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  • Posted By: feo deaky @ 03/27/2009 1:30:39 PM

    Bravo, You are brave and an inspiration to young people. that's what we need these days.
    Thank you

  • Posted By: coolprofessor @ 03/24/2009 4:18:55 PM

    Both Islam and Christianity have such a long and deep-seated hatred of homosexuality that it is hopeless to try to reform them. They are evil to the core. It is much better to abandon the evil religions and join a superior religion that is not so perverted by hatred as these. See the Buddhist Universal Association at http:buddhistuniversal.org as an example of a spiritual group that is accepting of gay people and others who are different. Buddhism does not condemn homosexuals, but values diversity. Buddhism does not say that sex is sinful, and its moral code focuses on happiness instead of sin.

    • Posted By: Vigilance @ 03/25/2009 8:58:32 PM

      I disagree that it's hopeless to reform them, but nearly every major Western or Abrahamic religion still advocates murder of gays due to the Leviticus verse. Being a man who identifies as bisexual, all I can say is that they'll need more than two rednecks to Matthew Shepard me.

      R.I.P., Matt. You are still missed.

      • Posted By: JohnnyCool @ 03/27/2009 1:19:15 PM

        Agreed, Vigilance. I sometimes wonder what the populace would do if we found out there was a Breeder Killer on the loose? Would we find that amusing? Religion (or lack thereof) just offers people on both sides of the coin to the excuse to express their own personal paranoias either way. What the brain-washed dogmatic christians are failing to take away from this is: 'Why would anybody ASK for this life or to be 'different'?." Unfortunately, simple reasoning holds no bearing when your preacher tells you differently. It's just easier to believe in mythical beings that puppet us through our existence.

    • Posted By: apple123 @ 03/26/2009 6:47:28 PM

      How can you expect people to actually take interest in your religion when you so openly insult theirs?

  • Posted By: teendemographic @ 03/27/2009 1:12:41 PM

    Great article! Jesus, look at all these comments! ;]

  • Posted By: david m @ 03/27/2009 1:06:34 PM

    To all of the people that have posted "anti gay" remarks regarding gays being freaks,preverts child molestors....GET A GRIP ON LIFE. gay or married a child molester is just that forget gay or straight. Being any type of pervert well what is the difference of 2 gay men together or a staight couple playing "dress up" with the wife in a french maids outfit, thats mighty kinky dont you think? Get over your bible beating thoughts and realize that gays have been around for as long as there has been the human race and they are not going to go away. Also to those so called "staight as a board people" let me just tell you as a gay man in my 40's I have been with more "married and so called staight" men as gay men, so for those wifes reading this you may not want your husband going to the bathroom at a restraunt or the airport without you holding his hand...

  • Posted By: bomba @ 03/27/2009 1:02:49 PM

    It's a shame that so many of you are online fighting over this. The sooner everyone can just learn to be a little more tolerate; the better off the world will be. I believe there is absolutely nothing wrong with people who are attracted to the same sex. It's been going on for centuries. You all think that the Spartans were cool? They were flaming homosexuals and it wasnt a big deal. it was a way of life. With all the hatred going on in this world; i welcome anyone who can contribute love.

    -a hetero teen

  • Posted By: JohnBDriscoll @ 03/27/2009 1:01:24 PM

    Forgiveness and deliverance can found in Jesus Christ. John 3:16, 1John 1:7-9, Acts 16:31, Romans 6:23 etc.

    God so loved the word, including homosexuals, that He gave his only begotton son Jesus Christ that whosoever, that includes you, that believes (trusts in Him for forgiveness of their sins) in Him (Jesus Christ) shall not perish but have eternal life (forgiveness and life everlasting with God)

    We are all sinners and need Jesus Christ as our personal Savior.

  • Posted By: woodj @ 03/27/2009 11:30:33 AM

    Wow, I think the pedophiles should copy the homosexuals. they should get together and lobby DC, and get some characters on tv shows that are openly pedophile. And maybe some funny pedophile backup characters in movies. Then people will start to like them. Heck, in 40 years we will hear people saying: "I have lots of pedophile friends". Then it will start to be accepted. Just like the other environmentally created mental illness called homosexuality. Homosexuals are just poor mentally sick people. They don't deserve mistreatment or incarceration, like these harsh middle eastern countries impose. They should be institutionalized, with the rest of the sick people that need clinical help.

    • Posted By: dwengel @ 03/27/2009 12:56:13 PM

      I'd like to know what this clinic will do to cure me of my mental disease. Is there a drug cocktail that will make me magically find women attractive? Even more so, would that cocktail be adjustable to find specific types of women attractive or will I just desire them all?

      I'd like to see your basis for defining homosexuality as a mental disorder. Are there chemical imbalances? Is there a tumor pressing on some side of my brain that causes me to be attracted to other men?

  • Posted By: andy23 @ 03/27/2009 11:56:12 AM

    God is a loving God and loves all his children, whether straight or gay. The question is, does he condones the choices we make if they are not right. We should realize that being gay or straight is a choice individuals make based on the perceptions of society and acceptance levels. There is a natural state of selection and once we perverse that, it becomes unnatural and that is the core issue at hand. Perversion of the natural always leads to an abomination. People who choose homosexuality as a style of life whether temporary or permannet should realise the implications both healthwise and on the human race. I bet you wouldn't be here if your parents decided that sex with the same sex was okay. The human race was meant to procreate and once we all begin accepting otherwise, future hope of continuity of the human race becomes slimer through non procreation and all the diseases assciated with perversing our sexuality. Homosexuality is a choice despite what we tell ourselves or the media says. Everyone who has an issue with this topic should do a research on beginning of homosexuality. You will find people practised it not as a style of life but as a way to dominate those they considered beneath them or just as a sexual fantasy or debauchery. Now we are beginning to accept it as a way of life. Who knows what we will accept in the future as normal!!

    • Posted By: justsomeguy @ 03/27/2009 12:02:06 PM

      So, under your theory that gays are abominations because we do not procreate, would you say the same about a straight person who is infertile? Should they avoid having sex, even if married, because there is no hope that they will have children? Or would their straight sex also be an abomination?

      • Posted By: andy23 @ 03/27/2009 12:13:59 PM

        to Justsomeguy ~ read the whole text, the abominable act is the practise of homosexuality, not the individual, they have a choice to practise an abominable act or not to. Infertility is not a choice one makes.

        • Posted By: justsomeguy @ 03/27/2009 12:23:28 PM

          To andy23,

          I guess that is where I run into problems. I whole heartedly disagree with the premise of it being a choice anymore than being infertile is.

          • Posted By: andy23 @ 03/27/2009 12:48:37 PM

            well, is that because it is easier for you to say that or because it is the truth? all the same, in this day and age, it is your choice to make as much as mine to remind you and others that the practice is not in line with nature.

            anyways, going back to work, have a nice day and research the beginings of the practise and decide if it really is in your best interest to profess homosexuality as okay.

            article is funny though, this author doesn't seem very smart, why the heck would he consider going back to meet the guy?? i'm not sure thats a financial advisor i'll seek advice from! also fyi ~ the western would do best to research prevalence of homosexuality in non western cultures before the influence of western culture introduced them to it, and now is telling them that it is okay!

        • Posted By: dwengel @ 03/27/2009 12:33:35 PM

          I suppose the real debate is whether homosexuality is a choice. I agree acting upon it IS a choice, but simply the attraction to a person of the same sex is not. You hear all of these stories of young gay men wishing to be attracted to women instead of other men, and yet why is it that this strong wish is overcome by natural attraction? I was raised in a straight home, with a mother and a step-father in the house. There were no recruiters trying to lure me to have sex with a man. I did have sex with a woman, and other times turned it down as really I was not excited or interested. I was not attracted to them.

          So then I ask, if I am naturally attracted to men, out of no decision of my own, why should I not then enjoy the pleasure of an intimate and meaningful relationship with another man? I was created and given these impulses by God, why should I then not act upon them as straight men are allowed to with women? Is it an abomination because people view gay men as only a sexual thing and the image of two men intimate with each other is disgusting or is it because the bible says so? If it is the first, well people also find the image of two unattractive heterosexual people disgusting and if it is the latter, the bible also lists a myriad of other things that humans have accepted as normal and NO LONGER an abomination, such as the polyester pants people wear.

          Maybe homosexuality is natural way of curbing the rapidly growing virus of humans on the planet Earth. With the fast overpopulating of our planet, maybe homosexuality is God???s way of slowing it down. Until he comes to meet us, or we meet him I suppose we will never know.

  • Posted By: tazman907 @ 03/27/2009 12:46:40 PM

    I don't have a problem with the lifestyle choices of others, but that article was stupid and pointless. I was thinking there might be some moral to the story like a normal story or even have some sort of ending. But it had nothing. So some A-hole stuck a gun in your face, get over it - it happens to all of us at some time. I feel cheated out of the 3 minutes it took to read it. Shariq Mahbub - I say "So what?? Big deal!! Do something exciting with your life instead of tricking people into reading this type of drivel.

  • Posted By: tumZtum @ 03/27/2009 3:59:14 AM

    Muslim + Gay = oxymoron. Who pays the dowry for marriage, you or your Buddhist partner? Or, wait, are you even married? Or are you -- gasp -- committing adultery with another man? Admit you are gay, but please, for the sake of the rest of us, leave out the Muslim part.

    • Posted By: dwengel @ 03/27/2009 12:45:33 PM

      IIs it adultery when neither are married? Is the requirement of a Dowry part the religious practice. I don't recall demanding the payment of the woman's family to the man's family as a religious requirement

  • Posted By: paul'sthoughts @ 03/27/2009 11:01:37 AM

    Wow. First, let me say that I am happy the gentleman in the story was not harmed and has found happiness in a more tolerant society. Second, let me also say that I am a strong believing Christian. I think the Bible is very clear on these things. First, homosexuality is wrong in God's eyes. However, it is no more wrong than any other sin, i.e. premarital sex, theft, greed, etc, etc. The next thing that the Bible clearly tells us is the lesson that Christians tend to get messed up on, and that is to love the sinner even as God loved us as sinners. Being a Christian doesn't make us non-sinners, it just makes us forgiven for those sins. Christians are still human and still sin. The point is that we seek reconciliation with God for those sins. With that in mind, condemnation really shouldn???t be our bag, but we should be focusing on letting others know how much God loves them. And I believe the way to do that is to love them without judgments.

    I have many friends that are homosexuals, and all of them know my beliefs. That doesn't mean we can't be friends. It doesn't mean that we can't hang out. It simply means that we different beliefs.

    By the way, I think if Jesus was to come to Earth today, he wouldn't be hanging out in the beautiful churches on Sunday morning. I think he would head directly to meet people that are hurting. Homeless shelters, bars, street corners, gay communities, straight communities, etc ??? anywhere there was someone hurting who needs God???s love.... Or at least that's what he did the last time he was on Earth.

    And one final thought for the atheist, why do you care so much? If you truly believe there is no God, than you must think me to be very silly and simple minded. So why do so many of you dedicate your life to spewing hate and venom towards Christians? Why not just view us as another group of miss-lead people that should be pitied? And why should you save your hate and INTOLERANCE for Christianity? Why not share those feelings with other religious groups such as Muslims or Jews? Why has it become the norm in America to be tolerant of anything and everything...except Christianity? In other words, if your message is peace, tolerance, and acceptance of differing opinions, then maybe you should practice what you preach the same way that Christians should... Huh?

    • Posted By: justsomeguy @ 03/27/2009 11:09:42 AM

      Great post. You are a fine example for people of your faith. While you have your own set of beliefs, you are willing to accep that there are those out there with different ideas and beliefs, which is something lacking, especially with those who post on these boards.

      As to why atheists tend to be on the attack towards people of faith, I think it's because the vocal majority, again especially on boards like these, but also in the public spotlight, are those who refuse to accept that there are other people with other faiths and they need to be respected. I personally find it akward to listen to those who say this country was based on Christian values so we must adhere to those for everyone, also forget that this country was also based on the idea of inclusion. We are called "the melting pot" for a reason, and should recognize that in such a society all faiths, or lack there of, should be given the same respect, and that our laws cannot be based on the spiritual beliefs, but the rational facts. As that is a point missed by many of the more vocal people of faith, the atheists move into attack mode, showing intolerance in the face of intolerance. It's not right, but I do believe that's how it is.

      • Posted By: glitterfairy @ 03/27/2009 12:32:49 PM

        I agree with just about everything you said. I am glad that you are a Christian that is understanding and willing to be tolerant. The reason why Christians get a bad rap is becasue it is the largest organized faith we have in this country, and Christians tend to be the most vocal when it comes to issues of homosexuality. You are in the minority of Christains that posted your opinion without being judgemental. Just look over the comments of your fellow Christians and it is easy to see why people get tired of hearing the same drivle and the hypocracy. Christians often paint a target on themselves when they judge people (like gays) and we know your not supposed to. Pointing that out is not being intolerant, we do it in the hopes that you can recognize your own hypocracy.
        And don't think that atheists are only after Christians. They will stand up to anyone of any faith, if they feel it is needed.
        Personally, I do believe in God. But I don't lump myself in with any branch of the Christian faith, mostly because the fanatics makes all of us look bad.

  • Posted By: amaanachick @ 03/27/2009 12:23:16 PM

    I apologize for my typos, I did not reread it before I posted

  • Posted By: workerbee6429 @ 03/27/2009 4:28:02 AM

    the key word in the article is "lust" - homosexuality is born out of lust. acting on it is CHOSEN behavior.

    • Posted By: Constitution Lover @ 03/27/2009 10:49:39 AM

      "the key word in the article is "lust" - homosexuality is born out of lust. acting on it is CHOSEN behavior."

      Homosexuality is born out of nature. Acting on it just like acting on heterosexuality is a choice. There is no difference and it is ALL natural.

      • Posted By: Rob - South Africa @ 03/27/2009 12:20:39 PM

        If the key word in the article is "lust", as you say, and homosexuality is "born out of lust", then so is heterosexuality ... "born out of lust" - or how do you think you came about, had your parents not "CHOSEN" that "behaviour" ??? Homosexuality is simply a trick of nature to curb population growth, suppressed by those damn religions to create an excess labour force to be able to push wages southwards ... or create soldiers - due to GREED. Now that the world is bursting at the seams with people and resources run dry, we're suddenly in the deepest financial crisis ever, (induced through obviously deliberate negligence) that will, as history and common sense tells us, result in yet another world war to cull a significant portion of the world's excess populations; to destroy so as to have to rebuild ... again GREED ... and here a gullible, religiously branded moron like you believes homosexuality is evil. Do you seriously prefer war that culls our kind, over homosexuality that curbs our growth in the first place ? ... then you're evil man !!!

  • Posted By: craigk @ 03/27/2009 12:11:54 PM

    Thanks for this article. Sad that people have to continue to debate whether homoseuality is a choice or not when the clear evidence of the natural selection is demonstrated throughout the animal world. Ah well...I guess debate is a good thing! As is being gay of course.

  • Posted By: VirusHunter @ 03/27/2009 11:50:58 AM

    I am beyond amazement that homosexuality is still such a hotly debated - and opposed - issue! Have we, as a supposed civilized society, never progressed beyond such prejudices? Why are people so ignorant in this day and age? I suppose people who think homosexuality is a "mental illness" also still think you can get HIV from a toilet seat!
    Don't go quoting the Bible and declaring that God hates gay people - he has never told me that! The Bible is a nice collection of stories -- nothing more.
    By the way, I am heterosexual, married and have two sons. I pray that neither of my sons grow up to be as narrow-minded as some of you out there!
    T.

  • Posted By: whirlwindranchwa @ 03/27/2009 11:37:25 AM

    If you do not want someone to tell you who to date, be friends with, work with, or marry, then you have no righ to impose your opinions on others. The Bible everyone keeps holding up talks a lot about acceptance, tolerance, love thy neighbor, etc. "Do not judge...." I am sure you can finish the quote. It sure seems like those who thump their bible the loudest are the first to forget the teachings it contains.

  • Posted By: slew59 @ 03/27/2009 11:25:27 AM

    I strongly believe that the bible is not an accurate account of Our Creator's feelings about anything. In my eyes our Creator is all loving. There are no mistakes. It's humans that are wrong to think they have any room to judge anyone, especially on a person's sexuality. I am a straight woman with many, many people whom I love, and some of those are gay. Judge yourself, even then don't be too hard on yourself.

  • Posted By: gmt0107 @ 03/27/2009 11:18:45 AM

    Do any of you posters have any rational and/or logical bases to share other then religion? I'm not an atheist; I was raised as a Christian, and I can tell you that the Bible is based on stories that were told and written thousands of years ago. They are no more historical facts then are fables. We have no concrete proof that God, or Abraham, or anyone in the Bible for that matter actually said and believed things to be the way they have been interpreted. I'm not saying they may not be, but you also cannot say that they are for certain. For all we know, God may be proud of us homosexuals as one of his creations. The stuff you spew is fiction, not fact. Write something intelligent that is factual. Unless of course, God has personally come to you and told you how he feels on the subject. Then, by all means, please tell us how he feels and how he will persecute us.

  • Posted By: heatherczerniak @ 03/27/2009 10:27:10 AM

    Why is it that liberals in the West care so much about Muslims, or any religion that condemns homosexuality as a sin? They need to get their priorities in line. People like Shariq Mahbub will continue to be oppressed, even murdered until they take action to voice their disapproval.

    • Posted By: Constitution Lover @ 03/27/2009 11:15:29 AM

      "Why is it that liberals in the West care so much about Muslims, or any religion that condemns homosexuality as a sin? They need to get their priorities in line. "

      Civilized and educated people care about those things because we are caring human beings. Also becuase what the conservative Muslims try to do in their countries some ultra-conservative Christains are trying to do here. We pay attention and care to avoid the US from being turned into a ultra-conservative religious sewer. Preventing this type of discrimination whould be a priority for any civilized person. Not the only priority but one of them.

    • Posted By: justsomeguy @ 03/27/2009 10:32:49 AM

      I'm not saying this to be snarky, I really do want to know. What do you believe our priorities should be?

      I think that the gay community worries and frets so much over religions that bash gays, because the majority of the opposition to our having equal rights, or even just being treated fairly, is based on what religion teaches people. We see that as the root to our problem, because that is really where we perceive the largest part of our problems to be coming from.

  • Posted By: tumZtum @ 03/27/2009 5:13:08 AM

    A person can be gay and Muslim; he's just a very sinful Muslim. Lot was sent by God specifically to a group of homosexuals -- in the end, they were doomed because they persisted in committing acts that God forbade. (Sidepoint: if God made them that way, why would He ask them to stop? Hence the faulty argument of those who claim that homosexuality is inherent and not in one's hand. It's a sin, like any other, a desire gone wrong, if you like.) That said, attributing partners or equals to God (ex.: a son, a daughter, a holy spirit, etc.) is a much graver sin than homosexuality. The first takes you out of the fold of Islam (it is against everything that Islam stands for, ie., pure monothiesm), the second does not. You can be Muslim and gay, just like you can be a Muslim that fornicates. You're just a very sinful Muslim that is in danger of becoming a slave to your desires rather than a slave/servant to the One who created you.

    • Posted By: Constitution Lover @ 03/27/2009 11:07:34 AM

      tumZtum,

      Since the story of S'Dom and G'Marah (the correct way to transliterate the Hebrew words) is a Jewish Story written and created by Jews as part of their religion thier interpretation of the story is the only one that is valid. The Jewish interpreation has always been that those two cities were destroyed because of baseless hatred. The seemingly homosexual acitivites were in fact not homosexual activities, they were rape activites. The men who were asking for the spies were NOT homosexual they were simply using rape as a form of torture and violence. (Which is why Lot offered his daughters instead since he knew that they were simply using rapre as aform of violence.) Rape is has always been a symptom of hatred and violence.

      Interestingly enogh, very few Jews ever use the S'Dom and G'Marah story as a condemnation of homosexuality, and htose who do tend to be fairly uneducated in Jewish law and relgious tradtion. The use of the story by those who oppose homosexuality is just one more example of their ignorance of what the TaNaKH really says.

    • Posted By: basilikon @ 03/27/2009 8:23:28 AM

      Lot wasn't sent by God, rather, he *chose* himself to live in Sodom. This is why people who use the story of S&G to condemn homosexuality really disappoint me. That account isn't about homosexuality; it's about rape, an act of violence which offends the sensibilities of everyone. It wouldn't have mattered whether Lot or the angels were male or female. The members of that mob were incited by lust, and likely they wouldn't have cared what gender their targets were. That Lot was willing to mitigate their intent to rape strangers by offering his daughters to them is, by today's sensibilities, deplorable, it was still in that society much more preferable than to allow strangers to endure a gang-rape; strangers who came to the city specifically in search of Lot and his family and who came under the protection of his house.

      Those two cities were destroyed for their depravity in the respect that they violated one of the most important tenets in that region of the world at that time: hospitality to strangers. It is a nice foil for Avraham, who was regarded as a friend of God and who extended hospitality to strangers, even during the days of his recovery from circumcision, something which most people probably wouldn't have done.

      So stop using this story to demonstrate how much God hates homosexuality, when it clearly includes rape as a vital element in the character of those who were destroyed. There are other scriptural citations you can use to condemn a person's sexuality, if you must. But why do people who profess themselves to be Christians feel that they can pick-and-choose which of the Mosaic laws to uphold (e.g., the prohibition against consensual sex between two men), and yet ignore other equally important laws which are expressed alongside them, such as those of kashrut (don't eat pork, shellfish, etc), not working on the Sabbath (Saturday), not having sex with a menstrual woman, not wearing clothing of mixed fibres. The list of your own abominations goes on and on. You profess that you needn't worry yourselves with the "old law" as you put it, because Christ died for your sins. But do you really know what that means? It's not a licence for sinning. Your messiah Y'shua spoke in defence of keeping the Torah; never in any of the surviving gospel record was he ever cited as speaking to the contrary. If you're going to truly live by his example, I would think that this is where you should begin, and then ask yourself why a church supposedly built in his name for his glory would ask any differently of you.

      Also, try to remember that in the surviving record of the Christian gospels, the Christian messiah Y'shua had absolutely *nothing* to say about or against homosexuality. More of you so-called "Christians" should pack away your neuroses about what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home and focus your attention more on the lessons of tolerance and peaceful co-existence which he strove to tea

      • Posted By: spaced @ 03/27/2009 10:19:49 AM

        Why are we even bothering discussing stories in a fictional short story collection written thousands of years ago as if they're true and somehow relevant to our daily life? Oh yeah, that's right.... because humanity can't deal with its own mortality, and the fact that there is no point to our existence, so it abides by ridiculous stories written by people who, without a fraction of the scientific knowledge we have now, wrote in order to account for these things.

        And a wonderful side effect of these so-called 'holy books' (of all faiths) is that we all get to learn just exactly what behaviors are deemed suitable and which ones aren't, because in its unfaltering refusal to accept individuality and differences among people, humanity must have a code of morality from a divine creator.

        As a race we ignore the beauty of the world around us - and the uniqueness of our position as the only intelligent life currently known in the universe - and fight amongst ourselves because our religions are irreconcilable.

        I wish people could appreciate the human condition. I wish we could stop taking for granted the people around us and wake up to the fact that the religions we have been teaching for ages ??? for centuries ??? is outdated, irrelevant, archaic, and unnecessary and cause division, conflict, and war.

      • Posted By: Unaligned @ 03/27/2009 10:19:31 AM

        Why are we even bothering discussing stories in a fictional short story collection written thousands of years ago as if they're true and somehow relevant to our daily life? Oh yeah, that's right.... because humanity can't deal with its own mortality, and the fact that there is no point to our existence, so it abides by ridiculous stories written by people who, without a fraction of the scientific knowledge we have now, wrote in order to account for these things.

        And a wonderful side effect of these so-called 'holy books' (of all faiths) is that we all get to learn just exactly what behaviors are deemed suitable and which ones aren't, because in its unfaltering refusal to accept individuality and differences among people, humanity must have a code of morality from a divine creator.

        As a race we ignore the beauty of the world around us - and the uniqueness of our position as the only intelligent life currently known in the universe - and fight amongst ourselves because our religions are irreconcilable.

        I wish people could appreciate the human condition. I wish we could stop taking for granted the people around us and wake up to the fact that the religions we have been teaching for ages ??? for centuries ??? is outdated, irrelevant, archaic, and unnecessary and cause division, conflict, and war.

      • Posted By: Unaligned @ 03/27/2009 10:16:05 AM

        Why are we even bothering discussing stories in a fictional short story collection written thousands of years ago as if they're true and somehow relevant to our daily life? Oh yeah, that's right.... because humanity can't deal with its own mortality, and the fact that there is no point to our existence, so it abides by ridiculous stories written by people who, without a fraction of the scientific knowledge we have now, wrote in order to account for these things.

        And a wonderful side effect of these so-called 'holy books' (of all faiths) is that we all get to learn just exactly what behaviors are deemed suitable and which ones aren't, because in its unfaltering refusal to accept individuality and differences among people, humanity must have a code of morality from a divine creator.

        As a race we ignore the beauty of the world around us - and the uniqueness of our position as the only intelligent life currently known in the universe - and fight amongst ourselves because our religions are irreconcilable.

        I wish people could appreciate the human condition. I wish we could stop taking for granted the people around us and wake up to the fact that the religions we have been teaching for ages ??? for centuries ??? is outdated, irrelevant, archaic, and unnecessary and cause division, conflict, and war.

    • Posted By: basilikon @ 03/27/2009 8:22:03 AM

      Lot wasn't sent by God, rather, he *chose* himself to live in Sodom. This is why people who use the story of S&G to condemn homosexuality really disappoint me. That account isn't about homosexuality; it's about rape, an act of violence which offends the sensibilities of everyone. It wouldn't have mattered whether Lot or the angels were male or female. The members of that mob were incited by lust, and likely they wouldn't have cared what gender their targets were. That Lot was willing to mitigate their intent to rape strangers by offering his daughters to them is, by today's sensibilities, deplorable, it was still in that society much more preferable than to allow strangers to endure a gang-rape; strangers who came to the city specifically in search of Lot and his family and who came under the protection of his house.
      Those two cities were destroyed for their depravity in the respect that they violated one of the most important tenets in that region of the world at that time: hospitality to strangers. It is a nice foil for Avraham, who was regarded as a friend of God and who extended hospitality to strangers, even during the days of his recovery from circumcision, something which most people probably wouldn't have done.
      So stop using this story to demonstrate how much God hates homosexuality, when it clearly includes rape as a vital element in the character of those who were destroyed. There are other scriptural citations you can use to condemn a person's sexuality, if you must. But why do people who profess themselves to be Christians feel that they can pick-and-choose which of the Mosaic laws to uphold (e.g., the prohibition against consensual sex between two men), and yet ignore other equally important laws which are expressed alongside them, such as those of kashrut (don't eat pork, shellfish, etc), not working on the Sabbath (Saturday), not having sex with a menstrual woman, not wearing clothing of mixed fibres. The list of your own abominations goes on and on. You profess that you needn't worry yourselves with the "old law" as you put it, because Christ died for your sins. But do you really know what that means? It's not a licence for sinning. Your messiah Y'shua spoke in defence of keeping the Torah; never in any of the surviving gospel record was he ever cited as speaking to the contrary. If you're going to truly live by his example, I would think that this is where you should begin, and then ask yourself why a church supposedly built in his name for his glory would ask any differently of you.
      Also, try to remember that in the surviving record of the Christian gospels, the Christian messiah Y'shua had absolutely *nothing* to say about or against homosexuality. More of you so-called "Christians" should pack away your neuroses about what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home and focus your attention more on the lessons of tolerance and peaceful co-existence which he strove to teach.

      • Posted By: Vigilance @ 03/27/2009 9:46:19 AM

        Yup, I agree. Sodom and Gomorrah are a depiction of unrestrained lust in ALL its forms, and using them to denounce homosexuality specifically is a perversion of the tale.

    • Posted By: Vigilance @ 03/27/2009 9:39:35 AM

      Huh, interesting post.

    • Posted By: zaksgrandma @ 03/27/2009 8:47:24 AM

      what part of the Christian Faith are you coming from. if you are christian then remember it means Christ like,we are of the new testament where we are not to judge others lest we will be judged.

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