Sharon Begley

The Friendly Brain

Is our biology to blame if we're not the sociable type?

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  • Posted By: shinystar0525 @ 05/30/2009 9:54:34 AM

    Astromama I think you missed the point of the article and your rebuttle is too simplistic. The questions being asked now are more complicated than nature vs. nurture. The question answered here is can you alter your social skills or other skills by engaging in behaviors that physically alter the structure of your brain. The answer in some of the cases is yes (see the taxi drivers and violinists). And although we begin to develop our personalities shortly after being born there is evidence that events in our lives can change how those traits manifest by altering the physical structure of the brain (MRIs combined with questioning psychopathic serial killers). You mention children and their early personalities. If you were to start beating your children at intervals that are not predictable I am sure you would notice a change in their personalities, showing that the personality traits are not as stable as you are indicating.

  • Posted By: astromama @ 05/30/2009 9:23:35 AM

    She wrote this article as over the last 20 years if the question of "nature vs nurture" has not already been shown to be heavily weighted in nature's favor. Study after study has demonstrated that we are born with a certain set of personality characteristics. Our experience, behavioral training etc. can shape our personality traits to varying extents, but as anyone who's ever had a child knows, each of us begins to manifest our individual personalities only days after being born.

  • Posted By: wildechild66 @ 05/29/2009 9:10:13 PM

    She used the word "aloof" once. That isn't a lot; it's once. And what's so demeaning about being aloof? It simply means that you aren't keen on lots of social interaction, as opposed to shyness, where you may crave interpersonal connections but feel a stumbling block between you and the other person at the cocktail party.

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