Dusty:
Being gay is rather complicated....all sexuality is a choice in the short term. It is never in the long term, you have to follow your nature in the long term. I could 'choose' to sleep with a woman tonight, but not for the rest of my life. Not taking a breath right now is a choice....not taking one again is not a choice. People make this mistake all the time, they think if you can make a choice this moment, you can forever and it just doesn't work that way. A person over the course of their life has to be true to themselves, they can't keep up the false front forever......that's why so many men leave their wifes after a rew years, they can't keep up the charade forever.
When you say it's a choice you are right in the short term, but never in the long term.









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