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Anne Graham Lotz, the second of Billy and Ruth Graham's five children, says it's all right: as long as you have a personal relationship with Jesus, church doesn't really matter. Neither does denomination. "Religion is an impediment to knowing God," says Lotz, who is promoting a new book, The Magnificent Obsession. "Procedures, rituals, creeds: how in the world can they help you connect with God? … If you're sprinkled when you're baptized or dunked when you're baptized, it doesn't matter as far as your salvation goes."

Given her maiden name, you would think that Lotz, an evangelist who travels around the world urging people to come to Jesus, would embody old-fashioned, conservative evangelism. Her father has always strongly advised Christians to attend church; the Billy Graham Evangelistic Asso-ciation Web site tells new Christians to make church a regular part of their lives: "Whatever it meant to you in the past, going to church can now become a rich and rewarding experience."

But like so many other Christians, Lotz, 61, had too many bad experiences in church to believe that God dwells there—and only there. She was kicked out of one church, she says, for insisting on the inerrancy of Scripture. She left another more recently in a fight concerning a new pastor. She soon came to realize that she was a "believer in exile," she says, and for more than a year she wandered from church to church looking for a home. "I've had Christians treat me in a way that is so wrong and so vicious, I realized there's a difference between God's people and God."

Still, conservative Christians have always distanced themselves from progressives by insisting that church—and the adherence to a strict set of doctrines—is a way to derive meaning. And, ultimately, Lotz found her way back there with help from her husband, a strict Southern Baptist. Church may not be necessary to knowing God, she says, but it keeps the relationship going: "You can really love the Lord, but after a while, if you're all by yourself, the fire goes cold."

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  • Posted By: hungrybrain @ 09/18/2009 8:38:41 PM

    I was deeply disappointed to read that the main topic of this book seems to be Mrs. Lotz's "victimization" at the hands of fellow church members. She of all people should know and proclaim that the Christian's first response to any offense is to forgive, as we have received forgiveness for so very much! I can only hope, since I have not read the book, that she has been misrepresented here. There is nothing in the Bible which affirms that believers are to "go it alone" without being committed to a specific group of believers...that is, a church...as messy and imperfect and irritating and difficult as we may be.

  • Posted By: nylidoll @ 09/17/2009 11:18:07 AM

    Anne is dead on!

    I was raised Catholic; fell away as soon as I became a teen and didn't see anything "God-like" in any church anywhere till I began reading scripture on my own in my early thirties. Then I at least had some idea what followers of Christ might look like if ever in my life I was to encounter them.

    Then, as many with children do, I decided I wanted to bring them up in the Christian faith...but where was I to go?

    A friend led me to a church near my home here on LI's eastern north shore. The pastor at that time was a peer in many ways, and while it was an independent Christian church, he was ordained Presbyterian and affiliated with a marvelous church in Manhattan, that was started by Tim Keller, Redeemer. I remember Charlie once saying to the congregation to never really look at people for the face of Christ, ALWAYS go directly to the Source, because people are always going to disappoint you.

    Our church motto is "To know Christ, and Make Him Known"...we know life is a journey of learning, understanding, and correction. That's a place I can live.

    Discussing pew configurations was one little interesting period in our church, it really didn't matter and we learned how to live together in the process. (they remained as they've always been)

    Charlie now leads a church for Redeemer up near Columbia Univ.

    Henry Doll,
    Port Jefferson, NY

  • Posted By: Vince Reardon @ 09/15/2009 6:49:28 PM

    I sure am glad Anne Graham Lotz has found a new home to share her God-intoxicated delusions with other like-minded crazies. She did make, however, one razor-sharp comment: "I've had Christians treat me in a way that is so wrong and so vicious." So have I. A pox on them! Newsweek, less of Anne Graham Lotz in the future.

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