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  • Posted By: from123 @ 01/10/2009 12:51:06 PM

    map2112

    Granted, some Christians--or at least professed ones--hypocritically and self-righteously condemn one area that the Bible discusses, according to specific agendas, like the Westboro Church in Topeka, while not showing love, compassion, and leading/helping others to repentance in any way. I am sorry for all of that, but that doesn't represent Christ's teachings and is a bad and wasteful example of our Christian faith.

    The Bible is clear about homosexuality in at least 6 different books and epistles, three each in the OT and NT. The Bible "spends less time" on many other sinful behaviors that hurt ourselves, others, and our relationship with Him, but which doesn't preclude or negate those sins either. Actually, the topics, themes, and metaphors of marriage, money, Hell, and proper human judgment--based upon biblical standards--and eternal judgment are the most frequently occuring ones in the Bible, especially the NT, which don't actually agree with what we'd all prefer, and further contradicting your reasoning.

    Biblical and true love in general extend to being honest about and/or warning us of word, thought, and deed that is, once again, harmful to ourselves, others, and our relationship with God. What's in our best interests or best for us isn't always "what feels good or right"--the consequences of actual medical and other science and social statistics have continually backed this up.

    And, of course, in my previous comments I was also assuming that Haggard's church was a healthy, well-balanced, and biblically orthodox church, as opposed to one that teaches false doctrine, a cult, etc.

  • Posted By: cwiegand @ 01/10/2009 12:37:03 PM

    Quoted: Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 12:17:52 PM> Answer this. Why is the human being the only species on earth that has sex with its own gender?

    Um, WRONG AND FALSE. Try googling same sex animal relationships. You'll find that scientists have found that many animals have sex with the same sex, and in fact some kinds of dolphins regularly pair with the same gender, and only get with the other gender to have sex - that is, to create children. Oh, and two other thoughts: if you want to be 'biblical', then only gay SEX is prohibited - not cohabitation. It's quite possible for two men to live together, care and love each other, and never have gay sex. That would be totally kosher according to Leviticus. And lastly, if you want to lash out at gays for having gay sex, then I'm afraid I'd like to buy your daughter, and if I see you wearing polyester I'll have to , hmm.., I forget if it's stoning or burning at the stake. Well, I'm sure my pastor can clue me in on that. Oh, and next time your son screams no at you, you'll need to stone him. I remember that one pretty well. And working on Saturdays - well, we'll just have to talk about that. Quote one, quote them all!

  • Posted By: lovesIrony @ 01/10/2009 12:35:06 PM

    "I was born an evangelical", but, homosexuality is a learned behavior?

  • Posted By: lovesIrony @ 01/10/2009 12:25:23 PM

    "I was born an Evangelican", but, " homosexuality is a learned behavior"

  • Posted By: ebtmartin @ 01/10/2009 12:24:01 PM

    Forgive so you that you will be forgiven, is what the bible says. It's sad to say that we choose what sin and whose sin should be forgiven wnen we all come short of the glory of God. Ultimately God is going to judge all, we must sill help the sinner and though hate sin we must still reach out. It's not any of us to decided who's going to hell or heaven, and to decide which is the greatest sin. Mr Haggard had sin againts God alone and not to his congregation for they are flesh just like him.

  • Posted By: duke613 @ 01/10/2009 12:17:52 PM

    quote: " Posted By: spacekatt @ 01/10/2009 10:58:07 AMYour notion of being born gay is pure BS and you know it. All you are doing is trying to justify your own behavior. Answer this. Why is the human being the only species on earth that has sex with its own gender? I guess God thought so highly of homosexuality that he made it exclusive to humans. Choose what you like, just don't lie about it. If you want to be gay, fine with me. why do you want to try and deceive others as to your choices. Make them and accept them. But you do have a choice."

    It is comments like these that shows that many people still do not understand homosexuality and what "being gay" really is. Education is the key and cannot be stressed enough to combat ignorance such as the above comment. People are indeed born gay. There is absolutely no choice involved. None. Being gay means there is zero attraction to the opposite gender. In fact it would feel completely unnatural to be with the opposite gender, because that is the way their brain is hardwired. Most all gay people know since they were small children. I was brought up in a loving Christian home and I knew I was gay since I was 6 or 7 years old. I didn't know what "gay " meant or even heard of the word. I didn't even know anything about sex but I knew.

    A percentage of the human population has always be born gay since the begiining of time...and always will be. An even larger percentage of humans are naturally bisexual. The only thing that has changed in recent decades is that gay people have had the courage to stand up and fight for their equal rights and the rights for future generations of gay kids that are born every day. They are fighting for their ability to have a future. They are fighting to educate people as well.

    Gay people are your sons, daughters, close friends, co-workers, aunts, uncles, cousins.....they are your police officers, fire fighters, accountants, secretarys, cooks, mailpersons, etc......some even do your hair! They are not alien or separate from yourselves they are part of your families and friends.

    As far as homosexuality in the animal world, you again show ignorance on the subject: " Homosexuality has been observed in more than 1,500 species, and the phenomenon has been well described for 500 of them," said Petter Bockman, project coordinator of the exhibition. "

    " Almost a quarter of black swan families are parented by homosexual couples. Male couples sometimes mate with a female just to have a baby. Once she lays the egg, they chase her away, hatch the egg, and raise a family on their own"

    I thank God I was born gay, I wouldn't have it any other way. It was a hard life when I was young because of the ignorance of a segment of our society but I am living the life that God and nature meant for me to be. It has made me the man I am today. It has made me the spirtual man I am today. Education is the key to combat ignorance.


  • Posted By: golfr1 @ 01/10/2009 12:13:29 PM

    There he sits again, hiding behind his Bible. Nothing disturbs me more than televangelists who prey on the weak and poor for their own benefit. I feel no mercy for him, as he misled millions. He is one of the lowest types of humans with extreme deceptive behaviors, no more than a BS salesman Practice what you preach. Not buying it again, sorry

  • Posted By: Sonflower @ 01/10/2009 12:12:45 PM

    There isn't a saint without a past and not a sinner without a future.

  • Posted By: george in texas @ 01/10/2009 12:06:06 PM

    Life in a cult is hard. Leading a cult is even harder.

  • Posted By: george in texas @ 01/10/2009 12:04:41 PM

    Life in a cult is hard!

  • Posted By: perrin @ 01/10/2009 11:43:02 AM

    So where exactly is the story? He's still an "INSURANCE" salesman. It's not like he had to change his occupation or anything.

    • Posted By: Fred L. VA @ 01/10/2009 11:49:56 AM

      BRAVO on your Comment Perrin!! Here's a BIG FAT KUDOS TO YOU!!! Too Funny!!

      • Posted By: map2112 @ 01/10/2009 12:00:06 PM

        LOL...that is pretty accurate...You nailed it Perrin!

  • Posted By: tjefferson12 @ 01/10/2009 11:43:12 AM

    where did this guy's money go? $140,000 a year plus whatever he makes from merchandise and appearances and we're supposed to believe he and his family are destitute? he made hundreds of thousands (if not millions) preaching that drug use, homosexuality, and marital infidelity were wrong while practicing all three. now he makes himself out to be a victim. doing what haggard did makes you a liar, a thief, and a hypocrite. as christopher hitchens once said of jerry falwell, it's a shame there isn't a hell for him to go to.

    • Posted By: Cazador1972 @ 01/10/2009 11:59:29 AM


      I think the 140K was a severance package, not a pension, but it does sound like he didn't invest wisely since he must have made a lot of money through the years (at this point his merchandise would not be selling much either). Who knows? But the man is trying to make it in this economy, I got to root for him there. Yet, maybe he is now reconsidering the "firm support" he gave Bush, now that he is down to our tax bracket.

  • Posted By: Cindy in Texas @ 01/10/2009 9:28:34 AM

    Rich Monk you are a complete idiot to say that God is superstition! He CREATED you and all that is in the universe! Someday, probably when its too late you will realize this! You will stand before God and HE will judge you as you have judged people here on Earth for their beliefs. You are a sad individual if all you have to put your faith in is yourself.

    • Posted By: Johnzo Bonzo @ 01/10/2009 9:34:55 AM

      "Rich Monk you are a complete idiot"
      "you have judged people here on Earth for their beliefs"

      You don't see the irony here?

      • Posted By: fishergran @ 01/10/2009 11:59:16 AM

        Unfortunately, many people do not look at the log in their own eye before trying to take the speck out of their neighbor's eye. People make ridiculous statements not realizing they are doing just what they condem others for doing. Judge not lest you be judged, Cindyl

  • Posted By: ColetteDD2 @ 01/10/2009 11:55:30 AM

    Haggard's sales skills are second only to his political ones. Coming out now will only cause further anguish to his wife and family who've also suffered by proxy from Haggard's fall. Haggard and family have literally and effectively been shunned by his former worshippers and fellow believers. An irony, sorrow and source of mirth for onlookers and critics.

    My bet is eight to ten years when the last of thier children has graduated from high school Haggard and wife will separate and within 6-12 months he will then come out as an openly gay man. Maybe by then conservative evangelicals will have realized the emptiness of faith without acceptance or uncondititional love. You know that thing Jesus did.


    Colette, Denver, CO

  • Posted By: ericdrexil @ 01/10/2009 11:19:50 AM

    Someone said that you need to first admit that you are homosexual or bisexual. What if you also like dolls? Are you then TRIsexual? I happen to be omnisexual. Having found something that feels good....well you know the rest of the story. Finding a reason to leave ...say, (someone else's wife alone), where does that come from. Depending on the woman, wouldn't it feel good? Why shouldn't I? I've been told its wrong.... Is that reason enough? The bible says a man should leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife and they two shall become one flesh. In that I am given a reason to deny omnisexualism. God said so. It goes against my hunger for everything.The same book says that my hunger can be quelled with a more powerful agent:LOVE. It gives me the means and power to be full and joyful with but one woman. The games that are played with words like homosexual or bisexual are nothing compared to being omnisexual. Call yourself what you want to. In the end you are saying you have no choice. You are just born this way and you can't help it. Can you help wanting your mother? How about your sister or brother? How about your brother's wife or daughter? How about...your own? I have found the answer. A jewish rabbi who died on a roman cross about 2000 years ago said to his disciples that he would send a comforter. Faith in the plan of God through Jesus Christ can and will set you free.....if ....you want to be free. Calling yourself homosexual,bisexual, trisexual, or just plain SEXUAL will not free you. It will build you a prison of desire. I know, I've been in that one BC.

    • Posted By: wolfie03 @ 01/10/2009 11:55:22 AM

      Very well said!

    • Posted By: Cazador1972 @ 01/10/2009 11:42:46 AM


      Acceptance is the first step to recovery, ask any recovering addict. It by itself does not "cure" you but it puts you in a non-antagonistic with yourself. Ted Haggard is gay, to recite and affirm that he is not doesn't work, it never does, it merely represses. There is nothing wrong about sex among consenting adults, you don't agree? Fine, I respect your opinion, but a "problem" (if you consider it to be) is more easily dealt with if you are not denying its existence.

  • Posted By: ColetteDD2 @ 01/10/2009 11:55:05 AM

    Haggard's sales skills are second only to his political ones. Coming out now will only cause further anguish to his wife and family who've also suffered by proxy from Haggard's fall. Haggard and family have literally and effectively been shunned by his former worshippers and fellow believers. An irony, sorrow and source of mirth for onlookers and critics.

    My bet is eight to ten years when the last of thier children has graduated from high school Haggard and wife will separate and within 6-12 months he will then come out as an openly gay man. Maybe by then conservative evangelicals will have realized the emptiness of faith without acceptance or uncondititional love. You know that thing Jesus did.


    Colette, Denver, CO

  • Posted By: Bacchus1 @ 01/10/2009 11:54:23 AM

    People are saying you are 'born' the way you are, but there is conflicting evidence, for and against that. (Some people take on 'faith' that they're born attracted to certain types of people.) You can be 'taught' sexuality by trauma or good relations -- ask any abuse survivor. In any case, no matter what you believe, I have to applaud this guy sticking with what he believes, and finally owning up to having fallen down, and trying to pick himself up. Bravo, dude.

  • Posted By: danmanplan @ 01/10/2009 11:50:39 AM

    Why do people who allegedly have brains feel they need the guidance (misguidance) of a church to make the right choices in life? The Church/synagogue/mosque as an institution has, on balance, acted throughout history to 1) increase its own power at the expense of the average person and 2) to retard the progress of scientific and political progress when it threatens their position of power and influence. We can cite endless examples of this....the Inquisition's persecution of Galileo; the persistence of the Dark Ages for centuries longer than necessary due to suppression/destruction of heretical and eastern learning; Bush's suppression of the stem cell research; spread of the AIDs virus; spread of the plagues in the the middle ages in spite of knowledge of how to stop it.

    Even if there is a God that created the universe, He/she/it would certainly not be concerned with how we live our daily lives. There is obviously no divine involvement in human affairs as shown by the injustices, cruelty and suffering in the world. We need to drop our superstitions and live in reality. We and we alone are responsible for our own destiny.

  • Posted By: wolfie03 @ 01/10/2009 11:33:10 AM

    Suprise! Suprise!, the 'christian' church telling those that don't fit into their narrowly defined righteous box to "go to hell." This is perfect example of Ihow the evangelical christian doctrine is used to control, discriminate, segregate, and humiliate. Ted is right, he is still confused. . .being evangelical is learned behavior, it is NOT inherent; sexuality, on the other hand, IS innate. For all those who disagree, think back to when you were a young teen or young adult and you found yourself attracted to another person. . . that attraction was a feeling that came from inside you without any conscious input. The chemistry an individual feels that draws them to another individual is ones innate sexuality. To suggest that homosexuality is a learned behavior is incorrect., then you would also have to say that heterosexuality is a learned behavior. The religious right has to continue to purport that argument so that it can continue to, as aforementioned, continue to control, discriminate, segreate, and humiliate. In no way am I suggesting that Ted Haggard did not deserve his fall from grace, but please. . .how could the evangelical powerhouses possibly have the power to ban a family from their home and their state. . . and Ted signed a document agreeing to do so???? This just screams volumes to how brainwashed these people are and how the evangelical christian doctrine is truly used. UNBELIVEABLE!!!

    • Posted By: marsdrummer @ 01/10/2009 11:48:32 AM

      Mr. wolfie03 I see that obiously don`t view the bible as God`s word. All through the scriptures God is displesed with the homosexual lifestyle. He created pleasure for the instituation of marriage,between a man and a woman, not with another man, woman, animal or object the man has CREATED IN HIS OWN MIND. You blast the religious right becuase you wont deal with own sexual issues, as its easier to be gay, than have a loving caring relationship in marriage. Don`t blame evangelical christian doctrine for your shortcomings. God is about honesty,love and foregiviness and most important,RESTORATION. Yes New Life has issues, and if they had to do it all over again I`m sure they would do it somewhat differently. Ted fell and he is being restored, with God`s help. I ask that if one was a business leader instead of a pastor would he be getting same treatment?

  • Posted By: windywyo @ 01/10/2009 11:46:14 AM

    everyone gets 15 minutes of fame in their life..Please dont give this man one second of fame...there has to be more going on in this world than a story on him..really what could he say that would be informative or news worthy..

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