regulation and tax the income. the regulation (licensure, std testing, some basic education on safety, abuse and STDs) would make some small steps toward protecting both prostitues and johns. i agree with you that overall rapes assaults and murders in society would not decrease, however these rates among prostitutes should decrease. not everyone has the same values and some people are more risk adverse than others. I really don't see much difference between a woman working in a chicken factory and hating her job and having a hard time making ends meet and a woman working as a prostitute and hating her job. that isn't to say that all prostitutes hate there job, I'm sure that there are a lot of women out there who love there job. people have a lot of reasons why they do the things they do. just because women who have been sexually abused or raped are more likely to become prostitutes than those who have not does not mean that all prostitues were either sexually abused or raped prior to becoming a prostitute.

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