Let it be, man. Is it really bad if he fails, and really that significant if he succeeds? In Zen Buddhism philosophy, success and failure are the same. Americans think winning is everything. But wrapped in that philosophy is a fear of failure. Paradoxically, it relaxes you if you can accept defeat as readily as accepting winning. That relaxing of your mind makes you more able to win, since no one who is tense can win in such a game as golf.
Tiger knows that a tournament is 4 days and 72 holes. So he does not get shook when he "loses" on a given day. His vision is the total score after 4 days. He also is looking at total score in 20 years (19 wins). So he does not get shook when he loses a tournament. His attitude is more Zen than American. If he wins 19 majors, it will be due to this seemingly "un-American" attitude of accepting each defeat graciously while remaining confident and poised for a good try on the next one. Manny Ramirez is praised for this type of attitude. He could strike out 10 times in a row and still believe his next at bat is a fresh start, with no prior failures. Tiger Woods will break all records (if he does) due to this same attitude. I call it a Zen attitude. Sports need more of that Zen attitude in the good ole USA. Other good examples of sportsmen who embrace the same kind of Zen attitude: Kenny Florian (mma), Barry Zito (baseball), Bode Miller (skiing). These are elite athletes who are at peace with themselves despite other's opinions of them. You can criticize this attitude only if you view winning as the only option you have short of losing your peace of mind.









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