"there is simply no valid reason that President-elect Obama couldn't have chosen someone to perform the invocation who actually recognizes lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people as whole and perfect children of God exactly how they are." This is insane, impossible, and wrong. WHAT HAS OUR COUNTRY TURNED INTO?
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Chris Crain: Leah, we are only deferring that happy day when we win our equality if we are unwilling to find common ground and respectfully engage those with whom we disagree—especially those like Rick Warren who are so influential with so many. We can't get away with "refusing to get into" whether Warren in fact "equated" our relationships to abusive ones. The argument isn't beneath you, Leah, it's in front of you. The whole reason we are having to fight for marriage equality is that most Americans—including most African Americans—agree with Warren about gay marriage and do not view our struggle as analogous to the black civil rights movement.
On that point, your unwillingness to look for common ground again leads you to mischaracterize Warren's views. He did not say he opposed civil unions; he said the Constitution does not guarantee them to us as a civil right. I'm guessing you would actually agree with him on that, and argue the Constitution actually guarantees us full marriage equality. Regardless, gay activists typically argue for civil unions in legislatures, not courtrooms, so Warren's position isn't the end of the discussion. We shouldn't be looking for end points in the discussion; we should be looking for opportunities. Warren very clearly voiced support for many forms of recognition for same-sex couples. Why not reach out to him on that basis, rather than try to exclude him from good society as some sort of extremist?
You and I would agree, I think, that our fight for civil rights is analogous in many ways to the struggle of African Americans. But you would also have to agree that the country is much, much farther along on black civil rights than on gay civil rights. The election of Barack Obama proves that. So instead of trying to leap ahead five or 10 or 15 years and try to exclude our opponents as bigots outside the mainstream, we ought to be looking for common ground, and engaging them respectfully where we disagree—all with the confidence that the public will see we have the stronger position.
Leah McElrath Renna: I need to return to my central point that is not about marriage equality for same-sex couples or any other policy-related issue. The reality is that Rick Warren does not believe that lesbian and gay people exist. In his worldview and spiritual perspective, LGBT individuals are people who choose to engage in sinful, sexually disordered behavior. This worldview is justified by him and others by a narrow, ahistorical and literal interpretation of a very small number of Biblical passages. It is not shared by all religions, nor by all people or denominations within the Christian faith.
As long as LGBT people and our allies continue to allow others to define our very existence as a so-called "social issue,'' we will not succeed in creating a world that is safe for ourselves, our loved ones and our families.
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