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  • Posted By: from123 @ 01/10/2009 12:15:05 PM

    Mr. Haggard sounds like he's doing all he can to repent and turn this situation into something positive to grow from in his faith and relationships. It sounds like he realizes that he was humbled greatly. I understand his "overrepentance" possibly for mens' sake in his guilt and deeply felt remorse, but God knows his heart and understands. The church needs to help him recover, which it also sounds like they are now at least, as is their proper biblical role for a repentant member. Mr. Haggard also appears to honestly realize his ongoing struggle with his issues, while seeming to respectfully and humbly be aware of the effect and repercussions of his presence on those around him and in the church, at least for now. He is also correct about the socio/psycho foundations for homosexuality, and that in recovery it is an ongoing struggle to some degree, as with alcoholism.

    Typically, non-Christians hostile to Christianity and/or any belief in God, jump all over stories like this as an example of all Christians, which fuels their excuses not to believe. But Christian or not, we are all fallen, and Christians stumble and repent--willful, ongoing, sin is a whole other matter though. Christ didn't die for saints, but the sick, and Christianity isn't an Ivory Tower, but a hospital. The Bible is clear on all of this, which those hostile to Christianity don't read or understand, or if they do at least read to some degree, do so with closed minds and malevolent agendas--in search of "loopholes" or something they can twist or distort in some aspect.

    • Posted By: willem1 @ 01/10/2009 1:43:35 PM

      oh darling pleeze homosexuality is not a sin neither is drinking. what is a sin is what churches do to are family of gay and lesbians americans!! more proof that religion poisons everything it touches!! lets have a beer on this pleeze!!

  • Posted By: map2112 @ 01/10/2009 12:15:34 PM

    It amazes me the amount of energy and time the religious right uses to battle homosexuality. Instead of WWJD (feeding the hungry, helping the poor, etc) they would rather fight a weaker, less orgainized minority group for props. Exactly how much of the bible, % wise, is spent on this? Less than .01 maybe? Give me a break. If the religious right would do the right thing and love their neighbor and practice what they preach, this world would be a much better place to live. Everyone has to have a punching bag I suppose...

    • Posted By: willem1 @ 01/10/2009 1:39:20 PM

      darling hating gays in the church is a money making scheme, they are a bunch of jerks!!

  • Posted By: sam4sythe @ 01/10/2009 1:35:34 PM

    I have news for Mr. Haggard, no amount of therapy, getting married and having children, and praying will change what he is.
    I find it amazing that so many are willing to give him a free pass. Many of these same people will vote against anything that has the word gay attached to it. Yet, will claim they "love the sinner, hate the sin". Mr. Haggard pretends like this was something he chose. I have news for him and his followers. He was born this way and because of his own selfish and scare tactics from the churches, he decided to be "normal". It doesn't matter how many children he's fathered or if he married a woman. At the end of the day, he's still a homosexual man and he should move on with his life and stop pretending. Next thing you know, he'll be hanging out in public restrooms in airports.

  • Posted By: drupus2 @ 01/10/2009 1:31:57 PM

    Thank you, duke613...you are absolutely right.
    And yes, Jessicarabbit, that is very odd. Born an Evangelical but can't accept the FACT that people are born homosexual. Statements like that really make me question the intelligience level of the right wing theocrats.
    Of course, hypocrisy is a 'learned' trait. And Evangelicals have perfected it.

  • Posted By: olddognewtricks @ 01/10/2009 1:31:19 PM

    Don't be surprised if he makes a come-back as a minister.

    The money is far too good, the proof of what you claim non-existent, and the sheeple way too many to count...

  • Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 1:16:31 PM

    from123 :

    The main flaw in your reasoning is you are deriving your information from a book that is the most forged, corrupted, and error filled book in human history. "The Bible" ..........you obviously know little about the formation of the bible and how it was put together, you wrote it, and the many, many , hands over the centuries who have put things in, taken things out, changed meanings, twisted meanings, forged gospels, and lied and exagerrated throughout.

    No I am not an athiest.........but most of the Christian story NEVER happened. In fact 99% of the whole Jesus story was taken from other earlier myths. Christianity is the greatest story ever sold. There is no difference between Christianity and a cult. It's all brain washing.

    However this doesn't mean there isn't a Creator, Universal Intelligence, or a "God" if you wish to use that term........it's just not the type of God that Christians and other religions have made up over the centuries. The real God is much greater than the childish version they have created.

    • Posted By: cpipkins @ 01/10/2009 1:29:52 PM

      It never ceases to amaze me how people who love their sin will not only judge others and use their sin to justify their own, but will come out against anything that might be Godly. When the Lord returns, these words (as well as the others you've spoken) will haunt you throughout eternity. Well did Paul speak when he told Timothy that, "The time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but will HEAP to themselves teachers having itching ears......". When sin is, and has been, plainly stated for THOUSANDS of years those that LOVE THEIR SIN want to JUSTIFY IT before EVERYONE and WANT THEM TO INDULGE AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Posted By: lamnc @ 01/10/2009 1:25:55 PM

    What Ted, and others, seem to forget was that he wasn't told to "Go to hell." He was told to submit to the leadership and authority of others, as is a biblical model. He was given a plan and a purpose for healing and restoration. He was given financial resources. Ted is the one who balked at that because, apparently, he knows best. If he truly cared for his congregation, and he trusted the biblical principles of the overseers--which he set up--he would have submitted and allowed God to work in HIS time to restore Ted and heal the congregation which he hurt so badly. I think his actions speak for themselves.

  • Posted By: Jessicarabbit @ 01/10/2009 1:20:11 PM

    I think that it interesting that he says that he was born an evangelical, but homosexuality is a learned behavior.

  • Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 1:19:00 PM

    It is comments like these that shows that many people still do not understand homosexuality and what "being gay" really is. Education is the key and cannot be stressed enough to combat ignorance such as the above comment. People are indeed born gay. There is absolutely no choice involved. None. Being gay means there is zero attraction to the opposite gender. In fact it would feel completely unnatural to be with the opposite gender, because that is the way their brain is hardwired. Most all gay people know since they were small children. I was brought up in a loving Christian home and I knew I was gay since I was 6 or 7 years old. I didn't know what "gay " meant or even heard of the word. I didn't even know anything about sex but I knew.

    A percentage of the human population has always be born gay since the begiining of time...and always will be. An even larger percentage of humans are naturally bisexual. The only thing that has changed in recent decades is that gay people have had the courage to stand up and fight for their equal rights and the rights for future generations of gay kids that are born every day. They are fighting for their ability to have a future. They are fighting to educate people

  • Posted By: BackHomeCO @ 01/10/2009 1:18:55 PM

    Go away Haggard. I am tired of hearing about all your wows. Quit your whining and stop making excuses for what you are. You had it all. A job that garnered loads of tax-free money from people from all walks of life which bought you a beautiful $700k home in Colorado Springs and supported a life-style unbecoming a 'person of faith'. You are the poster child for why I don't "believe". Religions have become the curtain that allows entities to steal (albeit nicely) money from unsuspecting people searching for their "god". The money is tax free, churches don't pay property taxes, yet the leaders speak politics from the pulpit -- a conflict of interest, don't you think?! I could care less what your sexual preferences are. You are an adult, what you do in your bedroom is your business. I don???t read the articles written about you, but I???m still blasted by media headlines ??? SO GO AWAY HAGGARD. Your life should be your personal business ??? you are making a foolish joke out of yourself. I???m sure there must some scripture that says that is a sin.

  • Posted By: Jessicarabbit @ 01/10/2009 1:18:28 PM

    I think it's interesting that he says that he was born an evangelical, but heterosexuality is a learned behavior.

  • Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 1:17:39 PM

    A percentage of the human population has always be born gay since the begiining of time...and always will be. An even larger percentage of humans are naturally bisexual. The only thing that has changed in recent decades is that gay people have had the courage to stand up and fight for their equal rights and the rights for future generations of gay kids that are born every day. They are fighting for their ability to have a future. They are fighting to educate people as well.

    Gay people are your sons, daughters, close friends, co-workers, aunts, uncles, cousins.....they are your police officers, fire fighters, accountants, secretarys, cooks, mailpersons, etc......some even do your hair! They are not alien or separate from yourselves they are part of your families and friends.

    As far as homosexuality in the animal world, you again show ignorance on the subject: " Homosexuality has been observed in more than 1,500 species, and the phenomenon has been well described for 500 of them," said Petter Bockman, project coordinator of the exhibition. "

    " Almost a quarter of black swan families are parented by homosexual couples. Male couples sometimes mate with a female just to have a baby. Once she lays the egg, they chase her away, hatch the egg, and raise a family on their own"

  • Posted By: live&letlive70 @ 01/10/2009 1:15:31 PM

    Believe in God, not a church. Live your life by listening to God, not manipulation of a pastor for your 10%. Judge not. Judge not. Judge not. It is my hope that someone will soon receive a revelation from God to reach out to the GLBT community to make them understand that they have been chased away from their rightful place as members of God's flock. Churches have become centers of condemnation, judgment and separation, rather than places of worship where all sinners are welcome. I feel compassion for Ted, as he is only part way through his journey in acceptance of himself as the man God created him to be. If more Christians imitated Jesus instead of those who condemned him to death, the world would be a better place.

  • Posted By: gbfowler @ 01/10/2009 1:14:41 PM

    I don't mind so much if the Christians eat each other alive,
    as long as they leave the rest of us alone...

  • Posted By: Bacchus1 @ 01/10/2009 1:14:28 PM

    And BTW, apologies for the tangent or the tone. (I thought the attack-post was to me, I could be wrong.) I like to remain civil, I think recent arguments I've had aggravated me. This article isn't about nature vs. nurture, or even homosexuality.

    But I do wonder if people can agree, that if a person sticks to their convictions, even in the face of derision, it can be admirable? Not even about religious people -- people in general. (I have had a generally dim view of religion, but not the people specifically.)

  • Posted By: KM46 @ 01/10/2009 2:54:23 AM

    It would be easier to understand this person if he could step out of denail and be honest with himself and when he speaks. He sounds like a little child who got caught with his hand in the cookie jar and tries to tell his mother he was not trying to get a cookie. This is why the church denounced him - he does not have the ability to be honest. He was not denounred for his temptation. He was denounced for doing the worst of what he preached about. and not being able to really confess his sins, He feels entitled it seems to be able to do what he did and continue to preach. Forgiveness is devine. It is not about forgiveness. It is about Ted's inabiklity to deal with who he is honestly.

    • Posted By: suzytx @ 01/10/2009 1:11:13 PM

      KN46, I think yours is the most accurate analysis of the situation. The knee jerk reaction is to believe this was all about homosexuality instead of a church thoughtfully, prayerfully, and independently discerning that Haggard was a habitual liar then and is so now, to himself and the world at large..

      The Bible describes Satan as "The Father of Lies"

    • Posted By: suzytx @ 01/10/2009 1:10:45 PM

      KN46, I think yours is the most accurate analysis of the situation. The knee jerk reaction is to believe this was all about homosexuality instead of a church thoughtfully, prayerfully, and independently discerning that Haggard was a habitual liar then and is so now, to himself and the world at large..

      The Bible describes Satan as "The Father of Lies"

    • Posted By: suzytx @ 01/10/2009 1:02:01 PM

      KN46, I think yours is the most accurate analysis of the situation. The knee jerk reaction is to believe this was all about homosexuality instead of a church thoughtfully, prayerfully, and independently discerning that Haggard was a habitual liar then and is so now, to himself and the world at large..

      The Bible describes Satan as "The Father of Lies".

  • Posted By: olddognewtricks @ 01/10/2009 1:09:46 PM

    This is what generally happens with people try to impose their religious morality on others by legislating it into civil law -- caught with their literal pants down. There would be no need for churches if there were no sinners.

    It is fascinating to watch what some claim to be doctrine, when it is nothing more than dogma.

    A higher power exists -- can't prove who, what or even it is interactive at this time -- but considering the time of human existence, and the things we as a species have done in it's name, it certainly isn't the wrathful god of the "literalist" right wing or we would be ashes!

  • Posted By: Bacchus1 @ 01/10/2009 1:09:14 PM

    Um, WRONG. A few species that have the rare same-sex relationships do NOT mean it is 'normal'. Animals and people share aberrations, such as OCD, too. And they eat their young, but that's beside the point .I am not religious, as it so happens. I just really dislike when science is twisted to an agenda without question. I HAVE researched it. There is a correlation between twins that we have inclinations, but those are MODIFIED BY ENVIRONMENT. It is not 100% 'born a certain way'. An inconvenient fact, I am sure. And Anecdote does not make proof, if it did, we have proven ghosts exist. We can argue this until we turn blue, and I'm pretty sure neither of us will be convinced. When science has shown the exact mechanism by which I like blondes, you like high heeled shoes, and people are attracted to the traits that make up 'gender', then it will be truly settled.

  • Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 1:01:07 PM

    "Um, WRONG AND FALSE. Try googling same sex animal relationships. You'll find that scientists have found that many animals have sex with the same sex, and in fact some kinds of dolphins regularly pair with the same gender, and only get with the other gender to have sex - that is, to create children. Oh, and two other thoughts: if you want to be 'biblical', then only gay SEX is prohibited - not cohabitation. It's quite possible for two men to live together, care and love each other, and never have gay sex. That would be totally kosher according to Leviticus. And lastly, if you want to lash out at gays for having gay sex, then I'm afraid I'd like to buy your daughter, and if I see you wearing polyester I'll have to , hmm.., I forget if it's stoning or burning at the stake. Well, I'm sure my pastor can clue me in on that. Oh, and next time your son screams no at you, you'll need to stone him. I remember that one pretty well. And working on Saturdays - well, we'll just have to talk about that. Quote one, quote them all!

    Hello......Please read the rest of my post, I was agreeing with you. You are 100% correct. Thanks for the post.


  • Posted By: trekitup @ 01/10/2009 12:52:56 PM

    Isn't that all he was to begin with, a good salesman?

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