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  • Posted By: ClevelandGirl58 @ 04/28/2009 6:57:49 AM

    Part 3: Nuns in residential schools in Ireland, Canada (they're digging up bodies in Canada and think that most of the deaths from "TB" were actually children beaten to death, murdered, at the schools), and other places were even worse. Read "Suffer the Little Children" to get an idea that what my family and I experienced was only a small taste of the evil these schools could perpetrate on little children. I see the catholic conservatives as being no better than Holocaust deniers in their assertions, which is right in line with RCC teaching, as they *love* Holocaust deniers now. There was a second Holocaust, perpetrated by RCC Inc, the organized criminal child rape cult - it was a Children's Holocaust. Those of us not killed were seriously damaged for life. If there was only one school available for my child, and it was a catholic school, I would not even think of sending them there and would homeschool instead. Things haven't changed, as some friends recently learned from their grandson's kindergarten experience this year. It's still the same old god hates you, you're never good enough no matter how much you pray, etc. Even if the physical abuse isn't there, the emotional abuse sure is, and they're getting their grandson out asap.

  • Posted By: ClevelandGirl58 @ 04/28/2009 6:56:41 AM

    Part 2: My brother got it even worse. He had a man-hating second grade teacher (lay teacher who eventually became a nun and is still teaching as a nun). She would pick on the smallest and weakest boy in her class every year for monstrous physical, mental, and emotional abuse - constant yelling and screaming, constant throwing of objects, constant singling out for any and every humiliation possible - AND she *actively* got the entire class to join in with her. If she threw an eraser, she told all the kids to throw their erasers at him, so he'd be barraged by erasers.
    He got an equally incompetent and abusive teacher for fifth grade, where a kid pulled a knife on him in the back of class. Instead of the knife-kid being punished, this teacher punished my brother for having a knife pulled on him (she asserted he deserved to have a knife at his throat and that the knife-kid was doing God's will). After this, my parents pulled us both out of catholic school and put us in public school, where we were both well accepted and thrived beautifully.

    Public school initially tried to put us in "dummy" classes because we had come from catholic school, which they knew to be substandard - until they saw our IQ scores and realized we were smart. They moved us to smart classes, where we both did great, and we finished our educations successfully in the public school system left in peace. Catholic schools were seen to be inferior because the teachers were uneducated, uncertified, and incompetent. They engaged in teacher malpractices such as collective punishments, holding us for hours after school (got home at 6 once when school let out at 3:15) and violence. They only taught RCC propaganda, so we never learned any actual literature or history, only lives of saints who threw themselves out of windows instead of being raped by unbelievers and how the conquest of the Americas was good for the indigenous people and was God's will. Yeah, I saw the wood paddles in public jr high/high school, but they weren't used on the elementary level and were only used on boys who were full-adult size and who were deliberately acting out, not on small, weak children for the fun and kicks of the teachers.

  • Posted By: ClevelandGirl58 @ 04/28/2009 6:54:28 AM

    Part 2: My brother got it even worse. He had a man-hating second grade teacher (lay teacher who eventually became a nun and is still teaching as a nun). She would pick on the smallest and weakest boy in her class every year for monstrous physical, mental, and emotional abuse - constant yelling and screaming, constant throwing of objects, constant singling out for any and every humiliation possible - AND she *actively* got the entire class to join in with her. If she threw an eraser, she told all the kids to throw their erasers at him, so he'd be barraged by erasers.
    He got an equally incompetent and abusive teacher for fifth grade, where a kid pulled a knife on him in the back of class. Instead of the knife-kid being punished, this teacher punished my brother for having a knife pulled on him (she asserted he deserved to have a knife at his throat and that the knife-kid was doing God's will). After this, my parents pulled us both out of catholic school and put us in public school, where we were both well accepted and thrived beautifully.

    Public school initially tried to put us in "dummy" classes because we had come from catholic school, which they knew to be substandard - until they saw our IQ scores and realized we were smart. They moved us to smart classes, where we both did great, and we finished our educations successfully in the public school system left in peace. Catholic schools were seen to be inferior because the teachers were uneducated, uncertified, and incompetent. They engaged in teacher malpractices such as collective punishments, holding us for hours after school (got home at 6 once when school let out at 3:15) and violence. They only taught RCC propaganda, so we never learned any actual literature or history, only lives of saints who threw themselves out of windows instead of being raped by unbelievers and how the conquest of the Americas was good for the indigenous people and was God's will. Yeah, I saw the wood paddles in public jr high/high school, but they weren't used on the elementary level and were only used on boys who were full-adult size and who were deliberately acting out, not on small, weak children for the fun and kicks of the teachers.

  • Posted By: dina624 @ 04/28/2009 1:14:51 AM

    I am so sick and tired of Catholics from your era complaining about the 'mean nuns'. I don't by it.
    Try growing up in a school run by liberals. Have you ever been subjected to mock trials, where if you tell your parents about what they told you in class or complained about a bully, the teacher castigates you or lines all the kids around the wall, interrogates everyone, singles you out so none of the kids talk to you for the rest of the year? Public humiliation is the number one tool to keep kids in line in public schools, at least it was in the 70's and 80's.
    I'm sick and tired of hearing whiny 50/60 yr olds tell how evil the nuns were. I hear more people talk about how wonderful they were and how bullying was really punished. I know people who talk about the nuns like they were angels because the nuns defended them from the bullies and kept a tight ship. I would have chewed off my left leg to be able to go to a real bonafide catholic school. In public school it's pervasive, the whole system is set up to crush your spirit. And bullies are NEVER really punished.
    So shut up already.

  • Posted By: d2130hay @ 04/28/2009 12:52:15 AM

    This article borders on urban myth. I went to Catholic school during the mid- 50's to late 60's like this author. I remember only one inciident in about 1958 where my 2nd grade teacher finally spanked a continually disruptive, disrespectul classmate who had been repeatedly warned about his behavior. At no other time was any student ever slapped across the face, whacked on the knuckles with a ruler or in any other way physically harmed by the sisters. I don't think spanking has any place in schools, but it did occur once in a while back then, in both public schools and Catholic schools. Yes, we all love to joke about Catholic School - it's a type of club. But we also love to exaggerate. The sisters that taught me could be strict, but never abusive. We children meant everything to them. Those dedicated women have my heartfelt thanks for the wonderful education they provided. Take this article with a grain of salt, as it does not represent the majority experience in Catholic School in the 50's and 60's.

  • Posted By: te0928 @ 04/27/2009 11:54:37 PM

    Why is it Newsweek is gloifying hitting children -- in the article regarding the princiapl you seem to insinuate that a school has improved because the principal brought back corp punishment. There is no excuse for hitting children in a school anywhere in the country. interestingly enough, April is Child Abuse prevention month. perhaps this publication should do an in depth report on the prevalance of Child Abuse in America, and how some of it is CAUSED by the legality of corporal punishment still allowed in 21 states. Sharmeful

  • Posted By: te0928 @ 04/27/2009 11:52:03 PM

    Interesting that this gets published along with the other article about the paddling principal which seems to glorify corporal punishment. Hitting kids is wrong. I went to Catholic school and got my share of licks for being left handed. Guess what- I am still left handed. I never understood the 'love thy neighbor' bit, when every time I turned around some other kid was getting smacked. I smartened up and left the church, never to look back.

  • Posted By: tomd3510 @ 04/27/2009 11:46:15 PM

    kgblankinship, get real.. This article is intentionally malicious. No one could dispute that. Noonan grinds his axe with the help of Newsweek's great big soap box. What a child. Grow up, Noonan. Write something responsible that doesn't tear down thousands upon thousands of good, humble, inspired people who, for some reason, became the target of your angry imaginings.

  • Posted By: tomd3510 @ 04/27/2009 9:46:34 PM

    More crap and Catholic bashing....

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:57:33 PM

      No, there was need for reform in the Catholic schools of the 1950s and 1960s. It seems to have gotten a lot better by the 1980s.

      What I learned from all this, having gone to Catholic school myself: The real Catholics are not the ones who hit kids with rulers, put them down, or otherwise physically or sexually abuse them. These are the Fallen Catholics.

      To me, the real Catholic is someone who is calm and rational and of great inner moral strength based on faith. I have known of many who are like that and most saints seem to have had this temperament. Such a person will also embody the traits of charity and mercy and have a love of what is right and of others. Although one should expect people of the cloth to be better in this regard, I have found that there are some clergy who do not make good Catholics and some lay people who make excellent Catholics.

  • Posted By: tsmith7001 @ 04/27/2009 7:37:57 PM

    What a joke of an essay. I too went to Catholic school during the time Mr. Noonan reports in an inner city known for its toughness. I did see this type of behavior exhibited by the dedicated servants of God in our school. Instead I observed compassion and the passing on of our faith in pragmatic terms. I really wonder how much Mr. Noonan really remembers as fact, or is he remembering as many "catholic school" comedians do, the "punchlines" in an effort to discredit the Catholic Church . Quite honestly, maybe Mr. Noonan deserved the alledged treatment he received. The more pertinent question is, is he a more socially compassionate seamless garment cafeteria Catholic for it?

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:46:24 PM

      I find this attitude rather authoritarian. When those in an institution commit abuses, they should be held accountable for them. No institution, even the Church (I am Catholic) is perfect. But an institution that seeks to purge itself is abuse is better than one that doesn't. But to declare it perfect and overlook abuses - that is authoritarian.

  • Posted By: Krallski @ 04/27/2009 6:04:43 PM

    An obvious Catholic hit piece from an ultra lib, anti Catholic periodical. Keep writing articles like these and then wonder why your subscription rate is falling. What an old, worn out issue. Hello Newsweek and Noonan! It's 2009! Also, Noonan sounds like a whiny baby. Whaaaaaaa!

    • Posted By: Adrian in Dallas @ 04/27/2009 6:33:31 PM

      So Kraliski (see post @ 04/27/2009 6:04:43 PM) has decided to become an apologist for his crippled and cruel religion? Why does that not surprise anyone who knows him...? He's always been a little more than twisted, if you know what I mean. Those who know him understood long ago that the maltreatment by nuns kind of made him "odd." His post says it all...

      • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:44:03 PM

        I think both of you are out of line. I'm Catholic and took no offense to this article. On the other hand, I don't like those from other denominations making scurrilous remarks about my faith either. I'm proud to be Catholic and my attitude toward abusers is not to blame the Church, but get the abusers out.

  • Posted By: smokey_joe @ 04/27/2009 5:46:35 PM

    To a large degree, I think, corporal punishment was an attempt by clergy, who were highly intimidated by the perceived high status of English "public" (actually exclusively private) schools, to recreate the English "public" school environment. I remember, when I was in 7th grade, that the sisters had invited teachers visiting from England to review our contingent of student school crossing guards, consisting entirely of 7th grade boys. In English "public" schools, caning (disciplining students by beating them with a cane) has been a tradition for centuries. Having long been a colony of England, Irish schools, especially Irish Catholic schools were under the direct scrutiny and control of the English government which even hand-picked the staff of instructors at Irish Catholic Seminaries for centuries at Maynooth, when they were allowed to operate at all.
    Later in life, when I was delivered into the tender care of Marine Corps DI's (drill instructors), I thought to myself "This is no threat at all. I've been through this all before with the the good sisters."

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:40:44 PM

      I wouldn't look for a sociological or historical explanation here. I think it is much more simple than that. It is that some people know how to handle kids and others don't. It's more about the psychology of the particular teacher. Some are cut out for it and others aren't. Those who aren't should not be entrusted with kids in their care.

  • Posted By: Montana Red @ 04/27/2009 5:47:41 PM

    Whaaaa, whaaaa, whaaaa...get over it...I went to Catholic schools and was hit by the nuns too....I deserved every swipe....the education I received more than compensated...travel around the world and see what adversity really is...quit your whining and be thankful your parents could affords to provide you with a quality education.

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:38:58 PM

      Perhaps you should have had the experiences people here have written about and you would get it. People are not made to be kicked around like dogs. Some people seem to get off on this, though ...

  • Posted By: thinkTwice @ 04/27/2009 1:57:33 PM

    Children need to be disciplined be it catholic school or any other school. Time outs dont work. Nothing wrong in giving a whack. We were made to kneel down for hours, whacked and guess what we grew up fine and werent emotionally scarred. The current trend of mollycoddling children has resulted in a whining group of maladjusted adults expecting the world to hand things over in a platter.

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:36:37 PM

      My wife has extensive experience working with kids in day care, and believe me - time-outs do work.

    • Posted By: Calie75 @ 04/27/2009 4:56:45 PM

      The tone in your post shows that you have been affected, by the nuns.

      • Posted By: BobShear @ 04/27/2009 5:03:07 PM

        You don't seem to realize you were scarred in the way many abused children were. You now think it's OK to abuse children.

      • Posted By: BobShear @ 04/27/2009 5:02:42 PM

        You don't seem to realize you were scarred in the way many abused children were. You now think it's OK to abuse children.

    • Posted By: foreveryoung2 @ 04/27/2009 2:45:29 PM

      So many of the girls I went to school with in the 50s were so afraid of making the nuns angry that we became such people pleasers we lost a lot of our personality. I remember a nun telling us in 1st grade to clean our desks at year end, including inside, outside and under. I was afraid to use a rag under the desk so used my hand to clean it and the metal scraped my finger, causing it to bleed. I was so afraid of getting in trouble I wrapped my hand in a piece of paper and never told anyone. I still have the scar.

    • Posted By: nimodahooligan @ 04/27/2009 2:14:01 PM

      yeah, good idea, lets just beat/whip/slap any child anywhere, just so they dont end up as whining little whimps that you despise so much...

  • Posted By: miemsoph @ 04/27/2009 3:42:02 PM

    Again, how is any of this relevant to today other than to smear?

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:34:31 PM

      I'm a Catholic and take no offense to this article or to most comments. This is about abuse of kids as students in Catholic schools and a lot of that went on in the past. I watched the nuns who taught my sons at Catholic schools for any sign of abusiveness, but by the 1980s, things seemed to have gotten a lot better. I would recommend reading "Confronting Power and Sex Abuse in the Catholic Church" by Bishop Geoffrey Robinson.

  • Posted By: paulte @ 04/27/2009 3:38:20 PM

    I went to Catholic school during that timeframe and got a very good education. A few kids got smacked but they richly deserved it! One thing we never had in the Catholic schoolyard was bullies. The nuns took care of the bullies. I was always treated well by the nuns because I was quiet, good and smart. I was the kid who brought sister's bookbag back to the convent and got to leave a little earlier than the rest. No one like me ever got hit by a nun. My three sisters went to the same school. None of them ever got hit by a nun either. The trouble today is that kids are out of control. The best thing would be to bring some form of corporal punishment back into the schools.

    • Posted By: kgblankinship @ 04/27/2009 10:31:37 PM

      You were probably fortunate, having attended a school where the clergy there were more rational and well-behaved. But I have found that corporal punishment is abused more often than not by the teachers. Harsh punishment can be doled out for very minor offenses. The 'old school' doesn't work - things have to be based more on reason. My wife has had a large number of courses in child development where they teach more assertive, firm, but non-violent means of getting kids to behave. The key word should be effectiveness as opposed to tradition.

  • Posted By: DoctorFritz @ 04/27/2009 9:42:10 PM

    Where is my comment?

  • Posted By: robinnorgaard @ 04/27/2009 8:31:37 PM

    I know people who loved their Catholic school experience...and I know people who were tortured throughout their years in Catholic school.

    One group is not mutually exclusive of the other. I can respect the experiences of each.

    I must say, though, the Catholic education received by some of the people commenting who are positive about their experiences apparently did nothing to teach them about love, tolerance, and understanding of others if their nasty and sarcastic remarks are any indication.

    • Posted By: repete1000 @ 04/27/2009 8:47:20 PM

      I must say, for one who claims to respect the experiences of both sides, you are only holding those of us who do not agree with Noonan's view accountable.

      So robinnorgaard, why are his supporters not expected to show love, tolerance, and forgiveness?

      Are you sure you are not biased?

      • Posted By: robinnorgaard @ 04/27/2009 8:59:56 PM

        I'm not sure that those with similar experiences as the writer are his "supporters."

        Perhaps I am biased...I can more readily understand harsh words and sarcasm from people whose educational experiences as children were marred by daily brutality, than I can understand those who proudly proclaim their religous upbringing while spewing out hostility towards those who were abused.

        Please take a deep breath, re-read some of these very sad postings, and perhaps put yourself in these people's shoes...as the little children they were when experiencing these things.

        • Posted By: repete1000 @ 04/27/2009 9:08:48 PM

          Fair enough. You admit that perhaps you are biased. And with due respect, I will reread some of these tragic recollections. However, please also, take a deep breath and go back and read our experiences too. Yes, as I wrote in my post (if you read it) I was also disiplened. And I also explained those circumstanses as well. It's how do you deal with it now that is just as important.

          • Posted By: robinnorgaard @ 04/27/2009 9:18:01 PM

            As mentioned, I know people who had a wonderful experience during their years in Catholic school. The nuns who taught you were indeed special to have shown love and acceptance to ALL children. It sounds as though they exemplified what it means to be "teachers" and were true followers of their own teacher--Jesus.

            • Posted By: repete1000 @ 04/27/2009 9:24:28 PM

              You win robinnorgaard. You now have the best and "fairest" voice for BOTH sides. I will try to be more understanding.... Like the examples both you, and the Benedictine Sisters, have shown me (and no, I'm not being sarcastic). Thank you and Goodnight.

  • Posted By: WBFO @ 04/27/2009 8:33:44 PM

    It is a FACT that the Catholic Church did nothing about the beatings that went on in the clasrooms of there schools. The reason the Catholic Church is a target is because it deserves to be. In the Olney section of Philadelphia, the St. Joseph's nuns who taught at St. Helena's were brutal task masters who found pleasure in "controlling" kids by face slacking, punching and head bangings against blackboards ON A DAILY BASIS. Were there day's of fun and learning?? Absolutely. There were many of those. Where the problem lies is in the unexpected, unexplained and unprovoked assaults that happened because they had Carte Blanc power and used it when they thought it would be to there advantage. Those who think the Catholic Church is being attacked are just hiding there heads in the sand. There are a multitude of reasons that people bring this kind of behavior to the surface. It's because it happened and it had life long negative affects on to many people. And it was done in the name of God. And it was done by a group of people who said "love thy neighbor" and then followed that up with a fresh can of whoopass. This is the same church who harbored dispicable pedophiles and moved them around from parrish to parrish and denied any of it ever happened. This is the same church that was a breeding ground for homosexuals even though that lifestyle was not supported by that church. This same church continues to avoid it's past for one reason only. MONEY. Money equals power and they have plenty and some of these issues are causing them to part with that power. What this church doesn't like is that people are asking questions that make them squirm and they think they answer to a higher authority. If they weren't guilty of this madness, they wouldn't be so nervous and there hypocritical leader in Rome wouldn't have apologized for the past actions of his corrupt flock. They just want everyone to pray and forget. That's like telling the Jews to forget the holocaust and the Chinese to forget Nanking or any other atrocities that have happened. What that phony in Rome, as well as all of his red hat wearing servants fail to see is that they can't hide behind the cloth. They are no different from any other human who has ever walked this earth. They will be held accountable and there time will come sooner then they think. AAhhhh, I feel better now. That was a great article...and funny too

  • Posted By: beautiful_day @ 04/27/2009 8:22:07 PM

    I would like to thank, in remembrance, the many kind and caring nuns I had during Catholic school in the '60s. They had enormous baby-boomer-size classes to handle and very few resources. Today, Catholic nuns are some of the bravest and most devoted missionaries on the planet, everywhere from the inner cities to famine-stricken Africa. Where are the articles on them, Newsweek?

    • Posted By: repete1000 @ 04/27/2009 8:32:07 PM

      You're absolutely right beautiful_day. Thanks for that obsevation and clarity.
      However, don't hold your breath waiting for a publicaton like Newsweek to do an article on all the GOOD works these nuns have done.

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